"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**CoolPix** · 02-12-19 19:55

Originally Posted by Lrr8176 [View Original Post]

I have stayed many times. Probably 60 in the last year. I go to kroger, and buy gift cards (get the fuel points too) and use them.

I was always curious about this as well. I looked into it about six months ago and thought it might be a great way to see my SB during the day as it seemed many of the places allowed for earlier check ins and longer stays outside of the normal hotel hours. My concern was the checkin process, especially with some of them that listed neighbors, noise and nonsense clauses. Because, at the time, my SB was definitely into nonsense that created a lot of noise!

**CoolPix** · 02-12-19 19:52

Originally Posted by PartyTimeGuy [View Original Post]

What's wrong with that? I love subbie SBs. :-)

I have to chuckle at this comment. I mean, I was surprised after the second SB I met asked me if I was into mild BDSM play but after the third it was like, Holy Shit! Are all these SBs into being tied up? YASSSSS!

**Lrr8176** · 02-12-19 19:06

Originally Posted by CavalierHoo [View Original Post]

From what I understand, you have to set up a profile and use a CC to book. I have stayed at a few for various reason but never for this hobby.

I have stayed many times. Probably 60 in the last year. I go to kroger, and buy gift cards (get the fuel points too) and use them.

**Cavalier Hoo** · 02-12-19 18:55

Has anyone had any success with this site? Thanks in advance.

**Cavalier Hoo** · 02-12-19 18:54

From what I understand, you have to set up a profile and use a CC to book. I have stayed at a few for various reason but never for this hobby.

Originally Posted by FScott [View Original Post]

My brothers,

Has anyone used Airbnb to secure an FC? I was just on the site and there are hundreds of listings for entire apartments in great neighborhoods for less than the cost of a shitty motel in a skeezy "hood! At first blush, it seems like a gift from the Sugar Gods, but I wonder if there are other issues that I'm not aware of. Obviously I would rent the place and pick up keys ahead of time, so I can just waltz in with my shiny new baby unimpeded by nosy owners, but what is the paper trail like? Can cash be used or do I need to get a vanilla card? How much personal information is taken at the time of reservation / payment?

If anyone has gone this route before, please share. It would be a huge service to the brotherhood in general. Some of these places are awesome, if they are true to their pictures.

Eagerly awaiting a response.

Scott.

**F Scott** · 02-12-19 15:47

My brothers,

Has anyone used Airbnb to secure an FC? I was just on the site and there are hundreds of listings for entire apartments in great neighborhoods for less than the cost of a shitty motel in a skeezy "hood! At first blush, it seems like a gift from the Sugar Gods, but I wonder if there are other issues that I'm not aware of. Obviously I would rent the place and pick up keys ahead of time, so I can just waltz in with my shiny new baby unimpeded by nosy owners, but what is the paper trail like? Can cash be used or do I need to get a vanilla card? How much personal information is taken at the time of reservation / payment?

If anyone has gone this route before, please share. It would be a huge service to the brotherhood in general. Some of these places are awesome, if they are true to their pictures.

Eagerly awaiting a response.

Scott.

**PartyTimeGuy** · 02-12-19 14:13

This was recently posted in a Philly SW thread. I am referencing it because it describes almost exactly my experience and feelings on the subject.

http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/show...14#post4148414

**BookerTNelson** · 02-12-19 08:50

I have a late 20's AA spinner of mine that is looking for a new arrangement. Ours didn't work out but she asked me to see if I knew anyone that is looking for something. She's open to a daddy dom arrangement as well. PM for details or info about trades.

**Rustyshk** · 02-11-19 07:41

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**PartyTimeGuy** · 02-09-19 15:39

Originally Posted by JohnRichard [View Original Post]

Interesting and very scary!

In the context of me "two" etc these days, I worry even about giving a baby ride in my car. Prefer to get an uber and both ride together.

PC is off the rails these days. Take the Kavanaugh hearings as a case in point. If a guy can be castigated over something that allegedly happened decades ago, based on unsupported allegations, how much more vulnerable are we when dating a SB?

Originally Posted by JohnRichard [View Original Post]

Met a pot the other day who was a bit larger than her profile suggested. We met at a national Chinese chain of her preference. We enjoyed the meal, got some looks from some young families who were there with kids (love this type of situation). We were clearly unrelated (different races and significant age difference, not dressed for a professional meeting). POT got upset over some texts that came during our meeting (not from me). When I went to drop her off near her place, she made this really crying and upset face that she needed some funds. I left her with a token gc. First time that my m&g cost me more than a coffee or meal.

We are a soft touch for every girl with a financial sob story. I have been hit up for overdue rent, car payments and bail to get a brother out of jail. It's not like I ever benefited from such generosity. Did it get better in the sack or was she ever even appreciative? Rather, I became her piggy bank for every major or minor money emergency. I don't want to appear callous but I view all such requests now as a signal to cut the cord.

Originally Posted by JohnRichard [View Original Post]

As I was driving back, I got to wondering what if this girl had made a noise that I seksly assaulted her. Forget about a rape kit, these days a girl just accusing someone of an attempt would at least get you on the local news!! For many here, showing up on the local news is too much attention.

In the incident I described I was much more concerned about the notoriety than criminal charges. I knew I did nothing wrong and could beat the rap with a good lawyer. But who wants to go through all the hassle and expense and be in the media spotlight? Maybe with a few dozen screaming rabid female supporters? Like it or not we can be in a very vulnerable spot when playing in the bowl.

**JohnRichard** · 02-09-19 14:35

Originally Posted by PartyTimeGuy [View Original Post]

I read with interest several posts on these subjects. We risk exposure of our identities and I am sure we all try to be careful out there. But sometimes no matter what you do, things can come out of nowhere to bite you on the butt.

The cops thought I gave her a roofie and then raped her, although she was not claiming that. I had to go to the police station while she was at the hospital to be drug and rape tested.

Interesting and very scary!

In the context of me "two" etc these days, I worry even about giving a baby ride in my car. Prefer to get an uber and both ride together.

Met a pot the other day who was a bit larger than her profile suggested. We met at a national Chinese chain of her preference. We enjoyed the meal, got some looks from some young families who were there with kids (love this type of situation). We were clearly unrelated (different races and significant age difference, not dressed for a professional meeting). POT got upset over some texts that came during our meeting (not from me). When I went to drop her off near her place, she made this really crying and upset face that she needed some funds. I left her with a token gc. First time that my m&g cost me more than a coffee or meal.

As I was driving back, I got to wondering what if this girl had made a noise that I seksly assaulted her. Forget about a rape kit, these days a girl just accusing someone of an attempt would at least get you on the local news!! For many here, showing up on the local news is too much attention.

**PartyTimeGuy** · 02-09-19 12:07

Originally Posted by ErnestLl [View Original Post]

And when you tell your average SB that, it really turns them on that you respect them for their conversational abilities and the next thing you know, they are tying themselves up!

What's wrong with that? I love subbie SBs. :-)

**Ernest Ll** · 02-09-19 10:25

Originally Posted by CoolPix [View Original Post]

After all, I need something to talk about while my old ass is catching its breath, resting up for the next round!

And when you tell your average SB that, it really turns them on that you respect them for their conversational abilities and the next thing you know, they are tying themselves up!

**CoolPix** · 02-08-19 19:22

Originally Posted by EvilTmp [View Original Post]

That girl you just met and seem like the ideal girl? She's a dumpster fire like all the others. You just haven't discovered it yet.

This is so true. I've only seen a handful of SBs more than once and of those, the average has been about three months. Like any relationship, someone starts taking the other for granted. Usually it's the SB who has become accustomed to the allowance and stops being as responsive as she was in the beginning. And that's really the part I like about the bowl. There's absolutely nothing like the first time for all the excitement about the unknown and newness.

But I do like having a regular SB, someone with whom I have some sort of connection and don't mind hanging out with for a little while. After all, I need something to talk about while my old ass is catching its breath, resting up for the next round!

**PartyTimeGuy** · 02-08-19 13:33

Originally Posted by EvilTmp [View Original Post]

Even when you have a strong connection, the best it'll ever get is during that first month. You'll spend whatever time after that chasing those great feelings you had at the beginning, that newness and excitement you get from a new toy. And depending on who she is, by month 4-6 you're starting to clearly see the cracks in the foundation. That's when you figure out her special kind of crazy, her bad attitude, exactly how she'd like you to change, etc. It's true in civy dating and it's super true in sugar dating. Unless you really have that few options, you're always better off starting the cycle all over after you've seen her for a handful of months.

That girl you just met and seem like the ideal girl? She's a dumpster fire like all the others. You just haven't discovered it yet.

"Special kind of crazy." "Dumpster fire." LOL Could not have said it better!

Even if you found that ideal gem of an angel, and no matter how serious the relationship became, ultimately one or both of you would resent the way you met and understand how easily that could change at a moment's notice. Either or both of you would eventually be looking over the fence for greener grass. Or worse. See my previous post about a text to a SD that said "I'll gut you like I'm field dressing a deer!" My balls retracted when I read this one: https://www.thedailybeast.com/stripp...dy-pharma-exec.

I think a few months is a good benchmark, although it can be stretched to years with less frequent get-togethers. But nothing will ever seem so sweet as that first time her panties hit the floor.