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[HollywoodGuy]

She must have deactivated her account some time ago because I can't even find it at all. Personally she had all the signs of somebody with mental illnesses so her outburst was not surprising at all. I have noticed on my short time on SA that the younger girls have issues reconciling being a sugar baby. In essence pay for play but not necessarily in a direct way like on backpage or hx.

I have had 3 girls between 18-21 years old meet up with me, we have a great time and then they turn ghost a couple days later. Then pop up a week after like they never stopped responding to messages. Some have boyfriends who find out what they are doing. One family went through her phone. But the other one told me that after she met with 4 guys in a week she felt like a escort.

I guess the only thing that comes to mind is kinda what I do to soften the blow. Which is to suggest some light play for a first date. HJ only. About half the time it will go further on the first date. Another half will go further on the second date. But it takes the pressure off and seems more organic. So it gives both parties a chance to think about it. Also its a good excuse to start with a lower allowance amount, which may or may not go up when the girl decides to offer more. My last girl said she was ready to step it up if I was, I told her sorry, a $ is all I pay regardless. So she decided she wants another date anyway, but with out the overnite. But I have been turned down, and then I just stop seeing them. Hope this helps.

[Jdb1911]

You could always post her profile link as a girl to avoid.

She must have deactivated her account some time ago because I can't even find it at all. Personally she had all the signs of somebody with mental illnesses so her outburst was not surprising at all. I have noticed on my short time on SA that the younger girls have issues reconciling being a sugar baby. In essence pay for play but not necessarily in a direct way like on backpage or hx.

I have had 3 girls between 18-21 years old meet up with me, we have a great time and then they turn ghost a couple days later. Then pop up a week after like they never stopped responding to messages. Some have boyfriends who find out what they are doing. One family went through her phone. But the other one told me that after she met with 4 guys in a week she felt like a escort.

[HollywoodGuy]

I had a young sb who went to CSUDH and lived off campus. We have been seeing each other every other week or so but the sex was alright. She always complained that I was too large. Mind you I'm not but whatever. We had a good thing going and last week she asked if I had any friends who wanted to see her because she wrecked her car and only had liability insurance.

I said yes but asked what the incentive was for me? She got mad and said she isn't a *****. Mind you I never treated her like a ***** ever. We chilled fucked a couple of times had a few drinks I paid her 200 every visit and I left.

So today she hits me up and asks me about my friends. Mind you I was just about to bring her info to this board. I said I have been swamped at work but I'll get to it sometime this week. She got mad and hung up. So I text her saying that I would be doing this out of the kindness of my heart and that she needs to chill out or give me a reason to do it faster.

Of course the I'm not a ***** and insults came flying out her mouth. I just blocked her. She may still be going as I type this. I would pass her info but honestly I don't wish her on anybody. Lesson learned on my behalf.

You could always post her profile link as a girl to avoid.

[Jdb1911]

I had a young sb who went to CSUDH and lived off campus. We have been seeing each other every other week or so but the sex was alright. She always complained that I was too large. Mind you I'm not but whatever. We had a good thing going and last week she asked if I had any friends who wanted to see her because she wrecked her car and only had liability insurance.

I said yes but asked what the incentive was for me? She got mad and said she isn't a *****. Mind you I never treated her like a ***** ever. We chilled fucked a couple of times had a few drinks I paid her 200 every visit and I left.

So today she hits me up and asks me about my friends. Mind you I was just about to bring her info to this board. I said I have been swamped at work but I'll get to it sometime this week. She got mad and hung up. So I text her saying that I would be doing this out of the kindness of my heart and that she needs to chill out or give me a reason to do it faster.

Of course the I'm not a ***** and insults came flying out her mouth. I just blocked her. She may still be going as I type this. I would pass her info but honestly I don't wish her on anybody. Lesson learned on my behalf.

[Stolper]

She's on SA, I sent her a message but that was the little head talking. I'm not too sure I want to meet with her even if her allowance was reasonable.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...e-752af41f16d5

Just make sure you pay up and don't insult her.

http://www.laweekly.com/news/a-young...ps-say-7078020

[Buster Face]

There is nothing worse than being in love with some one that can't love you back. This girl could be the "one", if only it wasn't for this, this, this, and that. I am too old to compromise.

"When unrequited love is the most expensive thing on the menu, sometimes you settle for the daily special."

Miranda Kenneally,

Adapt, or regress.

It's probably not love but lust.

[HollywoodGuy]

There is nothing worse than being in love with some one that can't love you back. This girl could be the "one", if only it wasn't for this, this, this, and that. I am too old to compromise.

[HollywoodGuy]

Also I just read my intro letter, and it says I have a better than average job. But that's it as far as finances go.

[HollywoodGuy]

She's on SA, I sent her a message but that was the little head talking. I'm not too sure I want to meet with her even if her allowance was reasonable.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...e-752af41f16d5

I messaged her just now. Maybe I can find out her rates. Nothing I would be willing to pay. I watched a couple of her videos. She can suck half a dick and seems to like kissing. But she just kinda lays there when she's getting dicked. But as pretty as she is I suppose no one cares

[Jdb1911]

She's on SA, I sent her a message but that was the little head talking. I'm not too sure I want to meet with her even if her allowance was reasonable.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...e-752af41f16d5

[JohnnyTheWad]

And just an addendum to the last post. The only reason I can have so many LTR's with this number of girls is that they are all overlapping. Over the last 10 years I have usually had about 3 LTR's overlapping simultaneously with a few mid-range girls, while the interviews continue at a rate of maybe one new girl a week. Many times the girls are here 2 or 3 at a time, and many have met many of the others. They are generally grateful to be a part of my world as I do show an enormous amount of interest in their lives, and have the patience and understanding to help them with their real life issues. It is time consuming, but with no wife or traditional GF to sneak around, and no family or friends eating up my time, and no other interest outside of work, this is more than a hobby for me. It's a lifestyle.

They all understand I have to continually interview new girls to make up for the ones that will eventually fade away or be dismissed. And yes, those girls I generally only see one or two times. And no one seems to have a problem with that. At least not enough of one to leave me over it. Do they give me some shit over it from time to time? They do. But its usually just over one particular girl they dislike for one reason or another or they are feeling neglected. But the LTR's all understand I have to make time for everyone so it's not as hectic as it may sound. I am an excellent time manager, get my 50+ hours of work in every week, don't require much sleep, work from home, and have the girls co-operation, without which, none of this could be possible.

Now all of this does make it impossible for me to find the "one". But I don't know if the "one" exists. Like many guys on this site, my interests are too varied, my attention span too short, and my need for attention too great to believe that such a girl even exists. And even if she did, part of what would make her the "one" would be her need / desire to allow me to have other girls.

Various therapists have suggested that I have a problem, have never been in a healthy relationship, may have a sex addiction, and that I should find an appropriately aged GF. All I know is that I do my job, pay my bills, take care of my daughter, keep the house clean, feed, clothe and shelter a few deserving girls from time to time, and try to put a good vibe out into the world. As of the beginning of 2016 I basically cut my overall trips to the FC in half, but I was averaging about 25 trips a month before that. So I hope this gives everyone a better understanding of my outlook on the sugar life and my place in it.

HG, aside from the jealousy I feel over your life LOL I think you have it done pat. I enjoy reading of your exploits and continue to learn. Half of my regs started as a SB / SD thing and I could not be happier. Carry on my good man. JTW.

[HollywoodGuy]

And just an addendum to the last post. The only reason I can have so many LTR's with this number of girls is that they are all overlapping. Over the last 10 years I have usually had about 3 LTR's overlapping simultaneously with a few mid-range girls, while the interviews continue at a rate of maybe one new girl a week. Many times the girls are here 2 or 3 at a time, and many have met many of the others. They are generally grateful to be a part of my world as I do show an enormous amount of interest in their lives, and have the patience and understanding to help them with their real life issues. It is time consuming, but with no wife or traditional GF to sneak around, and no family or friends eating up my time, and no other interest outside of work, this is more than a hobby for me. It's a lifestyle.

They all understand I have to continually interview new girls to make up for the ones that will eventually fade away or be dismissed. And yes, those girls I generally only see one or two times. And no one seems to have a problem with that. At least not enough of one to leave me over it. Do they give me some shit over it from time to time? They do. But its usually just over one particular girl they dislike for one reason or another or they are feeling neglected. But the LTR's all understand I have to make time for everyone so it's not as hectic as it may sound. I am an excellent time manager, get my 50+ hours of work in every week, don't require much sleep, work from home, and have the girls co-operation, without which, none of this could be possible.

Now all of this does make it impossible for me to find the "one". But I don't know if the "one" exists. Like many guys on this site, my interests are too varied, my attention span too short, and my need for attention too great to believe that such a girl even exists. And even if she did, part of what would make her the "one" would be her need / desire to allow me to have other girls.

Various therapists have suggested that I have a problem, have never been in a healthy relationship, may have a sex addiction, and that I should find an appropriately aged GF. All I know is that I do my job, pay my bills, take care of my daughter, keep the house clean, feed, clothe and shelter a few deserving girls from time to time, and try to put a good vibe out into the world. As of the beginning of 2016 I basically cut my overall trips to the FC in half, but I was averaging about 25 trips a month before that. So I hope this gives everyone a better understanding of my outlook on the sugar life and my place in it.

[HollywoodGuy]

Well, speak for yourself. I have been w / some girls who really are interested in the whole idea of having a daddy that takes interest in their lives and development, and it's not all about the $ I provided. When they are looking to me for advice, they want to know that I'm someone who has been successful so my opinions are good. How successful I am in life (indicated by annual income and net worth) is relevant to this point. You may scoff, but this does really work with me. I spend time talking with them about the decisions they are making in their lives, etc. Since you almost never see your girls more than once, this wouldn't be an amenity offered in your arrangements, but I and other people I know do this. They never had to ask my #s, because they are right there on my profile.

The worth I was refering to was strictly financial. But how do you think I get so many girls for a $ ? In some part its race and age. In some part it has to do with the intangible or percieved worth of the relationship. In some part its the experience I provide with my castle in the sky. And some times its just the bomb sex. Also, I do see many of my girls once or twice, as it takes more than a few to find the right ones. Current length of some of my girls.

ATF - 2.5 years. Over 200 trips to the FC

X (picture a) from this evening - 4 years. Slept over maybe 100 times.

Current Roommate - 2 years.

Churchgirl (now gone) - 9 months - 30 dates.

Fav UTR from the recent past - 9 months - 40 dates.

X asian roommate. Lived together for 2 years. Another 200 trips to the FC.

X Blond (picture b). Lived together for 1.5 years and dated for another 1.5 years off and on.

And too many more to mention. But for many SB's cash is king. Another x of mine that I am still friends with after 9 years just broke up with her current SD when he tried to drop her allowance from 6k a month down to 4k a month.

[John HandCock]

Well, speak for yourself. I have been w / some girls who really are interested in the whole idea of having a daddy that takes interest in their lives and development, and it's not all about the $ I provided. When they are looking to me for advice, they want to know that I'm someone who has been successful so my opinions are good. How successful I am in life (indicated by annual income and net worth) is relevant to this point. You may scoff, but this does really work with me. I spend time talking with them about the decisions they are making in their lives, etc. Since you almost never see your girls more than once, this wouldn't be an amenity offered in your arrangements, but I and other people I know do this. They never had to ask my #s, because they are right there on my profile.

Numbers like lots of stories can be fabricated to however you want them. If your showing big numbers then they know something is wrong when a sd tries to bargain basement them. If they are happy with the arrangement and feel that they got what they wanted or needed is all that matters to them. If your happy with what was settled on its win win. When either party feels taken advantage of its doomed. If your showing big numbers then you need to be able to walk the walk Of course exceptions to every rule.

[FarFarAway]

No girl really cares how much you are worth, only how much you are willing to spend. They have pretty much all experienced "the rich asshole" in one way or another in their life. Maybe they served one at their waitress job, or maybe it was a braggadocio SD, or whatever. I tell girls I am middle class. End of discussion (if they even ask).

Well, speak for yourself. I have been w / some girls who really are interested in the whole idea of having a daddy that takes interest in their lives and development, and it's not all about the $ I provided. When they are looking to me for advice, they want to know that I'm someone who has been successful so my opinions are good. How successful I am in life (indicated by annual income and net worth) is relevant to this point. You may scoff, but this does really work with me. I spend time talking with them about the decisions they are making in their lives, etc. Since you almost never see your girls more than once, this wouldn't be an amenity offered in your arrangements, but I and other people I know do this. They never had to ask my #s, because they are right there on my profile.