General Reports

[Charlie441]

it looks like at the lowest tier it cost $5. 90 to start a conversation with a girl with no guarantees that she will even respond

Yikes. Say standard is $600. Say I have to hit up 3 gals to end up meating 1 (not just meeting). That's $1,800. Quite a fee.

It costs more than just having a quickie with a BP girl, but it's way more mentally and physically satisfying for us both. They don't mentally view themselves as "hookers". We view each other as FWB. For example, this coming "Black Friday", I will be spending the day going shopping with one of my ladies for Christmas presents for her two young children, we'll get some lunch, and rent a room and then fuck our brains out for a couple of hours. She goes home with a smile on her face and presents for her kids, and I go home happy and safe with a big smile on my face.

It sounds not like a FWB, but a Sugar Daddy where she does become a real friend if it continues for a while (cha-ching, tho). I wouldn't put that merely as something more expensive than a "60 m visit" to a BP girl for a GFE with 2 pops and chilling in the hotel together. Upon shopping for them & taking them out, do you pay them too at the end (assuming you did a healthy amount of buying stuff for them)? To me, that'd be the deal breaker of consideration if it was anything too significant. If I spent $250 on gifts, $50 on lunch bill, $100 on the room after taxes / fees for an outing -- I wouldn't want to throw down $400 for a couple hours banging. Total: $800 (not counting % of initial website cost to get the ball rolling). I spend half the time shopping For her could be fine for me if executed indirectly, if said cost of shopping just covered an expensive escort experience at a hotel, as the latter would be had as a "thank you".

Basically, I wouldn't want to pay for a Pricey GFE at the mall, then after, have to pay a Pricey GFE in a hotel. BUT, if I was truly rich (not just able to afford it to an extent with budgeting), I guess I wouldn't care so much. .

[Blackfire]

I'm not familiar with SA. But it's probably similar to SB. My ladies and I have more of a boyfriend / girlfriend experience. There has to be some mutual chemistry to make it almost real and work. Most dates involve some dining or shopping followed by intense mutual pleasing sex for the both of us. It costs more than just having a quickie with a BP girl, but it's way more mentally and physically satisfying for us both. They don't mentally view themselves as "hookers". We view each other as FWB. For example, this coming "Black Friday", I will be spending the day going shopping with one of my ladies for Christmas presents for her two young children, we'll get some lunch, and rent a room and then fuck our brains out for a couple of hours. She goes home with a smile on her face and presents for her kids, and I go home happy and safe with a big smile on my face.

Thanks for the reply. Didn't really answer the cost question though. Do you pay a monthly allowance, an how much typically? Your description of the coming black Friday sounds like between shopping (a few hundred? Lunch ($50) an a room ($100) you might be in the $500 range for a day with a nice lady?

[AlFishy33]

Has anyone seen Lea Velvet lately? Now that I'm back in the game I'm thinking about seeing her if she's still around. I have her number already but just thought I'd see if anyone has seen her recently before I reach out?

[Benz1]

Autumn's phone is back on.

Digits and password for senior members.

[Freessi]

On a lark I tried using Secret Benefits a couple of months ago. I am happier, calmer, and safer now that I quit using BP, Craigslist, etc. I have met two wonderful ladies who I now see on a regular basis. These ladies are just as horny as I am! It takes more time and effort initially to establish trust and find out our mutual needs and wants, but it has worked out great for me. If you're looking for more than a "slam bam thank you maam" experience I suggest you give it try.

Seems more expensive than seekingarrangements- it looks like at the lowest tier it cost $5. 90 to start a conversation with a girl with no guarantees that she will even respond. On seekingarrangements you pay around 70 a month and for that month you can talk to a thousand girls if you want- also on the android and iPhone app of seekingarrangement you can buy just a week for around 40 dollars. It looks like they have a lot of the same girls as well but also some new ones. Maybe the best is to have membership at both.

[Benz1]

I'm not familiar with SA. But it's probably similar to SB. My ladies and I have more of a boyfriend / girlfriend experience. There has to be some mutual chemistry to make it almost real and work. Most dates involve some dining or shopping followed by intense mutual pleasing sex for the both of us. It costs more than just having a quickie with a BP girl, but it's way more mentally and physically satisfying for us both. They don't mentally view themselves as "hookers". We view each other as FWB. For example, this coming "Black Friday", I will be spending the day going shopping with one of my ladies for Christmas presents for her two young children, we'll get some lunch, and rent a room and then fuck our brains out for a couple of hours. She goes home with a smile on her face and presents for her kids, and I go home happy and safe with a big smile on my face.

Sounds like you're not married. For those of us that are, we need a quicker date. I'm staying off BP too and have been somewhat successful with my fake FB page. Chatting with Lilliana's mom right now. She's a nice MILF. Something might happen. Like you mentioned, it takes time, they know I'm married so they know I don't have all day to go shopping.
Some FB connections are easier than others. Found this in my message box the other day.
I also heard u might be interested in a lady friend occasionally?? And do u happen to knw anyone looking to get tattooed?? I do them...

[EdMonger]

I'm not familiar with SA. But it's probably similar to SB. My ladies and I have more of a boyfriend / girlfriend experience. There has to be some mutual chemistry to make it almost real and work. Most dates involve some dining or shopping followed by intense mutual pleasing sex for the both of us. It costs more than just having a quickie with a BP girl, but it's way more mentally and physically satisfying for us both. They don't mentally view themselves as "hookers". We view each other as FWB. For example, this coming "Black Friday", I will be spending the day going shopping with one of my ladies for Christmas presents for her two young children, we'll get some lunch, and rent a room and then fuck our brains out for a couple of hours. She goes home with a smile on her face and presents for her kids, and I go home happy and safe with a big smile on my face.

Is this similar to Seeking Arrangements? What are you finding the average cost to be? What is the "date"like?

[Moonglow913]

Is this similar to Seeking Arrangements? What are you finding the average cost to be? What is the "date"like?

I'll add my two cents. I have been on and off SA for years. As has been stated it requires a bit more work and is a bit more expensive. It all depends on what you "seek". I like the info gained through the profiles and ability to chat with these women before meeting. Pictures are real and you pretty much know what to expect. I have done both allowance and a per date donation. Prefer per date. I tend to hook up with what would be comparable to high end escorts so my costs are higher than you need to go BUT is well worth the effort and money IMHO. Have met and enjoyed some terrific women. As I said, it depends on what you are looking for. Quick hit so to speak ("I am paying them to fuck me and leave") then BP and other escort sites would be best, but if you are looking for a true GFE then these arrangements will deliver. While at the end of the day there really is no difference (pay to play) the women generally don't see it that way. Play along, show respect and it makes a big difference in how you interact, especially in bed!

[Blackfire]

On a lark I tried using Secret Benefits a couple of months ago. I am happier, calmer, and safer now that I quit using BP, Craigslist, etc. I have met two wonderful ladies who I now see on a regular basis. These ladies are just as horny as I am! It takes more time and effort initially to establish trust and find out our mutual needs and wants, but it has worked out great for me. If you're looking for more than a "slam bam thank you maam" experience I suggest you give it try.

Is this similar to Seeking Arrangements? What are you finding the average cost to be? What is the "date"like?

[EdMonger]

On a lark I tried using Secret Benefits a couple of months ago. I am happier, calmer, and safer now that I quit using BP, Craigslist, etc. I have met two wonderful ladies who I now see on a regular basis. These ladies are just as horny as I am! It takes more time and effort initially to establish trust and find out our mutual needs and wants, but it has worked out great for me. If you're looking for more than a "slam bam thank you maam" experience I suggest you give it try.

[Benz1]

Autumn utr is not answering her phone because she is out of boost min.

Her vehicle isn't working and she lives in the sticks. She contacted me on a relative's phone and I bought a 10 boost card for her.

I will repost her info when she gets it activated.

[Amaregraeco]

Most Mongers are too lazy to fill out a Masters Thesis length form.

NJ,

Agreed. It's a stretch. Your point holds for even getting a review, no? Still, I think there might be merit in the concept. Care to point out which of them are likely to be the most important to the membership at large? That way it's shorter and more manageable.

- AG.

[NoseJelly]

Most Mongers are too lazy to fill out a Masters Thesis length form.

[Amaregraeco]

Gentlemen,

I've sought to augment Benz's review form, see below. I've added a fair bit to it in the hopes of stimulating worthwhile substantive discussion among the membership. Why? As others have already pointed out in earlier dialog, the quality, accuracy, and ultimately – the usability of the reviews herein are highly variable, and at times suspect. Me personally? I am typically skeptical of most every newbies first couple of reviews. Why? In a TOFTT situation, you and the provider have no idea what to expect at the door. Generally speaking first time experiences aren't anything to crow about. Next, experience, the halo effect, and the seasoned ability to report objectively on something that is otherwise totally subjective. That takes time and money (because the Hobby ain't cheap), and the willingness (and maturity?) to be dispassionate.

Tastes and personal preferences among the hobbyist membership are vastly different. Is Savage Jenn a "looker"? Face-wise, yes, better than most. Physique-wise? That is subjective and more in the eyes of the beholder (and what they want). Are either of those specific attributes particularly relevant for a provider, when on her game, she is tied for the top spot in giving the best head in West Michigan? Maybe, maybe not. It depends on what one is looking for and its importance to them. The challenge is how to objectively quantify and rate / rank the various aspects of a hobbyist's experience in the review so that others can make an informed choice using the reviews as input for their consideration.

Lastly, and I put this to the readership and those that see the potential communal benefit and are willing to weigh in on the matter and respond, I think it might be of benefit for the review form or template to contain a section for the reviewer to generally describe what they were seeking / looking to experience. Looks? Skill? Menu? Attitude? Enthusiasm? That way the readership can get of sense of the similarity between what they are looking for, what the reviewer says he experienced, and the provider's track record of delivery.

Thoughts?

Benz,

A decent idea, maybe worth some additional discussion.

Hobby Name:

Marketing: Advertises_UTR_Arrangement_.

Service Type:

HJ_ CBJ_ BBBJ_ Throats_BLS_CIM_ Swallow_ CFS_ BBFS_ Daty_FIV_Greek_.

Extras: Prostrate massage_ Rim Job_ Pegging_ GFE_ MSOG_Fistable_Enjoys Being Toyed_ .

Rates:

Her Sweet Spot – what is she particularly good / skilled at, if anything:

Apparent Skill Level:

Attitude:

Enthusiasm:

Personality: Friendly_Engaging_Talkative_Chatterbox_Sullen_Shy_Disinterested_Irritated_Can't Wait To Be Done_.

Hygiene:

Taste / smell of pussy Good_ ok_ Bad_.

Showered / shaved.

Breath.

Skin Condition:

Body type / physique:

Recent Accurate Pics?:

Attractiveness – Face:

Attractiveness – Body:

If you know what you are doing, can she enjoy herself?:

Phone Number (s) Used: If multiple numbers, list the most recent first - 7 of 10 digits_.

Email:

Website:

Affiliation, if any: Independent_ Agency_Massage Parlor_Strip Club_.

Hobby Acquaintances or Duo's With?

Age: Posted_ Looks like_.

Ethnicity:

Skin Tone:

Hair color:

Teeth: Missing? Meth teeth_.

Bust size:

Bust Appearance: Boltons_ Full_ Saggy _.

Tattoos:

Piercings: Location_.

Feet: _ Toe sucking_.

Smoker?: _ smoke with client?

Signs Of Substance Use?

Incall: Clean_ Messy_ Smelly_ Risky_.

Repeat at this incall? Repeat with this provider_.

Date of Meeting:

Overall Experience: Comments.

[Mystry12]

Agree, another quality report. We all appreciate your efforts and input.

Another official TY! Great reports!!