"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[TravelinSD]

I'm not married, so obviously don't have to worry about discretion as much as married guys, but I have one profile pic that shows my features, but is kind of dark and grainy. For the true ladies that are looking for just one or two SDs or a long term thing, they are going to want to see clear pics of you before meeting. Once I move them to text I have no problem sending these to them. Plus it lets you ask for more pics of them. Only Pros, UTRs or one of those two in training won't ask for pics. Since I'm looking for the true amateurs, I actually use it as an indicator of someone I DON'T want to see.

Good hunting,

Travelin.

How are you guys handling this. I'm uncomfortable posting my picture to my profile, but so many SB really want you to do that. Also, after charring some of them up they want me to text them pics. Again, uncomfortable with this. I'm not married or anything, but I don't know them from a hole in the ground, and really don't want to send my pic to a scammer, or to someone looking trap or extort. Thoughts?

[OnyxRain]

Actually, one of the first girls I was chatting with asked me for that and I didn't proceed because I thought she was up to something. But I found out that it's really more about having a pic on their phone. Maybe they talk to a number of fellas. They probably want to have the pic associated with the name when they receive a text or call from you. I know, for me, I got two mixed up one time because I can't keep up with all of those different profile names. I asked one about her dog and she had no idea what I was talking about. I realized that I got her mixed up with another chick. Or, they could be trying to see if you have another picture to make sure you're real. As for profile picture, I don't have one posted publicly but I have a private profile pic that can be viewed upon request.

How are you guys handling this. I'm uncomfortable posting my picture to my profile, but so many SB really want you to do that. Also, after charring some of them up they want me to text them pics. Again, uncomfortable with this. I'm not married or anything, but I don't know them from a hole in the ground, and really don't want to send my pic to a scammer, or to someone looking trap or extort. Thoughts?

[Oily123]

How are you guys handling this. I'm uncomfortable posting my picture to my profile, but so many SB really want you to do that. Also, after charring some of them up they want me to text them pics. Again, uncomfortable with this. I'm not married or anything, but I don't know them from a hole in the ground, and really don't want to send my pic to a scammer, or to someone looking trap or extort. Thoughts?

Enlighten me, what would a scammer do with your pictures? I'm serious and not trying to be a smart ass.

I'm just curious what you think would happen if you sent them to someone like that and maybe it's good advice for everyone here as well.

I've sent my private pictures before and never had any issues. I just finished my second tour on SA. Sometimes you just got to take a leap of faith I guess.

If someone told me that would contact my wife, I would tell them not to bother that I would just go ahead and tell her what was up.

Maybe I wouldn't be on the site if she wasn't such a pain in the ass. LOL.

[Member #5544]

How are you guys handling this. I'm uncomfortable posting my picture to my profile, but so many SB really want you to do that. Also, after charring some of them up they want me to text them pics. Again, uncomfortable with this. I'm not married or anything, but I don't know them from a hole in the ground, and really don't want to send my pic to a scammer, or to someone looking trap or extort. Thoughts?

[OnyxRain]

I normally just ask them what their expectations are from an arrangement and let them know what I'm comfortable with. I've gone through chatting with a bunch of girls that I told we were not even in the same ball park. We just keep it moving and wish each other well. I don't think I've ever brought it up first except with the most recent encounter. But we'd already done the deed and she was getting dressed, so I offered to pay for her nails to get done since she had mentioned something like that over text a few days earlier. But she wouldn't accept anything.

Who is typically the first to bring up the financials in the discussion? Tips on how to start or handle that conversation?

[OnyxRain]

My first SA encounter, she flaked. I kept my cool, stayed cordial, and figured maybe she got cold feet. She came around the following day when I still had the room and we spent a couple of hours together. Used her initial flaking out as leverage for a lower "allowance".

Have you had any flake on you? That would be my only reservation.

[PaulBunyon17]

I think I will take the plunge and get premium on SA once I figure out the secure CC and phone issue. There seems to be a lot out there to have fun with. Looking forward to sharing my experiences with the group and hearing about yours as well.

Thanks!

Who is typically the first to bring up the financials in the discussion? Tips on how to start or handle that conversation?

[P Connoisseur]

The first three girls were 19,20 and 26. The most recent one was 32 and with whom no money was exchanged. I don't personally do BBFS and not sure if they were open to it, so I can't comment on that part.

My own personal preference is to control the place we hookup, so I've only used hotels so far. Two of them were able to host but, like I said, I opt for hotels so I didn't take either of them up on it. I tend to book the room from about 11 in the morning on day one until about 3 or 4 the next afternoon on day 2. That gives me an opportunity to get 2 or 3 in for one hotel stay, but I've only met with multiple girls in a single hotel stay once.

I have done the hotel thing using reward points. I travel a lot and get many points. I just booked a room for this Wednesday and Thursday nights with points and met a 22 year old for lunch on Wednesday and we wound in my room for an overnite ($ . 5 for an overnight) and just finished with a 50 year old hottie this morning. So for two nights of reward points I had a damn good time. This SA thing is amazing. I'm three for four and the forth will happen next meeting. All three were BBFS with no mention of protection. Like I said in an earlier post I am a believer.

PC.

[RipperMagoo]

Personally, I just communicate with them over text message and we work everything out there. The fact that the hotel is sort of a public place, we both feel comfortable to meet there and let things take their course. But, we know where it's going beforehand through our conversations.

Have you had any flake on you? That would be my only reservation.

[OnyxRain]

Personally, I just communicate with them over text message and we work everything out there. The fact that the hotel is sort of a public place, we both feel comfortable to meet there and let things take their course. But, we know where it's going beforehand through our conversations.

Any tips on no or very short MnG? I like the young brown / black spinners. I have to go farther than I would like to avoid being seen by coworkers, etc. Any pointers on minimizing MnG would be much appreciated.

[PaulBunyon17]

I would also add that if the girl is on the lower end of that age range, chances are she's not hosting. Given the economy, many are still living at home.

I think I will take the plunge and get premium on SA once I figure out the secure CC and phone issue. There seems to be a lot out there to have fun with. Looking forward to sharing my experiences with the group and hearing about yours as well.

Thanks!

[OnyxRain]

I would also add that if the girl is on the lower end of that age range, chances are she's not hosting. Given the economy, many are still living at home.

Sounds like a big percent of the ladies are 18-30 that are down for most anything including short term engagements and possibly even BBFS (too risky for me though) w / o having to build a relationship. In your experience, Do many of these ladies have hosting capabilities or do you find yourselves getting hotel for the day and trying to line them up to minimize the costs? I'm working on my angle to get into the game. Been playing for several years but this sounds like so much more fun! Any advise the group can provide would be great.

[RipperMagoo]

Any tips on no or very short MnG? I like the young brown / black spinners. I have to go farther than I would like to avoid being seen by coworkers, etc. Any pointers on minimizing MnG would be much appreciated.

[OnyxRain]

Sounds like you're living the dream.

Got more stuff lined up than I can handle at my age. In Myrtle Beach next week, and already have 2 lined up, more asking. My best: a 2 some who only work together (thank goodness.) Hottest 3 some ever. Amazing the everyday ladies who have no problem completing the deal.

[OnyxRain]

The first three girls were 19,20 and 26. The most recent one was 32 and with whom no money was exchanged. I don't personally do BBFS and not sure if they were open to it, so I can't comment on that part.

My own personal preference is to control the place we hookup, so I've only used hotels so far. Two of them were able to host but, like I said, I opt for hotels so I didn't take either of them up on it. I tend to book the room from about 11 in the morning on day one until about 3 or 4 the next afternoon on day 2. That gives me an opportunity to get 2 or 3 in for one hotel stay, but I've only met with multiple girls in a single hotel stay once.

Sounds like a big percent of the ladies are 18-30 that are down for most anything including short term engagements and possibly even BBFS (too risky for me though) w / o having to build a relationship. In your experience, Do many of these ladies have hosting capabilities or do you find yourselves getting hotel for the day and trying to line them up to minimize the costs? I'm working on my angle to get into the game. Been playing for several years but this sounds like so much more fun! Any advise the group can provide would be great.