Seeking Arrangements

[Psalyer]

Seems like a long con.

Yeah, 18 years of payments on your part.

[Samuel05]

Remember her? Now on SB using the same line 'friends get 500-1000 per meet'. Got it down to a manageable $ but no hosting either side so had to be hotel. That's OK but wanted to see the goods first. She won't do dinner or even a lunch for discretion. Got some photos but they might be a bit older although one shows a fairly attractive woman. All in all might be small chested and no waistline, can't be sure but definitely desirable. She initiated the first contact, just as before, and immediately knew her spiel. Might be ok if you can host but just wasn't comfortable fronting a room without knowing for sure she'd show. She doesn't have a credit card so couldn't reimburse her if she booked. That was tough to get around, has a job, college educated, car, wanted hefty allowance, and no credit card. Maybe shouldn't be so cautious but just didn't satisfy my vetting. Probably just me. Welcome your experience with her if any. Stay safe!

[Longjblues]

The proverbial horse is out of the barn!! Post BBFS doubts?

Well crap I've now come inside her five times. The good news is she doesn't know any info about me besides KIK. I didn't realize there were paternity scams out there. Seems like a long con.

I'm usually pretty careful but current SB wanted bare for whatever reason. Says she is clean. So we did it and was quite amazing. But now I'm having all of those post BBFS doubts. Is this a paternity ploy? Do I ask for paperwork? Seems kind of silly at this point. Am I over thinking this?

[SixPacking]

No. I share once we get to text or kik. I'm just saying you don't need one on the site.

I have my pics on private. One a girl views them I snatch them back if she does not respond basically right away. My opinion is that I still have my pics once I unshare with her unless she is super savvy and she saves them immediately.

Not judging but with your method you can't get your pics back. I will say that what you are doing does intrigue me because is forces her to give a number.

[Aardvarks]

Very likely.

Whatever you do DO NOT COME IN HER, and if kids arent in your future, get snipped.

Well crap I've now come inside her five times. The good news is she doesn't know any info about me besides KIK. I didn't realize there were paternity scans out there. Seems like a long con.

[Member #6951]

Are you saying that you have no public pic, no private pic and you are scoring girls without texting / Kik / Snap etc a pic of yourself prior to meeting them?

No. I share once we get to text or kik. I'm just saying you don't need one on the site.

[Banjomania]

Are you saying that you have no public pic, no private pic and you are scoring girls without texting / Kik / Snap etc a pic of yourself prior to meeting them?

I have one private pic on SA that is quite distant. Often they ask me to upload more pics and then I say I won't but if we exchange numbers I can text them. That usually gets the number and you are off to the races.

[SixPacking]

False. No pic and I do quite well. You have to be a little more proactive in reaching out to the women and you have to have enough skill with words to paint a picture for them in your profile and your opening messages.

Are you saying that you have no public pic, no private pic and you are scoring girls without texting / Kik / Snap etc a pic of yourself prior to meeting them?

[Psalyer]

I Is this a paternity ploy?

Very likely.

Whatever you do DO NOT COME IN HER, and if kids arent in your future, get snipped.

[Ebloke]

Curious about those having luck on SA. Do you put a photo on your profile? If so, is it real?

I imagine many of us may not want to post or share a real photo.

I've some some very good luck on SA and I have a fake, private photo in my ad. I found a pic of someone from another country that looks very similar to me but is not a direct face pic. Anyone who knows me would know the photo is not of me. Anyone getting to know me, once the conversation moves to txt or kik, I send a real face pic. No one has complained about the discrepancy in photos yet.

[RobHere]

Hi,

Anyone has seen bad_habit. We are planning to meet later this week, any info would be appreciated.

https://www.seeking.com/member/90ca7...0-227cc00016f0

[Member #6951]

Not for nothing, but if you want any success you pretty much need a picture. You can make it half your face and set others private so you decide who sees them. But as for a fake, remember how we feel when we get fakes from girls. Just my 2 cents.

False. No pic and I do quite well. You have to be a little more proactive in reaching out to the women and you have to have enough skill with words to paint a picture for them in your profile and your opening messages.

[Mark IV]

I'm usually pretty careful but current SB wanted bare for whatever reason. Says she is clean. So we did it and was quite amazing. But now I'm having all of those post BBFS doubts. Is this a paternity ploy? Do I ask for paperwork? Seems kind of silly at this point. Am I over thinking this?

If you worth a lot, you don't want child support.

[Aardvarks]

I'm usually pretty careful but current SB wanted bare for whatever reason. Says she is clean. So we did it and was quite amazing. But now I'm having all of those post BBFS doubts. Is this a paternity ploy? Do I ask for paperwork? Seems kind of silly at this point. Am I over thinking this?

[Oscar13]

Curious about those having luck on SA. Do you put a photo on your profile? If so, is it real?

I imagine many of us may not want to post or share a real photo.

Not for nothing, but if you want any success you pretty much need a picture. You can make it half your face and set others private so you decide who sees them. But as for a fake, remember how we feel when we get fakes from girls. Just my 2 cents.