"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[BookerTNelson]

Saw on an SA profile today, she mentioned a SD blacklist. Anyone have any info on this? Need to make sure I'm not on it. LOL thanks.

A few pop up with a google search. They're kind of funny to skim through if you have 10-15 minutes LOL.

[Madaboutmax]

Most people need to be aware that this site is visible and searchable by search engines like Google and Bing. If you write a post with their full username it can be found by a simple search.

From a post I made on another board:

I don't underestimate people's, especially the younger generations, use of search engines like Google. I expect many will Google their own username and the username of people they are talking to. *.

I've done the same and found contact information for girls on SA, outside of SA. Many will use the same username in multiple places like Pof, Okcupid, instagram, twitter, gmail, Yahoo, etc. *.

I regularly Google my own username to know if I'm being talked about on any forums or sites. *.

In the past week, I've had SBs in two different cities I've been messaging tell me someone posted pics / messages about them on "an escort website", one specifically referred to USASG.

[FarFarAway]

If she has all the money of the world why does she needs more from some activities very risky? She just needs company and good sex but she put high price for her pussy to just those who can pay the entry price can contact her I think if she likes you might you won't have to pay high money or might be no money all total unicorn

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I don't understand much of this answer, but to clarify, her relationship w / the other guy is over, and she's trying to make ends meet. She is attractive enough to command a lot, I think you'd agree.

[TheMarto1]

If she has all the money of the world why does she needs more from some activities very risky? She just needs company and good sex but she put high price for her pussy to just those who can pay the entry price can contact her I think if she likes you might you won't have to pay high money or might be no money all total unicorn

I am seeking advice / strategy from seasoned SDs here. The target is a unicorn. 30's single mom, absolutely stunning, model quality, classy, lithe body, anatomy that is my ideal. Very simple-minded cosmetologist. Not anything like any other SB I have met off SA. She has a profile several years old, but on and off the site I take it. Reports a 4 year relationship (not arrangement) w / an independently wealthy married older guy. I see this girl as utterly without guile. She's not that experienced sexually, even shy about it.

She does have high $ expectations, but agreed to see me for what I could afford, 1 K / mo. I am supernice to all my SBs, I bought her a gift or two in addition to the sugar. I spent a month+ w / her and FCed once, + many other dates. A few things kept us apart for a while, then messaging just stopped, but she recently got back in touch. I usually interpret a revival of interest as horny and / or broke. It's not just first of month rent, though. Our first time she asked and I agreed to a pricey beach resort hotel room, but ongoing I would like her to host when her kid is with daddy. How do I play this?

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[Ernest Ll]

In the past week, I've had SBs in two different cities I've been messaging tell me someone posted pics / messages about them on "an escort website", one specifically referred to USASG.

[Tidad]

I am seeking advice / strategy from seasoned SDs here. The target is a unicorn. 30's single mom, absolutely stunning, model quality, classy, lithe body, anatomy that is my ideal. Very simple-minded cosmetologist. Not anything like any other SB I have met off SA. She has a profile several years old, but on and off the site I take it. Reports a 4 year relationship (not arrangement) w / an independently wealthy married older guy. I see this girl as utterly without guile. She's not that experienced sexually, even shy about it.

She does have high $ expectations, but agreed to see me for what I could afford, 1 K / mo. I am supernice to all my SBs, I bought her a gift or two in addition to the sugar. I spent a month+ w / her and FCed once, + many other dates. A few things kept us apart for a while, then messaging just stopped, but she recently got back in touch. I usually interpret a revival of interest as horny and / or broke. It's not just first of month rent, though. Our first time she asked and I agreed to a pricey beach resort hotel room, but ongoing I would like her to host when her kid is with daddy. How do I play this?

You spent a month with her? Paid $1000 plus gifts and paid for many dates and you went to the FC one time?

So I'm guessing the money total is closer to $2500? For ONE go?

You need to have 5 or 6 GREAT trips to the FC before any more payments happen. Ok, sure maybe pay for drinks ect but she is juicing you hard. At this point it's FC or walk and block her.

[RedBaron69]

Saw on an SA profile today, she mentioned a SD blacklist. Anyone have any info on this? Need to make sure I'm not on it. LOL thanks.

[FarFarAway]

I am seeking advice / strategy from seasoned SDs here. The target is a unicorn. 30's single mom, absolutely stunning, model quality, classy, lithe body, anatomy that is my ideal. Very simple-minded cosmetologist. Not anything like any other SB I have met off SA. She has a profile several years old, but on and off the site I take it. Reports a 4 year relationship (not arrangement) w / an independently wealthy married older guy. I see this girl as utterly without guile. She's not that experienced sexually, even shy about it.

She does have high $ expectations, but agreed to see me for what I could afford, 1 K / mo. I am supernice to all my SBs, I bought her a gift or two in addition to the sugar. I spent a month+ w / her and FCed once, + many other dates. A few things kept us apart for a while, then messaging just stopped, but she recently got back in touch. I usually interpret a revival of interest as horny and / or broke. It's not just first of month rent, though. Our first time she asked and I agreed to a pricey beach resort hotel room, but ongoing I would like her to host when her kid is with daddy. How do I play this?

[InTight]

If you are going to be truly anonymous use BitCoin. With a free web base email (use Mail.com not G-Mail) and a Bitcoin wallet on your phone you can transfer $ to SA that can't be traced to anyone. I bought BitCoin at a machine in a gas station then transferred it to my phone app and used it from there. I just went through the process to update my VPN and NewsService entirely anonymously. Simple process once you have figured it out. If there is interest I can explain it on the board or try to put something together to PM those interested.

Seems I only have one request by PM so I will send that monger my text document. It is long and detailed but the process is rather simple once you have done it. Others interested can PM me.

[CantWinLosin]

Pardon my ignorance but can you tell me what FC refers to? I could not find listed in abbreviations area.

FC = F*ck Chamber.

[Madaboutmax]

FC = "F**k Chamber".

Pardon my ignorance but can you tell me what FC refers to? I could not find listed in abbreviations area.

[DL500]

I've only had one M&G that didn't lead straight to the FC but I gave her a $25 Starbucks card and we agreed to meet but I decided I wasn't interested after meeting in person (see, M&Gs go both ways gents). But I'm also pretty up front with my expectations and don't pull the trigger until I've found one that I'm serious about bedding. To each his own and this takes quite a bit of time to find the right SB but they're out there.

Pardon my ignorance but can you tell me what FC refers to? I could not find listed in abbreviations area.

[InTight]

If you are going to be truly anonymous use BitCoin. With a free web base email (use Mail.com not G-Mail) and a Bitcoin wallet on your phone you can transfer $ to SA that can't be traced to anyone. I bought BitCoin at a machine in a gas station then transferred it to my phone app and used it from there. I just went through the process to update my VPN and NewsService entirely anonymously. Simple process once you have figured it out. If there is interest I can explain it on the board or try to put something together to PM those interested.

[Tidad]

So today my last remaining VCU utr told me a tidbit of news. A friend of a friend, described as "she was a jock in high school: cheerleader, swimming and soccer and she used to be on the dance team, well now she likes coke more than sports and she is a slutty barely legal porn star looking blonde". So this young lady has 2 or 3 sugar daddys that keep her supplied and pay the bills. Apparently she got busted recently and seems none the worse for wear, saying that she got it worked out. If the girl sounds familiar and you are the snow man, maybe take a step back.

DO NOT ASK ME FOR MORE DETAILS. I DO NOT HAVE ANY, I DO NOT KNOW THE GIRL AND I DO NOT WANT TO KNOW THE GIRL. AND MY UTR IS NOT LOOKING TO HAVE HER INFO SHARED, DO NOT ASK.

[Walruscl]

"mutually beneficial" and "NSA" but platonic? What the hell is that? Who has friends that are mutually beneficial and NSA? Also, she has to like you and be entertained by you (dance monkey, dance), and be paid for it. What is wrong with these girls? The sense of entitlement is downright repulsive.

As pointed out by others in this thread, profiles like that can be smokescreens for the girl to have plausible deniability if she's outed as a participant on the site.

On the other hand, there are in fact men who will agree to that. My current SB, who is one of the most straight-shooting, forthright people I've met, claims that her other current SD is a Skype-only arrangement and completely platonic. She hasn't shared more detail than that, so I don't know if they just talk or whether it gets into sort of a private webcam dynamic. I will say that she is a joy to be around and stimulating to talk to, so I can't totally fault the guy, but I personally would not be satisfied with that. And neither would 99% of the potential SD's I imagine.

This is one of the few that I went monthly, which has the advantage that we can meet regularly without the pressure that every encounter must not be entirely platonic. Things do get physical more often than not, but sometimes it only goes to the level of physical flirting. And while that's not normally what I'm after, I'm totally cool with a more casual arrangement with this one. To quote Billy Joel: "She's got a way about her".