Seeking Arrangements

**Longjblues** · 08-24-18 10:54

You answered your own question, "who does this", banjo man!

You take her at her word that's she is newbie and doesn't do this professionally?

She is a professional, not a scammer. If she wanted to set you up, she would control location. She wants to meet at your hotel room, so you control entrance. I have had a number of ladies initiate conversation / contact. Mostly ladies who have been doing it on regular basis.

I never meet in public.

I think you over reacted. Please provide link. Thank you.

Originally Posted by Banjomania [View Original Post]

A woman contacted me on SA today. That in and of itself is rare. Supposedly a nanny late 20's trying to pay off student loans. She had not been on a date yet on SA. So she said. But she refused to meet in public and wanted only to meet in a hotel room, for safety reasons she said. She said that a friend had been stalked by a guy she met in a bar and hotels rooms were safer. My spider sense was not comfortable. I thought, could this be a robbery? Who thinks it's safer to meet a guy you never met before in his hotel room? Something was odd, not wanting to meet in public first off SA. So I decided to pass. Anyone think I overreacted? I mean, I know regular ladies for hire do this all the time, but a woman who contacted a man off SA and had never been with one before?

**Rome400** · 08-24-18 00:27

Originally Posted by Banjomania [View Original Post]

A woman contacted me on SA today. That in and of itself is rare. Supposedly a nanny late 20's trying to pay off student loans. She had not been on a date yet on SA. So she said. But she refused to meet in public and wanted only to meet in a hotel room, for safety reasons she said. She said that a friend had been stalked by a guy she met in a bar and hotels rooms were safer. My spider sense was not comfortable. I thought, could this be a robbery? Who thinks it's safer to meet a guy you never met before in his hotel room? Something was odd, not wanting to meet in public first off SA. So I decided to pass. Anyone think I overreacted? I mean, I know regular ladies for hire do this all the time, but a woman who contacted a man off SA and had never been with one before?

Good job, not a chance in the world I would take that risk. Too many girls available on here. Some type of rob scam, doubt law enforcement would waste their time.

**FarFarAway** · 08-24-18 00:07

Originally Posted by Spike77 [View Original Post]

It's supposed to be a sugar daddy site not barter with a crack ***** site. I figured the 90 a month would filter out the ex backpage people. I wouldn't be surprised if this site gets closed down eventually.

Keep in mind the girls pay nothing, most of them. The fee filters out guys who want to hit on the drug-riddled hookers. If the ratio of the membership to the sugar is low enough, they'll be on seeking.

**Aimstraight** · 08-23-18 23:42

Don't think you over reacted at all. They could be legit but does sound like some sort of set up. Maybe even LE. I've gotten a similar message or two in the past that has triggered my spidey sense. Once I tel then I will only meet in public they block me. I'm guessing your spidey sense was right on the money.

Originally Posted by Banjomania [View Original Post]

A woman contacted me on SA today. That in and of itself is rare. Supposedly a nanny late 20's trying to pay off student loans. She had not been on a date yet on SA. So she said. But she refused to meet in public and wanted only to meet in a hotel room, for safety reasons she said. She said that a friend had been stalked by a guy she met in a bar and hotels rooms were safer. My spider sense was not comfortable. I thought, could this be a robbery? Who thinks it's safer to meet a guy you never met before in his hotel room? Something was odd, not wanting to meet in public first off SA. So I decided to pass. Anyone think I overreacted? I mean, I know regular ladies for hire do this all the time, but a woman who contacted a man off SA and had never been with one before?

**Banjomania** · 08-23-18 22:19

A woman contacted me on SA today. That in and of itself is rare. Supposedly a nanny late 20's trying to pay off student loans. She had not been on a date yet on SA. So she said. But she refused to meet in public and wanted only to meet in a hotel room, for safety reasons she said. She said that a friend had been stalked by a guy she met in a bar and hotels rooms were safer. My spider sense was not comfortable. I thought, could this be a robbery? Who thinks it's safer to meet a guy you never met before in his hotel room? Something was odd, not wanting to meet in public first off SA. So I decided to pass. Anyone think I overreacted? I mean, I know regular ladies for hire do this all the time, but a woman who contacted a man off SA and had never been with one before?

**Longjblues** · 08-23-18 10:00

My guess is that BostonMan pays them $200 and then has session with them of 2. 5 to 3 hrs, thus calculating out to $60-80 per hour.

Most of the ladies agree to a gift amount, not as to the time spent.

Originally Posted by BostonMan781 [View Original Post]

I always pickup the ladies. I'm cheap and won't pay for ride sharing. Also you are paying way too much. Don't just jump into that stuff. Talk to them a little before. I usually pay 60-80 for an hour of hang time with a lady. Sometimes more if they are really hot.

**EvilTmp** · 08-23-18 09:44

Originally Posted by JohnTies [View Original Post]

60-80 and hour? Are these college girls or older women? That's for sex? How do you get them to agree to that amount, curious?

Can answer here or pm me very curious I try to see all different points and tactics to figure out what I will do when back on in the fall.

Thanks man.

This has been discussed ad nauseam. You will not get any and every girl you want for 100-200. What you will get is a girl that likes you, is attracted to you, and enjoys spending time with you. And guess what, a girl that likes you will give you a great experience as opposed to a BP experience where she's counting the minutes until you leave. But you will say "what about the hot ones? Yes, it's true even for the hottest girls on the site. For $800 they will let Shrek touch them but for me I've never been interested in a girl that needs to hold her nose as I'm diddling her. In the end you make your own sugar bowl experience. Approach the girls like BP and you will get a BP experience. Use more finesse and game and you get a different experience (and different girls) entirely.

**JimXuper90** · 08-22-18 15:53

Originally Posted by BostonMan781 [View Original Post]

I always pickup the ladies. I'm cheap and won't pay for ride sharing. Also you are paying way too much. Don't just jump into that stuff. Talk to them a little before. I usually pay 60-80 for an hour of hang time with a lady. Sometimes more if they are really hot.

You are right. If I send uber to pickup girls from different area, it usually add up $30-$50 to the cost.

**JimXuper90** · 08-22-18 15:49

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

You're taking a real risk if you are making that $ offer on the seeking website. They are under HUGE pressure b / c of FOSTA to keep pay for play off the site. I do know of people who got banned for doing it, and your membership $ goes too if that happens. Take the talk off the site to text. Also, just my preference, if you want to treat them like cheap escorts, don't do it on seeking. I have real arrangements w / real SBs I meet on the site, I don't have any place to go if it goes down. As long as it retains credibility as a dating site, I'm happy. If it becomes just the next backpage, well, you're fine but I am hosed.

It's never a real dating site. You pay these girls for whatever service you desire. It's just a backpage that charge you $90 a month. You pay whatever price you can afford as I saw many of you laughed at people who try to keep the price low. And everybody can use they own way to approach these girls. If he can get a college go to do tag team with him for $100, good for him. I doubt SA will ban people just simply offer a price. The owner setup whatsyourprice as well. What I do was offering 100 for a date. When she asked what service the date include, I asked for cell numbers and kik for the details. When I said I got blocked for 100-200 offers, they don't even want to discuss what the offer is for after that.

**JohnTies** · 08-22-18 13:15

Originally Posted by BostonMan781 [View Original Post]

I always pickup the ladies. I'm cheap and won't pay for ride sharing. Also you are paying way too much. Don't just jump into that stuff. Talk to them a little before. I usually pay 60-80 for an hour of hang time with a lady. Sometimes more if they are really hot.

60-80 and hour? Are these college girls or older women? That's for sex? How do you get them to agree to that amount, curious?

Can answer here or pm me very curious I try to see all different points and tactics to figure out what I will do when back on in the fall.

Thanks man.

**Rome400** · 08-22-18 13:07

Originally Posted by Aardvarks [View Original Post]

Hosts in Providence. Wants $500.

https://www.seeking.com/member/22bce...8-3b79051c6c15

Question is, is anyone giving it. My max is 300 for a multiple hour encounter. But there are many girls that will give you a BBBJ for 100, just have to ask around and like previous posters said, take the negotiation off SA and do it on kik, or your text ap.

**Spike77** · 08-22-18 12:34

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

You're taking a real risk if you are making that $ offer on the seeking website. They are under HUGE pressure b / c of FOSTA to keep pay for play off the site. I do know of people who got banned for doing it, and your membership $ goes too if that happens. Take the talk off the site to text. Also, just my preference, if you want to treat them like cheap escorts, don't do it on seeking. I have real arrangements w / real SBs I meet on the site, I don't have any place to go if it goes down. As long as it retains credibility as a dating site, I'm happy. If it becomes just the next backpage, well, you're fine but I am hosed.

It's supposed to be a sugar daddy site not barter with a crack ***** site. I figured the 90 a month would filter out the ex backpage people. I wouldn't be surprised if this site gets closed down eventually.

**Davio** · 08-22-18 12:12

Originally Posted by Aardvarks [View Original Post]

Hosts in Providence. Wants $500.

https://www.seeking.com/member/22bce...8-3b79051c6c15

Have you seen her?

I am having tough time to get her to respond.

**FarFarAway** · 08-21-18 23:49

Originally Posted by JimXuper90 [View Original Post]

I got blocked for offering 100-200 as well. So don't be surprised a lot of girls are on the site to catch a whale.

You're taking a real risk if you are making that $ offer on the seeking website. They are under HUGE pressure b / c of FOSTA to keep pay for play off the site. I do know of people who got banned for doing it, and your membership $ goes too if that happens. Take the talk off the site to text. Also, just my preference, if you want to treat them like cheap escorts, don't do it on seeking. I have real arrangements w / real SBs I meet on the site, I don't have any place to go if it goes down. As long as it retains credibility as a dating site, I'm happy. If it becomes just the next backpage, well, you're fine but I am hosed.