"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[PartyTimeGuy]

Your story reminds me of a movie called "Blind Date" that starred Bruce Willis and Kim Basinger. It was a hilarious movie.

I remember that movie. The blind date behaved very oddly when she drank. At the end she got back with her original boyfriend and the movie closes with them on the beach with a liter of coke rather than champagne in the bucket. LOL.

I found a bit more information on line about what I think happened to my date, which follows. Memory loss usually occurs with binge drinking but for some people the sensitivity could be to just a few drinks::

Alcohol and Memory Loss in the Short-Term.

In general the answer to the question of "can alcohol cause memory loss" is yes, it absolutely can.

First, what about short-term memory loss? Memory loss and amnesia are two very common side effects of excessive drinking in the short-term. Binge drinking can cause you to black out, and while you may appear awake and alert, you have no idea what happened the next day. Your short-term memory can start to be affected after only a few drinks in some cases.

The National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism defines two types of blackouts occurring as the result of alcohol. The first is called a partial blackout, and this can happen with just a relatively small amount of alcohol. You may forget things like the names of people or information that you would ordinarily be able to recall easily.

A complete blackout refers to a time when you forget everything from a period of time. This also means that your judgment and cognition are completely impaired. People may tell you what occurred while you were binge drinking, and even then you aren't able to recall it.

The reason binge drinking has these effects on your short-term memory and creates blackouts is because your blood alcohol level rises too quickly. How much alcohol will lead to a blackout depends on many individual factors including your weight, whether or not you ate before drinking and how much you drank, among other factors.

The reason for memory problems related to alcohol is because of the effects of the ethanol in alcohol on certain areas of the brain.

When people black out from alcohol, it's incredibly dangerous. It puts them at risk for being involved in violence, an accident or being the victim of an assault.

Essentially when it comes to alcohol and memory loss, blacking out is a form of amnesia, which occurs because the alcohol is altering the activity of the hippocampus in the brain.

[DWinthrop]

Anyone meet with this sweetie? I've got something set up for this weekend, she seems to be down to meet at the FC. She looks gorgeous so I'm almost wondering if this is TBGTBT.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e76fb...foeGj586tywOwc

[PartyTimeGuy]

Is her username was yoga pants something?

No. But it was a long time ago.

[Mikey080]

Only one time did a SB try extortion with me. She said her brother and uncle were LE and she would tell all my friends and family and have me arrested if I didn't pony up. There were all kinds of things wrong with this, including the fact that she most likely did not know who my friends and family were and she stupidly sent me texts and voice mails about this, which would have been very damning evidence of her extortion, not to mention the fact that to get me in trouble would mean she would have to be in trouble too. I dismissed it in my head as bluster and idle threat, but I still cringed every time the phone rang or the doorbell chimed over the next several weeks and I lost a lot of sleep over it. Maybe that's all she really wanted to do: make me totally miserable for a few weeks. In that she succeeded.

Is her username was yoga pants something?

[PartyTimeGuy]

I find this commendable but this characteristic is something that can jump up and bite all of us playing in the bowl, what with all the scammers and b!tch3's out there who are out to f# at k us up. I had an episode early in my bowl career that led to the chick trying to extort me by playing to my generosity. I don't understand why someone with whom I have met more than once would throw it all away for what they think might be a bigger payday but it happens.

But I, like PTG, tend to share some concern for the SBs I meet, and tend to "care too much" sometimes. That's just me.

Be kind but cautious my fellow mongers.

Only one time did a SB try extortion with me. She said her brother and uncle were LE and she would tell all my friends and family and have me arrested if I didn't pony up. There were all kinds of things wrong with this, including the fact that she most likely did not know who my friends and family were and she stupidly sent me texts and voice mails about this, which would have been very damning evidence of her extortion, not to mention the fact that to get me in trouble would mean she would have to be in trouble too. I dismissed it in my head as bluster and idle threat, but I still cringed every time the phone rang or the doorbell chimed over the next several weeks and I lost a lot of sleep over it. Maybe that's all she really wanted to do: make me totally miserable for a few weeks. In that she succeeded.

[CoolPix]

I thought about chucking the phone, but I was genuinely concerned about her well being, even after the GPS text threat.

I find this commendable but this characteristic is something that can jump up and bite all of us playing in the bowl, what with all the scammers and b!tch3's out there who are out to f# at k us up. I had an episode early in my bowl career that led to the chick trying to extort me by playing to my generosity. I don't understand why someone with whom I have met more than once would throw it all away for what they think might be a bigger payday but it happens.

But I, like PTG, tend to share some concern for the SBs I meet, and tend to "care too much" sometimes. That's just me.

Be kind but cautious my fellow mongers.

[Big E Dog]

Your story reminds me of a movie called "Blind Date" that starred Bruce Willis and Kim Basinger. It was a hilarious movie.

I do gamble and I tend to be very lucky. Clever? I just thought very fast on my feet and kept my cool which is something every SD should figure out how to do, because we are all just one date away from something crazy like this happening.

I think the reason the cops did no follow-up was because there was no complaint. She wasn't complaining and there was no evidence of foul play in the hospital exam. Plus I seemed to be a good citizen with no record and my story seemed credible, if a bit bizarre on her part. Maybe they pulled the tape on the security camera at the gas station. if so, they would have seen that what I told them was exactly what happened. Whatever. But I was SO relieved that they just dropped the whole thing.

While she couldn't remember the date she certainly remembered me. We had met on a previous occasion for coffee. And she had remembered me in connection with the hotel but no details. I wish she had remembered the date. She was a wildcat in bed. On subsequent dates not nearly so much. She obviously needed alcohol to warm up her libido and I wasn't about to go there again.

[PartyTimeGuy]

You should never bet the ponies, your luck is all used up! It's lucky the cops did a half-assed investigation w no follow up. They should have been very keen to know who she was communicating by phone with in the time before she appeared at the hotel and then ask some hard questions when she started texting / calling that same number again. Sheesh.

For that matter, how did you hit her up for another date w / o her figuring out it was you she was banging in the hotel that night?

Dude, you are lucky and clever!

I do gamble and I tend to be very lucky. Clever? I just thought very fast on my feet and kept my cool which is something every SD should figure out how to do, because we are all just one date away from something crazy like this happening.

I think the reason the cops did no follow-up was because there was no complaint. She wasn't complaining and there was no evidence of foul play in the hospital exam. Plus I seemed to be a good citizen with no record and my story seemed credible, if a bit bizarre on her part. Maybe they pulled the tape on the security camera at the gas station. if so, they would have seen that what I told them was exactly what happened. Whatever. But I was SO relieved that they just dropped the whole thing.

While she couldn't remember the date she certainly remembered me. We had met on a previous occasion for coffee. And she had remembered me in connection with the hotel but no details. I wish she had remembered the date. She was a wildcat in bed. On subsequent dates not nearly so much. She obviously needed alcohol to warm up her libido and I wasn't about to go there again.

[Tidad]

I dated her a few times after that. There was no ill will and she was a terrific lay on the first date. She didn't know herself what happened. She honestly had no recollection of anything that happened that night. My guess was that it was medication and / or drugs interacting with alcohol, but it is just that. A guess. She either didn't know or didn't care to tell me. She hadn't sent the text messages about GPS; that was a gf trying to be "helpful. " It was a total bluff, although I thought it was real when the cops were on the scene at the hotel. I thought about chucking the phone, but I was genuinely concerned about her well being, even after the GPS text threat. If I had chucked the phone I may have been in deeper hot water because an investigation would eventually have resulted in the discovery of who I was and it would have made the whole thing much more incriminating for me. The way it worked out the cops totally believed my story, which was mostly absolutely true.

Never again did I share alcohol with her and I made it totally clear that she was not to drink before getting together. As it turned out, however, she was much hotter in the sack when she was tipsy than sober. It wasn't even nearly as much fun and we eventually parted ways.

You should never bet the ponies, your luck is all used up! It's lucky the cops did a half-assed investigation w no follow up. They should have been very keen to know who she was communicating by phone with in the time before she appeared at the hotel and then ask some hard questions when she started texting / calling that same number again. Sheesh.

For that matter, how did you hit her up for another date w / o her figuring out it was you she was banging in the hotel that night?

Dude, you are lucky and clever!

[PartyTimeGuy]

Rape test. So you mean they didn't find any of your semen in her ass or pussy? Unbelievable!

GG.

They don't exactly share any of the details, but obviously there was no bruising or trace of me in her or there may have been a different outcome. I was covered and it was clearly consensual. Besides, she didn't share anything about our tryst either because she didn't want to let anyone know or couldn't remember. She was not after me; she didn't even know if I had her stuff, just that it was missing and she couldn't remember anything other than that she recalled being at the hotel. It was the cops who made all the assumptions. If she had been after me, the whole thing could have been a major problem. It made me think hard how vulnerable I could have been. This hobby is certainly not without its risks. The little head can get the big head in a heap of trouble even if the big head is careful.

[PartyTimeGuy]

Ho. Lee - Shit.

Glad you made it out a free man. Did you ever find out why she randomly left you? Drugs? The phone GPS part was spooky too. I wonder what would've happened if you just chucked it out your car and went to sleep.

CQ.

I dated her a few times after that. There was no ill will and she was a terrific lay on the first date. She didn't know herself what happened. She honestly had no recollection of anything that happened that night. My guess was that it was medication and / or drugs interacting with alcohol, but it is just that. A guess. She either didn't know or didn't care to tell me. She hadn't sent the text messages about GPS; that was a gf trying to be "helpful. " It was a total bluff, although I thought it was real when the cops were on the scene at the hotel. I thought about chucking the phone, but I was genuinely concerned about her well being, even after the GPS text threat. If I had chucked the phone I may have been in deeper hot water because an investigation would eventually have resulted in the discovery of who I was and it would have made the whole thing much more incriminating for me. The way it worked out the cops totally believed my story, which was mostly absolutely true.

Never again did I share alcohol with her and I made it totally clear that she was not to drink before getting together. As it turned out, however, she was much hotter in the sack when she was tipsy than sober. It wasn't even nearly as much fun and we eventually parted ways.

[ChiefQueef]

I read with interest several posts on these subjects. We risk exposure of our identities and I am sure we all try to be careful out there. But sometimes no matter what you do, things can come out of nowhere to bite you on the butt.

I am reminded of a SB I met for a first date very early in my SD activities as a case in point. All my instincts told me that this particular girl was trouble, but the little head had its way over the big head. She wanted to drink to lower her inhibitions so we shared some Southern Comfort and 7s at the hotel room. She was right about alcohol lowering her inhibitions. She was a sexual dynamo. I nailed her 6 ways to Sunday in every hole. Afterwards she wanted to go out and get something to eat. She seemed very loopy but I chalked it up to low alcohol resistance. I stopped at a gas station with a small store and she went in to get some snacks. When she came out of the gas station she started talking to three dudes parked in the car behind me. I thought she must know them, but I wasn't sure. All of a sudden the car behind me peeled out and she was in the car with them. It was cold and snowing and she had left her coat and purse and cell in my car. I didn't know what to do. I tried to follow the car but lost them. It was like an episode of the Twilight Zone. I just sat in my car trying to think what to do next. Should I call the police? If I did this whole thing could get real ugly real soon. I did the only thing that I thought made sense. I went back to the gas station and hoped they would return. After several hours it was clear that wasn't going to happen so I went back to the hotel room. I couldn't access her phone because it was locked. I stayed in the hotel room all night. I couldn't sleep and hoped she would return. Her phone was different from mine and ran out of charge. At first light I went to a Target and bought a phone charger that would fit it. While I couldn't access her phone to make calls I could see incoming text messages. The messages were saying that I better return her phone and coat and purse because the police had been notified and would track me using GPS. Holy Shit! So I went back to the hotel.

Ho. Lee - Shit.

Glad you made it out a free man. Did you ever find out why she randomly left you? Drugs? The phone GPS part was spooky too. I wonder what would've happened if you just chucked it out your car and went to sleep.

CQ.

[Geneva Guy]

I read with interest several posts on these subjects. We risk exposure of our identities and I am sure we all try to be careful out there. But sometimes no matter what you do, things can come out of nowhere to bite you on the butt.

at the hospital to be drug and rape tested.

It certainly helped that my record was and is squeaky clean. No arrests. No violations whatsoever, not even as much as a moving violation or even a parking ticket. She, on the other hand, did have a record, and in fact, had been in prison a few months earlier for repeated DUIs. This chick clearly did have quite a problem with alcohol.

I was released without incident and nothing bad ever happened from this, but it was enough of a scare to remind me that anything is possible and that you need to be very very VERY careful out there my brothers!

Rape test. So you mean they didn't find any of your semen in her ass or pussy? Unbelievable!

GG.

[PartyTimeGuy]

Holy crap! That is one crazy story and I think I just peed myself a little thinking about what I would do if I were in your position. This whole game is a crapshoot, even when one frequents the pros or AMPs, ya just never know how the day is going to unfold. I'm guessing you're not married or you were on travel or something.

I have no SO now which makes being a SD a whole lot easier. However, at the time this incident happened I did have a live-in SO. Fortunately for me she was in the hospital when this happened. I can't even imagine the story I would have to have concocted to explain why I was out all night, let alone if there was any police interaction to have to explain and the specific circumstances therefrom!

[CoolPix]

It certainly helped that my record was and is squeaky clean. No arrests. No violations whatsoever, not even as much as a moving violation or even a parking ticket. She, on the other hand, did have a record, and in fact, had been in prison a few months earlier for repeated DUIs. This chick clearly did have quite a problem with alcohol.

I was released without incident and nothing bad ever happened from this, but it was enough of a scare to remind me that anything is possible and that you need to be very very VERY careful out there my brothers!

Holy crap! That is one crazy story and I think I just peed myself a little thinking about what I would do if I were in your position. This whole game is a crapshoot, even when one frequents the pros or AMPs, ya just never know how the day is going to unfold. I'm guessing you're not married or you were on travel or something.

Good lesson fellow mongers, tread and play lightly out there!