"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**Walruscl** · 11-02-18 23:05

Now I know that there's a lot of SD's here that are focused on and looking to maximize time in the FC, often with a variety of SB's. With my first LTR SB, things were definitely oriented towards FC time, both quality and quantity. That morphed into something a little too real, and not entirely in a good way.

Different life situation now, and I find myself buying into the notion that it can be "the whole package". Certainly my current SB is in that category. Since we can spend evenings and overnights, we spend a lot of time just enjoying each other's company, and when planning dates that is the main focus. My place? Her place? Eat out? Cook for each other? Binge watch or take in a movie? While we usually cuddle and tease a bit, sex doesn't happen every date. And frankly, just like an IRL relationship, we're still working on getting on each other's wavelength when it does happen. And my past self would be out the door by now given the latter, but we're going into our third month and I'm willing to work on that given everything else is going so well.

I've had just such a great experience so far, it's a little frustrating that the social stigma is such that I basically have to keep this all to myself. No drinking buddy to share how she is pretty but in an unglamorous way, which makes her all the more attractive. How, in contrast, her body is a work of art. Sharing how I had almost a schoolboy crush on her for the first few weeks. How right it felt when it clicked, right down to the paint colors she used in her apartment. How effortless conversations are. How it gets better every time we are together, and we open up to each other a little more. How exciting it is that we have our first weekend trip together soon. How, despite all this NRE ("New Relationship Energy") I am fully aware that this is not an IRL relationship, and am careful to keep some emotional distance.

So am I the only one with this problem? There is, of course, this forum as an outlet. But there's the oversharing problem (which I'm doing a little bit in this post) that limits how much can be said in confidence.

Who do you turn to when your SB just rocks your world and all you want to do is share the experience with someone?

**BrazzerToFive** · 11-01-18 15:20

Originally Posted by CantWinLosin [View Original Post]

She's had a few profiles on SA, and I've exchanged msgs with her twice over the last 3 or so years she's been around. She has major GPS (some might say she should, considering her stunning looks) and an attitude to go with it.

Definite GPS and agree that one could say she's worth it, within reason.

**Unassuming2018** · 11-01-18 14:20

Originally Posted by CantWinLosin [View Original Post]

She's had a few profiles on SA, and I've exchanged msgs with her twice over the last 3 or so years she's been around. She has major GPS (some might say she should, considering her stunning looks) and an attitude to go with it.

Appreciate all the backup. I shall tread carefully.

**CantWinLosin** · 11-01-18 13:54

Originally Posted by Unassuming2018 [View Original Post]

Hey all. Got a meet set up with this one. Kinda feeling there is going to be some GPS involved. Anyone have any information perhaps?

https://www.seeking.com/member/bf351...a-fe85ea0df1cd

She's had a few profiles on SA, and I've exchanged msgs with her twice over the last 3 or so years she's been around. She has major GPS (some might say she should, considering her stunning looks) and an attitude to go with it.

**BagIt** · 11-01-18 10:04

Originally Posted by LoriTruck [View Original Post]

I am a premium member. I can search profiles. The moment I click on a profile it takes me to the login screen. This issue also happens when I click on a message in my inbox. As soon as I click on a message, it logs me out and takes me to the login screen. Anyone else experience this issue? Have I been reported? Has my account been suspended? I have submitted a support ticket.

I was having the issue but it has cleared up now.

**GolfMan57** · 11-01-18 09:59

Originally Posted by LoriTruck [View Original Post]

I am a premium member. I can search profiles. The moment I click on a profile it takes me to the login screen. This issue also happens when I click on a message in my inbox. As soon as I click on a message, it logs me out and takes me to the login screen. Anyone else experience this issue? Have I been reported? Has my account been suspended? I have submitted a support ticket.

I am having the same problem and thought the same thing. I did submit a help ticket also. So it looks like it is their problem,.

**LoriTruck** · 11-01-18 09:20

I am a premium member. I can search profiles. The moment I click on a profile it takes me to the login screen. This issue also happens when I click on a message in my inbox. As soon as I click on a message, it logs me out and takes me to the login screen. Anyone else experience this issue? Have I been reported? Has my account been suspended? I have submitted a support ticket.

**RVASpider** · 10-31-18 23:34

Originally Posted by Unassuming2018 [View Original Post]

Hey all. Got a meet set up with this one. Kinda feeling there is going to be some GPS involved. Anyone have any information perhaps?

https://www.seeking.com/member/bf351...a-fe85ea0df1cd

When are you meeting with her? By the time I would bring up an allowance, she would have a new account and disappear for a while. Let us know what she wants for an allowance. Thanks!

**RVASpider** · 10-31-18 23:33

Originally Posted by MrBobDobalina [View Original Post]

I'll be in Richmond for business and have been messaging a couple potentials about meeting. I've texted with her and an "allowance" has not been negotiated. She seems ready to go right to the FC. Any intel from the Richmond forum brothers is appreciated.

https://www.seeking.com/member/4464c...4-5dc8230d5658

Let me know what you find out. I just started talking to her on the site.

**Tidad** · 10-30-18 21:44

Originally Posted by Unassuming2018 [View Original Post]

Hey all. Got a meet set up with this one. Kinda feeling there is going to be some GPS involved. Anyone have any information perhaps?

https://www.seeking.com/member/bf351...a-fe85ea0df1cd

Of course there is gps:

She's a stripper turning tricks; every day at work dudes tell her how hot she is in the only way that counts, with their wallets. Now she is offering the hot wet goodness; its going to cost.

**EasyeOne** · 10-30-18 18:10

Originally Posted by Unassuming2018 [View Original Post]

Hey all. Got a meet set up with this one. Kinda feeling there is going to be some GPS involved. Anyone have any information perhaps?

https://www.seeking.com/member/bf351...a-fe85ea0df1cd

Never had luck since I was not trying to pay to just date with nothing in return (build up to it). Things might have changed but that's like her third or fourth account. Strips downtown or use to and sells nudes on snap. Keep us posted though, hope it works out for you!

**Unassuming2018** · 10-30-18 15:37

Hey all. Got a meet set up with this one. Kinda feeling there is going to be some GPS involved. Anyone have any information perhaps?

https://www.seeking.com/member/bf351...a-fe85ea0df1cd

**MrBobDobalina** · 10-30-18 15:13

I'll be in Richmond for business and have been messaging a couple potentials about meeting. I've texted with her and an "allowance" has not been negotiated. She seems ready to go right to the FC. Any intel from the Richmond forum brothers is appreciated.

https://www.seeking.com/member/4464c...4-5dc8230d5658

**TomDickNHarry** · 10-30-18 10:05

Originally Posted by Zcochran00 [View Original Post]

Interesting. Blocks now seem to be permanent. Clicking the "Block" button pops up a dialog warning it can't be reversed and asking if you want to hide instead. There used to be a list of blocked members under the Settings menu, but that seems to have disappeared. Wonder why that changed?

So when you report a profile it automatically blocks the profile for you. Since you used to be able to undo your blocks, you could check and see if the site did anything about your complaint and deleted that profile, which they used to do at least sometimes. Now, they absolutely never delete profiles even for the fakes and scammers and online only's, no matter how many people report them, which is something many have been complaining to them about.

I suspect this change is so that once you report a profile and they block it for you, you can't check to see if they did anything about it. They obviously won't, but problem solved from their end because now you can't find out. Just another way in which the site is degrading and why it's been overrun with scammers, fake profiles and girls seeking "online only" (whatever the hell that is and whatever losers enjoy that).

**Zcochran00** · 10-28-18 19:44

Interesting. Blocks now seem to be permanent. Clicking the "Block" button pops up a dialog warning it can't be reversed and asking if you want to hide instead. There used to be a list of blocked members under the Settings menu, but that seems to have disappeared. Wonder why that changed?