"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**Tidad** · 08-28-18 22:35

Originally Posted by LoveSmallPerky [View Original Post]

It does sound like she is interested but go slow. Ask her what she is thinking about for the mall and try some vague personal questions, word them as a curious friend that can also be taken as an interested guy. You can gauge it on how she responds, be ready to explain that your just curious and want to help her succeed / be careful if she seems a bit flustered. If she is interested, she may open up to you and you can go from there. As many younger women say, don't be creepy. Showing an interest can go well but it can be a bit difficult without crossing the line before she is ready.

Nah,

As I was telling someone else, best case for me is she starts bringing her college girlfriends to my lake house to use the boat; drinks flowing, goodtimes being had. Hopefully one or two of them don't object to a cock 20 years their senior. And hopefully they have a good time and tell their friends.

**3Putt** · 08-28-18 18:47

Originally Posted by Zcochran00 [View Original Post]

Seems like the mobile app (not the site) still lets you do a single month of premium at a time without auto-renew.

Its easy to cancel just go to settings and switch to do not renew. When your months its up.

**LoveSmallPerky** · 08-28-18 13:28

Originally Posted by Tidad [View Original Post]

My lifelong friend has asked me to check in on his daughter going to college in my city. I already creep her Instagram and this summer she friended me on fb from a second account that her parents are blocked from seeing. She has already begged me to take her to the mall, what I don't know is whether she is looking for a ride or a sponsor. A misunderstanding could be catastrophic but this could be awesome / terrible / FANTASTIC. Updates to come.

It does sound like she is interested but go slow. Ask her what she is thinking about for the mall and try some vague personal questions, word them as a curious friend that can also be taken as an interested guy. You can gauge it on how she responds, be ready to explain that your just curious and want to help her succeed / be careful if she seems a bit flustered. If she is interested, she may open up to you and you can go from there. As many younger women say, don't be creepy. Showing an interest can go well but it can be a bit difficult without crossing the line before she is ready.

**LoveSmallPerky** · 08-28-18 13:04

Originally Posted by JustLonely [View Original Post]

Anybody tried cancelling Seeking's auto renew yet? I had a devil of a time with the old SD4 Me site trying to cancel that a few years back. That place sucked big time. I am almost to the point of not bothering with Seeking anymore. The new changes they keep doing makes it less worthwhile with all the GPS and Platonic.

These are the directions that SA gave me in reply to my inquiry about it.

To cancel your auto-renewing subscription:

1. Navigate to your Settings page by clicking on your username in the top right corner then choosing Settings from the drop-down menu that appears.

2. You will see the Payments section at the bottom left of the settings list. Here you can find the Cancel Auto-Renew option.

**Ernest Ll** · 08-28-18 10:17

Originally Posted by Tidad [View Original Post]

My lifelong friend has asked me to check in on his daughter going to college in my city. I already creep her Instagram and this summer she friended me on fb from a second account that her parents are blocked from seeing. She has already begged me to take her to the mall, what I don't know is whether she is looking for a ride or a sponsor. A misunderstanding could be catastrophic but this could be awesome / terrible / FANTASTIC. Updates to come.

But they do pass her on to anonymous ***** mongers on message boards. Deets, man, deets!

**Tidad** · 08-28-18 08:13

My lifelong friend has asked me to check in on his daughter going to college in my city. I already creep her Instagram and this summer she friended me on fb from a second account that her parents are blocked from seeing. She has already begged me to take her to the mall, what I don't know is whether she is looking for a ride or a sponsor. A misunderstanding could be catastrophic but this could be awesome / terrible / FANTASTIC. Updates to come.

**Zcochran00** · 08-27-18 21:25

Originally Posted by JustLonely [View Original Post]

Anybody tried cancelling Seeking's auto renew yet? I had a devil of a time with the old SD4 Me site trying to cancel that a few years back. That place sucked big time. I am almost to the point of not bothering with Seeking anymore. The new changes they keep doing makes it less worthwhile with all the GPS and Platonic.

Seems like the mobile app (not the site) still lets you do a single month of premium at a time without auto-renew.

**Al Melrose** · 08-27-18 20:02

Originally Posted by JustLonely [View Original Post]

Anybody tried cancelling Seeking's auto renew yet? I had a devil of a time with the old SD4 Me site trying to cancel that a few years back. That place sucked big time. I am almost to the point of not bothering with Seeking anymore. The new changes they keep doing makes it less worthwhile with all the GPS and Platonic.

You just go to settings, then payments and unclick the box. Worked for me I was not billed for a second month.

**JustLonely** · 08-27-18 18:30

Anybody tried cancelling Seeking's auto renew yet? I had a devil of a time with the old SD4 Me site trying to cancel that a few years back. That place sucked big time. I am almost to the point of not bothering with Seeking anymore. The new changes they keep doing makes it less worthwhile with all the GPS and Platonic.

**Virginia Guy** · 08-27-18 17:24

End of the month. My inbox was ringing off the hook. Hot MILF, young blondes and more. Time to pay the rent and car payments. I love the attention. Now they just have to host and life would be grand. I need to buy a townhouse for a play palace. Anyone want to share?

**InTight** · 08-26-18 14:25

Originally Posted by DrSummer [View Original Post]

Yeah, I agree with your interpretation. Started messaging girls with "Nothing serious" in profile. I had dinner with one of such girls I messaged (19 yr college sophamore) yesterday. She is cute but little bigger than I expected and her photos led me to believe. I picked her up from her dorm. She started flirting with me, and ready to head to FC or do a car date right after dinner. I took a rain check (yeah, I am picky! I have few others in the works at the moment, so making the decision this weekend.

Stay Safe.

Dr. S.

I'm shocked you turned down a 19 yo pussy. I have always thought that you only have time to get so much pussy and any missed opportunity is just a missed chance and lost forever. I have to hand it to you for your resolve but fault you for not getting it when you can.

**DrSummer** · 08-26-18 10:54

Yeah, I agree with your interpretation. Started messaging girls with "Nothing serious" in profile. I had dinner with one of such girls I messaged (19 yr college sophamore) yesterday. She is cute but little bigger than I expected and her photos led me to believe. I picked her up from her dorm. She started flirting with me, and ready to head to FC or do a car date right after dinner. I took a rain check (yeah, I am picky! I have few others in the works at the moment, so making the decision this weekend.

Stay Safe.

Dr. S.

Originally Posted by Kwagmire [View Original Post]

Hey Doc. I always read "nothing serious" to mean that they don't want a committed relationship of any sort, that is, no exclusivity, she can have a BF, she can have multiple SD's, the relationship isn't the huge time commitment that dating is, but more of an occasional FB / FWB situation. So I always saw "nothing serious" as a good thing.

Maybe I'm just being hopeful. Who knows what goes on in the girl's heads anyway? .

Kwag.

**Ernest Ll** · 08-25-18 15:49

Been messaging and texting this one and she gave me a UTR vibe.

Finally met up with her when she came to CVille. Super pretty face, amazing rack, not quite as toned as pictured, but great tan and legs.

Carried her own magnums, so definitley UTR.

Good fun, but I've had better for less unless you can see her often as is her preference. Then value increases dramatically.

https://www.seeking.com/member/6b0ba...d-ec53b93ac1af

**Ernest Ll** · 08-25-18 15:46

Originally Posted by Zcochran00 [View Original Post]

So, I wound up meeting the second girl Friday evening, went home and went to bed, and went back there this morning to meet the first girl, both in the same room. Hurray for efficient use of resources!

Due to being married, I can't ever do an overnight playdate on my home field.

So my favorite SB would come out from RVA for an afternoon of banging, stay over, and I see her the next morning after the gym and before check out time. Or, like you, like up two differrent girls for AM / PM.

Just have to remember to tidy up after your PM fun if you are swapping out SBs so they don't see the cum stained towels and sheets and some blonde hairs in the bathroom.

**Zcochran00** · 08-25-18 13:16

This week I had a new prospect SB who expressed interest in meeting, but I'm mostly free evenings and she works evenings at a restaurant. I've seen some people in this thread suggest "day booking" hotel rooms, but none of the day booking sites I looked at had any listings at all in my area. She couldn't host because she's in a shared house with roommates, and I obviously wasn't going to have her over to my place for privacy reasons.

I had a bit of a brainstorm: I could get a room Friday night with a checkout time of noon Saturday, and we could meet up Saturday morning. That worked for her, so we planned on it and I went ahead and booked a room.

I then realized that if I was going to have the room Friday night anyway, I might as well get some extra use out of it There was a girl who had contacted me originally a couple weeks ago and just said "hi", and I'd responded with my usual "what are you looking for?" question. She finally responded to me yesterday, and when I said I was looking to meet and play, she immediately said she was interested. Not exactly my type, but figured I might as well see how it went. So, I told her I could meet that evening, and she was up for it.

So, I wound up meeting the second girl Friday evening, went home and went to bed, and went back there this morning to meet the first girl, both in the same room. Hurray for efficient use of resources!