Seeking Arrangements

[Member #6503]

I just repeated with one today. She just left my house. She said she enjoyed having sex with me because she's a single mom and most of the guys she deals with on here don't want sex, just companionship, aka arm candy. Lot's of older guys that don't care about sex anymore and can afford it. She stated she got 400 from a guy the other night, no sex. Seeing how tight she was, I believe her.

This has to be true and I will never understand it.

[Spike77]

In my experience it isn't a front. I had one who wanted me to pay her to send me daily inspirational txt's. Given the amount who expect platonic arrangements there has to some sorry assholes paying them for this nonsense.

I just repeated with one today. She just left my house. She said she enjoyed having sex with me because she's a single mom and most of the guys she deals with on here don't want sex, just companionship, aka arm candy. Lot's of older guys that don't care about sex anymore and can afford it. She stated she got 400 from a guy the other night, no sex. Seeing how tight she was, I believe her.

[Member #6503]

Girls that say platonic or no-intimacy in their profile mean it. They won't change their mind after they meet you. A year ago you came across platonic once in a long while. Now it's every third profile. There's been a significant shift in girls offering less and less and expecting more.

It's a recurring theme on SA. Girls that talk at length about "me, me, me, what I want, what you'll give me, I have high expectations, we'll do all these things (travel, fine dining, shopping) for me, me, me, me". In the end you, the SD, are just a prop for these girls. What you might want or need as a SD is irrelevant and unimportant to them. It's the result of a combination of them thinking they're "unique" and "special" and seeing the guys as lonely and desperate. They never stop for a minute to think that the guys with something to offer a SB, those that have their shit together and would like a long term arrangement, would never waste a single minute of their time with them.

You sum up my exact experience in a nutshell. There's not much that is mutually beneficial.

[EvilTmp]

Girls that say platonic or no-intimacy in their profile mean it. They won't change their mind after they meet you. A year ago you came across platonic once in a long while. Now it's every third profile. There's been a significant shift in girls offering less and less and expecting more.

It's a recurring theme on SA. Girls that talk at length about "me, me, me, what I want, what you'll give me, I have high expectations, we'll do all these things (travel, fine dining, shopping) for me, me, me, me". In the end you, the SD, are just a prop for these girls. What you might want or need as a SD is irrelevant and unimportant to them. It's the result of a combination of them thinking they're "unique" and "special" and seeing the guys as lonely and desperate. They never stop for a minute to think that the guys with something to offer a SB, those that have their shit together and would like a long term arrangement, would never waste a single minute of their time with them.

Made a profile and going through reading profiles. They women / girls have got to be kidding.

They think men are going to mentor them, buy them things, spend time with them platonically, and then pay them with out having sex? Hahahaha.

Can't count how many profiles say no sex or looking to make a connection but not for sex, want to be taken out and shown a good time and get paid for it. Again hahahahah.

Serious question to the guys who have been on SA for a while. How many times do you get a girl there that is actually thinking they are going to get paid to hang out and eat or shop or go to the movies with you?

Is all of that crap just a front so you don't think they will just meet and bang your brains out?

Please give me some idea of what is up there before I sign up.

Thanks guys.

[Member #6503]

Made a profile and going through reading profiles. They women / girls have got to be kidding.

They think men are going to mentor them, buy them things, spend time with them platonically, and then pay them with out having sex? Hahahaha.

Can't count how many profiles say no sex or looking to make a connection but not for sex, want to be taken out and shown a good time and get paid for it. Again hahahahah.

Serious question to the guys who have been on SA for a while. How many times do you get a girl there that is actually thinking they are going to get paid to hang out and eat or shop or go to the movies with you?

Is all of that crap just a front so you don't think they will just meet and bang your brains out?

Please give me some idea of what is up there before I sign up.

Thanks guys.

In my experience it isn't a front. I had one who wanted me to pay her to send me daily inspirational txt's. Given the amount who expect platonic arrangements there has to some sorry assholes paying them for this nonsense.

[BostonMan781]

From the projects, no transportation. Kind of flaky but I thought she was hot (in a project girl way LOL!) Will take it in all holes, raw with a little effort. Asks for $300 but can be had for a little less.

Let me know if any of you dogs see her, Haha.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...d-54b3be2f7f80

Pretty sure I saw this one. I didn't directly ask for anything but for her "time" and she was like a emotional rollcoaster and she looks way worse in person. Drugged out.

[Rome400]

Made a profile and going through reading profiles. They women / girls have got to be kidding.

They think men are going to mentor them, buy them things, spend time with them platonically, and then pay them with out having sex? Hahahaha.

Can't count how many profiles say no sex or looking to make a connection but not for sex, want to be taken out and shown a good time and get paid for it. Again hahahahah.

Serious question to the guys who have been on SA for a while. How many times do you get a girl there that is actually thinking they are going to get paid to hang out and eat or shop or go to the movies with you?

Is all of that crap just a front so you don't think they will just meet and bang your brains out?

Please give me some idea of what is up there before I sign up.

Thanks guys.

Nope those are the ones you don't waste your time with, I actually am glad when they put that in their profile as its not someone I message. Once in a whilie there is someone that fits what I'm looking for and I might try but its always fruitless.

[Y Lonen]

Made a profile and going through reading profiles. They women / girls have got to be kidding.

They think men are going to mentor them, buy them things, spend time with them platonically, and then pay them with out having sex? Hahahaha.

Can't count how many profiles say no sex or looking to make a connection but not for sex, want to be taken out and shown a good time and get paid for it. Again hahahahah.

Serious question to the guys who have been on SA for a while. How many times do you get a girl there that is actually thinking they are going to get paid to hang out and eat or shop or go to the movies with you?

Is all of that crap just a front so you don't think they will just meet and bang your brains out?

Please give me some idea of what is up there before I sign up.

Thanks guys.

[Rome400]

But for me Sarahs account is deactivated 2 hours after your post. It says she may have blocked you or disabled her account.

A word to the wise also. I'm a world class shit talker, and you can actually get a time out from SA. Some girl offered me something ridiculous and I countered with 20.00 for her to lick my ass, and was given a 24 hour time out where I could not log in or anything. It said I was suspended for repeated violations but I'm sure that was the one that triggered it.

[Jack617]

From the projects, no transportation. Kind of flaky but I thought she was hot (in a project girl way LOL!) Will take it in all holes, raw with a little effort. Asks for $300 but can be had for a little less.

Let me know if any of you dogs see her, Haha.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...d-54b3be2f7f80

[Member #6503]

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...2-38d9888d655f

Wants 600 without asking for my pic. Countered with 300 for 2 hours. She said no thanks.

Thanks bro good to know. I messaged her earlier.

[Rome400]

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...2-38d9888d655f

Wants 600 without asking for my pic. Countered with 300 for 2 hours. She said no thanks.

[Rome400]

Head over to the "Virginia / Richmond / Sugarbabies & arrangement " forum on here. It's the oldest and most active SB forum and can answer almost all your questions. If after several hours of reading a hundreds of posts you still have questions you can always post them here.

Here's a few pointers to get you started:

1. Again, never ever pay for a M&G.

2. Some girls are pro or semi-pro. If that's what you're after than go for it.

3. Many on there are just bored college girls looking for validation and seeing their "worth". They'll be on there every day for months and will never meet anyone let alone enter an arrangement. Spot those early and move on.

4. Platonic is another word for Kryptonite. Stay away.

5. A girl that says "I know my worth" or something to that effect in her profile is GPS and to be ignored.

6. Her profile is her best foot forward so if she sounds crazy in there she's military-grade bonkers.

7. The more you have to pay the less she likes you. The less she likes you the less interesting the main course will be. If all you want is a pretty dead starfish to look at then go ahead and fork out the 500-700 per visit.

8. Don't keep chasing girls that are just lukewarm. Establish contact and present yourself but if after that she's a cold fish move on (see point below).

9. The most valuable thing you can do is protect your time. There's is maybe, maybe 5% (I'm being generous) of the girls on there that are worth meeting. Your job is to discover them without wasting too much of your valuable time on the other 95%.

Finally, it's not for everyone. Try a month and see how it goes.

Completely agree with line 3 , 4, 5.

[OkWhatever]

Head over to the "Virginia / Richmond / Sugarbabies & arrangement " forum on here. It's the oldest and most active SB forum and can answer almost all your questions. If after several hours of reading a hundreds of posts you still have questions you can always post them here.

Here's a few pointers to get you started:

1. Again, never ever pay for a M&G.

2. Some girls are pro or semi-pro. If that's what you're after than go for it.

3. Many on there are just bored college girls looking for validation and seeing their "worth". They'll be on there every day for months and will never meet anyone let alone enter an arrangement. Spot those early and move on.

4. Platonic is another word for Kryptonite. Stay away.

5. A girl that says "I know my worth" or something to that effect in her profile is GPS and to be ignored.

6. Her profile is her best foot forward so if she sounds crazy in there she's military-grade bonkers.

7. The more you have to pay the less she likes you. The less she likes you the less interesting the main course will be. If all you want is a pretty dead starfish to look at then go ahead and fork out the 500-700 per visit.

8. Don't keep chasing girls that are just lukewarm. Establish contact and present yourself but if after that she's a cold fish move on (see point below).

9. The most valuable thing you can do is protect your time. There's is maybe, maybe 5% (I'm being generous) of the girls on there that are worth meeting. Your job is to discover them without wasting too much of your valuable time on the other 95%.

Finally, it's not for everyone. Try a month and see how it goes.

Thanks for pointing the Virginia / Richmond forum. Vast source of info on SA! I've yet to create my account as I'm going away for holidays, but I'm looking forward to jumping on when I get back.

[Paul Sweeter]

Head over to the "Virginia / Richmond / Sugarbabies & arrangement " forum on here. It's the oldest and most active SB forum and can answer almost all your questions. If after several hours of reading a hundreds of posts you still have questions you can always post them here.

Here's a few pointers to get you started:

1. Again, never ever pay for a M&G.

2. Some girls are pro or semi-pro. If that's what you're after than go for it.

3. Many on there are just bored college girls looking for validation and seeing their "worth". They'll be on there every day for months and will never meet anyone let alone enter an arrangement. Spot those early and move on.

4. Platonic is another word for Kryptonite. Stay away.

5. A girl that says "I know my worth" or something to that effect in her profile is GPS and to be ignored.

6. Her profile is her best foot forward so if she sounds crazy in there she's military-grade bonkers.

7. The more you have to pay the less she likes you. The less she likes you the less interesting the main course will be. If all you want is a pretty dead starfish to look at then go ahead and fork out the 500-700 per visit.

8. Don't keep chasing girls that are just lukewarm. Establish contact and present yourself but if after that she's a cold fish move on (see point below).

9. The most valuable thing you can do is protect your time. There's is maybe, maybe 5% (I'm being generous) of the girls on there that are worth meeting. Your job is to discover them without wasting too much of your valuable time on the other 95%.

Finally, it's not for everyone. Try a month and see how it goes.

Thanks again,. I'll see if I can get somewhere. The online dating is the same thing.

Very few good ones. P.S.