"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[George GA]

I got a membership and started looking around. My first monthly membership (explained later) is about to expire. Probably won't renew, got enough for now.

In my first profile, I just say I'm over 60, looking for FWB and NSA and like to help people out. I don't have net worth or income info in there (I do in the 2nd one and it makes a difference). BTW, I'm well off, my kids and their kids and their kids won't have to worry about anything. I've been fortunate, but I've worked my arse off and taken appropriate risks (startup companies, etc.). Also, I don't mind spending money, but I mind wasting money. I don't haggle when I go somewhere, I ask what's on the menu and pricing (although I should know that going in via review sites or talking). If I'm not happy, I won't go back. I have had very few lousy visits over MANY years, probably could count them on the fingers of one hand.

Hits and misses:

First contact was Kate, 32. Nice pic. Got phone and kik info. Located a good distance from me, but she was going to be in Marietta, kinda half way for both of us. I asked for a meet and greet to make sure we're on the same page. She asked if there would be an allowance and wanted me to get a room. I responded asking if there was going to be some adult interaction, in which case, sure, an allowance would be made. I also said I'm new and don't want to offend. Didn't hear back. MISS.

Bonita, 45, Canton. If you see her pics, nice body, cute. Messaged back and forth several times. Had a lunch meeting planned, but fell through when she had a girls trip come up. Had a meeting set up for the following Friday, but I didn't hear from her. I sent a message, she said she hadn't responded because she was ill. I said that was no excuse and the meeting was supposed to be the next day and I had lost interest. MISS.

Ava, 27, ITP. Cute, hot IMHO. Messaged back and forth, moved to text. Works from home sometimes, can get home quickly if needed. Near Piedmont Park. In one text she said her allowance is usually $300 to $400 for about an hour. I LOL'd and said I could do that on other sites (probably can't list here) and she said I need to be realistic and that's what's going on. In my reply I said I had been mongering longer than she's been alive and I'm quite aware what the market is. Although I may have considered seeing you (her) one time because you're gorgeous, it would not be a continuing thing. She didn't respond. MISS.

JamiO, 41, north of Atlanta. SkyHigh talked about her. I had a good conversation going with her, but she's got a horse farm about 5 miles from my house. Not for me. I told her one of my friends told me what her "allowance" was, and that while I didn't really have an issue with it (she's stunningly gorgeous, IMHO), I said I was more interested in a lower allowance for a long term thing. I think I may have mentioned a one time visit, but it was several days ago. She replied with a thank you and a big kiss icon. MISS.

Browneyez_diva, 36. She contacted me and asked if I'd be interested in "a woman of color". Sure, why not, I dated a few black women when I was younger (I'm white). In the course of our discussion (on kik), I mentioned I wanted a meet and greet to make sure we're on the same page. She said we're all out here for the same thing. I said, well, you're the veteran in here (she's been a member for a while, I'm a newbie), but I've read several different profiles that say looking for a relationship, etc. And not FWB and NSA as I am. The comment ticked her off and she hasn't contacted me since. MISS.

Quite a few that are in the chatting stage (a couple are "married but looking") and determining interest stage, too many to list. My first membership expires shortly, I've sent messages to several to contact me via e-mail, burner phone or kik. Several have done so.

Two grand slams, but names won't be given, one has cancelled her membership, the other says she's going to. Both don't want info out.

"Lucy", 50. Lives somewhat near me. Some of you may have talked to her before, as I describe part of her profile, you might recall. Weird situation with hubby, they haven't had sex in "many" years. We chatted for a bit, she asked for a pic (she liked), we exchanged phone #, e-mails and kik and met one night for a quick dinner and discussion to see if we're on the same page. Played a little kissy face, etc. In parking lot. Later she "kik" me and said she was dripping wet. I wondered why. She said she had "felt the package" and it made her "tingly". I had perhaps one too many margaritas, although I remember some touching, I don't remember the fondling. Her profile said she doesn't want gifts or presents, she has nice things. (Her and hubby own a good business). She went on a 2 hour ride with me in my toy car a couple of days later, talked about a LOT of things, had lunch, etc. Had lunch another time, the teasing and tension was awesome. Recently spent about 4 ½ hours with her in a hotel room. Best sex in a LONG time. Lucy is insatiable and up for almost anything. We continue to kik quite often, planning some trips and many more get togethers. All I have to do is provide a room and a bottle of wine and a fairly large asset I carry with me at all times. She has been on SA for a while, but has sent some dear John letters to a few and has 1-2 more meet and greets, then she's done. Account has been cancelled, but I told her she shouldn't be rude to anyone she's set a date with. Although she doesn't want to be "one of many" for me, I said I needed to be fair to any I've had conversations with and she agreed. She said she doesn't want to know of any other dates I have, particularly after I told her how many times I've been to AMPs, escorts or massage providers. Knows what she wants and will say so. GRAND SLAM.

"Lacy", 43. Nice pic, reached out to her because she lives somewhat near me. At first she showed no interest because most of my availability will be during the day. When I indicated "the boss" was going out of town for several days and that a dinner meeting would be available, she said OK. We've had several texting conversations, she was serious during one about "I don't want money for sex". OK, who am I to argue? We met for lunch recently, had a nice conversation and we're on the same page. Some other stuff I won't go into, so it's not a sure thing yet, but should be shortly. When she moves into new apartment, will be able to host. 3 run homer, not a grand slam yet.

2nd account: I received an e-mail saying that "Lacy" had sent me a message on SA. When I tried to log in, my account had been suspended. It was restarted the next day. Thinking that the message was an OK to meet me the next day, I opened up a 2nd account and messaged her about the issue. In this account I put my net worth at the (if I remember correctly) the 3rd level from the highest and income in the 3rd or 4th highest range. In reality, both are higher, but I wanted to see if I drew a different audience because I haven't posted any pics. I don't have anything in the first profile (removed actual numbers) because my thought process turned out to be accurate. I have received MANY "favorites" and messages from all over the world, some wanting to travel, some wanting help, some wanting to chat and be friends, etc.

Although, like many, I'm looking for low priced, sure things that need some "help", in looking through profiles, I've seen many opportunities, quite a few within 10-15 miles of me.

My $0. 02 of suggestions: make sure you're on the same page with your "target". Some have told me they're not interested in an older, married man, they want a relationship. OK, move on. Some women are using SA like backpage. Leila in Roswell is one, I googled her number, she has reviews on that well known review site as a massage provider. Ava is like an escort. That's why I highly recommend a meet and greet, but if someone insists on adult interaction on the first visit, who am I to argue, particularly if I know the price?

Thanks to all that have contributed in this thread and be safe!

[George GA]

ANyone have any info on babe_amor.

I've sent her a few messages and had a few responses then nothing. Like many she seems to come and go on SA.

There's a lot of that going on.

[Focuses]

So, there is the issue with MnG with girls in my IRL area. That is a bummer for the brown / black spinners because I can't pass them off as my niece if I'm spotted with them. The other issue is with girl's attitudes and appearance. They have to be someone I wouldn't mind just hanging out with. And, their pics have to be realistic. Otherwise, it kills it for me. I tried the phone call and just text before FC with a girl Saturday. Everything went well beforehand. Once she showed up, it was horrible. First, the pics were 15-20 lbs ago. Second, there was not a sensual bone in her whole body. Overall, it was terrible. Add to that the inflated cost of hotel rooms the past few days, and it was doubly so. It would have been much better to have gone to a recommended BP girl.

I decide to drop 25% of the girls I do a MnG with. I find a lot of girls go dark when I ask to MnG. They'll talk / text / sext (rarely face shots), but the mention of meeting and they go dark, the car won't start or some other excuse. I guess my problem is, the MnG is a time investment that weeds out the flakes. But, it seems like a necessary investment so far. I'm mostly dealing with the 25 and under crowd, so that is a big part of the issue. The 27 and over crowd seem to be much more hits with very few misses. For now, I am going to stick with the MnG for the 25 and under ones.

I usually get them chatting a bit. And then I request a photo of themselves holding a pencil / cup /'insert item here' sent to my email. If they refuse, probably a fake. Most times, I've gotten pics and a phone number.

[OnyxRain]

This week has been slow due to the hurricane. Hotels are way too high because of the evacuees. Waiting until next week but may do a couple of meets until then. Had lunch with one on Saturday and we hit it off pretty well.

So, there is the issue with MnG with girls in my IRL area. That is a bummer for the brown / black spinners because I can't pass them off as my niece if I'm spotted with them. The other issue is with girl's attitudes and appearance. They have to be someone I wouldn't mind just hanging out with. And, their pics have to be realistic. Otherwise, it kills it for me. I tried the phone call and just text before FC with a girl Saturday. Everything went well beforehand. Once she showed up, it was horrible. First, the pics were 15-20 lbs ago. Second, there was not a sensual bone in her whole body. Overall, it was terrible. Add to that the inflated cost of hotel rooms the past few days, and it was doubly so. It would have been much better to have gone to a recommended BP girl.

I decide to drop 25% of the girls I do a MnG with. I find a lot of girls go dark when I ask to MnG. They'll talk / text / sext (rarely face shots), but the mention of meeting and they go dark, the car won't start or some other excuse. I guess my problem is, the MnG is a time investment that weeds out the flakes. But, it seems like a necessary investment so far. I'm mostly dealing with the 25 and under crowd, so that is a big part of the issue. The 27 and over crowd seem to be much more hits with very few misses. For now, I am going to stick with the MnG for the 25 and under ones.

[OnyxRain]

For me, it's ranged from free to $200. I've done $100, $150, and $200. The $200 is going to be $100 going forward though.

Anyone have a ballpark area in terms of SA donations? Kinda new to SA so just trying to figure out what a reasonable fee is that appeals to most girls on SA. Thanks guys! This thread is awesome.

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[WheresMyMule]

Anyone have a ballpark area in terms of SA donations? Kinda new to SA so just trying to figure out what a reasonable fee is that appeals to most girls on SA. Thanks guys! This thread is awesome.

[Manzanito]

Have fun and Be safe:

Lo240- Wants 500 $ PPM but negotiable.

BaristaNurse. Negotiable.

Keep away from J_ss she just needs someone to walk her around town while she is in Atlanta.

[RipperMagoo]

Personally, I just communicate with them over text message and we work everything out there. The fact that the hotel is sort of a public place, we both feel comfortable to meet there and let things take their course. But, we know where it's going beforehand through our conversations.

So, there is the issue with MnG with girls in my IRL area. That is a bummer for the brown / black spinners because I can't pass them off as my niece if I'm spotted with them. The other issue is with girl's attitudes and appearance. They have to be someone I wouldn't mind just hanging out with. And, their pics have to be realistic. Otherwise, it kills it for me. I tried the phone call and just text before FC with a girl Saturday. Everything went well beforehand. Once she showed up, it was horrible. First, the pics were 15-20 lbs ago. Second, there was not a sensual bone in her whole body. Overall, it was terrible. Add to that the inflated cost of hotel rooms the past few days, and it was doubly so. It would have been much better to have gone to a recommended BP girl.

I decide to drop 25% of the girls I do a MnG with. I find a lot of girls go dark when I ask to MnG. They'll talk / text / sext (rarely face shots), but the mention of meeting and they go dark, the car won't start or some other excuse. I guess my problem is, the MnG is a time investment that weeds out the flakes. But, it seems like a necessary investment so far. I'm mostly dealing with the 25 and under crowd, so that is a big part of the issue. The 27 and over crowd seem to be much more hits with very few misses. For now, I am going to stick with the MnG for the 25 and under ones.

[Manzanito]

Watch out for this profile https://seekingarrangement.com/membe...6-0243c7a946b8.

Sammiiemarie wants 200 $ for god knows and that she will pay you the money back next week and gaurantee a visit in a future date 😋.

[JimStokes]

So joined SA. Have had moderate success. 50%. But the past week or so, I see profiles appear and disappear, some in the same day. Some I have exchanged info with and have text messages but their profile is gone. What is this game?

Also, is there any G2 on what an monthly arrangement is for Atlanta? I have been hit with everything. One chic hit me with an amount that was nucking futz.

Also, picked up a cheap BLU burner phone. Wished I had not. Text messaging is unreliable and the key screen blows. Any suggestions for a good burner? Or should I downcycle my 6's to a burner when the 8 appears tomorrow?

[GA400]

I got the pizza request from Rileyyyy97 too. Also wanted cash just to meet and greet. After some back and forth got the sense someone else is scheming with her behind the scenes. Passing is good advice.

LOL, The pizza ring. Probably some college guys or gals trying to get free pizzas!

[Ternarius]

I've chatted Rileyyyy97 up as well and she wanted me to send her a pizza for lunch so I passed on her and haven't spoken with her since.

I got the pizza request from Rileyyyy97 too. Also wanted cash just to meet and greet. After some back and forth got the sense someone else is scheming with her behind the scenes. Passing is good advice.

[Focuses]

I've been with ReneeBaby twice, once solo and once with her friend. Had a great time both times. They're both really cool, down to earth girls and they'll give you a fun time. I've read on here that SensualKitty girls are a much better experience, but also much more expensive. I don't think you'll go wrong with either selection. Good luck and have fun!

Thanks!. Would you say renee pics are accurate? It seems kitty has no pics online. Wondering if anyone here can describe her?

[Ternarius]

Have you had any flake on you? That would be my only reservation.

Yes, I have had one flake on me. A complete no show. Also lots of conversations started and never finished. SA is a big time investment.

[Manzanito]

Whether you use an escort service, BP, SA or SW, you always need to look at the risk / reward for your activities. Lots of married guys who worry about sending pics to a lady off SA think nothing of going BBFS with her. Each person needs to determine their own level of comfort about what info they want to divulge and what precautions to take. For example I never give out my real phone number, but use my real first name and send pics once text communications are established. The bottom line is that if you want to meet the real "first-timers" or amateurs off SA you're going to have to send them pics of you. I agree with Admin2 that the SD / SB relationship in the end is sex for money. The difference is that the real SB maintains the right to be selective as opposed to the Pro. Part of that selection is knowing what you look like. There may be exceptions, but they will be few and far between.

Good Hunting,

Travelin.

100% Agree. I do the same only burner number and first name.