Sugar Babies

[JohnStillBored]

Just to see her.

Ok. I can't help you then. You have to be a member to see other members. Not my rule. For those of us who are members though, stay clear.

[Myrtle Beach]

https://www.seeking.com/member/53d11...e-87b534163e52

Stay away from this one boys. In what is explicitly a give and take operation, she's all take. Save yourself the hassle and find a better girl.

Just to see her.

[JohnStillBored]

https://www.seeking.com/member/53d11...e-87b534163e52

Stay away from this one boys. In what is explicitly a give and take operation, she's all take. Save yourself the hassle and find a better girl.

[DrSummer]

It is a numbers game. Message as many potential girls as possible and screen. Also it is a location and time. In my experience Savannah is the best place around here favorable towards SDs. Of course it is a long drive from Charleston. Timing is also a key. First few days of the month. The rent is due. Girls who have not made up their mind will make up their mind when they face the potential of being kicked out of the apartment. It has happened to me several times. Girls I thought I had no chance due to allowance or anything else will keep on texting you when rent is due. Don't ever end your communication with a potential in a sour note even if she rejects you. Tell her "thanks for your time and good luck. If you change your mind contact me". I have had several coming back to me agreeing with a lower allowance and better terms.

Stay Safe.

Dr. S.

It can get frustrating and there are times when I have no interactions with anyone because I have messaged all the girls in Charleston that I'm interested in so it feels like the $89/ month is wasted. I still find myself going back because every now and then you will find a gem who makes it all worthwhile. I will try some of the tips Dr. Posted and get back. PM if you want some girls who I consider easier and willing to meet after an agreed upon amount.

[Anonymous Mike]

FC = Fuck Chamber.

Ahhh. LOL.

[DrSummer]

FC = Fuck Chamber.

FC? Full Coitus?

[Anonymous Mike]

FC? Full Coitus?

[Wang13]

For the helpful post and tips! I've been using SA for a little over a year as well and have experienced the ebbs and flows of finding girls on the site. While the quality of women on there is certainly better, you will have to put in a lot of legwork upfront to reap the rewards as you can see.

I'm unfortunately tight with time and usually can't go to this level of involvement initially to make them feel comfortable and getting to know each other. My eye is on the prize but a majority of the girls will not respond back if you mention your true intentions. I've had some success of finding girls that are straight to the point and willing to negotiate and meet but not many. Most want to be wined and dined on your behalf without having to give up the cookie at the end.

It can get frustrating and there are times when I have no interactions with anyone because I have messaged all the girls in Charleston that I'm interested in so it feels like the $89/ month is wasted. I still find myself going back because every now and then you will find a gem who makes it all worthwhile. I will try some of the tips Dr. Posted and get back. PM if you want some girls who I consider easier and willing to meet after an agreed upon amount.

I am by no means an expert in sugaring scene. Only had about an year of experience using SA. I got screwed up few times (early on), but learnt from mistakes, and learned skills and art of taking these girls to FC. Many sent me PMs asking for advice, so I thought of writing this.

What I explain below applies only if you are looking for what I call a true SB from SA, and who you want to have repeated dates. I don't look for Escorts or one time deals there. You can find them there, but the approach is different. I know all these girls give pussy for money, but I am looking for a different type of girl than a BP girl.

1. Pay $90 and be a premium member. If you can't afford $90 per month to be a member, you can't afford to be a true SD.

2. Spend sometime on setting up your profile. Make your profile appealing to girls. Be simple and up to the point, but attractive. Don't lie and exaggerate about you in your profile. We don't like when girls lie on their profile, girls do too. Having at least one photo is advantageous. I have just one photo as public photo (with no face identification). But I tell them I can send additional photos after chatting and get comfortable.

3. Cast a wide net, message as many as possible SBs that you are interested. It is a numbers game.

4. Write a good first message. Again keep it simple and short, but enough details to tell what you are looking for. Show that you read her profile and say something specific about her. Make it personable. Be respectful and show that you are not a creep. My biggest challenge is getting them to respond.

5. If they respond, my second message is to set up ground rules (no online crap, set a reasonable time limit to meet up etc). Show that you are serious and you want them to be serious. Most flakes and scammers drop out after my second message.

6. I tell them if they can't meet up within a week, message me back when they are ready to meet within a week. If they agree, now I have a potential SB that I can work on.

7. Try to switch communications to text or personal e-mails as soon as possible. Don't talk about allowance in SA chat. You will get banned.

8. Don't bring up the "allowance" issue yourself. Most girls will bring it up before meet. Say you can't promise anything. If they insist, give a range and say you have to meet her to finalize a number. But, try to avoid it until meet as much as possible. If you are appealing to her, she may agree for a lower allowance. My typical allowance is 200-300 per meet.

9. Set up a meet as early as possible. Communicate date, time, and place properly. Confirm with her day prior to the meet to make sure the meet is still going to happen. Never agree to pay for meet and greet. If they insist, drop her.

10. I always go for a coffee for the first meet. Some girls insist on lunch or dinner instead of coffee. Drop them. They are just looking for a free meal.

11. Be on time for the meet. Arrive on time and present yourself well. First impression is everything. Within 5 min of meeting, she is going to decide if she is going to fuck you or not. Listen to her rather than you talking. You can get clues what she is really looking for. Be upfront and about what your expectations are, and communicate to her.

12. Some may agree to go to FC right after, some may not. Be patient, you may need one or two "platonic" dates before hitting FC with some girls. If the girl is attractive enough, I would do it. But, I never pay allowance for those dates. They may talk about chemistry, getting to know each other etc. Tell them it is Ok, but they can't expect allowance for that. Most girls are Ok with that if they are serious. I of course pay for meal, drinks etc. And Uber charges or gas money. That's it.

13. If you can't take her to FC on the third time you meet, it is never going to happen.

14. Give them a reasonable allowance. Don't be a jerk and try to negotiate to last $5. Treat her well, most girls treat you back the same way. But, always be vigilant, and don't trust her 100%.

15. Give a small present to her once in a while in addition to allowance (flowers, dresses etc).

16. If you have to use a hotel room for FC, don't take her to cheap motels. Show your class a bit and get a decent hotel room. I typically spend at least 2 hrs in FC, and at least 2 pops.

Hope this helps. There are nice girls out there if you take the time and effort to find them.

Stay Safe.

Dr. S.

[DrSummer]

I am by no means an expert in sugaring scene. Only had about an year of experience using SA. I got screwed up few times (early on), but learnt from mistakes, and learned skills and art of taking these girls to FC. Many sent me PMs asking for advice, so I thought of writing this.

What I explain below applies only if you are looking for what I call a true SB from SA, and who you want to have repeated dates. I don't look for Escorts or one time deals there. You can find them there, but the approach is different. I know all these girls give pussy for money, but I am looking for a different type of girl than a BP girl.

1. Pay $90 and be a premium member. If you can't afford $90 per month to be a member, you can't afford to be a true SD.

2. Spend sometime on setting up your profile. Make your profile appealing to girls. Be simple and up to the point, but attractive. Don't lie and exaggerate about you in your profile. We don't like when girls lie on their profile, girls do too. Having at least one photo is advantageous. I have just one photo as public photo (with no face identification). But I tell them I can send additional photos after chatting and get comfortable.

3. Cast a wide net, message as many as possible SBs that you are interested. It is a numbers game.

4. Write a good first message. Again keep it simple and short, but enough details to tell what you are looking for. Show that you read her profile and say something specific about her. Make it personable. Be respectful and show that you are not a creep. My biggest challenge is getting them to respond.

5. If they respond, my second message is to set up ground rules (no online crap, set a reasonable time limit to meet up etc). Show that you are serious and you want them to be serious. Most flakes and scammers drop out after my second message.

6. I tell them if they can't meet up within a week, message me back when they are ready to meet within a week. If they agree, now I have a potential SB that I can work on.

7. Try to switch communications to text or personal e-mails as soon as possible. Don't talk about allowance in SA chat. You will get banned.

8. Don't bring up the "allowance" issue yourself. Most girls will bring it up before meet. Say you can't promise anything. If they insist, give a range and say you have to meet her to finalize a number. But, try to avoid it until meet as much as possible. If you are appealing to her, she may agree for a lower allowance. My typical allowance is 200-300 per meet.

9. Set up a meet as early as possible. Communicate date, time, and place properly. Confirm with her day prior to the meet to make sure the meet is still going to happen. Never agree to pay for meet and greet. If they insist, drop her.

10. I always go for a coffee for the first meet. Some girls insist on lunch or dinner instead of coffee. Drop them. They are just looking for a free meal.

11. Be on time for the meet. Arrive on time and present yourself well. First impression is everything. Within 5 min of meeting, she is going to decide if she is going to fuck you or not. Listen to her rather than you talking. You can get clues what she is really looking for. Be upfront and about what your expectations are, and communicate to her.

12. Some may agree to go to FC right after, some may not. Be patient, you may need one or two "platonic" dates before hitting FC with some girls. If the girl is attractive enough, I would do it. But, I never pay allowance for those dates. They may talk about chemistry, getting to know each other etc. Tell them it is Ok, but they can't expect allowance for that. Most girls are Ok with that if they are serious. I of course pay for meal, drinks etc. And Uber charges or gas money. That's it.

13. If you can't take her to FC on the third time you meet, it is never going to happen.

14. Give them a reasonable allowance. Don't be a jerk and try to negotiate to last $5. Treat her well, most girls treat you back the same way. But, always be vigilant, and don't trust her 100%.

15. Give a small present to her once in a while in addition to allowance (flowers, dresses etc).

16. If you have to use a hotel room for FC, don't take her to cheap motels. Show your class a bit and get a decent hotel room. I typically spend at least 2 hrs in FC, and at least 2 pops.

Hope this helps. There are nice girls out there if you take the time and effort to find them.

Stay Safe.

Dr. S.

[JohnStillBored]

I kind of agree with you, Charleston SA scene is not favorable for SD's. I think it is more biased towards SBs. May be too many potential SDs. I cast a wide net, and I had more luck in Savannah and Columbia than Charleston. For me, girls in SCAD in Savannah worked best for me. Having said that there are still potentials in Charleston. Keep on trying and stick to the common rules. I don't give allowance until we hit FC.

Stay Safe.

Dr. S.

Agreed. I always tell them that allowance is on the table but not until we trust one another. Unfortunately, I've been burned on the whole allowance thing. Met a girl on CL a while back before they fucked it. We would meet up and I gave her $100 each time. After a while, she started calling me for $$ but wasn't able to meet up (busy, on the rag etc). She always said as soon as she was able we'd get together. That was ok but after a while, it got even more lax. She'd call me on Wednesday promising to get together Saturday or something but needed to pay her phone bill. She'd come over Saturday but act like I hadn't given her anything on Wednesday. Then she started dropping off the face of the earth for months at a time and only calling me when she needed something. I tried reaching out to her but she would only answer if she needed the cash.

Last time she called me, it had been 6 weeks of nothing from her and she wanted to meet up because she lost a bunch of hours at work due to the storm that didn't hit us. I politely told her to fuck off.

They have to earn the allowance from me.

[DrSummer]

I kind of agree with you, Charleston SA scene is not favorable for SD's. I think it is more biased towards SBs. May be too many potential SDs. I cast a wide net, and I had more luck in Savannah and Columbia than Charleston. For me, girls in SCAD in Savannah worked best for me. Having said that there are still potentials in Charleston. Keep on trying and stick to the common rules. I don't give allowance until we hit FC.

Stay Safe.

Dr. S.

I just renewed my membership after the first month expired. It's hefty ($89.95/ month) and I'm thinking it's not the best way to meet.

Recently met a girl on there who was "looking to be spoiled" because she had never been before. We went out to dinner and planned to see each other again (kind of like real dating) but she flaked before the second date.

Another, I'm currently "negotiating" with seems to be married but looking to play. Our schedules couldn't be more opposite though.

Chatting with another who wants to meet for drinks or something before anything happens. She sent me a message saying the meeting is $100.

Actually had a woman that I hadn't met yet ask me for $13,000 on her third message to me. I politely declined.

Etc. Etc. Etc.

I'll keep you guys posted on how it goes but it seems like the best ones are hard to pin down and or change their minds and go ghost pretty quickly.

[JohnStillBored]

I just renewed my membership after the first month expired. It's hefty ($89.95/ month) and I'm thinking it's not the best way to meet.

Recently met a girl on there who was "looking to be spoiled" because she had never been before. We went out to dinner and planned to see each other again (kind of like real dating) but she flaked before the second date.

Another, I'm currently "negotiating" with seems to be married but looking to play. Our schedules couldn't be more opposite though.

Chatting with another who wants to meet for drinks or something before anything happens. She sent me a message saying the meeting is $100.

Actually had a woman that I hadn't met yet ask me for $13,000 on her third message to me. I politely declined.

Etc. Etc. Etc.

I'll keep you guys posted on how it goes but it seems like the best ones are hard to pin down and or change their minds and go ghost pretty quickly.

[Islander7695]

Just payed the month premium. Going to give this site another go. Had some luck a while back with a gal from another city as I travel a lot for work. Her stop Is no longer on my route. Thought Inwould check out the local scene in Charleston again. Anyone had any luck here? I'll report back if I have anything worth while to share.

[JohnStillBored]

I've met a couple of women from this site. This was about a year ago and none of them are on the site anymore (or they've blocked me).

The first was a perpetually broke housewife who was an expert at hiding her weight in photo's. We met once. I wasn't happy that she was so chunky but I was very much in need that evening so I went through with it.

The second was more promising. We met for drinks but nothing ever came of it.

The funny thing is, I've actually seen a couple of my friends on there. One is a recent divorcee and the other was looking for more than what that site has to offer (her profile said she liked ambitious guys but I know her well enough to know why she was only a member for a few days).

Oh well, I will keep looking.

[DrSummer]

I have been chatting with her for few weeks. I noticed that she spends lots of time on the site. Still she has not committed for a meet. I found her real identify and the information on her profile matches what I found. She mentioned about expecting a gift at the meet which is a red flag for me. I did tell her my expectations that just for meet & greet I don't give allowance (although I give a small gift of around $50 if the girl doesn't ask for it). Allowance will be given only after we hit the FC. May be it threw her off. She comes across as a genuine girl, but these girls can be very good actresses. I would say treat carefully, and not give a big gift before hitting the FC.

Stay Safe.

Dr. S.

Anybody have info on BlissfulBlonde? Would love to hear, I am going to set up a meet and greet next week and some info would be helpful.

https://www.seeking.com/member/879a1...8-5bfe0904431b

Trek.