Sugar Baby / Sugar Daddy relationships

**Bob0324** · 08-16-18 17:31

Originally Posted by DaveRue [View Original Post]

I didn't realize that SA changed the search function. Here are the kinks to the 3 I had in question.

https://www.seeking.com/member/9203d...6-a8074860a3e8

Venus22 yrsyoung.

https://www.seeking.com/member/b4f4a...c-ee54a361e842

Thicksugarbaby31.

https://www.seeking.com/member/a79f3...5-f3b022f4e5bd

Jace1412.

Thanks.

I've seen her several times, she's pretty much just like a back page girl, just shows up, takes care of business and leaves, she's fairly attractive, breast could be a little larger.

**DotherGuy** · 08-15-18 21:44

Originally Posted by FrazzleSnazzle [View Original Post]

Have tried SA a bit with all the turmoil of late in regular hobbying. Met the young lady who posts as 'Nerdyndirty' on the sister site on SA, where she started last month, and ultimately had a great all around time (except for an occasional vague sense of cradle-robbing on my part) with her-did some 'Sugar' type public activity with her that was nice (intelligent girl) and the physical things were most enjoyable as well. A few other meets have had modest success but nothing to be too excited about. Also, a couple that turned sour:

'Kit1734'-this is the lady introduced over on the escort thread by another hobbyist nearly two weeks ago who got some good initial commentary but then a few recent questionable comments. Had an ultimately poor experience and I believe she has (non-substance) issues that have been exacerbated by life circumstances of late. Rather unfortunate as she is cute and seemed to have the raw material to potentially be a good SB type.

'Kandy910'-had just a meet and greet (dining, shopping{and ultimately just purchased for myself}, chatting) a week or so ago. Had a good time, she seemed truly just plain nice, cute in a quiet girl next door sense, has a decent but modest paying job, just wanted a pretty reasonable slice of cash to help with bills (including some student and from a failed marriage) and to experience some decent entertainment semiregularly. We both agreed we had a good time and would like to visit again. So, I text her Thursday evening about meeting on Sunday, she says that would be good and we agree on a general time. Then the nice completely disappears. She goes full ghost, no reply at all to multiple confirm texts Saturday and Sunday am, no SA message (saw she was on site mid Saturday afternoon). So, not so nice but rude and inconsiderate, and it did really surprise me that she would do that (and I do personally put an emphasis on communication and courtesy, if she'd simply communicated that she didn't want to / couldn't meet again that would've been fine) given how she came across in the m&g.

Kit1734 is turning out to be a little unstable. We had planned on meeting and she was not ready and the time we had scheduled. She said it would take her a couple hours to get ready. I told her forget it and found a UTR girl that is going to college and needed some long term assistance. Kit1734 got pissed and just blew up my phone with text. Had to block her and she thinks I own her.

**ShelbyJS** · 08-15-18 19:01

I guess it is cheaper now that it was but still limited to 20 conversations /$90 at the lowest amount.

**ShelbyJS** · 08-15-18 18:55

Originally Posted by Videoxxman [View Original Post]

Interesting that people on this site only talk about SA instead of SecretBenefits which is the one advertising and linked on this site.

I'm using SB and met a very attractive woman, yes not an 18 yr old. Had dinner last night and she suggested next meet we have desert before going to dinner. Sent me some ads for lingerie said she would be interested in my selection. Hell I bought all three on AMAZON so Monday will have a fashion show.

Ill post the results.

Hope to take some pics, I am a real photographer and have done shoots with local providers in the past.

Happy hunting.

With the changes they have made to SA (well its just S now and no A), I think I will give SB a spin again I got some credits a few years ago but no real bites on there. The fact that it was 10 credits ($10) to start corresponding to each person was a bit much for my tastes for responses I got. Wasn't quite sure if most of them were just bait to get you to use up the credits and buy more.

**JaxSon07** · 08-15-18 17:57

Anyone ever meet this gal? I've had lots of texting, pics, even a couple videos. But very difficult to get her to commit to a meet. The good conversation keeps me intrigued, but I'm wondering if it's worth the continued effort.

**Prince Numenor** · 08-14-18 23:05

Be interesting to compare. They operate a different way. I have a profile and get responses but have not bought any credits yet. Not sure if worth it.

I have a profile on SB but have not bought any credits yet. Be interesting to compare.

I have a profile on SB but have not bought any credits yet. Be interesting to compare.

Originally Posted by Videoxxman [View Original Post]

Interesting that people on this site only talk about SA instead of SecretBenefits which is the one advertising and linked on this site.

I'm using SB and met a very attractive woman, yes not an 18 yr old. Had dinner last night and she suggested next meet we have desert before going to dinner. Sent me some ads for lingerie said she would be interested in my selection. Hell I bought all three on AMAZON so Monday will have a fashion show.

Ill post the results.

Hope to take some pics, I am a real photographer and have done shoots with local providers in the past.

Happy hunting.

.

**Videoxxman** · 08-14-18 18:15

Interesting that people on this site only talk about SA instead of SecretBenefits which is the one advertising and linked on this site.

I'm using SB and met a very attractive woman, yes not an 18 yr old. Had dinner last night and she suggested next meet we have desert before going to dinner. Sent me some ads for lingerie said she would be interested in my selection. Hell I bought all three on AMAZON so Monday will have a fashion show.

Ill post the results.

Hope to take some pics, I am a real photographer and have done shoots with local providers in the past.

Happy hunting.

**JcMorpheus** · 08-14-18 01:54

Originally Posted by DaveRue [View Original Post]

I've made contact with 3 ladies. In talking with them it feels more like talking to a BP lady rather than an SB. Have any of you had experience with them?

Venus22 yrsyoung-6537.

Thicksugarbaby31-1490.

Jace1412-9102.

Any help is appreciated.

Dave.

Thicksugarbaby31, We have been trying to meet twice for the past week. Both times something happened on her end that prevented us from hanging out. She used dumb excuses for both times. She feels like a waste of time. Maybe you'll have better luck.

**DaveRue** · 08-13-18 10:04

I didn't realize that SA changed the search function. Here are the kinks to the 3 I had in question.

https://www.seeking.com/member/9203d...6-a8074860a3e8

Venus22 yrsyoung.

https://www.seeking.com/member/b4f4a...c-ee54a361e842

Thicksugarbaby31.

https://www.seeking.com/member/a79f3...5-f3b022f4e5bd

Jace1412.

Thanks.

**FrazzleSnazzle** · 08-13-18 00:34

Have tried SA a bit with all the turmoil of late in regular hobbying. Met the young lady who posts as 'Nerdyndirty' on the sister site on SA, where she started last month, and ultimately had a great all around time (except for an occasional vague sense of cradle-robbing on my part) with her-did some 'Sugar' type public activity with her that was nice (intelligent girl) and the physical things were most enjoyable as well. A few other meets have had modest success but nothing to be too excited about. Also, a couple that turned sour:

'Kit1734'-this is the lady introduced over on the escort thread by another hobbyist nearly two weeks ago who got some good initial commentary but then a few recent questionable comments. Had an ultimately poor experience and I believe she has (non-substance) issues that have been exacerbated by life circumstances of late. Rather unfortunate as she is cute and seemed to have the raw material to potentially be a good SB type.

'Kandy910'-had just a meet and greet (dining, shopping{and ultimately just purchased for myself}, chatting) a week or so ago. Had a good time, she seemed truly just plain nice, cute in a quiet girl next door sense, has a decent but modest paying job, just wanted a pretty reasonable slice of cash to help with bills (including some student and from a failed marriage) and to experience some decent entertainment semiregularly. We both agreed we had a good time and would like to visit again. So, I text her Thursday evening about meeting on Sunday, she says that would be good and we agree on a general time. Then the nice completely disappears. She goes full ghost, no reply at all to multiple confirm texts Saturday and Sunday am, no SA message (saw she was on site mid Saturday afternoon). So, not so nice but rude and inconsiderate, and it did really surprise me that she would do that (and I do personally put an emphasis on communication and courtesy, if she'd simply communicated that she didn't want to / couldn't meet again that would've been fine) given how she came across in the m&g.

**Dh4620** · 08-12-18 21:08

Originally Posted by DaveRue [View Original Post]

I've made contact with 3 ladies. In talking with them it feels more like talking to a BP lady rather than an SB. Have any of you had experience with them?

Venus22 yrsyoung-6537.

Thicksugarbaby31-1490.

Jace1412-9102.

Any help is appreciated.

Dave.

Hello!

I had a meet and greet with Jace and then met with her once so far. She is a nice young lady (matches her pics). I don't have any real complaints but unsure if I will see her again. She wasn't very enthusiastic in our meeting. She is very much about the money. I've just had better SA interactions (where it actually seems like a date). She very much seems like a BP girl. She is already getting dressed once you pop. YMMV of course. I. Unfamiliar with the other two. PM me the ages of the other two and I'll look them up.

Good luck!

**DaveRue** · 08-12-18 17:12

I've made contact with 3 ladies. In talking with them it feels more like talking to a BP lady rather than an SB. Have any of you had experience with them?

Venus22 yrsyoung-6537.

Thicksugarbaby31-1490.

Jace1412-9102.

Any help is appreciated.

Dave.

**Zakk Wylde** · 08-08-18 18:05

Originally Posted by PrinceNumenor [View Original Post]

Yep 90 a month. I've been on and off 3 times for premium membership. I've had 5 separate babies. I've met at least 3 others in meets. For me it has been a totally different experience than going to a provider. I've had generally terrific sex and after first time usually bare. I've gone from 20 year olds upto 40 year olds. Different experience each time. I'm older and for a 60 year old to be fucking a 20 year old- yep it's probably worth it. Saying that it isn't cheap. I try and stick at 250 max. I've done 200 to 300 (300 only first time). There is no time limit here. It's much more like a date. Often we've had lunch and usually great conversation. I look for intelligence and broke college girls are a good bet. Several times girls have had me popping twice and have made an effort to do it. I've spent probably 2 grand on the experience so far over several months It's addictive and you get better at it with experience. Looking is part of the fun. Totally your choice. Numenor.

Every time I pay for a month I add 5-10 to the book. Hard ceiling at 300, and only then for first time. Only repeat if will go much lower (100-150). Target for first time is 200 though. Most want consistency, so once you have a rotation you can handle, you only have to pay to get on every few months to replace those who moved on. Some take a lot of work, some don't if you catch them at the right time.

**Prince Numenor** · 08-07-18 23:44

Yep 90 a month. I've been on and off 3 times for premium membership. I've had 5 separate babies. I've met at least 3 others in meets. For me it has been a totally different experience than going to a provider. I've had generally terrific sex and after first time usually bare. I've gone from 20 year olds upto 40 year olds. Different experience each time. I'm older and for a 60 year old to be fucking a 20 year old- yep it's probably worth it. Saying that it isn't cheap. I try and stick at 250 max. I've done 200 to 300 (300 only first time). There is no time limit here. It's much more like a date. Often we've had lunch and usually great conversation. I look for intelligence and broke college girls are a good bet. Several times girls have had me popping twice and have made an effort to do it. I've spent probably 2 grand on the experience so far over several months It's addictive and you get better at it with experience. Looking is part of the fun. Totally your choice. Numenor.

Originally Posted by ZakkWylde [View Original Post]

You'll be spending a lot more time for sure. It's like a part time job.

**Zakk Wylde** · 08-01-18 10:34

Originally Posted by Dracos [View Original Post]

I like what I'm reading in here, but wanted to get a quick idea of what people are usually spending on this side of the hobby. SA is $90 a month, unless you buy a few months at a time, and then can anyone share their average SB maintenance outlay? I'm not really hobbying all that much anymore, but I like the idea of a more casual encounter, which these SBs seem to be open to providing, but it feels like I may end up spending more than I would if I just went straight escort.

You'll be spending a lot more time for sure. It's like a part time job.