Seeking Arrangements

[Joe1223]

I agree, Joe, most of the ladies I have contacted on SA say they are not able to host. On the price issue, its usually easy to determine who will negotiate and who won't. However, if the lady can't host, it is generally a deal breaker, cause I really don't want to spend additional time getting a room. Partly the time it takes, cost, and general aggravation, nevermind the paper trail.

I had one girl not show up after I checked in so if I do agree to a room I don't pull the trigger until they are in the parking lot. I prefer the younger ladies or single moms so this adds to the burden for accommodating an Incall. Not many young girls can afford a solo apartment and single moms worry about safety. All legit reasons but my hunt continues. LOL. The lemonade is the money I am saving from being more selective and not having such a large pool to choose from.

[Longjblues]

I agree, Joe, most of the ladies I have contacted on SA say they are not able to host. On the price issue, its usually easy to determine who will negotiate and who won't. However, if the lady can't host, it is generally a deal breaker, cause I really don't want to spend additional time getting a room. Partly the time it takes, cost, and general aggravation, nevermind the paper trail.

Not all of the girls want 500+. If you want high end look on EROS as most of those girls are VIP or at least they think they are LOL. My biggest issue with SA is that almost all of my contacts cannot do incalls. SW can do the car date but car dates are not good for me. I guess I'm looking for more than a chew & screw plus the odds are not in your favor of getting the cream of the crop.

Everyone has thier preference and resource limits so there should be something for everyone, it's just a lot harder than it used to be. Overpaying the girls only drives up the rates. Anything over 300 should be gold plated IMHO.

[Joe1223]

Because many of us can't afford $500 per hour high-end stuff even before Backpage went down.

Not all of the girls want 500+. If you want high end look on EROS as most of those girls are VIP or at least they think they are LOL. My biggest issue with SA is that almost all of my contacts cannot do incalls. SW can do the car date but car dates are not good for me. I guess I'm looking for more than a chew & screw plus the odds are not in your favor of getting the cream of the crop.

Everyone has thier preference and resource limits so there should be something for everyone, it's just a lot harder than it used to be. Overpaying the girls only drives up the rates. Anything over 300 should be gold plated IMHO.

[JimXuper90]

I probably wasn't very clear in my original post. I wasn't asking why people pay 90 bucks to join SA. I was asking why go for the backpage quality talent on SA when there are plenty of backpage related sites that are free? I don't see the point.

I have had successes myself on SA. I tend to go for the non pro college types. My problem is I am never satisfied. Always looking for the next best thing. I pass up good opportunities for the hope for better opportunities.

I know, I am sick in the head.

Because many of us can't afford $500 per hour high-end stuff even before Backpage went down.

[Spike77]

Well, in short, better quality and different experience.

I joined SA lees than two years ago and have had more good experiences than bad ones. It all depends on what you are looking for. In my case, I am looking for the GFE / FWB type arrangement, a girl I can see on the side not just for a hookup but rather an ongoing thing, a girl who has a career, a life, a family, a car. Who need a little help or a college babe. Because I have a SO I am not able to take them to vacations, long diner or overnights but I still manage to find what I am looking for, it takes patience. More often than not, I have to decline an arrangement after a M&G or first encounter when they are desperate or a BP girl type.

Right now, I am seeing 3 girls, one mid 20's Asian, one single mom nurse and one married 30 something with no kids, for a few months and my cost per meet is 300 to 500, all horny. I am happy with that until I find THE ONE to go exclusive with a monthly allowance. I even found a hottie that I can't pursue because I have interviewed her for a job back in the Spring, too risky.

Life is good!

Merry Christmas to all.

J.

I probably wasn't very clear in my original post. I wasn't asking why people pay 90 bucks to join SA. I was asking why go for the backpage quality talent on SA when there are plenty of backpage related sites that are free? I don't see the point.

I have had successes myself on SA. I tend to go for the non pro college types. My problem is I am never satisfied. Always looking for the next best thing. I pass up good opportunities for the hope for better opportunities.

I know, I am sick in the head.

[NewEngland]

Excatly!! I usually keep two going just in case one moves on or gets a real job. I treat them good, respectful and they stay "loyal" to me. I prefer this and pay a little extra for that privilege but my standards have matured as has my disposable income. Everybody has the perfect match in mind so each to their own. Just don't over pay and the market will settle down so we can all get some.

Good luck!!

100% agree find the best ones to come from the health field other than mentioned Brandi who is a game player. Or college degree single parent moms needing the extra income easy to find in an email or 2.

Plus guys if you can't come up with 10 or so matches in a 50 miles from you in a month than something is wrong just like getting resumes talk get there email or cell numbers and keep when you need them.

There is no reason you need to stay on sa every month maybe in the start 2 straight months another key is that when your time is going to expire like say 3 days do not try talking with a new women.

[Joe1223]

Well, in short, better quality and different experience.

I joined SA lees than two years ago and have had more good experiences than bad ones. It all depends on what you are looking for. In my case, I am looking for the GFE / FWB type arrangement, a girl I can see on the side not just for a hookup but rather an ongoing thing, a girl who has a career, a life, a family, a car. Who need a little help or a college babe. Because I have a SO I am not able to take them to vacations, long diner or overnights but I still manage to find what I am looking for, it takes patience. More often than not, I have to decline an arrangement after a M&G or first encounter when they are desperate or a BP girl type.

Right now, I am seeing 3 girls, one mid 20's Asian, one single mom nurse and one married 30 something with no kids, for a few months and my cost per meet is 300 to 500, all horny. I am happy with that until I find THE ONE to go exclusive with a monthly allowance. I even found a hottie that I can't pursue because I have interviewed her for a job back in the Spring, too risky.

Life is good!

Merry Christmas to all.

J.

Excatly!! I usually keep two going just in case one moves on or gets a real job. I treat them good, respectful and they stay "loyal" to me. I prefer this and pay a little extra for that privilege but my standards have matured as has my disposable income. Everybody has the perfect match in mind so each to their own. Just don't over pay and the market will settle down so we can all get some.

Good luck!!

[Javazer]

Why are people spending 90 bucks a month on a site to score crack den ******? Why wouldn't you just save your money and go to onebackpage or cruise the streets for streetwalkers?

Well, in short, better quality and different experience.

I joined SA lees than two years ago and have had more good experiences than bad ones. It all depends on what you are looking for. In my case, I am looking for the GFE / FWB type arrangement, a girl I can see on the side not just for a hookup but rather an ongoing thing, a girl who has a career, a life, a family, a car. Who need a little help or a college babe. Because I have a SO I am not able to take them to vacations, long diner or overnights but I still manage to find what I am looking for, it takes patience. More often than not, I have to decline an arrangement after a M&G or first encounter when they are desperate or a BP girl type.

Right now, I am seeing 3 girls, one mid 20's Asian, one single mom nurse and one married 30 something with no kids, for a few months and my cost per meet is 300 to 500, all horny. I am happy with that until I find THE ONE to go exclusive with a monthly allowance. I even found a hottie that I can't pursue because I have interviewed her for a job back in the Spring, too risky.

Life is good!

Merry Christmas to all.

J.

[Joe1223]

Why are people spending 90 bucks a month on a site to score crack den ******? Why wouldn't you just save your money and go to onebackpage or cruise the streets for streetwalkers?

I have never been a fan of the SW action plus the car date thing kinda sucks, no pun intended. Obviously since the main resources for girls have mostly closed up one is left with few choices. I tried out SA for one month and got quite a few names, some of these girls were better than the other but I never renewed. When BP was running it was always a gamble with what you would get but the stable had many more choices. I found that the visual quality on BP just isn't what I'm looking for.

When I saw Jenna Marie she was new to this and I would drop her off at her house after we finished. She lived in a beautiful home with parents. I saw her twice but she was unwilling to negotiate so I bailed. She thought she had golden pussy but she has changed now and text me looking to meet again. She was open to new pricing but I never bothered because I had a better option.

If one assumes all the girls on SA are or will be junkies then I agree, you may as well hit the SWs. But there are some SA gems out there and I found my share. I can swing the 200-300 range but usually will not repeat at 300 and if there is a hotel needed I tell the girls one & done unless they host, lower thier rate or are a smoke show. Of course I am at a point in my life where I can get by with less action, so it depends on the monger and what they need. I look for low volume UTR young ones so it takes more work, patience and sometimes more $. But at the end of the day it works for me and once I found that "regular" I enjoy until a better offer if found or in my recent case the girl graduates and leave.

I have no issue paying 200 for quality. If you have been to Montreal you know that is the going rate. If you have never been you must go. Wednesday-Saturday usually has the cream of the crop available.

[Spike77]

Pics may be old or edited. I thought she was cute just not as good as the pics. Very pleasant and accommodating though. Local art student in Boston.

300 did it for me (my offer).

https://www.seeking.com/member/590fb...5-695583131b1e

[Spike77]

Jess and Jenn are working together now out of Lowell. I have seen them both and $200 is an easy get for each of them. You may be able to do better but I read here that the Incall is a mess so more than likely it's a drug den?? It wasnt oblivious at all when I saw them but things turn quickly. She did have a latex allergy so byoc just in case. She was open to BBCIP but that was before business took off over a year ago now.

Why are people spending 90 bucks a month on a site to score crack den ******? Why wouldn't you just save your money and go to onebackpage or cruise the streets for streetwalkers?

[Joe1223]

I just joined this board and I'm totally new to this.

Does anyone have a guide on how to pursue a SB?

Take a trip to Montreal and see as many girls as you can. That way you will see how a more sexual liberated country does it. Then come back home and sign up for one of the web sites and get ready to be frustrated but be patient. You will need to focus on your negotiating skills and think with the big head. But if you keep lookin you will find a few that work for you. You will eventually figure it out however you may have to adjust your standards depending on what you envision your dream SB is. Don't over pay!

After you have shared your experiences with the members on here a few times you will start to get some guidance. This is like a second job, in today's environment, so you need to put your time in. Happy hunting and read the older posts as there is plenty of homework for you to catch up on.

[Joe1223]

Here is her SA link and profile FYI. See my recent post below.

https://www.seeking.com/member/dc0d2...e-7bcbcc768fe6

Jess and Jenn are working together now out of Lowell. I have seen them both and $200 is an easy get for each of them. You may be able to do better but I read here that the Incall is a mess so more than likely it's a drug den?? It wasn’t oblivious at all when I saw them but things turn quickly. She did have a latex allergy so byoc just in case. She was open to BBCIP but that was before business took off over a year ago now.

[Longjblues]

Here is her SA link and profile FYI. See my recent post below.

https://www.seeking.com/member/dc0d2...e-7bcbcc768fe6

Contacted Jess recently. She said she normally got 400-500 per meet, but that she would consider 300 with me. I told her I'd get back to her. I think Jess is on SA, and specifies her latex allergy. I had thought she was suggesting bb. (but heard she was serious.)

https://www.seeking.com/member/dc0d2f6b-318a-4ccd-940e-7bcbcc768fe6

[PandorasMan]

I just joined this board and I'm totally new to this.

Does anyone have a guide on how to pursue a SB?