WYP, SA, and other SD sites

**Wbm23** · 12-21-17 11:35

Originally Posted by VeryBigBuck [View Original Post]

I messaged with her 13 days ago, she said that she was still in Indonesia, but moving to Baltimore on Dec 10th so she must be here now. She was wondering why all the men on SA were asking her what her allowance expectation was, she says she is not that kind of girl. LOL.

She and I have been chatting since last night. Gave up the digits this morning. She seems to know what she wants now. She wanted to feel me out and figure out our wants in an arrangement beforehand though. She wants to be in more of a actual SB arrangement. Right now she's pushing $$$ until I'm spent. Looking at my New years bonus I may just treat myself and indulge further with a meet and greet a couple days after Christmas. Though, I kinda want private selfies because almost TGTBT to me. Will update after Christmas I hope.

**BoobyHunter** · 12-19-17 14:30

As mentioned earlier from another member, I also started to go through a dry spell. Didn't really check for like 2 weeks. All of a sudden there seems to be a bunch of new additions on SA. Probably because exams are over and Christmas season. I've been talking to a few, but some have overestimated their worth. I'm sure the next few weeks are going to be blowing up with new girls.

**SBWanted** · 12-18-17 19:06

I'm reaching out to the Baltimore City experts. If someone says they are from Park Heights, sort of near the zoo, what does that tell you? I don't know the area and there are many sketchy parts of Baltimore (like any city). I'm not looking to meet someone from the ghetto and I'm certainly not looking to explore any bad areas of Baltimore myself. Any help is appreciated.

**BikeRider** · 12-18-17 16:03

Originally Posted by YeongIl [View Original Post]

1)
7) Jessica-Yessica.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...6-095a408ff544

There was a profile pic, but she removed it for some reason. Also seems to be DTF, but we didn't get far in messaging because I since found girl #4 above.

She also use to say in her profile she wouldn't meet anyone without current STD tests, and wanted to chat a bit first. I texted (she gave me her digits) with her for some time, but she was always VERY slow in replying. Given that she's dramatically changed her profile, you have to wonder if it just someone playing games.

**EumYang** · 12-18-17 06:41

1) Soulfulaquarius.

Originally Posted by YeongIl [View Original Post]

Anyone met up with this one?

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...1-1429d02aca77

I later found out that she doesn't want anything physical.

2) shel123 xo.

Originally Posted by CG53 [View Original Post]

Wow, this one wanted to text. After some back and forth she goes straight to talking dirty. And wanted a pic of me. I didn't talk back but said thanks and have a good life.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...b-7adf3705c888

I had been chatting with this one as well. She hasn't asked me for a pic yet. I found her FB. She's a college senior from Delaware, but attends school in Baltimore. She seems to be DTF. But lately messages have been sporadic, probably because of exams. As it is, I won't pursue further, because of girl #4 below.

3) I'm an Asian girl.

Originally Posted by GrimmShipTrees [View Original Post]

Same with this one:

https://seekingarrangement.com/membe...d-8734152ad866

Though I may have dodged the bullet with her. All her messages were like: blah blah blah I am depressed because I am in debt, mostly ignoring the "I can help you with that". Maybe I am just being too subtle. I am waiting for a few exchanges before talking allowance. Maybe I should be more up front. Dunno.

I had chatted with this one, too. I think I was pretty forward with what I wanted when messaging her, but then she said something like, "I don't know if I would be comfortable with that," and all messaging ceased.

4) Sorry gents, but I'm keeping this one to myself. Some firsts here for me. First 18 year old (that I can verify) in my 15 years of mongering. First girl that I found myself who hasn't been mentioned before on this thread. First girl with whom I spent the night (as a mongerer). Funny thing is, she's not in school currently but wants to go to CCBC next year. She mentioned that she sucks at math, and since I've tutored younger cousins and family friends in math before, I may offer to tutor her in exchange for a lower donation LOL.

5) Rosegirl19.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...c-de31be38e12e

Her profile seems to indicate that she's DTF. But when I messaged her asking if she wanted financial assistance, she replied "Sorry, not interested. " At least she told me LOL. Most girls just ignore me and not reply to my messages. I am curious, though, if anyone else has been chatting with her.

6) Pricilla Marie.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...f-60da43dc541f

Online only. I can't see her profile anymore, so I don't know if she deactivated it or if she blocked me.

7) Jessica-Yessica.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...6-095a408ff544

There was a profile pic, but she removed it for some reason. Also seems to be DTF, but we didn't get far in messaging because I since found girl #4 above.

**BikeRider** · 12-18-17 00:12

Originally Posted by GrimmShipTrees [View Original Post]

Has anyone had any luck with the chicks on SA who write platonic only? And what is with the luxury / high expectations gals? Even more the financial domination ones? I had no clue what that was, I had to look it up. Are there seriously guys out there that just want to fork over cash on demand without any compensatory arrangement? WTF?

I am just angry because I am going through a dry spell on SA. Had something lined up for tomorrow but the gal clammed up when I sent her the requested pic. Seriously, I am not that ugly. I think anyway.

Has anyone seen this gal:

https://seekingarrangement.com/membe...d-25d17e559804

I had a convo going with her and a meet scheduled, but couldn't get a response to finalize -- no pick involved so it wasn't that:

Same with this one:

https://seekingarrangement.com/membe...d-8734152ad866

Though I may have dodged the bullet with her. All her messages were like: blah blah blah I am depressed because I am in debt, mostly ignoring the "I can help you with that". Maybe I am just being too subtle. I am waiting for a few exchanges before talking allowance. Maybe I should be more up front. Dunno.

Grimm.

I'm pretty sure most of the women putting findom have no idea what the true definition is. I think this was mentioned on the Richmond thread.

As for the POTs going silent with no explanation. Welcome to the bowl! Shit happens. It's not you. Keep Calm and Carry on!

**SBWanted** · 12-18-17 00:11

I can't say I've had any luck with these types of girls, but I've never tried that hard. I usually just pass most of them over. I've always wondered if this is actually something that works or if they just end up going away, realizing their dream of getting rich for doing nothing ain't happening.

I've been having a dry spell myself right now also.

Originally Posted by GrimmShipTrees [View Original Post]

Has anyone had any luck with the chicks on SA who write platonic only? And what is with the luxury / high expectations gals? Even more the financial domination ones? I had no clue what that was, I had to look it up. Are there seriously guys out there that just want to fork over cash on demand without any compensatory arrangement? WTF?

I am just angry because I am going through a dry spell on SA. Had something lined up for tomorrow but the gal clammed up when I sent her the requested pic. Seriously, I am not that ugly. I think anyway.

Has anyone seen this gal:

https://seekingarrangement.com/membe...d-25d17e559804

I had a convo going with her and a meet scheduled, but couldn't get a response to finalize -- no pick involved so it wasn't that:

Same with this one:

https://seekingarrangement.com/membe...d-8734152ad866

Though I may have dodged the bullet with her. All her messages were like: blah blah blah I am depressed because I am in debt, mostly ignoring the "I can help you with that". Maybe I am just being too subtle. I am waiting for a few exchanges before talking allowance. Maybe I should be more up front. Dunno.

Grimm.

**GrimmShipTrees** · 12-17-17 16:22

Has anyone had any luck with the chicks on SA who write platonic only? And what is with the luxury / high expectations gals? Even more the financial domination ones? I had no clue what that was, I had to look it up. Are there seriously guys out there that just want to fork over cash on demand without any compensatory arrangement? WTF?

I am just angry because I am going through a dry spell on SA. Had something lined up for tomorrow but the gal clammed up when I sent her the requested pic. Seriously, I am not that ugly. I think anyway.

Has anyone seen this gal:

https://seekingarrangement.com/membe...d-25d17e559804

I had a convo going with her and a meet scheduled, but couldn't get a response to finalize -- no pick involved so it wasn't that:

Same with this one:

https://seekingarrangement.com/membe...d-8734152ad866

Though I may have dodged the bullet with her. All her messages were like: blah blah blah I am depressed because I am in debt, mostly ignoring the "I can help you with that". Maybe I am just being too subtle. I am waiting for a few exchanges before talking allowance. Maybe I should be more up front. Dunno.

Grimm.

**VeryBigBuck** · 12-16-17 22:37

Originally Posted by BikeRider [View Original Post]

Asian outside of Baltimore. Does anyone have 411 on her? I've been chatting and she won't give out a phone number. That's usually a major red flag for me.

I messaged with her 13 days ago, she said that she was still in Indonesia, but moving to Baltimore on Dec 10th so she must be here now. She was wondering why all the men on SA were asking her what her allowance expectation was, she says she is not that kind of girl. LOL.

**BikeRider** · 12-16-17 13:25

Asian outside of Baltimore. Does anyone have 411 on her? I've been chatting and she won't give out a phone number. That's usually a major red flag for me.

**GrimmShipTrees** · 12-15-17 19:50

I probably should have done the same as you and passed, but I drove all the way damn out there, and just figured why not.

--grimm.

Originally Posted by JimInbMore [View Original Post]

I met her for breakfast / coffee. Thought she might be hot but all I could smell when I picked her up at her house (turn off) was cigarette smoke (turn off #2). Also, I thought she looked much better in her pics than in person. In person was a bit of a let down for me.

If she didn't give all the signs of being an emergency baby, I might have indulged.

**GrimmShipTrees** · 12-15-17 19:45

Check your PM sir.

-grimm.

Originally Posted by Iron8025 [View Original Post]

She's been contacted me quite a bit. I wasn't sure if she was a pro. Could you give a little info on your hook-up? Feel free to PM me. Thanks!

**BuffBill75** · 12-15-17 19:22

Originally Posted by JimInbMore [View Original Post]

To me, unless she's the best you've ever had in the bedroom, this is grounds for terminating an arrangement. I've had cancellations before, even after I had booked a room, but it has always been for a good reason. Babysitting fell through, got phone stolen, etc.

Funny how often babies lose their phone or it gets stolen LOL.

**SpiceOfLife** · 12-15-17 13:51

Originally Posted by GrimmShipTrees [View Original Post]

I met up with this gal: https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...2-3bc53678f5a5.

Pics are accurate (if anything she is skinnier in person), and she was willing to go full BB. I am too paranoid for that though, though round one was BBBJ to completion. I would urge anyone interested to move fast though b / c I think she is in the early stages of a new HABIT, so looks will fade. Damage was 1. 5 (plus the get to know you lunch), though she asked for 2.

I admit I had doubts about SA, but I have a lot of good prospects from there.

--grimm.

That price is about right given the pix, though those pix look to be 8-9 years old, at least some of them. I bet she'll go even lower.

**JimInbMore** · 12-15-17 13:50

Originally Posted by BuffBill75 [View Original Post]

I've seen this girl a few times. We had something setup for 11 am today at her place.

I text her at 10.15.

"oh sorry, I'm just getting up can we make it 12?" SB.

"sure no problem" ME.

Go fuck around for a while and blow off an hour.

"Hey I'm on my way" ME.

"Oh I just need some more time. How about 1 pm? Is that ok?" SB.

"sure. See you then" ME.

Go and fuck off for another hour.

"Hey I'm on my way. See you in 15 mins" ME.

"Oh I just went downstairs and found out my roommate is home. Can we meet Monday or Tuesday?" SB.

"nope I'm out of town. " ME.

"when are you free again?" SB.

"No. Clue" ME.

" Are you mad?" SB.

Looks like I may have to put this one in the penalty box for a while.

What do you guys do in this situation?

To me, unless she's the best you've ever had in the bedroom, this is grounds for terminating an arrangement. I've had cancellations before, even after I had booked a room, but it has always been for a good reason. Babysitting fell through, got phone stolen, etc.