The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

[Pubb69]

I'd love to join the fun. Newer / infrequent member but try to be helpful when I can!

That's good, this section needs to be more active. If guys want to keep the good ones to themselves that's ok but we need to call out the frauds and timewasters on that site.

[Curious22]

Hello guys. Sorry but the event has unfortunately been postponed for today. I became under the weather and trying to map out a GB was to much! Haha. I've responded to the guys who sent me PM's. She's super eager to do this again so we will try for next week.

I'd love to join the fun. Newer / infrequent member but try to be helpful when I can!

[ChevyGuy03]

Hey guys. It's that time again. My favorite SA sugar baby is ready to try her next group set up. Looking to possibly do this on Thursday of this week around noon. Message me if you are interested and we will talk details. It was a great time last time and she would like even more this time.

Hello guys. Sorry but the event has unfortunately been postponed for today. I became under the weather and trying to map out a GB was to much! Haha. I've responded to the guys who sent me PM's. She's super eager to do this again so we will try for next week.

[DoggieFan]

Even married or with SO, doesn't mean you can't post a body picture. That's what I do and then send private pics via (dummy) email when requested.

Also, great advice on not "rushing it"; nothing turns them off faster than a guy offering x for why, IMO, 10 minutes into a conversation. Coffee / lunch for a meet / greet is usually the way to go.

Great advice. I hear Dad Bods are in. LOL.

[VincentCor74]

Great advice.

Unfortunately, for those of us with a SO or married the pic on the site is a no go.

I have cultivated three SB over the last three years. A 23 year old UNCW student tha I saw for two & a half years, an ebony 22 year old model, single Mom with 4 year old twins in Tidewater Virginia that only lasted a month and a 23 year old stripper in Raleigh that moved to Fayetteville that I've been seeing for over two years.

The UNCW stunner I cultivated at the bar in Wilmington I hang out at when there on business. Took several platonic coffees &.

& lunches to move to the FC. If I had rushed it she told me later I would have been like all the other older creeps that hit on her.

& she wouldn't have given me the time of day.

The ebony model I meet at an auto repair place. She had to leave her car & I gave her a ride to the rental car place. She was stressing on how she was going to pay for her repairs. Of course I hinted there might be a way but I didn't want to offend her.

I miss her but after a quick initial car date BBBJCIM we did five hotel dates in about three weeks. She seemed like such a sweetheart, I let my guard down and fronted her $$$ to get a tat she wanted. Dumb move, you know the rest.

The stripper I chatted up at TGC in Raleigh summer of 2016. She came and sat down, just talked bought her a drink. I mentioned I think it's criminal what the clubs make off the girls and that's why I only see them in hotels so they get all the cash. She gave me her number. She was only into chicks but eventually got to FC. She wasn't lying. So tight I almost couldn't get in and I'm average size. Still see her now & then.

UNCW college girl said bye about a month ago. Engaged to her live in BF.

Ebony model stopped answering my texts.

Sorry, can't share digits so please don't blow up my PM.

My point is if I was 30 ish, good looking & single my sex life would be so much easier.

I invested a lot of time in UNCW college girl. Time & money in the stripper to get to the promised land🤷127995;8205;9794;65039;128524;.

Even married or with SO, doesn't mean you can't post a body picture. That's what I do and then send private pics via (dummy) email when requested.

Also, great advice on not "rushing it"; nothing turns them off faster than a guy offering x for why, IMO, 10 minutes into a conversation. Coffee / lunch for a meet / greet is usually the way to go.

[Ral613]

Great advice.

Unfortunately, for those of us with a SO or married the pic on the site is a no go.

I have cultivated three SB over the last three years. A 23 year old UNCW student tha I saw for two & a half years, an ebony 22 year old model, single Mom with 4 year old twins in Tidewater Virginia that only lasted a month and a 23 year old stripper in Raleigh that moved to Fayetteville that I've been seeing for over two years.

The UNCW stunner I cultivated at the bar in Wilmington I hang out at when there on business. Took several platonic coffees &.

& lunches to move to the FC. If I had rushed it she told me later I would have been like all the other older creeps that hit on her.

& she wouldn't have given me the time of day.

The ebony model I meet at an auto repair place. She had to leave her car & I gave her a ride to the rental car place. She was stressing on how she was going to pay for her repairs. Of course I hinted there might be a way but I didn't want to offend her.

I miss her but after a quick initial car date BBBJCIM we did five hotel dates in about three weeks. She seemed like such a sweetheart, I let my guard down and fronted her $$$ to get a tat she wanted. Dumb move, you know the rest.

The stripper I chatted up at TGC in Raleigh summer of 2016. She came and sat down, just talked bought her a drink. I mentioned I think it's criminal what the clubs make off the girls and that's why I only see them in hotels so they get all the cash. She gave me her number. She was only into chicks but eventually got to FC. She wasn't lying. So tight I almost couldn't get in and I'm average size. Still see her now & then.

UNCW college girl said bye about a month ago. Engaged to her live in BF.

Ebony model stopped answering my texts.

Sorry, can't share digits so please don't blow up my PM.

My point is if I was 30 ish, good looking & single my sex life would be so much easier.

I invested a lot of time in UNCW college girl. Time & money in the stripper to get to the promised land🤷127995;8205;9794;65039;128524;.

I appreciate this post. Attractive, fit, successful (bored at times) but no longer 30 or single. FS is out there for the taking, but identifying and cultivating someone that you can take a limited but genuine interest in (because they are also interesting at some level) is part of the intrigue / fun. If a SB isn't cool or even excited for a low-key meet ad greet, a lunch or cocktail and conversation; then I assume it's all transactional and potentially high-volume (not to mention shallow and boring). I'd rather enjoy the search, take an interest, anticipate needs and have it be as organic as possible. I'm not just paying for action (there's another forum for that), but for discretion and intrigue.

[DoggieFan]

GUYS I'm literlly writting this from my hotel room, eatting dominos and recovering from a hell of a Good fuck, I upgraded yesturday and today I got laid with a HOT SMOKING 19 year old when I saw her in person I felt like I hit the JACKPOT, she has no car so I picked her up a block away from her house where she stays with her parents I'm still shocked on how hot this girl is she has this young very developed body with some nice C cups and an ass to die for, I'm about to get hard just talking about it anyways I brought her to the hotel and played with her for 2 rounds she stayed here for about 3 hours and half just chilling and talking about random stuff, and I only gave her $. 40 I kinda felt bad I wish I had gotten more cash out of the atm and at least give her a good tip cause she did deserved it, one thing that is interesting I asked how she picked her guys cause she was the one that messaged me, and she said she only pick guys that she is attracted to and that DO NOT have a creepy vibe, and here comes another question that I asked her.

How do you know if a guy has a creepy vibe or not before you even meet them?? And SHE REPLIES: well I usually text with them for a bit and if they start talking about some vulgar shit and seem desperate I automatically shut them down and lose interest in them!! So I hope you guys are writting down some HINTS on how not to come off as a creep while talking to these girls apparently some of them get turned off by.

Talking about adult acts. I'm not an experienced sugar daddy but the TWO times that I have subscribe to the site I have pulled some SMOKING hot girls and I have another 20 year old UNC student that wants to meet up this Thursday I will let you guys know how that goes but I want to LIST some FACTS that I'ev notice about this website!

FACT #1 : the younger and better looking you are, the more chances of pulling good pussy you will have and if they are attracted to you is easier to talk them down into a cheaper donation!

(Guys I am by no means a fuckign model, I consider myself pretty average I'm in my early 30's and everytime I go on the hunt I am Well groomed, I smell good and I am extremely polite and I absolutelly watch the way I talk with these chicks, I do NOT mention any adult acts until I am in person in the room hotel with them the only question I ask while texting is Are you clean? Cause I test my self every 3 months and I don't want any STDs that's about the only thing I tell them and that gives them a hint of what I want without coming off desperate or as a perv).

FACT #2 : profile pictures if you are that one guy that has NO picture on your profile, you have already FAILED before you even started, good luck finding a gal with no pics on your profile!!

FACT #3 : witch takes you back to fact 1 Either have some decent looks or have some BIG COINS to trow at these CHICKS, Looks do matter fellas and if you been hit with the ugly stick better have some coin to compensate for that, Do not look for short cut cause there is NONE keep in mind that this doesn't apply to escorts on the other side escorts have a flat rate and will eventually take just about anybody but the sugar babies that are young and even live with their parents and have little to no financial responsibilities they think differently and once you understand this concept you will understand the game.

FACT #4 : last but not least you need to Learn how to text and negociate with them, just like I have stated it before watch the way you text DO NOT be that guys texting stuff like: so you going to suck this and swallow and you going to let me suck that, NOOO stop that you can ask a question that is on TOPIC but that does not make you look like some desperate perv.

Anyways I hope this helps anybody everyones experience may vary one FACT about this Whole thing is that is always a YMMV type of experience these girls are out there, they are REAL wish you guys the best and happy hunting!!

Great advice.

Unfortunately, for those of us with a SO or married the pic on the site is a no go.

I have cultivated three SB over the last three years. A 23 year old UNCW student tha I saw for two & a half years, an ebony 22 year old model, single Mom with 4 year old twins in Tidewater Virginia that only lasted a month and a 23 year old stripper in Raleigh that moved to Fayetteville that I've been seeing for over two years.

The UNCW stunner I cultivated at the bar in Wilmington I hang out at when there on business. Took several platonic coffees &.

& lunches to move to the FC. If I had rushed it she told me later I would have been like all the other older creeps that hit on her.

& she wouldn't have given me the time of day.

The ebony model I meet at an auto repair place. She had to leave her car & I gave her a ride to the rental car place. She was stressing on how she was going to pay for her repairs. Of course I hinted there might be a way but I didn't want to offend her.

I miss her but after a quick initial car date BBBJCIM we did five hotel dates in about three weeks. She seemed like such a sweetheart, I let my guard down and fronted her $$$ to get a tat she wanted. Dumb move, you know the rest.

The stripper I chatted up at TGC in Raleigh summer of 2016. She came and sat down, just talked bought her a drink. I mentioned I think it's criminal what the clubs make off the girls and that's why I only see them in hotels so they get all the cash. She gave me her number. She was only into chicks but eventually got to FC. She wasn't lying. So tight I almost couldn't get in and I'm average size. Still see her now & then.

UNCW college girl said bye about a month ago. Engaged to her live in BF.

Ebony model stopped answering my texts.

Sorry, can't share digits so please don't blow up my PM.

My point is if I was 30 ish, good looking & single my sex life would be so much easier.

I invested a lot of time in UNCW college girl. Time & money in the stripper to get to the promised land🤷127995;8205;9794;65039;128524;.

[Wheaton278]

Had another one today try to pull the empty gas tank send money to me so I can visit.

Scam. I wonder how many times they pull it off on brainless guys on that site? I have run into at least 20 on there, they must network among themselves in college and come up with these rocket science ideas.

Almost too many times to count. But it makes it easy for me to realize when I'm wasting my time on them. I've always tried to spark it up with several sbs at once because I know several will be total wastes of time, the bad part is when you line up several good ones at once and you are going through 1 k a week trying to see 4 steadily so you don't lose them. I'll be broke by next Tuesday.

[Pubb69]

Thank you for the kind advice yaya! I should have stated that a little differently, it wasn't up front. I'm fresh in the Raleigh game but I've been in the sugar bowl for 4 years and have had some amazing experiences and been face to face with too many scammers. I'm very cautious about keeping an even scorecard between me and any sb. But I always appreciate my brothers watching out for me! I hope to never have to report back that I fell for a scam.

Had another one today try to pull the empty gas tank send money to me so I can visit.

Scam. I wonder how many times they pull it off on brainless guys on that site? I have run into at least 20 on there, they must network among themselves in college and come up with these rocket science ideas.

[Wheaton278]

Agree with this post. It's awesome you have something promising lined up, but NEVER pay up front unless you've already been together a few months, have developed trust, and you don't mind if she disappears with all of it.

In my experience a good way around a large lump sum $ request by a SB would be to break it down in an assertive manner, such as 'You need 700 for rent this month? Sure, let's meet every week and I'll give you $200 per week and you can get that paid easy!" or 'Sorry to hear your car is in the shop! Put it on your parent's / friend's credit card and you'll have it paid off when the statement comes no problem with the cash I give you every week. In fact we can even meet tomorrow!' BTW Both these were real life past situations with hot college girls that could have turned ugly by saying 'no', but by saying 'yes' and making the terms sound easy, trust and appreciation is built and everyone wins!

Yaya.

Thank you for the kind advice yaya! I should have stated that a little differently, it wasn't up front. I'm fresh in the Raleigh game but I've been in the sugar bowl for 4 years and have had some amazing experiences and been face to face with too many scammers. I'm very cautious about keeping an even scorecard between me and any sb. But I always appreciate my brothers watching out for me! I hope to never have to report back that I fell for a scam.

[Wheaton278]

Be careful, Wheaton, with College Girl. I understand that rules are made to be broken, but you have to know the rule and know when it makes sense to break it. You are breaking the SB / SD accounting rule PR. In accounting, AR is Accounts Receivable which is money owed for services delivered. In the SB / SD arena, PR is Poontang Receivable which is services delivered before money is owed. You are setting yourself up for a major lesson. Do a little reading on this forum and understand the scams out there. At least, negotiate half now and half later. Good luck, my friend.

I guess I should have clarified that. It's 700 a month total. Not up front. It's installments so if we don't meet, she falls behind. I appreciate the warning, and I totally agree, you can't let anyone get ahead on you or they will cut ties and run. I'm always a "I'll give you a portion each time we meet" kinda guy.

That being said, I managed to score another amazing find that I don't mind sharing with seniors also willing to share, because while crazy hot, she was not the best lay and she is constant on the 420. Too much for me.

[ChasingPuppy]

I banged this one earlier this year. Tall, but much bigger than her pics. Nothing to write home about. I had the same experience as you did. When I did not see her anymore, she used another phone number to text me to tell me how bad I was.

Sorry it happened to you too! Also kind of glad to hear that it wasn't just me? She's good at laying down the guilt!

[Ntcuonghm1]

I banged this one earlier this year. Tall, but much bigger than her pics. Nothing to write home about. I had the same experience as you did. When I did not see her anymore, she used another phone number to text me to tell me how bad I was.

Look out for this girl. She seems nice at first but then starts making up emergencies and asking for money. When you say no she gets her 'friends' to start texting you telling you what a bad person you are. Avoid!

https://www.seeking.com/member/b7c3a...d-6237d42e11a8

[ChevyGuy03]

Hey guys. It's that time again. My favorite SA sugar baby is ready to try her next group set up. Looking to possibly do this on Thursday of this week around noon. Message me if you are interested and we will talk details. It was a great time last time and she would like even more this time.

[ChevyGuy03]

Hey guys. It's that time again. My favorite SA sugar baby is ready to try her next group set up. Looking to possibly do this on Thursday of this week around noon. Message me if you are interested and we will talk details. It was a great time last time and she would like even more this time.