Arrangement Reports

[Agoraphobe]

What do you guys typically spend on SA hookups / arrangements? Trying to figure out a budget.

It kinda depends.

Some girls I spend something like $3-5 in "allowance" for her, plus $150 for a decent 4-5 star hotel, plus whatever if we get dinner or drinks. Those are girls I'd like to see more than once though or would like to make an ongoing thing. For ones I want to hit once it's like $1. 5 and a room at the holiday inn.

[Randolph]

What do you guys typically spend on SA hookups / arrangements? Trying to figure out a budget.

I have found the sweet spot is around 200 per meet. I always try for less. Some women are happy to get something. Others want 3-4 and I politely thank them and move on. If I have to get a room (35-38 for two hours) then I try and knock her down to 150. Also, if you are seeing someone repeatedly, I will sometimes just to be an asshole I guess tell her I would love to see her but am short of funds and could we just do 50. None have ever said no. One of my favorites I have brought some gifts to as well as $. Each one is different.

[Frogger7777]

I join for three months and let it go for about six months. I can usually find 4-6 repeat worthy women in that time. I am mid sixties so I imagine that is a turnoff for many young women. I also won't head downtown. For every 30 dead ends I get a winner. They are all flaky but all like a few bucks. One curvy Latina would actually drive to my office and then drive us to a cheap notel. You just have to play the numbers. I also have had luck with finding divorced milfs who just like to get laid.

Its like what your friends used to say in jr high. If you ask a thousand women if they want to screw one will say yes.

What do you guys typically spend on SA hookups / arrangements? Trying to figure out a budget.

[OF Charlie]

I always check their writing style and grammar. Below is a message I just got. No girls in the states will say Chicago, Illinois. WTF. I live in Chicago and you have to tell me Chicago is in Illinois? Seriously. I can overlook if a girl doesn't know the difference between then and than, but some grammar error are just so plainly wrong.

Onmywayoflove8712.

27, Georgetown, Texas, United States.

Hello, How are you now?, I'm Sofia, my first time here and I'm in Chicago, Illinois now, visiting my grandma, want to meet ups in the same place for dinner?? Want to chat and lets talk, or I will give you my number.

[FarFarAway]

I'm 50 and generally have met with ladies in their 30's on the site. They like older guys because we are patient and know way more about sex and pleasing women than younger guys. My newest is 24. She's totally turned on by older guys and I'm her first. She likes the taboo nature of older guys and being on the site. She's really hot and is way more skilled than others her age. I usually avoid those younger than 30. She's the first that actually knows what she's doing.

SA is a gold mine.

I posted this in San Diego.

I currently have a monthly with a stunning skinny model type for $1 K. She's 36, I am in my 60's. There really are some girls who prefer older men, where else could they get that itch scratched without violating social norms than SA? I have had teenagers / 20 YO coeds who *loved* older, mostly b / c they are submissive. That is one thing I definitely look for, b / c I know those girls seriously are interested in guys like me.

[Funsteve1111]

I'm in my mid 50's. I never had an issue about my age.

I'm 50 and generally have met with ladies in their 30's on the site. They like older guys because we are patient and know way more about sex and pleasing women than younger guys. My newest is 24. She's totally turned on by older guys and I'm her first. She likes the taboo nature of older guys and being on the site. She's really hot and is way more skilled than others her age. I usually avoid those younger than 30. She's the first that actually knows what she's doing.

SA is a gold mine.

[Ron M]

I am mid sixties so I imagine that is a turnoff for many young women.

I'm in my mid 50's. I never had an issue about my age.

[Randolph]

For those mongers who've had success on seekingarrangement.com, have you paid for membership, or do you feel that's a waste of money?

I join for three months and let it go for about six months. I can usually find 4-6 repeat worthy women in that time. I am mid sixties so I imagine that is a turnoff for many young women. I also won't head downtown. For every 30 dead ends I get a winner. They are all flaky but all like a few bucks. One curvy Latina would actually drive to my office and then drive us to a cheap notel. You just have to play the numbers. I also have had luck with finding divorced milfs who just like to get laid.

Its like what your friends used to say in jr high. If you ask a thousand women if they want to screw one will say yes.

[Frogger7777]

For those mongers who've had success on seekingarrangement.com, have you paid for membership, or do you feel that's a waste of money?

[UpscaleGent85]

There are plenty of nontraditional ways out there to get SB's, but you need to have a thick skin with the rejection. It is more acceptable now than ever before for younger women to be casually fucking and sucking older men in a temporary arrangement. Having a sugar daddy is almost a rite of passage for these young women. Keep yourself in shape, have confidence, and always be the one in control.

Get that sex.

SDX.

It's definitely a little bit harder with Craigslist out of the running. I had en experience years with a sexy deaf black teen who did everything but go all the way all for some trees. I have been posting on / chicagoareforare (sic) for a friend to meet up for some pow pow fun, but haven't had any takers yet. Anyone know anyone who likes to hang out?

[Dddubs2]

Got this hottie asking for 500, she DTF but that's a bit high for me, daymn. Feels like it's a trend, all these girls asking for 500. Going to wait and see if she comes down a bit.

https://seekingarrangement.com/membe...d-f4a79929b47c

[TopGun9]

When I started running into progressively more scammers and girls wanting to sell pictures / videos / phone calls for money, I let my SA membership go. It is not worth it to spend $90 a month and have to filter through all the BS. (I am one of the old school guys who remember paying $45 per month back in 2010 and getting real SB's, not these pros and UTR's.) I started hunting for SB's via other avenues, either in person with a little game or through sites like patreon, GoFundMe, etc. On these sites are young women hungry for money. Sometimes I can convince them into doing a sugar arrangement. For example, I talked to a girl on a crowdfunding site that wanted money for a boob job. I told her I'd help her with the money needed for the augmentation if she helped me. I am banging a tight 19 year old, albeit with only A cups. We have been having mindblowing sex for the last two months. In a few weeks, I will be the first guy to test drive her new pornstar body.

There are plenty of nontraditional ways out there to get SB's, but you need to have a thick skin with the rejection..

Very creative ways of finding girls. I might send you a PM for more details.

Other ways of finding girls are through social media (FB, IG, Snap, etc.). Find friends of the UTRs and escorts, add them, follow their posts and once you see sign of them need cash (fix car, pay bills, want that nice shoes, etc.). Jump right in and be the savior.

[SugarDaddyX]

When I started running into progressively more scammers and girls wanting to sell pictures / videos / phone calls for money, I let my SA membership go. It is not worth it to spend $90 a month and have to filter through all the BS. (I am one of the old school guys who remember paying $45 per month back in 2010 and getting real SB's, not these pros and UTR's.) I started hunting for SB's via other avenues, either in person with a little game or through sites like patreon, GoFundMe, etc. On these sites are young women hungry for money. Sometimes I can convince them into doing a sugar arrangement. For example, I talked to a girl on a crowdfunding site that wanted money for a boob job. I told her I'd help her with the money needed for the augmentation if she helped me. I am banging a tight 19 year old, albeit with only A cups. We have been having mindblowing sex for the last two months. In a few weeks, I will be the first guy to test drive her new pornstar body.

There are plenty of nontraditional ways out there to get SB's, but you need to have a thick skin with the rejection. It is more acceptable now than ever before for younger women to be casually fucking and sucking older men in a temporary arrangement. Having a sugar daddy is almost a rite of passage for these young women. Keep yourself in shape, have confidence, and always be the one in control.

Get that sex.

SDX.

[Pal5600]

Communication was going really well, cute girl according to the photos, she wanted to text instead quickly and set up a day to meet in person. Then she said she'd share photos and videos before we meet--if I can help pay for something. Seemed fishy so stood my ground and told her I don't do online payments especially if I haven't met in person first. Her location says, Illinois vs. Chicago. She could be from Chicago I suppose but after I told her no online payments, she went radio silence. There are a good number of girls trying to scam you to send money to them online--just don't do it guys.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...b-6b070b10a373

Yeah I text her also, area code is 734 somewhere in Michigan, same crap selling pics and videos.

[Pau Ford]

Communication was going really well, cute girl according to the photos, she wanted to text instead quickly and set up a day to meet in person. Then she said she'd share photos and videos before we meet--if I can help pay for something. Seemed fishy so stood my ground and told her I don't do online payments especially if I haven't met in person first. Her location says, Illinois vs. Chicago. She could be from Chicago I suppose but after I told her no online payments, she went radio silence. There are a good number of girls trying to scam you to send money to them online--just don't do it guys.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...b-6b070b10a373

Here's another that is trying to scam and get you to send money. She sent a couple on snap then hits you up for money.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...5-b848112663b2