Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

[Ltus20]

Sorry. I am a newbie here. What is the best website between WYP and SA? Do you have to use a cc or works with a prepaid visa. I would really appreciate your advices. All the best.

[NovaKane]

So I signed up for SA, I've had a few hits so far but I'm curious what you fellas are finding the going rates are on there. All of the ones I've talked to are wanting close to $500 for time with then. Are why'all finding this to be the norm or should I stick it out and wait for someone more reasonable?

In my opinion most I have met started with a high quote. I simply say that is not in my budget but if you have some free time and are willing to meet for (name your comfortable price) they will reconsider or negotiate. It is a buyers market. The dude from Pretty Woman who takes the girl shopping and falls in love only exists in a movie. However, if they want something they can rely on for half the amount and non of the bullshit, you are a valued agreement.

Some of the girls hear stories of some girl being flown to Paris and have a monthly stipend. Those are rare, if the SB you speak with is dead set on this, simply be polite and move on. I have had many come back seeing if my offer as still valid. Be polite, Don't settle and don't overpay. Too many options to be desperate. My 2 cents.

[TarHeel85]

So I signed up for SA, I've had a few hits so far but I'm curious what you fellas are finding the going rates are on there. All of the ones I've talked to are wanting close to $500 for time with then. Are why'all finding this to be the norm or should I stick it out and wait for someone more reasonable?

[MattBrown]

Got taken few times early on in Memphis. Expensive dinner & drinks add up too. LOL.

"prove to me your legitimate before we meet". Huge red flag. She wants money sent to her before you meet up. Had one the other day ask for ppal before we could meet. Another said we need to meet for coffee first and it is 100. Someone must be paying this if they keep trying.

[Ernie34]

Hey guys, I have a sugar baby that wants multiple guys at once. She's young curvy and have beautiful nipple piercing. Any guys interested pm me. I'm aiming for 2 weeks. I just got to have a little fun before I let others indulge. .

[NovaKane]

Has anyone contacted this one https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...4-fd2d8f5f83ed ? Looks delicious.

"prove to me your legitimate before we meet". Huge red flag. She wants money sent to her before you meet up. Had one the other day ask for ppal before we could meet. Another said we need to meet for coffee first and it is 100. Someone must be paying this if they keep trying.

[Gastonian4]

If you've PM me about Lindsey and I haven't got back to you, once again she has changed her phone and lost her contacts. I'm going to have to backcharge her for proving 411 services LOL. She's mid 20's, short, nice rack, nice body. Most everyone I've heard back from rates her a solid 8 in looks and services. She bounces between Lincolnton Dallas and Gastonia. Can sometimes do in call but can also do a HT. I’ve even been out for drinks with her and no one would have a clue she’s a working girl. Worth the drive. Just PM me if you’re a trusted senior member and won’t bother her if you only are a pic collector and not serious about meeting. Communication can be an issue depends what she’s got going on.

[Riidii]

Has anyone contacted this one https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...4-fd2d8f5f83ed ? Looks delicious.

[LuvBoobies]

I know some of you have seen Lindsay based on my recommendations but I got the ok from her to be a little more open sharing her contact info with trusted senior members. She advertises on WYP sometimes. She's about 24, beautiful face, non rush GFE, nice body. Only issue with her seems to be her communication. Very compliant and willing to please. Sounds like she might set up shop at in all location in Gastonia but also frequents lincolnton. Worth the trip and the hassle of communicating. Prices have gone up recently but I'm still grandfathered in LOL. She's probably 5 foot 2 if that. You mongers who I've given her info to and you've met her chip in your opinion on here. Prettiest girl I've had in quite awhile. P.S. Her phone is a new number.

Seconded. I've met her 4 times now. Several before Gastonia post. Frankly I enjoyed my time and ease so much I wish she wasn't out right now LOL. Great BBBJ. Hopped right on top in my car. Taken back to my place. All holes were open for me. I'll be honest guys. Most of the true gems around Charlotte seem to be located 30 to 90 minutes outside of Charlotte or so I've noticed so far. She is certainly one.

[Gastonian4]

I know some of you have seen Lindsay based on my recommendations but I got the ok from her to be a little more open sharing her contact info with trusted senior members. She advertises on WYP sometimes. She's about 24, beautiful face, non rush GFE, nice body. Only issue with her seems to be her communication. Very compliant and willing to please. Sounds like she might set up shop at in all location in Gastonia but also frequents lincolnton. Worth the trip and the hassle of communicating. Prices have gone up recently but I'm still grandfathered in LOL. She's probably 5 foot 2 if that. You mongers who I've given her info to and you've met her chip in your opinion on here. Prettiest girl I've had in quite awhile. P.S. Her phone is a new number.

[XpVesta]

I also meant to say one more thing: strike as soon as a new ad is posted that looks interesting to you. A lot of true UTRs are just needing short term funds and will take down their ad or stop responding once their immediate crisis is over. The goal is to help them when they need it and get comfortable enough so you can maintain a more exclusive FWB relationship afterwards.

And if your SB site shows the last time they were online save your credits if its been more than a week since they were online.

This will turn off some of you but I run the search criteria several ways: I look for separated, married, or have kids. I figure those are truly the ones needing funds and know what they have to do to get them. I believe its improve my hit rate.

But yeah I agree with Kaster, don't lie or be coy in your profile and once you make contact don't mess around, tell them what you are looking for.

Thank hou and thank you to PlasterKaster.

I joined this SB site and scored the goal on day 1. MILF with amazing attitube. Maybe it wS my lucky day. However, one question I have now is the right amount of gifts. Which was 1. 5 for the full dream plus some drinks plus motel. Lifestyle expectation of this friend is open. Considering that did I paid right or more? Offcourse it depends on alot of other factors, but just wondering.

Thanks again!

[Queen City Guy]

I also meant to say one more thing: strike as soon as a new ad is posted that looks interesting to you. A lot of true UTRs are just needing short term funds and will take down their ad or stop responding once their immediate crisis is over. The goal is to help them when they need it and get comfortable enough so you can maintain a more exclusive FWB relationship afterwards.

And if your SB site shows the last time they were online save your credits if its been more than a week since they were online.

This will turn off some of you but I run the search criteria several ways: I look for separated, married, or have kids. I figure those are truly the ones needing funds and know what they have to do to get them. I believe its improve my hit rate.

But yeah I agree with Kaster, don't lie or be coy in your profile and once you make contact don't mess around, tell them what you are looking for.

[Lister69]

I've had luck on SA. Best thing you can do in your profile is be straight about what you are looking for and lay it out there.

I clearly say in mine, if you are looking for someone to send you money for texting, an online connection, or a few phone calls, I am not your guy.

I clearly state that I'm looking for intimate meetups of the FWB nature.

If you are in a LTR say that, if you need them to have a place to play, say that.

It helps weed out a lot of the fake news.

PK.

Hello fellow mongers.

Those of who are members and regular on SA. What percentage of profiles you find to be real, genuine and can you quantify the success rate if you could please; in terms of finding a good economically viable date? Thanks much in advance. Also what do you suggest between SA AND WYP?

[XpVesta]

OK so I used a couple of SB sites (Not SA though). Here's what I find xpvesta:

Some are just fake, the only way to weed them out is trial and error, some of the sites I am convinced have texts generators / fake profiles to pull you in to spend $ on credits. AND don't believe the 'independent reviews', they're all fake and made to drive hits to a particular site.

Some are amateurs needing short term funds and are as chicken as 95% of the mongers that hit them up are. They respond sporadically, may supply digits and play a little texting but are too chicken to follow through.

Some are real but not looking to give you what you are ultimately looking for. I had one I had exchanged several texts with a few miles up the road and had to get on the road for a meeting in ATL tomorrow and suggested I divert to see her for some 'afternoon delight'. After numerous texts she sent me a full length pic, yes she said 'a few extra lbs' in her profile, my ole lady has a few extra lbs but this gal would make two of her! She was full fledged BBW. Then she wanted to meet for lunch because her sitter was at home til 5, I said that was too far out of my way just to meet someone w / no cuddling then the killer: "well could you send me some money to help me out?" I am very direct when I get those requests because that was the end-game all along, there are a decent % of real gals playing this game. Just some advice, I am very direct from the beginning that I am older, travel a lot, and just looking for a cuddle buddy and if local, that can host. I make it clear that I give sugar on a 'as we go basis' because I'm not regular enough for an allowance.

Then there's also some you meet with that will be accommodating at first, meet, have a good time, then progressively reel you in asking for more and more funds for bills etc. "Well I'm always here for you and now I need YOU! Kind of kills that whole NSA they claim in their ads. NOTE: I've said it before and will again DON'T give them your address, personal phone (burner OK), last name etc. If you dumb bunnies do that you deserve all the trouble you bring on yourselves! If I take one to my place I do so under cover of darkness and ask them to recline the seat so the neighbors don't get nosey and take them the back way into the neighborhood, not to mention don't take an eye off of them while there.

Then there are the GPS types. They are real, you have to meet and woo them, etc etc soforth. Then they want hedge fund type money, a car, etc. Some of you guys are into that but for me the art of the game is getting a bargain. You aren't impressing me one bit if you brag about $$$+ for a date. I could get 3 dates in any town in America for that and for just as good of service. But hey, to each his own and keep the bragging up guys.

Then there are the BP gals that turn 10 tricks a day and are using the SB sites to up their margin. Enough said, if that's you style they're out there. I try to determine early on if I'm talking to one of those because a 10 trick pony isn't my style.

Then there are the gems like I met today. 40, large breasts, small waist, could host, clean, had a great large clit ripe for licking to the big O, then plenty of fun for me. Damage .8, told her I may catch her on the flip side going home tomorrow if my T built back up enough! (but she drained it dry!) AND she said I was the first one who actually followed through and met with her from the site! Said she had been on another and same thing, all talk and no go. You hen pecked married guys whose wives have cut you off are just too darn chicken to pull the trigger and YOU are the ones missing out. I have about 4 like this in my harem that are reasonable and available. The one today was better looking than usual. None are BBWs.

So that's as much advice as I think you can handle for now. From an old man to the young men.

Thank You Sir! This helps. Gives me some encouragement to take the plunge and see where and how it goes. Thanks again!

[XpVesta]

OK so I used a couple of SB sites (Not SA though). Here's what I find xpvesta:

Some are just fake, the only way to weed them out is trial and error, some of the sites I am convinced have texts generators / fake profiles to pull you in to spend $ on credits. AND don't believe the 'independent reviews', they're all fake and made to drive hits to a particular site.

Some are amateurs needing short term funds and are as chicken as 95% of the mongers that hit them up are. They respond sporadically, may supply digits and play a little texting but are too chicken to follow through.

Some are real but not looking to give you what you are ultimately looking for. I had one I had exchanged several texts with a few miles up the road and had to get on the road for a meeting in ATL tomorrow and suggested I divert to see her for some 'afternoon delight'. After numerous texts she sent me a full length pic, yes she said 'a few extra lbs' in her profile, my ole lady has a few extra lbs but this gal would make two of her! She was full fledged BBW. Then she wanted to meet for lunch because her sitter was at home til 5, I said that was too far out of my way just to meet someone w / no cuddling then the killer: "well could you send me some money to help me out?" I am very direct when I get those requests because that was the end-game all along, there are a decent % of real gals playing this game. Just some advice, I am very direct from the beginning that I am older, travel a lot, and just looking for a cuddle buddy and if local, that can host. I make it clear that I give sugar on a 'as we go basis' because I'm not regular enough for an allowance.

Then there's also some you meet with that will be accommodating at first, meet, have a good time, then progressively reel you in asking for more and more funds for bills etc. "Well I'm always here for you and now I need YOU! Kind of kills that whole NSA they claim in their ads. NOTE: I've said it before and will again DON'T give them your address, personal phone (burner OK), last name etc. If you dumb bunnies do that you deserve all the trouble you bring on yourselves! If I take one to my place I do so under cover of darkness and ask them to recline the seat so the neighbors don't get nosey and take them the back way into the neighborhood, not to mention don't take an eye off of them while there.

Then there are the GPS types. They are real, you have to meet and woo them, etc etc soforth. Then they want hedge fund type money, a car, etc. Some of you guys are into that but for me the art of the game is getting a bargain. You aren't impressing me one bit if you brag about $$$+ for a date. I could get 3 dates in any town in America for that and for just as good of service. But hey, to each his own and keep the bragging up guys.

Then there are the BP gals that turn 10 tricks a day and are using the SB sites to up their margin. Enough said, if that's you style they're out there. I try to determine early on if I'm talking to one of those because a 10 trick pony isn't my style.

Then there are the gems like I met today. 40, large breasts, small waist, could host, clean, had a great large clit ripe for licking to the big O, then plenty of fun for me. Damage .8, told her I may catch her on the flip side going home tomorrow if my T built back up enough! (but she drained it dry!) AND she said I was the first one who actually followed through and met with her from the site! Said she had been on another and same thing, all talk and no go. You hen pecked married guys whose wives have cut you off are just too darn chicken to pull the trigger and YOU are the ones missing out. I have about 4 like this in my harem that are reasonable and available. The one today was better looking than usual. None are BBWs.

So that's as much advice as I think you can handle for now. From an old man to the young men.

Thank You Sir! This helps. Gives me some encouragement to take the plunge and see where and how it goes. Thanks again!