"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**JustLonely** · 02-07-19 20:48

Originally Posted by EvilTmp [View Original Post]

New profile from a 20 yo girl in my area:

"Loyalty is also deep-rooted in me in conjunction with honesty. ".
"This will be my first time on the site and I'm so excited. Etc. ".

I chatted with this girl 2 yrs ago and she was dtf and told she had met a couple of SDs already.

Or this other girl with a new profile stating that she's excited to meet someone and have an arrangement for the first time. Except I clearly remember banging her every which way, many many times over...

Never, ever believe what these girls say. Even the ones who go on and on about honesty are about as truthful as a backpage ho.

You are right. One I know was home for holiday break with a platonic profile. But her profile under a different name back in her college town is fwb.

**EvilTmp** · 02-07-19 14:02

New profile from a 20 yo girl in my area:

"Loyalty is also deep-rooted in me in conjunction with honesty. ".
"This will be my first time on the site and I'm so excited. Etc. ".

I chatted with this girl 2 yrs ago and she was dtf and told she had met a couple of SDs already.

Or this other girl with a new profile stating that she's excited to meet someone and have an arrangement for the first time. Except I clearly remember banging her every which way, many many times over...

Never, ever believe what these girls say. Even the ones who go on and on about honesty are about as truthful as a backpage ho.

**TravelinSD** · 02-07-19 11:47

You should never have an expectation of privacy on any dating / meet-up site on the internet. It's been clear for quite a while that they have software checking for key words and phrases. I never mention any dollar amount in my messages on SA. It's best to move them to text ASAP if you want to discuss details.

Good Hunting!

Travelin.

Originally Posted by RedBaronDaron [View Original Post]

So if she did not report you then messages are being reviewed through some software. So much for privacy. Yet you still got the girl. Lemons to Lemonade, Well done.

RBD out.

**PartyTimeGuy** · 02-06-19 19:36

I thought the date I recounted was harrowing, but it pales in comparison to this!

https://www.thedailybeast.com/stripp...dy-pharma-exec

**Big E Dog** · 02-06-19 18:59

Years ago I dated a girl for about a year. This girl liked vodka and cranberry juice. She was very petite and could only handle about 4 drinks. After the 5th drink she would start getting loud and wild in every way, and particularly when we were out in public. It was all I could do to contain her. The next day she would have no memory of most of the evening. After a few episodes of this I started monitoring her drinks and keeping them under 5. Life was better when she had only 4 drinks or less.

Originally Posted by PartyTimeGuy [View Original Post]

I remember that movie. The blind date behaved very oddly when she drank. At the end she got back with her original boyfriend and the movie closes with them on the beach with a liter of coke rather than champagne in the bucket. LOL.

I found a bit more information on line about what I think happened to my date, which follows. Memory loss usually occurs with binge drinking but for some people the sensitivity could be to just a few drinks::

Alcohol and Memory Loss in the Short-Term.

In general the answer to the question of "can alcohol cause memory loss" is yes, it absolutely can.

First, what about short-term memory loss? Memory loss and amnesia are two very common side effects of excessive drinking in the short-term. Binge drinking can cause you to black out, and while you may appear awake and alert, you have no idea what happened the next day. Your short-term memory can start to be affected after only a few drinks in some cases.

The National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism defines two types of blackouts occurring as the result of alcohol. The first is called a partial blackout, and this can happen with just a relatively small amount of alcohol. You may forget things like the names of people or information that you would ordinarily be able to recall easily.

A complete blackout refers to a time when you forget everything from a period of time. This also means that your judgment and cognition are completely impaired. People may tell you what occurred while you were binge drinking, and even then you aren't able to recall it.

The reason binge drinking has these effects on your short-term memory and creates blackouts is because your blood alcohol level rises too quickly. How much alcohol will lead to a blackout depends on many individual factors including your weight, whether or not you ate before drinking and how much you drank, among other factors.

The reason for memory problems related to alcohol is because of the effects of the ethanol in alcohol on certain areas of the brain.

When people black out from alcohol, it's incredibly dangerous. It puts them at risk for being involved in violence, an accident or being the victim of an assault.

Essentially when it comes to alcohol and memory loss, blacking out is a form of amnesia, which occurs because the alcohol is altering the activity of the hippocampus in the brain.

**RedBaron Daron** · 02-06-19 18:45

Originally Posted by SandPiper540 [View Original Post]

The picture says it all. But yeah, I was mostly hinting and being indirect. Until I met this one girl. I straight up asked for a one night stand. 5 minutes later I was Permanently banned. Oh well, it was only a $25 1 week membership. And yesi got the girls number, she agreed to meet for an FC for $200. I'm taking her out to dinner afterwards. P.S. What does FC mean? LOL. I would also like to point out the girl was also banned at the same time

So if she did not report you then messages are being reviewed through some software. So much for privacy. Yet you still got the girl. Lemons to Lemonade, Well done.

RBD out.

**Dsprdo** · 02-06-19 18:27

Originally Posted by SandPiper540 [View Original Post]

The picture says it all.

That is so funny! Denying their whole business model. That guy is pimp of the year, and there are more straight up escorts on SA now than ever before.

**SandPiper540** · 02-06-19 17:57

The picture says it all. But yeah, I was mostly hinting and being indirect. Until I met this one girl. I straight up asked for a one night stand. 5 minutes later I was Permanently banned. Oh well, it was only a $25 1 week membership. And yesi got the girls number, she agreed to meet for an FC for $200. I'm taking her out to dinner afterwards. P.S. What does FC mean? LOL. I would also like to point out the girl was also banned at the same time

**PartyTimeGuy** · 02-06-19 17:50

Originally Posted by BigEDog [View Original Post]

Your story reminds me of a movie called "Blind Date" that starred Bruce Willis and Kim Basinger. It was a hilarious movie.

I remember that movie. The blind date behaved very oddly when she drank. At the end she got back with her original boyfriend and the movie closes with them on the beach with a liter of coke rather than champagne in the bucket. LOL.

I found a bit more information on line about what I think happened to my date, which follows. Memory loss usually occurs with binge drinking but for some people the sensitivity could be to just a few drinks::

Alcohol and Memory Loss in the Short-Term.

In general the answer to the question of "can alcohol cause memory loss" is yes, it absolutely can.

First, what about short-term memory loss? Memory loss and amnesia are two very common side effects of excessive drinking in the short-term. Binge drinking can cause you to black out, and while you may appear awake and alert, you have no idea what happened the next day. Your short-term memory can start to be affected after only a few drinks in some cases.

The National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism defines two types of blackouts occurring as the result of alcohol. The first is called a partial blackout, and this can happen with just a relatively small amount of alcohol. You may forget things like the names of people or information that you would ordinarily be able to recall easily.

A complete blackout refers to a time when you forget everything from a period of time. This also means that your judgment and cognition are completely impaired. People may tell you what occurred while you were binge drinking, and even then you aren't able to recall it.

The reason binge drinking has these effects on your short-term memory and creates blackouts is because your blood alcohol level rises too quickly. How much alcohol will lead to a blackout depends on many individual factors including your weight, whether or not you ate before drinking and how much you drank, among other factors.

The reason for memory problems related to alcohol is because of the effects of the ethanol in alcohol on certain areas of the brain.

When people black out from alcohol, it's incredibly dangerous. It puts them at risk for being involved in violence, an accident or being the victim of an assault.

Essentially when it comes to alcohol and memory loss, blacking out is a form of amnesia, which occurs because the alcohol is altering the activity of the hippocampus in the brain.

**DWinthrop** · 02-06-19 17:25

Anyone meet with this sweetie? I've got something set up for this weekend, she seems to be down to meet at the FC. She looks gorgeous so I'm almost wondering if this is TBGTBT.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e76fb...foeGj586tywOwc

**PartyTimeGuy** · 02-06-19 12:15

Originally Posted by Mikey080 [View Original Post]

Is her username was yoga pants something?

No. But it was a long time ago.

**Mikey080** · 02-06-19 11:56

Originally Posted by PartyTimeGuy [View Original Post]

Only one time did a SB try extortion with me. She said her brother and uncle were LE and she would tell all my friends and family and have me arrested if I didn't pony up. There were all kinds of things wrong with this, including the fact that she most likely did not know who my friends and family were and she stupidly sent me texts and voice mails about this, which would have been very damning evidence of her extortion, not to mention the fact that to get me in trouble would mean she would have to be in trouble too. I dismissed it in my head as bluster and idle threat, but I still cringed every time the phone rang or the doorbell chimed over the next several weeks and I lost a lot of sleep over it. Maybe that's all she really wanted to do: make me totally miserable for a few weeks. In that she succeeded.

Is her username was yoga pants something?

**PartyTimeGuy** · 02-06-19 11:02

Originally Posted by CoolPix [View Original Post]

I find this commendable but this characteristic is something that can jump up and bite all of us playing in the bowl, what with all the scammers and b!tch3's out there who are out to f# at k us up. I had an episode early in my bowl career that led to the chick trying to extort me by playing to my generosity. I don't understand why someone with whom I have met more than once would throw it all away for what they think might be a bigger payday but it happens.

But I, like PTG, tend to share some concern for the SBs I meet, and tend to "care too much" sometimes. That's just me.

Be kind but cautious my fellow mongers.

Only one time did a SB try extortion with me. She said her brother and uncle were LE and she would tell all my friends and family and have me arrested if I didn't pony up. There were all kinds of things wrong with this, including the fact that she most likely did not know who my friends and family were and she stupidly sent me texts and voice mails about this, which would have been very damning evidence of her extortion, not to mention the fact that to get me in trouble would mean she would have to be in trouble too. I dismissed it in my head as bluster and idle threat, but I still cringed every time the phone rang or the doorbell chimed over the next several weeks and I lost a lot of sleep over it. Maybe that's all she really wanted to do: make me totally miserable for a few weeks. In that she succeeded.

**CoolPix** · 02-06-19 10:47

Originally Posted by PartyTimeGuy [View Original Post]

I thought about chucking the phone, but I was genuinely concerned about her well being, even after the GPS text threat.

I find this commendable but this characteristic is something that can jump up and bite all of us playing in the bowl, what with all the scammers and b!tch3's out there who are out to f# at k us up. I had an episode early in my bowl career that led to the chick trying to extort me by playing to my generosity. I don't understand why someone with whom I have met more than once would throw it all away for what they think might be a bigger payday but it happens.

But I, like PTG, tend to share some concern for the SBs I meet, and tend to "care too much" sometimes. That's just me.

Be kind but cautious my fellow mongers.

**Big E Dog** · 02-06-19 10:10

Your story reminds me of a movie called "Blind Date" that starred Bruce Willis and Kim Basinger. It was a hilarious movie.

Originally Posted by PartyTimeGuy [View Original Post]

I do gamble and I tend to be very lucky. Clever? I just thought very fast on my feet and kept my cool which is something every SD should figure out how to do, because we are all just one date away from something crazy like this happening.

I think the reason the cops did no follow-up was because there was no complaint. She wasn't complaining and there was no evidence of foul play in the hospital exam. Plus I seemed to be a good citizen with no record and my story seemed credible, if a bit bizarre on her part. Maybe they pulled the tape on the security camera at the gas station. if so, they would have seen that what I told them was exactly what happened. Whatever. But I was SO relieved that they just dropped the whole thing.

While she couldn't remember the date she certainly remembered me. We had met on a previous occasion for coffee. And she had remembered me in connection with the hotel but no details. I wish she had remembered the date. She was a wildcat in bed. On subsequent dates not nearly so much. She obviously needed alcohol to warm up her libido and I wasn't about to go there again.