Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[Tomb8871]

Have to give it a try.

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What good does this do if you don't have ability to respond?

[MyHobby]

Have to give it a try.

Good info to have? Ability to read messages despite not being a paid member of SA.

Virginia, Richmond, Sugar baby thread. Post 15523. Give credit where credit is due. Thanks Zcochran00.

Check it out. So many obstacles for mongers lately. A bit of cheating seems appropriate.

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I'm a programmer, and I spend a good portion of my time doing web development. I've noted that SA has been rewriting portions of their site from a traditional "click link, wait for server return the new page" style to a "single-page application" approach. Turns out that due to some rather silly programming choices on their part, it's actually possible to view the text content of messages even if you don't have premium time enabled.

It involves opening up your browser's "development tools" window so you can inspect the contents of the page and the data being requested, and should work in either Chrome or Firefox.

Log in to SA and go to your inbox. Right-click anywhere on the page and choose "Inspect Element". The browser's dev tools should either pop up as a separate window, or as part of the main window. Click on the "network" tab in the dev tools. Then, back in the SA inbox screen, click on a conversation.

If you go back to the "network" tab, you should see a list of all the data requests the SA page asked for from the server. One of them should look like "/ inbox? Page=1&limit=25". Click on that one. It'll show a bunch of technical details of some of the message headers.

Now, look for a tab called "Response". If you click on that, you should see a tree with sections like "status", "message", "conversation", and "metadata". Expand "conversation" "messages" "data". You should see some numbered entries, 0 and up. Those represent each of the messages in the conversation, from both of you. (Side note: the "metadata" object has a whole bunch of info that they know about your own account. Some of it is info you entered yourself, like profile info. There's also things like "payments_total", which appears to be how much you've actually ever paid SA, unread message count, whether you're in the EU, and even fields labeled "has_under_age_punishment" and "has_unacknowledged_punishment". Very interesting.)

Each message entry has a field called "body", which is the text that's shown in your inbox. If you've got premium active, it's the actual message text. If not, it's "Upgrade to read".

Here's where they did something silly. They send back the text that should be shown, but *they also send back the original text too*. So, even if the "body" field says "Upgrade to read", the "original_body" field shows the actual no-kidding message that was sent. You can inspect each of the messages that was received, and effectively read the conversation.

It's not a substitute for reading messages in the inbox as usual, but it might be helpful for anyone who gets a message when they don't have premium active and wants to peek at it without having to immediately shell out the cash to read it.

As a programmer, I can tell that there's actually a _ton_ of useful information being returned whenever you view a profile page or inbox page. It would be possible for someone to write a browser extension that either extracted some of that info from a page, or re-requested that data from the server, and did something useful with it (up to and including modifying an inbox to show all the messages without needing premium enabled). Sadly, I don't have time to work on anything like that myself. I've got a lot of other things on my plate.

Hope that helps!

[Woody50]

Broke people and scammers will gladly use Venmo. Anyone with money will avoid as those systems as they require links to your accounts and money. Do you really want to trust your account (s) to internet apps?
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I agree, but for those who insist, here's some info to at least try to protect your info:

https://clark.com/technology/how-to-...tions-private/

[Tomb8871]

Never do this as the girl has an inflated ego OR she's not getting normal dates. Here's one who wants 100 $ for a public meet and greet which I quickly declined.

https://www.seeking.com/member/4917d...0-d963367f519c

Blondie1221.

34 Female Hartford, Connecticut, United States.

Looking forward to new adventures! Spoil me!

BMD.

This one has been around forever, mainly at wyp. Wanted some ridiculous amount there.

[Big Mac Daddy]

Good info to have? Ability to read messages despite not being a paid member of SA.

Virginia, Richmond, Sugar baby thread. Post 15523. Give credit where credit is due. Thanks Zcochran00.

Check it out. So many obstacles for mongers lately. A bit of cheating seems appropriate.

The post number is wrong. It should be 15533, not 15523.

BMD.

[Big Mac Daddy]

Never do this as the girl has an inflated ego OR she's not getting normal dates. Here's one who wants 100 $ for a public meet and greet which I quickly declined.

https://www.seeking.com/member/4917d...0-d963367f519c

Blondie1221.

34 • Female • Hartford, Connecticut, United States.

Looking forward to new adventures! Spoil me!

BMD.

[Drewonhere]

Good info to have? Ability to read messages despite not being a paid member of SA.

Virginia, Richmond, Sugar baby thread. Post 15523. Give credit where credit is due. Thanks Zcochran00.

Check it out. So many obstacles for mongers lately. A bit of cheating seems appropriate.

[TopGun9]

https://www.seeking.com/member/72af2...7-0a68e82d283a

PuertoRicanBarbie.

30 Female Ansonia, Connecticut, United States.

Good looking newbie but wants 1000 for any type of visit. Told her "no". Next!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TLfmEZYdtrY

BMD.

Good move.

When a girl start talking $$ PPM, Allowance, etc. I will quickly block their profile / number and move on. They are already seasoned.

I am the one to initiate $ talk, not the baby.

[Member #6108]

Fellas,

My burner phone is blowing up today with reachouts from girls from the hookup sites who I haven't connected with in months.

One of them had the balls to reach out today after threatening to call the cops and my wife on me after I broke a date with her back in September because her directions were sketchy and made me think it was set up. Another one though is a very sweet honey who I thought moved away. (Columbian girl from 'SeekingBenefits' who is thick in all the right ways and loves pleasing her daddy).

I guess they all need to buy presents and travel home for the holidays. Could be an opportunity for the players to pick up some bargains.

Just curious if the mad rush is happening to you guys too.

Happy Holidays all. Good luck.

Yes it did. Had first bad experience with the girl from the County Wed Thur an today. Combo her period an extra $ for Christmas spending on her friends an family. I canceled meeting her Sat cause I know it was all her looking for more than Ill ever pay. Sad sad sad.

[LeftyBoyToy]

Fellas,

My burner phone is blowing up today with reachouts from girls from the hookup sites who I haven't connected with in months.

One of them had the balls to reach out today after threatening to call the cops and my wife on me after I broke a date with her back in September because her directions were sketchy and made me think it was set up. Another one though is a very sweet honey who I thought moved away. (Columbian girl from 'SeekingBenefits' who is thick in all the right ways and loves pleasing her daddy).

I guess they all need to buy presents and travel home for the holidays. Could be an opportunity for the players to pick up some bargains.

Just curious if the mad rush is happening to you guys too.

Happy Holidays all. Good luck.

[Big Mac Daddy]

https://www.seeking.com/member/0d562...7-7c8aab86c3b1

Italiaxdesiree.

25 Female Hartford, Connecticut, United States.

Your favorite Italian babe.

Here's another good looking one, a dancer looking on SA to hook clients into the Mynx Cabaret.

She asked if I had ever been there. I pretended not to know what that place was. After that, got radio silence. I wasn't surprised. LOL.

BMD.

[Big Mac Daddy]

Any luck with either of these two? Both offering dirty pics. Onecssid definite meet (but expensive) the other days "maybe. ".

https://www.seeking.com/member/024d6...5-1ce60312b639

https://www.seeking.com/member/05e46...7-602267fd4c45

The 2nd one wants Venmo (and there are others asking) is a big no-go. Think of it as a prepayment and you'll get nothing (scam) in return. She asking for Venmo money to prove you are real.

Try her. Tell her "my typing in chat or text is proof I'm real. " She leave you alone after that. LOL.

Broke people and scammers will gladly use Venmo. Anyone with money will avoid as those systems as they require links to your accounts and money. Do you really want to trust your account (s) to internet apps?

BMD.

[Sutigel2]

Any luck with either of these two? Both offering dirty pics. Onecssid definite meet (but expensive) the other days "maybe. ".

https://www.seeking.com/member/024d6...5-1ce60312b639

https://www.seeking.com/member/05e46...7-602267fd4c45

[Big Mac Daddy]

https://www.seeking.com/member/72af2...7-0a68e82d283a

PuertoRicanBarbie.

30 • Female • Ansonia, Connecticut, United States.

Good looking newbie but wants 1000 for any type of visit. Told her "no". Next!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TLfmEZYdtrY

BMD.

[LeftyBoyToy]

Nope. Different girl. Sorry. This one is a real looker. Good luck landing her. 👍.

Here are her SA pics, profile says Hartford.