Arrangement Reports

[ItsHowdyDoody]

Frankly, if you are worried about a subscription cost, you won't have a lot of success. Chicago is tough, as it is more expensive. I have eaten the cost of hotels a few times mid day, with nothing to show for it. (with tenacity tho, that person ended up actually showing up after a few hotel misses, and became my regular, just grad hs, super hot chick) I am fit and have no problem meeting someone on my own, so that helps. I negotiate, but don't insult them either.

The yuckier looking girls I won't pay anything more than a trip to a eurospa, or NG girls. Anyone over 30 I do not even bother with. (sugar daddy, not cavities) Really, since that is not my motive for the site to just have a volume of girls, I don't partake. As Kellster said some seasoned pros are on their pretending to be a bit innocent. Others are fakes, or hs girls just trying to get guys in trouble. (or scam them) You can get to know that a bit after being on there a while. This one was so hot, and so good, I almost found myself taking the bait and just sending her money for her persistence, LOL. I did not though. We had coffee for free and I moved on.

Have tried in Michigan and Wisconsin, and they are a bit cheaper, although I did find more scammers in those areas for whatever reason.

It really isn't an escort site. Until you find the super hot one you are looking for, can agree to something decent, and then its much better than agency. It can be much worse also though, their are no sure things.

[SkulLord]

It depends. If money is no object than it probably is. Even if money isn't an object- many guys won't give the sugar the gals on there are looking for. How picky are you? Are you looking for 21 yr old hardbodies or if they're out of shape / stretch marks. fat, or older are you cool with that? Can you afford a nice hotel plus incidentals like a night out on the town along with their gift? I like them fit and in shape myself. Many of the replies I got back wanted 400-600+ and that wasn't necessarily an overnight more like an hour or two plus I still would have had to get a room for many of those. One asked for minimum 1000 (she was much older than 21- like 40 by the way) and I'm in relatively good shape for my age, which I turned down by the way. If you're younger and in good shape you might have more success. Now this was just for the Chicago area which is pricey. Other parts of the country are probably cheaper. So if you travel a lot that might be better- especially if your company picks up the hotel cost. The ones that say they do want to meet sometimes go dark or worse are no shows. I'm not sure why? Maybe their profiles are fake or maybe they're not serious. Whatever the reason- booking a room ahead of time is risky as you might have to eat that cost as well as your time. Also, some on there are pros pretending to be regular gals which I wasn't looking for.

If you decide to do it- I'd only try it for a month or two. Also, there's a ton of good info on the Richmond, VA forum. I would read some of the basics and try to learn from the more experienced sugar mongers- keeping in mind that Richmond is cheaper than Chicago so the gifts are lower there.

Wow thanks for the awsome reply will try to see what is the best thanks alot again for the advice.

[Kellster]

Ok so my quesrion is is it worth the money or to stick with NG girls from backpage till I get verified from EEC and Angelisangels.

It depends. If money is no object than it probably is. Even if money isn't an object- many guys won't give the sugar the gals on there are looking for. How picky are you? Are you looking for 21 yr old hardbodies or if they're out of shape / stretch marks. fat, or older are you cool with that? Can you afford a nice hotel plus incidentals like a night out on the town along with their gift? I like them fit and in shape myself. Many of the replies I got back wanted 400-600+ and that wasn't necessarily an overnight more like an hour or two plus I still would have had to get a room for many of those. One asked for minimum 1000 (she was much older than 21- like 40 by the way) and I'm in relatively good shape for my age, which I turned down by the way. If you're younger and in good shape you might have more success. Now this was just for the Chicago area which is pricey. Other parts of the country are probably cheaper. So if you travel a lot that might be better- especially if your company picks up the hotel cost. The ones that say they do want to meet sometimes go dark or worse are no shows. I'm not sure why? Maybe their profiles are fake or maybe they're not serious. Whatever the reason- booking a room ahead of time is risky as you might have to eat that cost as well as your time. Also, some on there are pros pretending to be regular gals which I wasn't looking for.

If you decide to do it- I'd only try it for a month or two. Also, there's a ton of good info on the Richmond, VA forum. I would read some of the basics and try to learn from the more experienced sugar mongers- keeping in mind that Richmond is cheaper than Chicago so the gifts are lower there.

[WPGuy]

I have been on SA--looking for 5 months and subscribed 2 months. It seems to be a buyer's market out here in Colorado; I didn't find it so much that way back in Illinois on a recent trip so YMMV. I would recommend only subscribing month to month. I had no trouble getting many, many good responses that were affordable. I am a fat, old retired guy. I just had 3 fantastic hours this morning with my 24 year old College babe. She's not the fittest girl on the planet, but her 38 DD's and fantastic deep kissing more than make up for any deficit in looks.

You can see my review in the Colorado Springs forum. I try to get a text number and / or email ASAP so I don't have to keep subscribing; I think it's expensive for the subscription. It is much better than Secret Benefits at least out here. The SB chat is TERRIBLE! This sugar baby thing is soooooo much better than the massage / escort scene--at least for me. I want to play, but I also want a connection to the girl as well. Happy hunting.

Hey guys,

I just found out about SA so my question is in order to be able to chat / start conversation with someone do you need to be a premium user.

[SkulLord]

Yup. That's their thing. You can look but you cannot touch without coughing up the $$.

Ok so my quesrion is is it worth the money or to stick with NG girls from backpage till I get verified from EEC and Angelisangels.

[Randolph]

Hey guys,

I just found out about SA so my question is in order to be able to chat / start conversation with someone do you need to be a premium user.

Yup. That's their thing. You can look but you cannot touch without coughing up the $$.

[Brody17]

Hey guys,

I just found out about SA so my question is in order to be able to chat / start conversation with someone do you need to be a premium user.

Yes. Non premium access only let's you look.

[SkulLord]

Hey guys,

I just found out about SA so my question is in order to be able to chat / start conversation with someone do you need to be a premium user.

[ItsHowdyDoody]

I was seeing a hot 23 year old from the city. We agreed to $300 per meet, plus I had to pay for hotel and drinks, so we are talking about $400 per date. She did show me proof of her college bills she was going to pay off with the allowance. We met a couple times and had out of control rough, sweaty sex. There was good chemistry. She would orgasm so much, her juices would flow down the condom and leave my balls wet. Very satisfying, energy draining sex.

By the third date, she is trying to get me to raise the allowance to $375, not to mention I still have to pay for a hotel room. She reads me wrong as some desperate loser that she has got wrapped around her finger. I balk and tell her I can't go higher. She gets all pissed off and tries playing the guilt game, but I have none of it and just ignore her texts and calls. A week later she apologizes and says we can fuck at her apartment at the original allowance. I still ignore her. About three more weeks later, she is offering her apartment for $250 per date. She says she just needs my dick in her pussy. I am still debating whether to take up her new offer, but the moral of the story is: if you are fucking her like she has never been fucked before, you hold the bargaining power in the arrangement, not her.

SA actually accidentally upgraded me to a Diamond member so I am getting a higher volume of messages than I'm used to. If anyone is interested in trading info on verified performers, PM me.

SDX.

Just sounds like a battle of ego between arranger and arrangee. She maybe didn't like it or care / need it as much as you thought, but she may also have decided she was wrong to ask more. Someone like that is fishing around for other mongers so I would personally move on. The one I just let go was due to her getting a real bf, I never would have asked her for more than what she gave, out of the blue, and she wouldn't have jacked price on me out of the blue either. Just sounds like.

Something off, from someone not invested in the matter.

[Ron M]

I was seeing a hot 23 year old from the city. We agreed to $300 per meet, plus I had to pay for hotel and drinks, so we are talking about $400 per date. She did show me proof of her college bills she was going to pay off with the allowance. We met a couple times and had out of control rough, sweaty sex. There was good chemistry. She would orgasm so much, her juices would flow down the condom and leave my balls wet. Very satisfying, energy draining sex.

By the third date, she is trying to get me to raise the allowance to $375, not to mention I still have to pay for a hotel room. She reads me wrong as some desperate loser that she has got wrapped around her finger. I balk and tell her I can't go higher. She gets all pissed off and tries playing the guilt game, but I have none of it and just ignore her texts and calls. A week later she apologizes and says we can fuck at her apartment at the original allowance. I still ignore her. About three more weeks later, she is offering her apartment for $250 per date. She says she just needs my dick in her pussy. I am still debating whether to take up her new offer, but the moral of the story is: if you are fucking her like she has never been fucked before, you hold the bargaining power in the arrangement, not her.

SA actually accidentally upgraded me to a Diamond member so I am getting a higher volume of messages than I'm used to. If anyone is interested in trading info on verified performers, PM me.

SDX.

Way too many other girls to play with than dealing with this GPS drama. Dump this one and find another girl to play with in your price range.

[Pau Ford]

I haven't had a girl try to raise the rate, but I've had several drop their rate. Usually when I'm ready to move on to a new girl I'll just tell them my situation has changed at work and I need to scale back my activities. Some have in turn dropped their rate.

It could have been about the quality dick. But my hunch was that it was because they didn't want to lose weekly money with a decent guy. Girls always seem to say how guys on SA are d-bags, rude, creeps, fakes, etc. When they find a guy who's a good guy, not a fake, etc. They come to realize that it's worth it to take less money with a decent guy than go through the whole process of trying to weed through creeps to find another decent guy. A bird in the hand was better for her than jumping back into the SA pool.

Just my 2 cents and experience.

I was seeing a hot 23 year old from the city. We agreed to $300 per meet, plus I had to pay for hotel and drinks, so we are talking about $400 per date. She did show me proof of her college bills she was going to pay off with the allowance. We met a couple times and had out of control rough, sweaty sex. There was good chemistry. She would orgasm so much, her juices would flow down the condom and leave my balls wet. Very satisfying, energy draining sex.

By the third date, she is trying to get me to raise the allowance to $375, not to mention I still have to pay for a hotel room. She reads me wrong as some desperate loser that she has got wrapped around her finger. I balk and tell her I can't go higher. She gets all pissed off and tries playing the guilt game, but I have none of it and just ignore her texts and calls. A week later she apologizes and says we can fuck at her apartment at the original allowance. I still ignore her. About three more weeks later, she is offering her apartment for $250 per date. She says she just needs my dick in her pussy. I am still debating whether to take up her new offer, but the moral of the story is: if you are fucking her like she has never been fucked before, you hold the bargaining power in the arrangement, not her.

SA actually accidentally upgraded me to a Diamond member so I am getting a higher volume of messages than I'm used to. If anyone is interested in trading info on verified performers, PM me.

SDX.

[SugarDaddyX]

I was seeing a hot 23 year old from the city. We agreed to $300 per meet, plus I had to pay for hotel and drinks, so we are talking about $400 per date. She did show me proof of her college bills she was going to pay off with the allowance. We met a couple times and had out of control rough, sweaty sex. There was good chemistry. She would orgasm so much, her juices would flow down the condom and leave my balls wet. Very satisfying, energy draining sex.

By the third date, she is trying to get me to raise the allowance to $375, not to mention I still have to pay for a hotel room. She reads me wrong as some desperate loser that she has got wrapped around her finger. I balk and tell her I can't go higher. She gets all pissed off and tries playing the guilt game, but I have none of it and just ignore her texts and calls. A week later she apologizes and says we can fuck at her apartment at the original allowance. I still ignore her. About three more weeks later, she is offering her apartment for $250 per date. She says she just needs my dick in her pussy. I am still debating whether to take up her new offer, but the moral of the story is: if you are fucking her like she has never been fucked before, you hold the bargaining power in the arrangement, not her.

SA actually accidentally upgraded me to a Diamond member so I am getting a higher volume of messages than I'm used to. If anyone is interested in trading info on verified performers, PM me.

SDX.

[FruitNinja]

Is willing to meet for 300 Wednesday. Checking her number yields nothing. Hoping for any helpful info here or via my inbox.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...a-521103b44236

I realize I'm new and all and am also new to SA, but I'll definitely contribute as I have more experience with the SA women. There are several other hotties who have made it clear they would play with whom I'm getting to know (Snapchat mostly) but haven't met because I don't have a lot of free time and I live in Wisconsin (SA disaster here ha) that I would share, probably best via my inbox.

Here's one more: PrincessDakota1, who wants 400:

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...7-6693840bb9bc

Thanks to all here for the very helpful information.

Only been on here for a few weeks and have been making a killing. Met three, two of which are fucking amazing in bed. Seems that most are a little chubby but a chubby 20 year old is right up my alley. These two are definitely traveling pros. They are not in Chicago anymore. One I had was a total dud. Cute as hell but a starfish. Couldn't suck dick for shit. I had one that wanted to have breakfast. If she wasn't interested no cost but if she was then it would be 300 and she would fuck me the next time. She wanted a $600 allowance. Yeah pay for my breakfast, give me $300 because you know she would be interested and then your number gets blocked. Do guys actually fall for this shit? Jeez!

[Troy Akerman]

Tried sending you a message. You are full.

Would you like to play with this nympho MILF? HUGE natural tits. All holes open. And she squirts like a fire hydrant. I met her through SA. She can host at her home in Aurora near the Premium Outlets. The thing is if you text her be quick to set a meeting up because she won't hesitate to block you. She loves sexting and dirty talk, so don't be shy. Just tell her when you can see her and how much you're offering.

The first 5 contributing seniors can pm me for her number. If you have a white SA girl or an UTR to offer me that would be great, but not necessary.

[Zimbler]

Would you like to play with this nympho MILF? HUGE natural tits. All holes open. And she squirts like a fire hydrant. I met her through SA. She can host at her home in Aurora near the Premium Outlets. The thing is if you text her be quick to set a meeting up because she won't hesitate to block you. She loves sexting and dirty talk, so don't be shy. Just tell her when you can see her and how much you're offering.

The first 5 contributing seniors can pm me for her number. If you have a white SA girl or an UTR to offer me that would be great, but not necessary.