General Reports

[Benz1]

EBT did an early payout, due to the shutdown.
Most of them will be spending it or selling it before February. The next earliest payout will be March.
Keep in mind while negotiating in February.
Most of them will be hungry, including the girl next door. She could be your next UTR.

Looks like this February is the best time to negotiate.

Ask for her rates, after she responds, tell the provider Becca charges 50 ss, 80 HHR and 120 hr.
Send the provider Becca's link for proof.

The provider you're texting will probably say Go see Becca. Hang up. If we all do it eventually they will say yes and rates will go down.

Maybe we should all be seeing Becca to support her and her great rates.

http://usaadultclassifieds.nl/classi...190&cityid=222

[BossStang302]

Be prepared to get spammed nonstop after replying. It is spam central where not a single ad is real. Yesbackpage.com my asssss

I think it depends on the area. In sc there are a few spam ads, but the rest are now real. Most were around on the old backpage, and are also on STG and cityguide. I travel for work. And was just in chicago, had 2 good experiences and found and AMP on there. ABout to head to dallas and already have a booking. But you are right that there is a lot of spam.

[CrownTiger]

I saw it when it first came out. It never really took off.

Be prepared to get spammed nonstop after replying. It is spam central where not a single ad is real. Yesbackpage.com my asssss

[Benz1]

EBT did an early payout, due to the shutdown.
Most of them will be spending it or selling it before February. The next earliest payout will be March.
Keep in mind while negotiating in February.
Most of them will be hungry, including the girl next door. She could be your next UTR.

P.S.

Don't loan them any money, make them work for it, negotiations will bring the prices down.

Like Wall Street says. The Market is correcting it's self.

[Benz1]

EBT did an early payout, due to the shutdown.
Most of them will be spending it or selling it before February. The next earliest payout will be March.
Keep in mind while negotiating in February.
Most of them will be hungry, including the girl next door. She could be your next UTR.

[BossStang302]

I saw it when it first came out. It never really took off.

Does well in my area and a few other locations I have been to. Other areas I've looked it def needs to grow.

[SweetHemiStud]

No one is advertising on it, but has anyone seen this?

https://www.yesbackpage.de/161-Grand-Rapids/

I saw it when it first came out. It never really took off.

[BluBalls1]

No one is advertising on it, but has anyone seen this?

https://www.yesbackpage.de/161-Grand-Rapids/

[Benz1]

That is crazy. LOL. Especially for someone even willing to see an escort in a Notel.

Yes, makes sense. I believe that should be everyone's first 'play' on the field. But willing to go full hog for an escort at a Notel with a recommended gal just makes it more perplexing that he at least wouldn't be more open to cum down to earth for more realistic prices & endeavors. I agree that massage parlors are pretty much error-free zones. You don't have to worry about LE at all, just a neighbor seeing you parked there.

It is. But it's not that he's willing to pay more for less (MP vs Escort). He's paying Way too much more within that zone of massage parlors. Yikes. That's the real WTH situation.

You don't need a hobby phone if, say, a friend points you to a massage parlor he goes to with a girl he sees, she works out, and that's all you're going to do. But if you are going to dabble around to the parlors and have a significant other, you'll definitely want one. And if you're going to dabble in the escort arena, you'll want one even if you're single. But some people think it's more complicated than it is, not being fans of 'change' or anything.

A hobby phone is cheaper & less complicated to have than one may think, just as landing a gal who does things nicely at a much lower price is. Butt, like some gals out there who are stuck in their ways with their POVs, so can the (newbie) customers once they see something they like.

My friend doesn't need a hobby phone, he's happy with one girl once a month at the same place.

Not everyone thinks like us. We are a different breed.

Brings me back to my original comment, we are the minority. There are plenty of guys out there who will never get caught going to a secluded parlor. For that reason they will pay more and be able to care less about the hobby as we see it.

That's how the massage parlors in every city get more than an escort and offer less. Monger Fear, we would have a lot more fear if we didn't have this site where we all contribute for the safety of others. Most of us that read this forum have faith in our fellow members. It doesn't happen immediately, some may read in disbelief that what we say is real or real helpful. Others will click on a link to a good review and wish he had the balls to call. Then there is us, the senior adventurers with nerves of steel and ice running through our veins because we need to do it. We are the minority.

Thank the good Lord for usasexguide everyday.

[Charlie441]

I gave him a lot of info, for both escorts and MP he's still paying 225 per session with his girl once a month and happy too.

That is crazy. LOL. Especially for someone even willing to see an escort in a Notel.

He was more afraid of a sting operation or drug bust. He believes he is less likely to be caught in trap by going to a massage parlor. If anyone were to bust the massage parlor for anything he could always say he was just coming in for a massage and understood it to be a legitimate massage salon.

Yes, makes sense. I believe that should be everyone's first 'play' on the field. But willing to go full hog for an escort at a Notel with a recommended gal just makes it more perplexing that he at least wouldn't be more open to cum down to earth for more realistic prices & endeavors. I agree that massage parlors are pretty much error-free zones. You don't have to worry about LE at all, just a neighbor seeing you parked there.

I believe he's right maybe that's why the men going to massage parlors are willing to pay a little more to have that story in case they're ever caught. Granted it's a lame story, it is better than being caught in a hotel room with a escort.

It is. But it's not that he's willing to pay more for less (MP vs Escort). He's paying Way too much more within that zone of massage parlors. Yikes. That's the real WTH situation.

You don't need a hobby phone if, say, a friend points you to a massage parlor he goes to with a girl he sees, she works out, and that's all you're going to do. But if you are going to dabble around to the parlors and have a significant other, you'll definitely want one. And if you're going to dabble in the escort arena, you'll want one even if you're single. But some people think it's more complicated than it is, not being fans of 'change' or anything.

A hobby phone is cheaper & less complicated to have than one may think, just as landing a gal who does things nicely at a much lower price is. Butt, like some gals out there who are stuck in their ways with their POVs, so can the (newbie) customers once they see something they like.

[Member #6094]

LOL Benz1 you do know according to the Snickers commercials they will do the same thing much cheaper to. Lmao 😁.

If anyone is focusing on a provider and want to make sure it's a great date, I strongly suggest stopping at Sweetlands Candy on Plainfield before you see your girl.

https://news.softpedia.com/news/13-R...ty-68641.shtml
Just skip to number 4, no need to read the rest.
It always helps me.

[Benz1]

If anyone is focusing on a provider and want to make sure it's a great date, I strongly suggest stopping at Sweetlands Candy on Plainfield before you see your girl.

https://news.softpedia.com/news/13-R...ty-68641.shtml
Just skip to number 4, no need to read the rest.
It always helps me.

[Benz1]

I would think for most people who are completely new to everything, they would get more nervous their 1st time in a massage parlor going from 100% legal at a store on the street to crossing the line for some hint-hint extras. Getting naked under a towel in doing so, then opting for the gal to 'get comfortable' after things settle in, handling the flip well to opt for something happy, etc. Some gals can be quite forthright & have a fun attitude when doing so, which would make it easy for any newbie, but you can't count on that. But I figure he saw / felt it a different way, not comfortable going to a Notel seeing a "hooker" from the get-go. Otherwise, why the paranoia when she's real cute + real friendly.

Once one does get comfy with an MP girl, I think that should nix one's uncomfort-zone for any other pay-a-girl endeavors. So maybe he'll try that avenue in the future if he isn't totally turned off by the Notel-escort idea.

I gave him a lot of info, for both escorts and MP he's still paying 225 per session with his girl once a month and happy too.

He was more afraid of a sting operation or drug bust. He believes he is less likely to be caught in trap by going to a massage parlor. If anyone were to bust the massage parlor for anything he could always say he was just coming in for a massage and understood it to be a legitimate massage salon.

His significant other might not by it story but it would be better than getting caught in a hotel room with a known hooker.

I believe he's right maybe that's why the men going to massage parlors are willing to pay a little more to have that story in case they're ever caught. Granted it's a lame story, it is better than being caught in a hotel room with a escort.

He doesn't want to have a hobby phone and massage parlors aren't as likely to call you back or try to extort.

As I mentioned before I believe there's a lot of guys out there just like him that go once a month I've no intention of buying a hobby phone and paying enough money to get what they want when they show up. Those hobbyist aren't the same as our membership they hobby monthly or every other month whereas we are Hobbying weekly sometimes more than once a week. We need a hobby phone, they do not.

We have navigation and negotiation skills which they do not. They don't want to take the time to research where to go for safe escorts either. Just get me off now. If I like it I'll be back. Attitude. Not about money.

[Charlie441]

He asked me a lot of questions, he was very surprised I had answers. I reminded him over and over that massage parlors charge you more and you get less. He didn't like seeing Tina the RedHot RedHead at her Notel he became very paranoid , his first experience was not good, way too nervous, couldn't get it up for the full half hour.
I don't know why he was so nervous, he had plenty of help getting there, I drove him. ( I didn't even tell him the provider was a friend of his daughters on FB LOL) I'm still confused, She was hot and liked him very much. Tina felt bad about the date too.

I would think for most people who are completely new to everything, they would get more nervous their 1st time in a massage parlor going from 100% legal at a store on the street to crossing the line for some hint-hint extras. Getting naked under a towel in doing so, then opting for the gal to 'get comfortable' after things settle in, handling the flip well to opt for something happy, etc. Some gals can be quite forthright & have a fun attitude when doing so, which would make it easy for any newbie, but you can't count on that. But I figure he saw / felt it a different way, not comfortable going to a Notel seeing a "hooker" from the get-go. Otherwise, why the paranoia when she's real cute + real friendly.

Once one does get comfy with an MP girl, I think that should nix one's uncomfort-zone for any other pay-a-girl endeavors. So maybe he'll try that avenue in the future if he isn't totally turned off by the Notel-escort idea.

[EngrGuy]

Here is just a general question.

You see a lot of ladys that are on eros and what not that require a persons legal name, place of work personal phone etc. I get it as they are going to be spending time with someone they do not yet know. But do guys really provide that info? That info was why I never finished the p411 after my 6 month free membership elapsed. Anyone have thoughts?