"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[EvilTmp]

Even when you have a strong connection, the best it'll ever get is during that first month. You'll spend whatever time after that chasing those great feelings you had at the beginning, that newness and excitement you get from a new toy. And depending on who she is, by month 4-6 you're starting to clearly see the cracks in the foundation. That's when you figure out her special kind of crazy, her bad attitude, exactly how she'd like you to change, etc. It's true in civy dating and it's super true in sugar dating. Unless you really have that few options, you're always better off starting the cycle all over after you've seen her for a handful of months.

That girl you just met and seem like the ideal girl? She's a dumpster fire like all the others. You just haven't discovered it yet.

Even though I have no SO and don't have an issue with being seen in public with my SBs, I try to keep the incidentals to a bare minimum. They can wind up being a major expenditure.

There can be a fine line between being a bf and a SD. One of the reasons we do this is to avoid the drama and hassles one goes through with a SO relationship, while keeping alive the sexual variety and excitement of a fling with a hot younger gal. It can be a tightrope walk sometimes.

I think on -line sugar sites are more polluted than ever with GPS and pros. For quite a while now I have been fishing in different ponds. See my recent post on the merits of day shift strippers as one example. http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/show...51#post4140951.

Amen brother.

There are plenty of fish in the sea. The trick is to keep practicing your fishing technique and don't become too enamored with your catches.

[PartyTimeGuy]

I was of the opinion that the holy grail was to score consistent long term SB and life would be sweet.

Well, just ended a 2 year run and before that a 1. 5 year run (both were between 25 and 30 yo).

Was it worth it?

Spent way $$ more than planned. Allowance was managed. The incidentals, dinners, and trips really added up.

Even though I have no SO and don't have an issue with being seen in public with my SBs, I try to keep the incidentals to a bare minimum. They can wind up being a major expenditure.

Both ended the same way. The more comfortable they get with you, the more you are treated like a boyfriend (not in a good sense).

Less attention, less fun in the FC, more drama, more hassles, and yes, hate to say it, heartache.

There can be a fine line between being a bf and a SD. One of the reasons we do this is to avoid the drama and hassles one goes through with a SO relationship, while keeping alive the sexual variety and excitement of a fling with a hot younger gal. It can be a tightrope walk sometimes.

Now need to start fresh in the bowl and dealing with much more unrealistic SD expectations than in years past.

I think on -line sugar sites are more polluted than ever with GPS and pros. For quite a while now I have been fishing in different ponds. See my recent post on the merits of day shift strippers as one example. http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/show...51#post4140951.

Would have been better if I kept a rotation going and stayed aloof.

Amen brother.

Let a few good ones slip away and now are nowhere to be found.

Live and learn I guess.

There are plenty of fish in the sea. The trick is to keep practicing your fishing technique and don't become too enamored with your catches.

[NeoDude]

I was of the opinion that the holy grail was to score consistent long term SB and life would be sweet.

Well, just ended a 2 year run and before that a 1. 5 year run (both were between 25 and 30 yo).

Was it worth it?

Spent way $$ more than planned. Allowance was managed. The incidentals, dinners, and trips really added up.

Both ended the same way. The more comfortable they get with you, the more you are treated like a boyfriend (not in a good sense).

Less attention, less fun in the FC, more drama, more hassles, and yes, hate to say it, heartache.

Now need to start fresh in the bowl and dealing with much more unrealistic SD expectations than in years past.

Would have been better if I kept a rotation going and stayed aloof.

Let a few good ones slip away and now are nowhere to be found.

Live and learn I guess.

[NeoDude]

New profile from a 20 yo girl in my area:

Never, ever believe what these girls say. Even the ones who go on and on about honesty are about as truthful as a backpage ho.

Second that. I will go even further.

45% is total made up bull, 50% is what they think makes them attractive to you, 5% true (like if they say vegan etc).

Judge them on picture, communication skills, attentive or have attitude, and most of all price.

[LikItFun]

Anyone meet with this sweetie? I've got something set up for this weekend, she seems to be down to meet at the FC. She looks gorgeous so I'm almost wondering if this is TBGTBT.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e76fb...foeGj586tywOwc

I messaged her about a month, she read my note, and didn't reply. Guess I'm not her type! Let us know how it goes!

[LikItFun]

Yesterday I spent the whole afternoon holed up in a downtown hotel with one of my favorite SB's, some wine and food. She had six orgasms, I popped twice. I am not complaining. She's 23, hot, enthusiastic and knows how to please. But the orgasm score imbalance does make me contemplate the cosmic unfairness of it all. If she comes six times, shouldn't she be slipping some sugar in my pocket instead of the other way round?

There must be something about last weekend--I have just about the same story from last Saturday. A wonderful time spent with my ATF SB!! We have a joke going that I add to the sugar when I pop and subtract when she gets off. She'd be deep in debt if that were more than just a joke!!

[JustLonely]

New profile from a 20 yo girl in my area:

"Loyalty is also deep-rooted in me in conjunction with honesty. ".
"This will be my first time on the site and I'm so excited. Etc. ".

I chatted with this girl 2 yrs ago and she was dtf and told she had met a couple of SDs already.

Or this other girl with a new profile stating that she's excited to meet someone and have an arrangement for the first time. Except I clearly remember banging her every which way, many many times over...


Never, ever believe what these girls say. Even the ones who go on and on about honesty are about as truthful as a backpage ho.

You are right. One I know was home for holiday break with a platonic profile. But her profile under a different name back in her college town is fwb.

[EvilTmp]

New profile from a 20 yo girl in my area:

"Loyalty is also deep-rooted in me in conjunction with honesty. ".
"This will be my first time on the site and I'm so excited. Etc. ".

I chatted with this girl 2 yrs ago and she was dtf and told she had met a couple of SDs already.

Or this other girl with a new profile stating that she's excited to meet someone and have an arrangement for the first time. Except I clearly remember banging her every which way, many many times over...


Never, ever believe what these girls say. Even the ones who go on and on about honesty are about as truthful as a backpage ho.

[TravelinSD]

You should never have an expectation of privacy on any dating / meet-up site on the internet. It's been clear for quite a while that they have software checking for key words and phrases. I never mention any dollar amount in my messages on SA. It's best to move them to text ASAP if you want to discuss details.

Good Hunting!

Travelin.

So if she did not report you then messages are being reviewed through some software. So much for privacy. Yet you still got the girl. Lemons to Lemonade, Well done.

RBD out.

[PartyTimeGuy]

I thought the date I recounted was harrowing, but it pales in comparison to this!

https://www.thedailybeast.com/stripp...dy-pharma-exec

[Big E Dog]

Years ago I dated a girl for about a year. This girl liked vodka and cranberry juice. She was very petite and could only handle about 4 drinks. After the 5th drink she would start getting loud and wild in every way, and particularly when we were out in public. It was all I could do to contain her. The next day she would have no memory of most of the evening. After a few episodes of this I started monitoring her drinks and keeping them under 5. Life was better when she had only 4 drinks or less.

I remember that movie. The blind date behaved very oddly when she drank. At the end she got back with her original boyfriend and the movie closes with them on the beach with a liter of coke rather than champagne in the bucket. LOL.

I found a bit more information on line about what I think happened to my date, which follows. Memory loss usually occurs with binge drinking but for some people the sensitivity could be to just a few drinks::

Alcohol and Memory Loss in the Short-Term.

In general the answer to the question of "can alcohol cause memory loss" is yes, it absolutely can.

First, what about short-term memory loss? Memory loss and amnesia are two very common side effects of excessive drinking in the short-term. Binge drinking can cause you to black out, and while you may appear awake and alert, you have no idea what happened the next day. Your short-term memory can start to be affected after only a few drinks in some cases.

The National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism defines two types of blackouts occurring as the result of alcohol. The first is called a partial blackout, and this can happen with just a relatively small amount of alcohol. You may forget things like the names of people or information that you would ordinarily be able to recall easily.

A complete blackout refers to a time when you forget everything from a period of time. This also means that your judgment and cognition are completely impaired. People may tell you what occurred while you were binge drinking, and even then you aren't able to recall it.

The reason binge drinking has these effects on your short-term memory and creates blackouts is because your blood alcohol level rises too quickly. How much alcohol will lead to a blackout depends on many individual factors including your weight, whether or not you ate before drinking and how much you drank, among other factors.

The reason for memory problems related to alcohol is because of the effects of the ethanol in alcohol on certain areas of the brain.

When people black out from alcohol, it's incredibly dangerous. It puts them at risk for being involved in violence, an accident or being the victim of an assault.

Essentially when it comes to alcohol and memory loss, blacking out is a form of amnesia, which occurs because the alcohol is altering the activity of the hippocampus in the brain.

[RedBaron Daron]

The picture says it all. But yeah, I was mostly hinting and being indirect. Until I met this one girl. I straight up asked for a one night stand. 5 minutes later I was Permanently banned. Oh well, it was only a $25 1 week membership. And yesi got the girls number, she agreed to meet for an FC for $200. I'm taking her out to dinner afterwards. P.S. What does FC mean? LOL. I would also like to point out the girl was also banned at the same time

So if she did not report you then messages are being reviewed through some software. So much for privacy. Yet you still got the girl. Lemons to Lemonade, Well done.

RBD out.

[Dsprdo]

The picture says it all.

That is so funny! Denying their whole business model. That guy is pimp of the year, and there are more straight up escorts on SA now than ever before.

[SandPiper540]

The picture says it all. But yeah, I was mostly hinting and being indirect. Until I met this one girl. I straight up asked for a one night stand. 5 minutes later I was Permanently banned. Oh well, it was only a $25 1 week membership. And yesi got the girls number, she agreed to meet for an FC for $200. I'm taking her out to dinner afterwards. P.S. What does FC mean? LOL. I would also like to point out the girl was also banned at the same time

[PartyTimeGuy]

Your story reminds me of a movie called "Blind Date" that starred Bruce Willis and Kim Basinger. It was a hilarious movie.

I remember that movie. The blind date behaved very oddly when she drank. At the end she got back with her original boyfriend and the movie closes with them on the beach with a liter of coke rather than champagne in the bucket. LOL.

I found a bit more information on line about what I think happened to my date, which follows. Memory loss usually occurs with binge drinking but for some people the sensitivity could be to just a few drinks::

Alcohol and Memory Loss in the Short-Term.

In general the answer to the question of "can alcohol cause memory loss" is yes, it absolutely can.

First, what about short-term memory loss? Memory loss and amnesia are two very common side effects of excessive drinking in the short-term. Binge drinking can cause you to black out, and while you may appear awake and alert, you have no idea what happened the next day. Your short-term memory can start to be affected after only a few drinks in some cases.

The National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism defines two types of blackouts occurring as the result of alcohol. The first is called a partial blackout, and this can happen with just a relatively small amount of alcohol. You may forget things like the names of people or information that you would ordinarily be able to recall easily.

A complete blackout refers to a time when you forget everything from a period of time. This also means that your judgment and cognition are completely impaired. People may tell you what occurred while you were binge drinking, and even then you aren't able to recall it.

The reason binge drinking has these effects on your short-term memory and creates blackouts is because your blood alcohol level rises too quickly. How much alcohol will lead to a blackout depends on many individual factors including your weight, whether or not you ate before drinking and how much you drank, among other factors.

The reason for memory problems related to alcohol is because of the effects of the ethanol in alcohol on certain areas of the brain.

When people black out from alcohol, it's incredibly dangerous. It puts them at risk for being involved in violence, an accident or being the victim of an assault.

Essentially when it comes to alcohol and memory loss, blacking out is a form of amnesia, which occurs because the alcohol is altering the activity of the hippocampus in the brain.