Seeking Arrangements

[Davio]

Hosts in Providence. Wants $500.

https://www.seeking.com/member/22bce...8-3b79051c6c15

Have you seen her?

I am having tough time to get her to respond.

[FarFarAway]

I got blocked for offering 100-200 as well. So don't be surprised a lot of girls are on the site to catch a whale.

You're taking a real risk if you are making that $ offer on the seeking website. They are under HUGE pressure b / c of FOSTA to keep pay for play off the site. I do know of people who got banned for doing it, and your membership $ goes too if that happens. Take the talk off the site to text. Also, just my preference, if you want to treat them like cheap escorts, don't do it on seeking. I have real arrangements w / real SBs I meet on the site, I don't have any place to go if it goes down. As long as it retains credibility as a dating site, I'm happy. If it becomes just the next backpage, well, you're fine but I am hosed.

[Aardvarks]

Hosts in Providence. Wants $500.

https://www.seeking.com/member/22bce...8-3b79051c6c15

[BostonMan781]

It would really take me some time to understand SA. Most of the girls start at 400-500 and I am like how much I need to negotiate to bring them down to a realistic figure. Some girls are hot agreed, but in highly photoshopped images and their best poses. A few blocked when I offered 150-200, and then many would do a very hard negotiation. I got 12-13 numbers by now but only 1 materialized. As someone suggested, most of them cannot host, so they need to be picked up (or Uber) and then dropped. ! very few can travel, but then they increase price (though when I offer to pick / drop or Uber, they do not adjust their prices).

Anyways, long story short, had first date with SA today. Pics looked better than person. She was a BBW. She was young and youthful and had quoted only 80 bucks.

I had a BBBJ which she did fine. I had to pick her up, bring her at my place and then I arranged an Uber for her. Total cost=100.

But even knowing she was a BBW, pics appeared to be much better, which happens all the time. How can you commit even a 200 in such a case when there are not even many reviews available.

However, it was decent for me. No ups no downs. 100 bucks BBBJ.

I always pickup the ladies. I'm cheap and won't pay for ride sharing. Also you are paying way too much. Don't just jump into that stuff. Talk to them a little before. I usually pay 60-80 for an hour of hang time with a lady. Sometimes more if they are really hot.

[JimXuper90]

It would really take me some time to understand SA. Most of the girls start at 400-500 and I am like how much I need to negotiate to bring them down to a realistic figure. Some girls are hot agreed, but in highly photoshopped images and their best poses. A few blocked when I offered 150-200, and then many would do a very hard negotiation. I got 12-13 numbers by now but only 1 materialized. As someone suggested, most of them cannot host, so they need to be picked up (or Uber) and then dropped. ! very few can travel, but then they increase price (though when I offer to pick / drop or Uber, they do not adjust their prices).

Anyways, long story short, had first date with SA today. Pics looked better than person. She was a BBW. She was young and youthful and had quoted only 80 bucks.

I had a BBBJ which she did fine. I had to pick her up, bring her at my place and then I arranged an Uber for her. Total cost=100.

But even knowing she was a BBW, pics appeared to be much better, which happens all the time. How can you commit even a 200 in such a case when there are not even many reviews available.

However, it was decent for me. No ups no downs. 100 bucks BBBJ.

I got blocked for offering 100-200 as well. So don't be surprised a lot of girls are on the site to catch a whale.

[Aardvarks]

Hey check it out. They removed the search term feature when searching profiles. BUT you can still do it by editing the URL. For example to see women within 100 miles who like spanking:

https://www.seeking.com/search?q=spanking&radius=100

Just found this on another forum.

[SwimSays]

So I figured I'd give SA a try. What did you all do to pay the fee and remain somewhat anonymous? Was thinking either a prepaid card or using google pay with a throw away google play store email. Any particular way work better? I noticed the app has he 7 day trial, but the month seems to be more worth it if I'm going to give it a fair shot.

Check out the Seeking Arrangement thread on the Richmond, VA boards. Tons of great information to get you going on the right foot.

[CoolGuy1985]

It would really take me some time to understand SA. Most of the girls start at 400-500 and I am like how much I need to negotiate to bring them down to a realistic figure. Some girls are hot agreed, but in highly photoshopped images and their best poses. A few blocked when I offered 150-200, and then many would do a very hard negotiation. I got 12-13 numbers by now but only 1 materialized. As someone suggested, most of them cannot host, so they need to be picked up (or Uber) and then dropped. ! very few can travel, but then they increase price (though when I offer to pick / drop or Uber, they do not adjust their prices).

Anyways, long story short, had first date with SA today. Pics looked better than person. She was a BBW. She was young and youthful and had quoted only 80 bucks.

I had a BBBJ which she did fine. I had to pick her up, bring her at my place and then I arranged an Uber for her. Total cost=100.

But even knowing she was a BBW, pics appeared to be much better, which happens all the time. How can you commit even a 200 in such a case when there are not even many reviews available.

However, it was decent for me. No ups no downs. 100 bucks BBBJ.

[Laissez Faire]

So I figured I'd give SA a try. What did you all do to pay the fee and remain somewhat anonymous? Was thinking either a prepaid card or using google pay with a throw away google play store email. Any particular way work better? I noticed the app has he 7 day trial, but the month seems to be more worth it if I'm going to give it a fair shot.

[FarFarAway]

FFA, don't know what to tell you. I have had phenomenal experience in Boston. Much better than at the homebase in DC. Sure some have been 30 something's and therefore out of your range, but quite a few 20 somethings. Including a handful of college gals. I am about two decades younger than you so perhaps that is the difference?

That seems likely. Yes, I had gotten the 1 week promotional rate on a Seeking membership so it was a new email and new profile, I could have easily listed anything other than married, without consequence, that was clearly a mistake. I have learned at the feet of some real masters, F Scott, JZLizard, and they reported strategies similar to mine, and successes similar to my SF experience. IDK that these girls are all that great at judging age, I know I can't judge theirs very well. So, I would have said late 40's rather than the 50's I (thankfully) can claim. Usually, I have decent game, the nice guy approach works for me. That's the really surprising part. Getting them to message on the site or text, but not converting them. So, for those of you following in my footsteps.

[Malibu1980]

I won't post any links, those I talk to and know me can PM [Deleted by Admin]

I'm getting tired of seeing posts like this, we are not running a PM site.

A2

[Member #6951]

For those looking for daytime only meetings:

- I've had less than great experience in Boston (heck also in DC) with that crowd. You tend to get either pros, crazy, or desperate because they don't have a solid job. Look for a legit reason why they are available during the day (married, night shift work, undergrad).

- daytime AND hosting? Even tougher, especially in the city, unless you are looking for a pro. My advice is to get a place. I do that in DC and it works well.

- FWIW my best experiences in downtown Boston have all been in the evening, often later at night, at my hotel.

[Member #6951]

Brothers. I've been in your city 3 days, and totally saturated the local under 30 group on SA. I'd guess I hit 100. All I have to show for it was one nice dinner. I spoke w / that POT before I traveled, I could not get any of the others to even take a phone call. Perhaps I am chopped liver, the local talent may not have liked some aspects (6 decades). Your POTs are more offended by married men than those on the west coast. There is definitely local dependency on success I guess. I have done similar trips to San Fran where I had a SB in my hotel room each of my 3 nites there, FCing w / one. IDK what my fault was, I am all ears. BTW, I am not interested in any UTRs.

FFA, don't know what to tell you. I have had phenomenal experience in Boston. Much better than at the homebase in DC. Sure some have been 30 something's and therefore out of your range, but quite a few 20 somethings. Including a handful of college gals. I am about two decades younger than you so perhaps that is the difference?

[JohnTies]

They even picked up the restaurant for me. "I always want to try this place, if we can meet over there will be great. ".

Hahaha They are not that entitled. WOW! Where do they think that any of that is even remotely going to happen.

Where do they fill their heads with that bs?

[JohnTies]

Brothers. I've been in your city 3 days, and totally saturated the local under 30 group on SA. I'd guess I hit 100. All I have to show for it was one nice dinner. I spoke w / that POT before I traveled, I could not get any of the others to even take a phone call. Perhaps I am chopped liver, the local talent may not have liked some aspects (6 decades). Your POTs are more offended by married men than those on the west coast. There is definitely local dependency on success I guess. I have done similar trips to San Fran where I had a SB in my hotel room each of my 3 nites there, FCing w / one. IDK what my fault was, I am all ears. BTW, I am not interested in any UTRs.

Women here in the Northeast are the most uptight, opinionated, and closed minded than anywhere else in the country, even the young college girls.

Sorry man.