"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[NeoDude]

Has anyone had any success with this site? Thanks in advance.

In several years on that site only had 3 pot get to FC.

My findings: not worth it.

I thought the credit per profile match might be cheaper than the monthly SA fee.

1. often same girls on SA branching out (same for secret benefits).

Got to question why. Usually the profile name is just a bit different, but pics give them away as are same.

One I see on occasion on the site actually has 2 active SA profiles right now and is on SA daily and has been negatively reviewed in this forum. So be careful.

2. in the early days would do meet and greet for dinner. A few were stunners. All were either just looking for a meal or wanted support for their modelling careers etc.

Have had up to several weeks ongoing communications after the m&g and got nowhere. Forget that!

3. seems like site is a second thought. Had communications be quite spotty back and forth. Sometimes weeks later reply.

4. I have wasted credits to open a chat. And then profile vanishes next day and money evaporated.

This is typically a pro that posted something that got her busted. They definitely monitor, so take note of what you are chatting about.

I got a refund on the credits 2 x. 2 other times I was denied by customer service.

5. not many on site that appeal to me. I go to take a look every so often, but have like 5 credits in the bank for over a year and have not refreshed.

Curious to see if others see it same way.

[CoolPix]

I have stayed many times. Probably 60 in the last year. I go to kroger, and buy gift cards (get the fuel points too) and use them.

I was always curious about this as well. I looked into it about six months ago and thought it might be a great way to see my SB during the day as it seemed many of the places allowed for earlier check ins and longer stays outside of the normal hotel hours. My concern was the checkin process, especially with some of them that listed neighbors, noise and nonsense clauses. Because, at the time, my SB was definitely into nonsense that created a lot of noise!

[CoolPix]

What's wrong with that? I love subbie SBs. :-)

I have to chuckle at this comment. I mean, I was surprised after the second SB I met asked me if I was into mild BDSM play but after the third it was like, Holy Shit! Are all these SBs into being tied up? YASSSSS!

[Lrr8176]

From what I understand, you have to set up a profile and use a CC to book. I have stayed at a few for various reason but never for this hobby.

I have stayed many times. Probably 60 in the last year. I go to kroger, and buy gift cards (get the fuel points too) and use them.

[Cavalier Hoo]

Has anyone had any success with this site? Thanks in advance.

[Cavalier Hoo]

From what I understand, you have to set up a profile and use a CC to book. I have stayed at a few for various reason but never for this hobby.

My brothers,

Has anyone used Airbnb to secure an FC? I was just on the site and there are hundreds of listings for entire apartments in great neighborhoods for less than the cost of a shitty motel in a skeezy "hood! At first blush, it seems like a gift from the Sugar Gods, but I wonder if there are other issues that I'm not aware of. Obviously I would rent the place and pick up keys ahead of time, so I can just waltz in with my shiny new baby unimpeded by nosy owners, but what is the paper trail like? Can cash be used or do I need to get a vanilla card? How much personal information is taken at the time of reservation / payment?

If anyone has gone this route before, please share. It would be a huge service to the brotherhood in general. Some of these places are awesome, if they are true to their pictures.

Eagerly awaiting a response.

Scott.

[F Scott]

My brothers,

Has anyone used Airbnb to secure an FC? I was just on the site and there are hundreds of listings for entire apartments in great neighborhoods for less than the cost of a shitty motel in a skeezy "hood! At first blush, it seems like a gift from the Sugar Gods, but I wonder if there are other issues that I'm not aware of. Obviously I would rent the place and pick up keys ahead of time, so I can just waltz in with my shiny new baby unimpeded by nosy owners, but what is the paper trail like? Can cash be used or do I need to get a vanilla card? How much personal information is taken at the time of reservation / payment?

If anyone has gone this route before, please share. It would be a huge service to the brotherhood in general. Some of these places are awesome, if they are true to their pictures.

Eagerly awaiting a response.

Scott.

[PartyTimeGuy]

This was recently posted in a Philly SW thread. I am referencing it because it describes almost exactly my experience and feelings on the subject.

http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/show...14#post4148414

[BookerTNelson]

I have a late 20's AA spinner of mine that is looking for a new arrangement. Ours didn't work out but she asked me to see if I knew anyone that is looking for something. She's open to a daddy dom arrangement as well. PM for details or info about trades.

[Rustyshk]

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[PartyTimeGuy]

Interesting and very scary!

In the context of me "two" etc these days, I worry even about giving a baby ride in my car. Prefer to get an uber and both ride together.

PC is off the rails these days. Take the Kavanaugh hearings as a case in point. If a guy can be castigated over something that allegedly happened decades ago, based on unsupported allegations, how much more vulnerable are we when dating a SB?

Met a pot the other day who was a bit larger than her profile suggested. We met at a national Chinese chain of her preference. We enjoyed the meal, got some looks from some young families who were there with kids (love this type of situation). We were clearly unrelated (different races and significant age difference, not dressed for a professional meeting). POT got upset over some texts that came during our meeting (not from me). When I went to drop her off near her place, she made this really crying and upset face that she needed some funds. I left her with a token gc. First time that my m&g cost me more than a coffee or meal.

We are a soft touch for every girl with a financial sob story. I have been hit up for overdue rent, car payments and bail to get a brother out of jail. It's not like I ever benefited from such generosity. Did it get better in the sack or was she ever even appreciative? Rather, I became her piggy bank for every major or minor money emergency. I don't want to appear callous but I view all such requests now as a signal to cut the cord.

As I was driving back, I got to wondering what if this girl had made a noise that I seksly assaulted her. Forget about a rape kit, these days a girl just accusing someone of an attempt would at least get you on the local news!! For many here, showing up on the local news is too much attention.

In the incident I described I was much more concerned about the notoriety than criminal charges. I knew I did nothing wrong and could beat the rap with a good lawyer. But who wants to go through all the hassle and expense and be in the media spotlight? Maybe with a few dozen screaming rabid female supporters? Like it or not we can be in a very vulnerable spot when playing in the bowl.

[JohnRichard]

I read with interest several posts on these subjects. We risk exposure of our identities and I am sure we all try to be careful out there. But sometimes no matter what you do, things can come out of nowhere to bite you on the butt.

The cops thought I gave her a roofie and then raped her, although she was not claiming that. I had to go to the police station while she was at the hospital to be drug and rape tested.

Interesting and very scary!

In the context of me "two" etc these days, I worry even about giving a baby ride in my car. Prefer to get an uber and both ride together.

Met a pot the other day who was a bit larger than her profile suggested. We met at a national Chinese chain of her preference. We enjoyed the meal, got some looks from some young families who were there with kids (love this type of situation). We were clearly unrelated (different races and significant age difference, not dressed for a professional meeting). POT got upset over some texts that came during our meeting (not from me). When I went to drop her off near her place, she made this really crying and upset face that she needed some funds. I left her with a token gc. First time that my m&g cost me more than a coffee or meal.

As I was driving back, I got to wondering what if this girl had made a noise that I seksly assaulted her. Forget about a rape kit, these days a girl just accusing someone of an attempt would at least get you on the local news!! For many here, showing up on the local news is too much attention.

[PartyTimeGuy]

And when you tell your average SB that, it really turns them on that you respect them for their conversational abilities and the next thing you know, they are tying themselves up!

What's wrong with that? I love subbie SBs. :-)

[Ernest Ll]

After all, I need something to talk about while my old ass is catching its breath, resting up for the next round!

And when you tell your average SB that, it really turns them on that you respect them for their conversational abilities and the next thing you know, they are tying themselves up!

[CoolPix]

That girl you just met and seem like the ideal girl? She's a dumpster fire like all the others. You just haven't discovered it yet.

This is so true. I've only seen a handful of SBs more than once and of those, the average has been about three months. Like any relationship, someone starts taking the other for granted. Usually it's the SB who has become accustomed to the allowance and stops being as responsive as she was in the beginning. And that's really the part I like about the bowl. There's absolutely nothing like the first time for all the excitement about the unknown and newness.

But I do like having a regular SB, someone with whom I have some sort of connection and don't mind hanging out with for a little while. After all, I need something to talk about while my old ass is catching its breath, resting up for the next round!