Seeking Arrangements

**JohnTies** · 12-27-18 16:39

So went on Seeking earlier this month. It has been a total sh-it show!!

For example this morning sent out around 30 messages. Know how many responses I have gotten? 3 fu-cking responses!

I checked on them and around half have not even been opened to be read yet that girl was on the site at that moment or was on already that day.

WTF! So sick of the site already, total waste of my time thus far. GPS everywhere, non sex / platonic everywhere, monthly arrangements everywhere.

Girls ghost as we are speaking / texting Fvcking site blows!

**Fun0410** · 12-27-18 16:15

From Fall River, been talking to her for a while. Anybody have any experience with her?

https://www.seeking.com/messages/inb...8-c6f32a9c591a

**JohnTies** · 12-27-18 15:06

Originally Posted by PandorasMan [View Original Post]

It seems like everyone has had not so great experiences on SA.

Are there any good SA girls anyone can recommend?

I can't help you, went on two weeks ago and it's been a total waste of time.

Lots and lots of GPS girls, girls who want money for having a coffee / drink / eat with you, girls who you are talking with who just ghost all of a sudden.

Girls who are pros messaging you with their phone number. Girls who only want a monthly allowance. Girls who like me, message me who I have zero interest in.

Probably at least 50% of my messages go either unread or unanswered, even though they are online.

Have spent so much time on there, looking, messaging, wasting my time for nothing but a lump of coal in my stocking.

As of now the site really SU CKS!

**Ho Hunter 328** · 12-27-18 14:36

Originally Posted by TwoMins [View Original Post]

This one wants 6K per month to replace the allowance her parents were giving her, LOL.

https://www.seeking.com/member/c38fd...b-ee0fe69773a0

One of my UTR regulars recently stopped seeing anyone because she found a sugar daddy that gives her $1k/week in addition to paying for her apartment and car. So there are guys out there who may think her offer is perfectly reasonable. Sucks for me because she was a lot of fun, and only used to ask for 60-100 for a few hours of fun.

Stay safe, and happy hunting.

**JohnTies** · 12-27-18 14:17

Originally Posted by Aardvarks [View Original Post]

I'm not a shill for SA but holy shit there are a ton of college girls home for the holidays trying to make some cash. I can't even keep up with the messages. Most cannot host but I've gotten offers of car dates from some really cute 19-20 yr olds. One wanted to meet me at a mall and said she would take care of me in a furniture store. Who knew? If I end up pulling the trigger I'll post links but again hollly shit.

Wish I knew which 19-20 year olds you are talking to I am talking to a bunch also and they are all asking for $500, $300, want money to have a drink with me.

Ones who I am talking about meeting tell me they can't host, I tell them I can't host, they then say nothing and disappear.

I have the worst luck on SA For me it sucks!

**PaulRew** · 12-27-18 13:07

Originally Posted by TwoMins [View Original Post]

This one wants 6K per month to replace the allowance her parents were giving her, LOL.

https://www.seeking.com/member/c38fd...b-ee0fe69773a0

Originally Posted by PaulRew [View Original Post]

Has anyone scored a hot Asian on SA? I do OK on the site but I can't get an asian girl to give me the time of day.

And of course she is Asian!

**Aardvarks** · 12-27-18 11:34

I'm not a shill for SA but holy shit there are a ton of college girls home for the holidays trying to make some cash. I can't even keep up with the messages. Most cannot host but I've gotten offers of car dates from some really cute 19-20 yr olds. One wanted to meet me at a mall and said she would take care of me in a furniture store. Who knew? If I end up pulling the trigger I'll post links but again hollly shit.

**Member #6503** · 12-27-18 11:19

This one wants 6K per month to replace the allowance her parents were giving her, LOL.

https://www.seeking.com/member/c38fd...b-ee0fe69773a0

**PandorasMan** · 12-27-18 09:58

It seems like everyone has had not so great experiences on SA.

Are there any good SA girls anyone can recommend?

**PaulRew** · 12-26-18 19:53

Has anyone scored a hot Asian on SA? I do OK on the site but I can't get an asian girl to give me the time of day.

**JimXuper90** · 12-26-18 16:33

Originally Posted by Joe1223 [View Original Post]

Not all of the girls want 500+. If you want high end look on EROS as most of those girls are VIP or at least they think they are LOL. My biggest issue with SA is that almost all of my contacts cannot do incalls. SW can do the car date but car dates are not good for me. I guess I'm looking for more than a chew & screw plus the odds are not in your favor of getting the cream of the crop.

Everyone has thier preference and resource limits so there should be something for everyone, it's just a lot harder than it used to be. Overpaying the girls only drives up the rates. Anything over 300 should be gold plated IMHO.

I have tried different stuff during the years. The most expensive one I got was $2000 overnight. Frankly, it was the inexperience of me and I can't afford that price anymore due to the job change. I settled with $100-$150 BP girl in the past 10 years and craigslist girls of course. SA has some new girls that's for sure. BP was full of "pro" and craigslist had some new girls. The girls I talked with on SA that fit in my price range were all BP and Craigslist level of appearance. The better ones are more expensive. They either were new to the business or just GPS. I had met decent looking college kids on Craigslist for $120 before. Maybe I should have spent a bit more time on SA to find the right resource, but hey, SA banned me, for. Let's say hooking.

**Joe1223** · 12-24-18 10:22

Originally Posted by Longjblues [View Original Post]

I agree, Joe, most of the ladies I have contacted on SA say they are not able to host. On the price issue, its usually easy to determine who will negotiate and who won't. However, if the lady can't host, it is generally a deal breaker, cause I really don't want to spend additional time getting a room. Partly the time it takes, cost, and general aggravation, nevermind the paper trail.

I had one girl not show up after I checked in so if I do agree to a room I don't pull the trigger until they are in the parking lot. I prefer the younger ladies or single moms so this adds to the burden for accommodating an Incall. Not many young girls can afford a solo apartment and single moms worry about safety. All legit reasons but my hunt continues. LOL. The lemonade is the money I am saving from being more selective and not having such a large pool to choose from.

**Longjblues** · 12-24-18 09:39

I agree, Joe, most of the ladies I have contacted on SA say they are not able to host. On the price issue, its usually easy to determine who will negotiate and who won't. However, if the lady can't host, it is generally a deal breaker, cause I really don't want to spend additional time getting a room. Partly the time it takes, cost, and general aggravation, nevermind the paper trail.

Originally Posted by Joe1223 [View Original Post]

Not all of the girls want 500+. If you want high end look on EROS as most of those girls are VIP or at least they think they are LOL. My biggest issue with SA is that almost all of my contacts cannot do incalls. SW can do the car date but car dates are not good for me. I guess I'm looking for more than a chew & screw plus the odds are not in your favor of getting the cream of the crop.

Everyone has thier preference and resource limits so there should be something for everyone, it's just a lot harder than it used to be. Overpaying the girls only drives up the rates. Anything over 300 should be gold plated IMHO.

**Joe1223** · 12-24-18 09:30

Originally Posted by JimXuper90 [View Original Post]

Because many of us can't afford $500 per hour high-end stuff even before Backpage went down.

Not all of the girls want 500+. If you want high end look on EROS as most of those girls are VIP or at least they think they are LOL. My biggest issue with SA is that almost all of my contacts cannot do incalls. SW can do the car date but car dates are not good for me. I guess I'm looking for more than a chew & screw plus the odds are not in your favor of getting the cream of the crop.

Everyone has thier preference and resource limits so there should be something for everyone, it's just a lot harder than it used to be. Overpaying the girls only drives up the rates. Anything over 300 should be gold plated IMHO.

**JimXuper90** · 12-23-18 20:09

Originally Posted by Spike77 [View Original Post]

I probably wasn't very clear in my original post. I wasn't asking why people pay 90 bucks to join SA. I was asking why go for the backpage quality talent on SA when there are plenty of backpage related sites that are free? I don't see the point.

I have had successes myself on SA. I tend to go for the non pro college types. My problem is I am never satisfied. Always looking for the next best thing. I pass up good opportunities for the hope for better opportunities.

I know, I am sick in the head.

Because many of us can't afford $500 per hour high-end stuff even before Backpage went down.