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[Niteluvr]

I'll start with my story. I felt so guilty after my first plunge but so alive also. I knew I wanted more but the betrayal to my so of over 40 years really got to me even though I didn't see it coming. My visit to an AMP started out for economic reasons as I am a endurance athlete and massage at a "legitimate" establishment was getting too expensive. I knew there was a shady side to visiting and AMP but I thought I would take my chances. I walk in to my local AMP and get a great massage with no extras. My next visit to the same AMP ended happy as I suspected. So now I'm elated with the outcome but really down because I was keeping it a secret from my SO. It got to the point I was becoming sick with anxiety. Finally, I confessed. We have been without sex for quite a while due to her medical issues. I got an interesting response from her after I laid it all out on the line. After a time of questioning and contemplation she suggested I should go again. We had more talk on the subject of our "sexless" marriage at a later date and made a pact or a set of boundaries for me to go by. I have permission to indulge in myself in extracurricular activities within the confines of the boundaries. It sure is a lot easier now to relax and enjoy the massage and the results that follow. Now that you know my story here's my questions to all of you.

Do any of you have permission from the SO for hobbying?

Would it make it easier to enjoy the hobby if you did?

Is it the secrecy of the visits that makes it better for you?

Did you ever feel some sort of guilt after the first time?

No permission and no guilt. Love the wife, sex is good but I need to explore other women physically at times.

First, I agree with JusTheTip. To answer USABarry's questions in order:

1. No permission as I am not married. If I were married, no way in hell my ex would've given permission.

2. Of course it would be easier to hobby if an SO gave approval, but I'm sure few, if any, guys get permission.

3. When I was married, the secrecy of the visits had no effect. I hobbied to fulfill things I wasn't getting at home, plus there's nothing like variety.

4. I felt a little guilt initially but then reminded myself what a stubborn woman I had (wedding cake is the leading killer of blowjobs) so I quickly forgot about it.

Are you prepping for a Dr. Phil show?

[JayDogg90]

I'll start with my story. I felt so guilty after my first plunge but so alive also. I knew I wanted more but the betrayal to my so of over 40 years really got to me even though I didn't see it coming. My visit to an AMP started out for economic reasons as I am a endurance athlete and massage at a "legitimate" establishment was getting too expensive. I knew there was a shady side to visiting and AMP but I thought I would take my chances. I walk in to my local AMP and get a great massage with no extras. My next visit to the same AMP ended happy as I suspected. So now I'm elated with the outcome but really down because I was keeping it a secret from my SO. It got to the point I was becoming sick with anxiety. Finally, I confessed. We have been without sex for quite a while due to her medical issues. I got an interesting response from her after I laid it all out on the line. After a time of questioning and contemplation she suggested I should go again. We had more talk on the subject of our "sexless" marriage at a later date and made a pact or a set of boundaries for me to go by. I have permission to indulge in myself in extracurricular activities within the confines of the boundaries. It sure is a lot easier now to relax and enjoy the massage and the results that follow. Now that you know my story here's my questions to all of you.

Do any of you have permission from the SO for hobbying?

Would it make it easier to enjoy the hobby if you did?

Is it the secrecy of the visits that makes it better for you?

Did you ever feel some sort of guilt after the first time?

No never would say a thing to the SO. Love only her. Escorts I visit is like a fun hobby for me. No emotional attachment. Instead of stroking one out alone I'd rather use someone with good skills. Then I'm out ASAP. I've asked the SO to try and do certain things but she won't or doesn't like to, so yeah I go elsewhere to try out those things. As far as guilt? Hmm nah not really. I think I've had enough of my fill. Probably going to quiet this hobby soon.

[Just Dreaming]

I'll start with my story. I felt so guilty after my first plunge but so alive also. I knew I wanted more but the betrayal to my so of over 40 years really got to me even though I didn't see it coming. My visit to an AMP started out for economic reasons as I am a endurance athlete and massage at a "legitimate" establishment was getting too expensive. I knew there was a shady side to visiting and AMP but I thought I would take my chances. I walk in to my local AMP and get a great massage with no extras. My next visit to the same AMP ended happy as I suspected. So now I'm elated with the outcome but really down because I was keeping it a secret from my SO. It got to the point I was becoming sick with anxiety. Finally, I confessed. We have been without sex for quite a while due to her medical issues. I got an interesting response from her after I laid it all out on the line. After a time of questioning and contemplation she suggested I should go again. We had more talk on the subject of our "sexless" marriage at a later date and made a pact or a set of boundaries for me to go by. I have permission to indulge in myself in extracurricular activities within the confines of the boundaries. It sure is a lot easier now to relax and enjoy the massage and the results that follow. Now that you know my story here's my questions to all of you.

Do any of you have permission from the SO for hobbying?

Would it make it easier to enjoy the hobby if you did?

Is it the secrecy of the visits that makes it better for you?

Did you ever feel some sort of guilt after the first time?

Not married but would like to know what boundaries she set.

In place.

[Svtcobra]

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[JusTheTip]

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[JusTheTip]

I'll start with my story. I felt so guilty after my first plunge but so alive also. I knew I wanted more but the betrayal to my so of over 40 years really got to me even though I didn't see it coming. My visit to an AMP started out for economic reasons as I am a endurance athlete and massage at a "legitimate" establishment was getting too expensive. I knew there was a shady side to visiting and AMP but I thought I would take my chances. I walk in to my local AMP and get a great massage with no extras. My next visit to the same AMP ended happy as I suspected. So now I'm elated with the outcome but really down because I was keeping it a secret from my SO. It got to the point I was becoming sick with anxiety. Finally, I confessed. We have been without sex for quite a while due to her medical issues. I got an interesting response from her after I laid it all out on the line. After a time of questioning and contemplation she suggested I should go again. We had more talk on the subject of our "sexless" marriage at a later date and made a pact or a set of boundaries for me to go by. I have permission to indulge in myself in extracurricular activities within the confines of the boundaries. It sure is a lot easier now to relax and enjoy the massage and the results that follow. Now that you know my story here's my questions to all of you.

Do any of you have permission from the SO for hobbying?

Would it make it easier to enjoy the hobby if you did?

Is it the secrecy of the visits that makes it better for you?

Did you ever feel some sort of guilt after the first time?

No permission and no guilt. Love the wife, sex is good but I need to explore other women physically at times.

[The Parrot]

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The post about ten posts past this one is why we can't.

Sorry, I tried and it was proven for the 11nd millionth time why this convo can't happen on this forum.

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[USABarry]

I'll start with my story. I felt so guilty after my first plunge but so alive also. I knew I wanted more but the betrayal to my so of over 40 years really got to me even though I didn't see it coming. My visit to an AMP started out for economic reasons as I am a endurance athlete and massage at a "legitimate" establishment was getting too expensive. I knew there was a shady side to visiting and AMP but I thought I would take my chances. I walk in to my local AMP and get a great massage with no extras. My next visit to the same AMP ended happy as I suspected. So now I'm elated with the outcome but really down because I was keeping it a secret from my SO. It got to the point I was becoming sick with anxiety. Finally, I confessed. We have been without sex for quite a while due to her medical issues. I got an interesting response from her after I laid it all out on the line. After a time of questioning and contemplation she suggested I should go again. We had more talk on the subject of our "sexless" marriage at a later date and made a pact or a set of boundaries for me to go by. I have permission to indulge in myself in extracurricular activities within the confines of the boundaries. It sure is a lot easier now to relax and enjoy the massage and the results that follow. Now that you know my story here's my questions to all of you.

Do any of you have permission from the SO for hobbying?

Would it make it easier to enjoy the hobby if you did?

Is it the secrecy of the visits that makes it better for you?

Did you ever feel some sort of guilt after the first time?

[LogJammin18]

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Seriously, you guys need to by an ad

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[DonHomes]

I think I remember seeing some details on where to get one, but unsure.

Where's the best / cheapest option to get one done?

I have paid at independent Labs just google them they are all over the place usually around $250 some will even take your health insurance. Personally I want to keep that off of mine so I pay cash. I live in Tennessee you can go the the city health dept and get tested there for $20. I am sure there are other options but google your area.

[Mrmojo69]

Lady from Chattanooga wants a no-limits party. She said everything is allowed. Thursday (tomorrow) night 8 pm - 11 pm.

1. 5 admission to watch or join.

[Bbinsider]

I think I remember seeing some details on where to get one, but unsure.

Where's the best / cheapest option to get one done?

I like Plushcare.

[MrCupidStunts]

I think I remember seeing some details on where to get one, but unsure.

Where's the best / cheapest option to get one done?