WYP, SA, and other SD sites

[Shock55]

Thanks for the post. It's useful information for me as I just discovered this site and have decided to try it out for the new year.

Burned out on the SW scene long ago. Your heads up will leave me more fully prepared on what to expect. At least (hopefully) it appears that they are not all on drugs.

Actually none of the ladies I've met from SA appeared to be on drugs. Patience is key though, you'll have to invest a lot of time on the site to find the diamonds. Ladies get on and off quick, so when you send a message, sometimes it's a day or so before they message back so conversations can take a while to develop. Then per my prior message, there are a lot of flakes and fakes that you have to weed through. I've gone through long dry spells and then wind up finding 2 or 3 new friends all real close together.

[Keemosobie]

So this might be a bit of a rant but it's SA related so hopefully no issues with me putting it here. I've had good success with SA. In 11 months, I've met 10 ladies for a total of 28 meetings. My average cost which includes the cost of the SA membership is $207 per meeting. It's low because I had one baby that was only $150 that I saw many times. I've never done more than $300 per meet.

So, my rant, lord there are so many flakes on there. Can't tell you how many times I message someone, they message back with a Hi and a how are you, and then I make bland conversation, like how was your Christmas or day, then they stop responding even though you see them signed on. So many ladies on there trying to sell pics or videos. LOL. Do guys really pay for that? I mean come on, you can get porn for free all day long online.

Anyways, just venting.

Thanks for the post. It's useful information for me as I just discovered this site and have decided to try it out for the new year.

Burned out on the SW scene long ago. Your heads up will leave me more fully prepared on what to expect. At least (hopefully) it appears that they are not all on drugs.

[Shock55]

So this might be a bit of a rant but it's SA related so hopefully no issues with me putting it here. I've had good success with SA. In 11 months, I've met 10 ladies for a total of 28 meetings. My average cost which includes the cost of the SA membership is $207 per meeting. It's low because I had one baby that was only $150 that I saw many times. I've never done more than $300 per meet.

So, my rant, lord there are so many flakes on there. Can't tell you how many times I message someone, they message back with a Hi and a how are you, and then I make bland conversation, like how was your Christmas or day, then they stop responding even though you see them signed on. So many ladies on there trying to sell pics or videos. LOL. Do guys really pay for that? I mean come on, you can get porn for free all day long online.

Anyways, just venting.

[Hugh Jardon]

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...e-740b964a5172

Here is her message to me "Basically I want you to get a room and fuck the shit out of me in front of my fwb and spoil me. He doesn't want anything except to watch me being dirty. Does this sound like something you'd be interested in?

"Danger Will Robinson" or I am being too paranoid?

You never know until you try. I've had a few experiences like this where the husband / bf just wanted to watch while me and the lady banged away. Sometimes, he hopped on afterwards, sometimes he didn't. See what the vibe is like when you meet, keep your antennas up, and see what happens. I had a couple like this that I met once a month for a couple years and it was great.

[VeryBigBuck]

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...e-740b964a5172

Here is her message to me "Basically I want you to get a room and fuck the shit out of me in front of my fwb and spoil me. He doesn't want anything except to watch me being dirty. Does this sound like something you'd be interested in?

"Danger Will Robinson" or I am being too paranoid?

[Dbiz01]

Alluring sparkle is still active profile.

Tiny- I had emailed her too but she flaked as well and I never heard from again.

SA no different than BP. Totally waste of time.

[GrimmShipTrees]

In my quest to find a great Asian I ran across a gal who had "Want to have a good time" as her tag line, and "Come find me for a fun night out!" in her details. Our definitions of these things were radically different. When I met her it became clear that to her all this really meant was that she wanted to meet guys for nice dinners out and talk. Which, to be honest, was pretty pleasant once I decided to just relax and go with it. Really smart girl and a good conversation. But that wasn't the point of the exercise, from my end anyway.

-grimm.

Gentlemen:

What do you think when a POT SB's profile says "love to have fun" To me it might mean, I love sex, but I am not sure if POT SB think this way.

[VeryBigBuck]

Gentlemen:

What do you think when a POT SB's profile says "love to have fun" To me it might mean, I love sex, but I am not sure if POT SB think this way.

[Whistles]

She and I have been chatting since last night. Gave up the digits this morning. She seems to know what she wants now. She wanted to feel me out and figure out our wants in an arrangement beforehand though. She wants to be in more of a actual SB arrangement. Right now she's pushing $$$ until I'm spent. Looking at my New years bonus I may just treat myself and indulge further with a meet and greet a couple days after Christmas. Though, I kinda want private selfies because almost TGTBT to me. Will update after Christmas I hope.

I'm skeptical. She switched over to Kik for me, then insisted I pick her up but kept dicking around about giving me her address until I gave up. If anyone meets this girl, please share.

[BikeRider]

1) Alluring sparkle.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...3-4b7752ffe691

Can anyone still see this profile? I recognized her because her older sister used to advertise on BP. I've found both of their FB accounts years ago. I made the mistake of messaging Alluring sparkle telling her bits of what I know about her, and asking if she was interested in an arrangement, and almost immediately I can't see her profile anymore, LOL.

I can see her profile. She blocked you. It's never a good idea to tell a girl what you know about her from the fine forum or your cyber stalking skills. It creeps most people out.

Not bad for a BP girl.

[Nugen]

1) Alluring sparkle.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...3-4b7752ffe691

Can anyone still see this profile? I recognized her because her older sister used to advertise on BP. I've found both of their FB accounts years ago. I made the mistake of messaging Alluring sparkle telling her bits of what I know about her, and asking if she was interested in an arrangement, and almost immediately I can't see her profile anymore, LOL.

2) Tinytx3.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...9-9b663082c21f

I actually found this one months ago, but I just realized that I hadn't asked about her on this forum before. I'm pretty sure this one advertised on BP years ago. I recognized her because she was a FB friend of Jennie / Samantha, another BP girl whom I've talked about a number of times on the BP subforum. (Tragically Jennie died 2 years ago.) We were in the midst of negotiating an arrangement, but then messaging abruptly ceased -- maybe I was too forward in saying what I wanted. I'm curious if anyone here has seen her.

3) Kaylaxo_.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...2-bc521db99106

Her profile pic looks awfully familiar. Maybe I've seen the pic on BP or LER or EB somewhere, and that the reports there were that the pic was fake? I have not messaged her yet. Has anyone seen her?

Alluring sparkle is still active profile.

Tiny- I had emailed her too but she flaked as well and I never heard from again.

[GrimmShipTrees]

After a few messages back and forth with mbali (https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...1-8bd33159e8d4), she hits me with the "Send me the money now so I can get my nails and hair done and look good, and tell me where and when and I will meet you". Yeah. Right. I sent a quick nope, and then she wanted me to pay for pics and videos.

Pics and videos? Pay? Seriously? Don't this chicks realize that a virtually infinite amount of free porn is available with no effort and only the cost of bandwidth, which is a sunk cost anyway? Even worse, there are guys paying for that. I don't get it. At all.

Has anyone seen https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...5-93a028eee0a6 ? She looks good but I am a bit leery of someone willing to entertain in their home right off. Seems like an unnecessary risk.

FoxyMama (https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...b-debce89fe1fe) is significantly older but DTF after a few messages. The only hitch for me was she is too damn far away.

-grimm.

[GrimmShipTrees]

I can still see sparkle's profile, though it looks newly created today, but I know I have seen it before. So she must be playing some kinds of games.

-grimm.

1) Alluring sparkle.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...3-4b7752ffe691

Can anyone still see this profile? I recognized her because her older sister used to advertise on BP. I've found both of their FB accounts years ago. I made the mistake of messaging Alluring sparkle telling her bits of what I know about her, and asking if she was interested in an arrangement, and almost immediately I can't see her profile anymore, LOL.

2) Tinytx3.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...9-9b663082c21f

I actually found this one months ago, but I just realized that I hadn't asked about her on this forum before. I'm pretty sure this one advertised on BP years ago. I recognized her because she was a FB friend of Jennie / Samantha, another BP girl whom I've talked about a number of times on the BP subforum. (Tragically Jennie died 2 years ago.) We were in the midst of negotiating an arrangement, but then messaging abruptly ceased -- maybe I was too forward in saying what I wanted. I'm curious if anyone here has seen her.

3) Kaylaxo_.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...2-bc521db99106

Her profile pic looks awfully familiar. Maybe I've seen the pic on BP or LER or EB somewhere, and that the reports there were that the pic was fake? I have not messaged her yet. Has anyone seen her?

[EumYang]

1) Alluring sparkle.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...3-4b7752ffe691

Can anyone still see this profile? I recognized her because her older sister used to advertise on BP. I've found both of their FB accounts years ago. I made the mistake of messaging Alluring sparkle telling her bits of what I know about her, and asking if she was interested in an arrangement, and almost immediately I can't see her profile anymore, LOL.

2) Tinytx3.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...9-9b663082c21f

I actually found this one months ago, but I just realized that I hadn't asked about her on this forum before. I'm pretty sure this one advertised on BP years ago. I recognized her because she was a FB friend of Jennie / Samantha, another BP girl whom I've talked about a number of times on the BP subforum. (Tragically Jennie died 2 years ago.) We were in the midst of negotiating an arrangement, but then messaging abruptly ceased -- maybe I was too forward in saying what I wanted. I'm curious if anyone here has seen her.

3) Kaylaxo_.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...2-bc521db99106

Her profile pic looks awfully familiar. Maybe I've seen the pic on BP or LER or EB somewhere, and that the reports there were that the pic was fake? I have not messaged her yet. Has anyone seen her?

[GrimmShipTrees]

It is non-uniform. There are small areas of some nice, but also a fair number of abandon blocks. According to the Baltimore Police Crime Database, Lower Park-Heights has one of the highest crime rates in Baltimore, which is a pretty high bar. Nearer to the zoo is "lower", and near the several blocks of burning, looting, and rioting a couple years back. That having been said, I have been to most areas of Baltimore, and never feel personally threatened. Your biggest danger is probably getting randomly caught up in something unrelated, or the person you are wanting to meet being a malicious actor.

--grimm.

I'm reaching out to the Baltimore City experts. If someone says they are from Park Heights, sort of near the zoo, what does that tell you? I don't know the area and there are many sketchy parts of Baltimore (like any city). I'm not looking to meet someone from the ghetto and I'm certainly not looking to explore any bad areas of Baltimore myself. Any help is appreciated.