Arrangement Reports

[VicStick2]

Wow, what a bunch of scum bags. Supposedly the site is run by all women who used to be SB's, but you have to apply to get placement (while sending photos of yourself in a bikini LOL!) I did a quick search and the site doesn't show up on Google. They also have a "testimonial" section, and one one of the girls claims to have seen a post for the site on Craigslist.

I doubt (hopefull) this will gain traction. But yes whoever started this is definitely trying to take advantage.

https://sugarbabyjobs.com/sbj/

The guy that set this up is a piece of shit. If you're on this forum go f**k yourself!

[FruitNinja]

https://sugarbabyjobs.com/sbj/

The guy that set this up is a piece of shit. If you're on this forum go f**k yourself!

[ArielDude28]

It sure sounds like you lost the 100, or more like 300. SA & WYP are loaded with greedy wenches. Proceed with caution. Once you open the floodgates showering them they will expect it. Also there is Zero correlation between investment and service.

Simply put most girls have GPS Golden Pussy Syndrome. It's usually easy to gauge by reading their profile. But hey it's working for many of them since too many of us think with the wrong head.

Dumb act I would say. I applied some brain and followed the restrictions (except 1 and 2) mentioned by Jasse1 below. I forgot to put the link so everyone is warned.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...0-a49f321d8ac1

[ChicagoGoer]

I'm trying to meet and greet sometime this week with this one. She seems open to play and even talked about blinding folding me. But I can't tell if she's on the bigger side or really curvy. Hmm do you remember how she looks in real life?

Amazing tits, little belly fat but not overwhelming.

She is cute and sounds like a freak.

Best of luck.

[Zeuss]

I am with you now after this experience. Here are the details. I did not loose my 100 but here's what happened. We met for coffee on day 1 and I pay 100. Next day we meet in hotel with an agreement of 200. It was a 30 min thing and no kiss and nothing. It was such a boring mechanical session. Buying food or drink in the m&g is fine but no cash is what I decided. If someone asks for cash to meet, its indeed a red flag.

It sure sounds like you lost the 100, or more like 300. SA & WYP are loaded with greedy wenches. Proceed with caution. Once you open the floodgates showering them they will expect it. Also there is Zero correlation between investment and service.

Simply put most girls have GPS Golden Pussy Syndrome. It's usually easy to gauge by reading their profile. But hey it's working for many of them since too many of us think with the wrong head.

[Jasse1]

To all the rest of you guys, this is his second post but he has been lurking for 14 years. It is what it is, lets not make it a thing because you think it's a noob lecturing.

A2

Hello Everyone, as I mentioned if my previous report I'm a long time lurker. After 20+ plus years in the hobby I've decided to share my knowledge. I guess this is what happens when your powers out and you're unable to watch the Cubs game.

Anyway, I've done it all. From a kid in his late teens picking up SW's to expanding my horizon to massage parlors, strip clubs, and escorts. Hooking up with porn stars. To mastering hook ups on dating sites and now sugar babies. Even dabbled in a little swinging and Dom / Sub relationships.

I've enjoyed reading this site and other for the past 10+ years. So here goes:

For those who are in the SD / SB game or thinking about playing the first thing I will tell you is "don't act like a victim". What does this mean? Use your head. If it seems to good to be true. It probably isn't.

Decide what your principles are. Things that are non negotiable. Your walk away moment.

1- Decide what your budget is. Whatever it is work within those parameters. You will find what you're looking for no matter what. Remember every girl can have her expectation of what her worth is. Someone will pay her that amount or she wouldn't ask for it. Yes, there are women who think they're a Victoria secret model when in reality they would have difficulty getting work modeling for JC Penny. They will soon find out what their "market" is. However, just as they are entitled to have their expectations you must have yours. Align yourself with those in your ballpark. I personally maintain a budget of $4-$6. Once in a while I'll treat myself to a VIP type girl.

2- Set expectations for the date. A meet and greet with no expectations can be fun. You're going to have dinner anyway why not have it with some company. You don't have to break the bank. Go Mexican or Italian and enjoy the flirting and conversation. If she asks for money, politely decline and tell her your buying her dinner and that should be enough for the first meeting / date. If she balks, you've just helped yourself by not wasting anymore of your time. When you discuss her allowance ask her what she looking for. When she asks "What do you usually give" respond with "different people want different things, I'm asking what you want" Once a number is agreed upon tell her what you expect. Overnight? A few hours? Etc. If it's a bang and bye then tell her your fee is lower. Always be polite. Don't be a jack ass. Kindness will get you far. Most people on these sites treat the girls rudely and like crap. Stand out, be someone she feels she can be comfortable with. Going out for coffee or drink is equally acceptable for a meet and greet.

3- Do not bring these girls to your house. At all. Do not go to their place on the first date. Ever! You do not know who these girls are or who they may be affiliated with. You meet her for coffee. You got back to her place. She gets your pants off then some dude comes in the room with a 45 pointed at you and wants your money or he tells you to get your pants on and makes you go to the bank to empty out your account. I've heard horror stories from people who've experienced this. USE YOUR HEAD. There are plenty of deals on hotels through orbitz and other sites especially during the week or Sunday nights. I suggest a hotel with lobby access instead of Motel Six or Red Roof. You don't want anyone banging on the door either. Once you are comfortable with her then you can meet at her place. Bringing them back to your house is dangerous. You want them to know as little as possible about you. Especially if you have a family, kids, etc. Keep your shit separate. You may never realize the value in doing this until you mess up and you have her ringing your doorbell at 1 am when it's your weekend with the kids. If you think I'm way over paranoid remember this when she's demanding money from you and tells you she knows where you live.

4- Get a google phone number. This isn't hard to understand why. Especially in the beginning. Remember you want her to know as little as possible.

5- Don't believe the sob stories. Her car broke down, her electric is off, her rent is do, etc. I promise you if you ever send money without meeting you will never meet her. She will be gone and all you'll have to show for it is her pictures to get yourself off. You've just taken the incentive to meet out of the equation. She got what she wanted without breaking a sweat. I don't like meeting someone who sounds desperate or is in a bad place. The relationship is starting off under stressed circumstances and nothing positive will come off it. Usually if someone is desperate there is reason. Drugs, alcohol, whatever the problem is. Stay away. You don't want the drama and you don't want to be around someone unstable who can potentially make bad decisions. It only takes of those bad decisions to involve you which means you're way to involved.

Anyway that's all for now. If you want me to share more I will. I have stories and intel on many of the girls on SA. Also, stay away from Sugardaddyforme. They compromise your credit card.

[Dddubs2]

Met this one for coffee. Some kissing and a little foreplay. Couldn't push it further because I had to head back to the office and way too much daylight/traffic.

Anyone else have more luck before I pursue further?

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...8-261dfcd3fffc

I'm trying to meet and greet sometime this week with this one. She seems open to play and even talked about blinding folding me. But I can't tell if she's on the bigger side or really curvy. Hmm do you remember how she looks in real life?

[ArielDude28]

Again: Why would I give money to see if I want to give her money? Do you pay the dentist to sit in his waiting room?

I am with you now after this experience. Here are the details. I did not loose my 100 but here's what happened. We met for coffee on day 1 and I pay 100. Next day we meet in hotel with an agreement of 200. It was a 30 min thing and no kiss and nothing. It was such a boring mechanical session. Buying food or drink in the m&g is fine but no cash is what I decided. If someone asks for cash to meet, its indeed a red flag.

[Jasse1]

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...5-c42b4ef52f73

300.

Good attitude on phone.

Any intel?

Long time lurker, first time poster. Her and I texted a few times. Decided to google her phone number and found some interesting info. I passed. Sounded to risky.

[Jasse1]

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...5-c42b4ef52f73

300.

Good attitude on phone.

Any intel?

Long time lurker first time poster. I've texted her before. Did a google search of her number. Found a lot of interesting info. I decided to stay away.

[Ron M]

Just had one tell me she doesn't want to get physical until the 3rd date when she'll be "comfortable", but wants me to give her two each of the times we meet beforehand. I told her I'm not comfortable giving anything to anyone who isn't comfortable 😂128514;.

Again: Why would I give money to see if I want to give her money? Do you pay the dentist to sit in his waiting room?

"There's A Sucker Born Every Minute. " Unfortunately there's going to be guys falling for this. Same with the Gift Card scam.

[ChiIowa]

Guys post the links.

If they seem to be scammers atleast.

Kinda makes it easy for the rest to keep away.

[FruitNinja]

Just had one tell me she doesn't want to get physical until the 3rd date when she'll be "comfortable", but wants me to give her two each of the times we meet beforehand. I told her I'm not comfortable giving anything to anyone who isn't comfortable 😂128514;.

Again: Why would I give money to see if I want to give her money? Do you pay the dentist to sit in his waiting room?

[Agoraphobe]

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...5-c42b4ef52f73

300.

Good attitude on phone.

Any intel?

Saw her last year, pretty meh, made me wrap it up for anything and then hit me up for more money at the end. She's done some porn before as well with that casting couch guy.

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.p...h578ddcb22ad6d

[Ron M]

Wants $150 for a M&G. Doesn't speak English. The audacity with some of these girls 🤦8205;9794;65039;.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...a-454f3fe00fe0

Money is a universal word to any girl. English speaking or not.