Rants, Raves and Opinions AKA "The Octagon"

**Crissylynn2000** · 04-01-19 07:43

So I don't see many of the girls using these threads but I'm going to still put this out there and maybe one of you lovely ladies can help me out LOL.

For some reason my username changed by itself from crissylynn2015 to crissylynn2000 . Its so strange. Just wondering if any ladies had this happen. Xoxo thanks.

That's not possible, what happened was you created a new user. Crissylynn2015 is still an active account.

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**MrNails** · 03-31-19 17:50

Originally Posted by IlvblckGrls [View Original Post]

I'm predicting no one has seen the other girl! So I need advice on my reasoning! LOL.

You might try looking in the Louisville board or ask them if anyone seen her. She has lots of ads on Louisville E. B.

Stay Safe MN.

**JustACustomer** · 03-31-19 15:35

Originally Posted by IlvblckGrls [View Original Post]

I'm predicting no one has seen the other girl! So I need advice on my reasoning! LOL.

Go with the sure thing then if there are no reviews of the other girl. LOL.

**Simp4ebony** · 03-31-19 15:33

Originally Posted by JustACustomer [View Original Post]

Cool thing about this forum is it accomplishes the very thing you are asking about. Check reviews of both providers, maybe even see if the same client has seen them both and plan accordingly. Personally, I have not seen the other girl, so can't help you there.

I'm predicting no one has seen the other girl! So I need advice on my reasoning! LOL.

**JustACustomer** · 03-31-19 15:12

Originally Posted by IlvblckGrls [View Original Post]

Guys, have any of you ever found an ATF so great, that you worry you will be disappointed if you see someone else?

Most mornings, just out of routine, I check this site and ads, even though I only get out about once a month. Don't know why. Just my thing I guess. But I pretty much only see Thalia. To me, she is perfect, and I'm fearful of losing my donation to another girl who doesn't make me feel like Thalia does.

But, for whatever reason, this girl has got my attention, and she'll be here till tomorrow night: https://escortalligator.com.cincinna...ost/5024657375.

Has anyone seen her?

If not, how do you guys, especially with limited discretionary spending, weigh an ATF against a stranger?? I CAN'T DECIDE WHAT TO DO! LOL.

Cool thing about this forum is it accomplishes the very thing you are asking about. Check reviews of both providers, maybe even see if the same client has seen them both and plan accordingly. Personally, I have not seen the other girl, so can't help you there.

**Simp4ebony** · 03-31-19 13:56

Guys, have any of you ever found an ATF so great, that you worry you will be disappointed if you see someone else?

Most mornings, just out of routine, I check this site and ads, even though I only get out about once a month. Don't know why. Just my thing I guess. But I pretty much only see Thalia. To me, she is perfect, and I'm fearful of losing my donation to another girl who doesn't make me feel like Thalia does.

But, for whatever reason, this girl has got my attention, and she'll be here till tomorrow night: https://escortalligator.com.cincinna...ost/5024657375.

Has anyone seen her?

If not, how do you guys, especially with limited discretionary spending, weigh an ATF against a stranger?? I CAN'T DECIDE WHAT TO DO! LOL.

**AdamP469** · 03-30-19 13:01

Originally Posted by UOnlyLiveOnce [View Original Post]

Married guys, are any of you getting action from chicks who are not in the hobby? As in, from chicks you're not paying. If you are, where or how are you meeting them? Are you even coming across very many women in everyday life who are down to f&ck a married guy?

I'm married, but the only action I get is from the hobby. I expect to indulge in the hobby to one degree or another for as long as my equipment works, but I could really use some side pieces that don't involve donations or our least favorite Uncle.

Before the app and website changed, I found 3 relationships of various lengths with "poly" chicks on OK Cupid. My last ongoing relationship from there, which lasted about a year and a half, ended in Feb. When the girl moved out of state. I have had no luck yet with finding another free online dating site that works as well as the old OKC site did for locating women who want to hookup with married men. I suppose there are some sites that require paid memberships that may serve that demographic, but after Ashley Madison was exposed as being basically a fraud, I'm not eager to pay money just to get my hopes up for nothing. I'd rather put money towards a sure thing, instead.

**Fatmando** · 03-30-19 11:42

Originally Posted by EastSideGuy34 [View Original Post]

I've had five dreams in a row thwarted by the crickets. I just don't get it. Here's a list of the providers lately that I've tried where no dream came to be:

Paige. Been wanting to try her for two months. Got a reply one time in 20 attempts and then nothing after.

Seen her once and enjoyed myself, the other time I drove to her place ( where I did not feel comfortable) and she said that she had no bed and went crickets

Allurah. Read a couple good reviews so I tried. Zilch.
Same here

Cookie. Finally heard from her after 5 tries. Not available until later apparently.
Tried many times to no avail

Jesse Jane. Two attempts. Nothing.

Envy. Four attempts. Nothing.
I tried for over a month and got no response

LexiLauren. My last dream two months ago. Nothing now.

A handful more that I don't recall now. Crickets!

Any recommendations? Rant over.

Paige. Been wanting to try her for two months. Got a reply one time in 20 attempts and then nothing after.

Seen her once and enjoyed myself, the other time I drove to her place (where I did not feel comfortable) and she said that she had no bed and went crickets.

Allurah. Read a couple good reviews so I tried. Zilch.

Same here.

Cookie. Finally heard from her after 5 tries. Not available until later apparently.

Tried many times to no avail.

Envy. Four attempts. Nothing.

I tried for over a month and got no response.

**WanderingAbout** · 03-29-19 21:22

https://www.wkyt.com/content/news/Po...507833721.html

**LoveBeer** · 03-28-19 09:44

Originally Posted by VinnieKramer [View Original Post]

In my (painful) experience, a non-escort hookup is actually more risk. It's almost impossible that someone doesn't end up wanting more which leads to trouble / confrontation.

Risk doubles if she has a SO.

The Arrangements / Benefits sites are an option. I had decent luck on there (although one of the ladies was essentially an escort). You're paying, so it's still mostly a business transaction, but I feel like I got lucky and met a couple of ladies who were also married (in open marriages) so it felt like no one was going to be looking for more than what we had.

**Vinnie Kramer** · 03-28-19 09:36

In my (painful) experience, a non-escort hookup is actually more risk. It's almost impossible that someone doesn't end up wanting more which leads to trouble / confrontation.

Risk doubles if she has a SO.

Originally Posted by Kc148 [View Original Post]

If you want to stay married don't play with married or single women who know you are married outside the hobby. Yes you might get very lucky and meet a nympho, but chances are the receptive women will eventually want something more from you. I have had opportunities but not pursued because the women are unhappy with their lives and will eventually seek more from you. And so ends your marriage. So unless you are so attractive that all women just want a chance to bed such a gorgeous hunk of a man, don't do it.

KC.

**Simp4ebony** · 03-28-19 07:54

Originally Posted by UOnlyLiveOnce [View Original Post]

Married guys, are any of you getting action from chicks who are not in the hobby? As in, from chicks you're not paying. If you are, where or how are you meeting them? Are you even coming across very many women in everyday life who are down to f&ck a married guy?

I'm married, but the only action I get is from the hobby. I expect to indulge in the hobby to one degree or another for as long as my equipment works, but I could really use some side pieces that don't involve donations or our least favorite Uncle.

I've seen friends have their girlfriends eventually get pissed and confront wife. I'm not trying to have anything remotely like that even be possible. Well worth the price of admission, in my view. (Plus, at my age and physical level, I'd never make girlfriends with hot black girls in their 20's!)

**Tickle Jay** · 03-28-19 03:43

I'm in the same boat. But there are fewer and fewer Hobby Girls here that I feel comfortable with. Side pieces can cause trouble, and no one is going to approach me looking for a good time. Fortunately, I get a few out of state trips, and plan my fun there. I'm only a couple weeks away from a trip to see some outstanding Asian girls. It's a tough market in which to get verified, so I'm doing my homework in order to make the most of it.

Originally Posted by UOnlyLiveOnce [View Original Post]

Married guys, are any of you getting action from chicks who are not in the hobby? As in, from chicks you're not paying. If you are, where or how are you meeting them? Are you even coming across ver.y many women in everyday life who are down to f&ck a married guy?

I'm married, but the only action I get is from the hobby. I expect to indulge in the hobby to one degree or another for as long as my equipment works, but I could really use some side pieces that don't involve donations or our least favorite Uncle.

**Kc148** · 03-27-19 21:39

If you want to stay married don't play with married or single women who know you are married outside the hobby. Yes you might get very lucky and meet a nympho, but chances are the receptive women will eventually want something more from you. I have had opportunities but not pursued because the women are unhappy with their lives and will eventually seek more from you. And so ends your marriage. So unless you are so attractive that all women just want a chance to bed such a gorgeous hunk of a man, don't do it.

KC.

Originally Posted by UOnlyLiveOnce [View Original Post]

Married guys, are any of you getting action from chicks who are not in the hobby? As in, from chicks you're not paying. If you are, where or how are you meeting them? Are you even coming across very many women in everyday life who are down to f&ck a married guy?

I'm married, but the only action I get is from the hobby. I expect to indulge in the hobby to one degree or another for as long as my equipment works, but I could really use some side pieces that don't involve donations or our least favorite Uncle.

**UOnlyLiveOnce** · 03-27-19 21:18

Married guys, are any of you getting action from chicks who are not in the hobby? As in, from chicks you're not paying. If you are, where or how are you meeting them? Are you even coming across very many women in everyday life who are down to f&ck a married guy?

I'm married, but the only action I get is from the hobby. I expect to indulge in the hobby to one degree or another for as long as my equipment works, but I could really use some side pieces that don't involve donations or our least favorite Uncle.