The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

**RWarNmsn69** · 09-26-17 01:00

Originally Posted by StormyTuesday [View Original Post]

I have taken 40 plus SBs to the FC the past two years, and about half I saw 3 to ten times. I can tell you to plan on 200 for the SB per visit plus 80 for the hotel. Most of my M & Gs have been coffee or maybe an appetizer. Most of the SBs I did not take out to a meal on each visit but the ones I did I had more fun with getting to know them. $1000 is okay for maybe 3 FCs a month. But here is the real trick to this game. It's taking advantage of the timing. You get to a point in the texting (not on the SA site but on your phone) when you know they are ready to make it happen and you need to seize the moment. The catch is you may already spent $ 300 earlier that week and now you get your another SB you have been texting and you sense she is ready for an m & g. But at the M & G you don't want to postpone the hotel date (to the next week) if you sense she is ready now. You want to be in the hotel 30 minutes later. What I am trying to say is, if you are counting the dollars you may be in the wrong game. I personally budget 2000, but I don't spend that anymore bc I found a good one who can host, but I take her out to a very nice $50 lunch every week so she represents 1000 a month. Then I still have fun with a few others once or twice a month.

StormyTuesday, you're still my hero! If I wasn't so much older than you, I'd hope to grow up and be just like you.

Safe mongering and sugaring!

**StormyTuesday** · 09-25-17 22:24

Originally Posted by TokyoJeffRo [View Original Post]

Hi Everyone,

I'm a long time lurker, new poster. Thanks for your ongoing insights.

I've just joined the scene and have yet to achieve FC status. I'm close, but still weighing my options.

I had a meet and greet today and I could tell that what I had to spend on a monthly basis was missing a few zeroes based on her reaction and expectations.

I have a job and I have responsibilities. I can't come close to parsing out $1000 a month on an ongoing basis just to have a plaything (not to mention meals / gifts / hotels).

Are there really that many men who can afford this level of financial support out there? What are the average prices / market rate for various activities?

Should I get 3 more full time jobs or sell both my kidneys?

-Tokyo.

I have taken 40 plus SBs to the FC the past two years, and about half I saw 3 to ten times. I can tell you to plan on 200 for the SB per visit plus 80 for the hotel. Most of my M & Gs have been coffee or maybe an appetizer. Most of the SBs I did not take out to a meal on each visit but the ones I did I had more fun with getting to know them. $1000 is okay for maybe 3 FCs a month. But here is the real trick to this game. It's taking advantage of the timing. You get to a point in the texting (not on the SA site but on your phone) when you know they are ready to make it happen and you need to seize the moment. The catch is you may already spent $ 300 earlier that week and now you get your another SB you have been texting and you sense she is ready for an m & g. But at the M & G you don't want to postpone the hotel date (to the next week) if you sense she is ready now. You want to be in the hotel 30 minutes later. What I am trying to say is, if you are counting the dollars you may be in the wrong game. I personally budget 2000, but I don't spend that anymore bc I found a good one who can host, but I take her out to a very nice $50 lunch every week so she represents 1000 a month. Then I still have fun with a few others once or twice a month.

**SneakyMan** · 09-25-17 12:32

As promised. PM me for any additional details or other information.

Time wasters. Two types here, those that I messaged / text d / emailed a lot and then they disappear or blocked me and those that have a M&G, set something up for more, then disappear. Xstephanie, ashlynn3,redpinapple, babygirl302, gingalocks.

One or more meetings with benefits but not worth it in my opinion. Younghotblonde93, Dallas, few others I can't find now.

Got a couple that I can recommend, just moved on. 22 and 24 brunettes and 28 blonde. All slim.

Happy hunting.

**JMonger** · 09-25-17 04:14

After multiple messages and over an hour on the phone, I did a M&G with BabieChemist and was surprised to meet a BBW. Smart, nice personality, but not what I'm looking for.

The lovely pictures are definitely not up to date.

**SneakyMan** · 09-23-17 12:12

Hello all,

Wanted to post something simple to begin with. Been a SD for about 4 years in two different locations. Been in Raleigh about two years so have a bit of experience with some of the locals that I will share in another post. I'm still learning, guess you never really stop. Most of the advice here is really good and I agree. I have had 2 really good arrangements, they both moved. Several others that were so so and dropped them. Others that were one time FC.

Be careful out there.

**TokyoJeffRo** · 09-22-17 16:21

Hi Everyone,

I'm a long time lurker, new poster. Thanks for your ongoing insights.

I've just joined the scene and have yet to achieve FC status. I'm close, but still weighing my options.

I had a meet and greet today and I could tell that what I had to spend on a monthly basis was missing a few zeroes based on her reaction and expectations.

I have a job and I have responsibilities. I can't come close to parsing out $1000 a month on an ongoing basis just to have a plaything (not to mention meals / gifts / hotels).

Are there really that many men who can afford this level of financial support out there? What are the average prices / market rate for various activities?

Should I get 3 more full time jobs or sell both my kidneys?

-Tokyo.

**ElGringoGordo** · 09-22-17 12:04

Gentlemen,

I'm still looking for info on Anr93. I'd really appreciate some input here. I'm certainly willing to reciprocate. Thanks again.

Regards,

Gordo.

**Aswerty9111** · 09-17-17 01:19

Man maybe it's me but I'm not noticing this influx you gents are.

Anyhow, anyone have any intel on cotton_candie or princess_kat1990?

**Member #5790** · 09-16-17 23:04

And if you're into AA girls stay away from amelialuxury. Don't believe her profile, she's a stuck up ***** with a shitty attitude.

**Member #5790** · 09-16-17 22:46

I've chatted with her too. She's super hot but wants 500 per meet which is way above what I'm willing to do.

Originally Posted by MedJohnson [View Original Post]

If you're into it, check out DiscreetStudent. Verified model and seems fun but not my thing and not very discreet! Seniors can let me know if you want her info.

Med.

**ElGringoGordo** · 09-16-17 13:45

Greetings friends. Can anyone provide me with any info regarding Anr93? I have some information I'm willing to share my intel privately as well. Thanks in advance.

Are /.

Gringo.

**MedJohnson** · 09-15-17 10:26

If you're into it, check out DiscreetStudent. Verified model and seems fun but not my thing and not very discreet! Seniors can let me know if you want her info.

Med.

**YayaGogo** · 09-14-17 15:29

Originally Posted by Joerdu [View Original Post]

The Raleigh sugar bowl is full of talent right now. Good times for all.

I can't even keep up with it anymore. Met separately with 2 new fantastic girls at the FC just this week, had to postpone 2 other FC meets because I don't have the time, and literally have over 100 unread messages in my inbox. I might keep one of the two from this week for something ongoing, but there are many new and beautiful ones signing on every day.

Anyone who even tries to play games or doesn't fit what I'm looking for immediately gets nexted. I'm enjoying these years of my life tremendously, because I know it won't last forever! Good luck!

Yaya.

**Tomas247** · 09-13-17 20:00

I mentioned this before, but I paid for SA over 8 months ago one time $50 or whatever it is, and I still have access to my premium membership. It's pretty awesome.

I went back on the hunt and I managed to find like 8 POTs so far. One I know is DTF. Meeting her this weekend. She's obviously a UTR, and her cell lead right to her facebook. When are these gals going to learn?

**CletePurcell** · 09-12-17 18:13

Originally Posted by EcuGuy74 [View Original Post]

The last few I had didn't work. Not sure if there is a work around or if I'm buying the wrong type of car. Any help is appreciated.

If you already have the cards and they are not being accepted you can link a prepaid card to Paypal. Even that does not always work, I have found it best to not log into Paypal and pay as a guest using the prepaid card.