Seeking Arrangements

**Longjblues** · 12-09-18 14:35

I am not 100% certain, but when I got banned from SA sometime ago, they indicated that I had used certain language that suggested escorts / prostitution, so I think SA definitely bans you for words such as "donation", "GFE" and "incall".

SA eventually re-admitted me.

So use instead allowance and friend with benefit or spell out "girl friend intimacy" rather than the other words that suggest escort, etc. IMHO.

Originally Posted by CandyMan555 [View Original Post]

They said I violated their rules I was always careful what I said Someone must have gotten pissed off when I refused to meet for 400 dollars and reported me.

Do they still take prepaid credit cards and what do you use for an address etc?

Thanks CM.

**CandyMan555** · 12-09-18 12:51

Originally Posted by CandyMan555 [View Original Post]

They said I violated their rules I was always careful what I said Someone must have gotten pissed off when I refused to meet for 400 dollars and reported me.

Do they still take prepaid credit cards and what do you use for an address etc?

Thanks CM.

If you succeed and get a new membership on S A If you use same pictures are they going to know??

Thanks CM.

**Aardvarks** · 12-09-18 12:46

Originally Posted by CandyMan555 [View Original Post]

They said I violated their rules I was always careful what I said Someone must have gotten pissed off when I refused to meet for 400 dollars and reported me.

Do they still take prepaid credit cards and what do you use for an address etc?

Thanks CM.

JHC I want to understand what gets you banned! That's nuts. Because if you go and do a search on all women within 50 miles of Boston you get 10,000 plus results. I created a female profile and did a search of the same and you get something like 3,000 guys. So there are triple to quadruple the number of girls to guys which is low considering I imagine a percentage of the 3 K aren't premium and just signed up to view profiles. And we have to pay to do anything worthwhile on the site. So we are the proverbial cash cow for SA and WYP.

Lately I've stuck with using the term weekly allowance (for one visit per week LOL) instead of PPM. I don't mention sex ever anymore but I say romance and intimacy instead. As many have pointed out you need to move to texting quickly.

Sorry this happened to you man!

AA.

**Jack617** · 12-09-18 11:12

Originally Posted by CandyMan555 [View Original Post]

They said I violated their rules I was always careful what I said Someone must have gotten pissed off when I refused to meet for 400 dollars and reported me.

Do they still take prepaid credit cards and what do you use for an address etc?

Thanks CM.

CM, sucks that you and others have recently gotten banned for apparently no reason. I am a little surprised that your first response is to find a way to sign up again and give them more of our hard earned money.

**JDogInMA** · 12-09-18 10:41

First off regarding the bans- that sucks. I was thinking there might be something the software algorithm on the site that automatically filters certain words. Or if one of the women is dropping a dime on you. Like in the real world, some girls know the right thing to say to get you in trouble. Could be either but they both stink, GD new law probably at the root of them pulling the trigger. A good lesson to us all to get the digits and info ASAP if we have an interest, and also to share intel. Stick to "host" and avoid "incall", I think and keep the language in code otherwise as best you can.

On another front-.

Had things all set uo with the masseuse with SexyVixen (she had a couple of numbers on her profile name, I forget) in Taunton for this week, then today her profile and all our chats from our inbox have disappeared. I don't know if I'm being blocked, if she got banned, or what. Anyone who can offer general insight? Anyone that thinks they can help me connect with her, please send me a PM. I was going to exchange email / phone info this weekend- a lesson to do that ASAP! Be safe, everyone!

Originally Posted by JDogInMA [View Original Post]

Taking the dive this week with sexyvixen and will report. I have to start contributing to the cause here, thanks to all who report. Smaller bbw doesn't bother me, her private pics were cute face & cleavage shots that.

https://www.seeking.com/member/0b49b...8-b0ec063e7a97

After a little chat on SA could tell that she had pro-experience, but I know the "massage" tag can have a limited range of extras on the menu. I was going to ask for particulars. But she quoted $$$ for hr which is a little on the high end, but not too much and I figured I'd give her the benefit of the doubt and see if she delivers. Only after that did I started doing a little HW here and found your quote. Is there any specific intel on her that you are willing to share? BB on the BJ? Where she allows you to finish?

On a separate note, I would recommend AVOIDING the following:

https://www.seeking.com/member/36ff6...2-f77196c14925

In the PPS department, second message from AQ2 "I'm looking for 4. 5 (my edit) per meet you must wear a condom and I don't give BJ. And other than that I can make you happy You interested?" WTF? At least she was direct and we didn't waste too much of each others time. She was slightly pushy too, but I took the high road and said I had found an option closer to home and didn't reply after that.

**CandyMan555** · 12-09-18 09:26

Originally Posted by MajorJohnson [View Original Post]

Same thing today with me but I never ever violated anything. I had 1 lady say no incall, I replied outcall? LOL Oh well, saving 90 bucks a month now.

They said I violated their rules I was always careful what I said Someone must have gotten pissed off when I refused to meet for 400 dollars and reported me.

Do they still take prepaid credit cards and what do you use for an address etc?

Thanks CM.

**MajorJohnson** · 12-09-18 01:39

Originally Posted by CandyMan555 [View Original Post]

I could not log on so I sent an email they said I violated rules and was soliciting sex, I am very aware of their rules and if a women ask me how much or alludes to money to meet I ask them for their phone number to take the discussion off the site. Pissed. I sent them an email to revisit my account Be careful.

Same thing today with me but I never ever violated anything. I had 1 lady say no incall, I replied outcall? LOL Oh well, saving 90 bucks a month now.

**CandyMan555** · 12-08-18 21:39

I could not log on so I sent an email they said I violated rules and was soliciting sex, I am very aware of their rules and if a women ask me how much or alludes to money to meet I ask them for their phone number to take the discussion off the site. Pissed. I sent them an email to revisit my account Be careful.

**Longjblues** · 12-08-18 09:58

I haven't seen very many off of SA but those I have, I had similar results of 3 out 4 offered BBFS, or more accurately, it was never really discussed and I don't believe any of them even had condoms. So best bring your own if you may prefer some protection.

Originally Posted by LeFreak [View Original Post]

I haven't seen that many girls off SA but it's been 3 out of 4 bb for me, 2 on the first date and one starting on the second date. The fourth I've only seen once so we will see if she requires the cover next time.

**JDogInMA** · 12-08-18 05:21

Originally Posted by Banjomania [View Original Post]

She is a very good ride if you don't mind a smaller bbw. The massage is just the beginning.

Taking the dive this week with sexyvixen and will report. I have to start contributing to the cause here, thanks to all who report. Smaller bbw doesn't bother me, her private pics were cute face & cleavage shots that.

https://www.seeking.com/member/0b49b...8-b0ec063e7a97

After a little chat on SA could tell that she had pro-experience, but I know the "massage" tag can have a limited range of extras on the menu. I was going to ask for particulars. But she quoted $$$ for hr which is a little on the high end, but not too much and I figured I'd give her the benefit of the doubt and see if she delivers. Only after that did I started doing a little HW here and found your quote. Is there any specific intel on her that you are willing to share? BB on the BJ? Where she allows you to finish?

On a separate note, I would recommend AVOIDING the following:

https://www.seeking.com/member/36ff6...2-f77196c14925

In the PPS department, second message from AQ2 "I'm looking for 4. 5 (my edit) per meet you must wear a condom and I don't give BJ. And other than that I can make you happy You interested?" WTF? At least she was direct and we didn't waste too much of each others time. She was slightly pushy too, but I took the high road and said I had found an option closer to home and didn't reply after that.

**Ho Hunter 328** · 12-07-18 20:29

Anyone met this girl?

Stay safe, and happy hunting.

**CandyMan555** · 12-07-18 20:28

Originally Posted by CandyMan555 [View Original Post]

Has any one seen Cassie or Natalie I tried to post her link on ebackpage and escort babylon but it won't work GOOGLE her number to see her ad.

I would appreciate any info Thanks CM.

I tried to get reviews but got nothing. She sent some hot pictures with nice full boobs. What a mistake, skinny as a rail b cups pussy not shaved hygiene not the best. Every third word was oh honey, great honey, everything covered. Fiv would not repeat, google her number any you can see her ads.

Phone 317 202 2602 BIG MISTAKE.

**Aardvarks** · 12-07-18 18:21

Originally Posted by LogJammin18 [View Original Post]

Condom use before had and when the moment comes, they just roll with your lead on going BB v wrapped. What have you found? 90% 10% for me.

I'm batting 500. Half want you to use them half don't. Of the ones I barebacked most actually had a Dr report of cleanliness. It was almost as if they preferred it too. I'm getting to the point where I prefer wrapping it the first few times to get to know them. If someone seems high traffic I keep bagging it.

**LogJammin18** · 12-07-18 14:28

Originally Posted by Banjomania [View Original Post]

I have not found the percentage that high, but definitely there is more scope for BB experiences on SA. Maybe 50/50 for me. I am not tied so I need to be wary of pregnancy as well as the disease potential. That being said, the true non-pro SA girl is likely far less of a disease risk. They can be horny as fuck though, and impetuous when tempted by cock.

Yea, I prefer BB if the girl is truly a non-pro that isn't banging a different guy every day. One trick I have found is to have a copy of a recent lab report to show them showing them you are clean and that usually does the trick. If you want to keep your real name off the report, order though http://myprivatelabs.com. They have it set up so that you can order it online using your monger name and email address. You print out paper work and go into a lab to get the blood work done and on the paper work it tells the lab not to ask for I'd. Pretty slick. They then post the results in your account on your site a few days later.

**Le Freak** · 12-07-18 14:09

Originally Posted by Banjomania [View Original Post]

I have not found the percentage that high, but definitely there is more scope for BB experiences on SA. Maybe 50/50 for me. I am not tied so I need to be wary of pregnancy as well as the disease potential. That being said, the true non-pro SA girl is likely far less of a disease risk. They can be horny as fuck though, and impetuous when tempted by cock.

I haven't seen that many girls off SA but it's been 3 out of 4 bb for me, 2 on the first date and one starting on the second date. The fourth I've only seen once so we will see if she requires the cover next time.