The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

[Raltime]

Does anyone know BabyS96.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...b-c75d25557f17

[MatinCary]

Good approach. I too follow a similar approach more because it doesn't make sense to keep paying for premium continuously for months as you can get some good finds in 2-3 weeks time provided you invest some quality time during that period. I feel there are enough legit ones in the site from raleigh / durham area to keep us busy and can easily ignore the 'flag' ones like the below. Unless you are looking for something very specific. LOL.

I agree keeping a membership for multiple months adheres to the law of diminishing returns. I only renew for 30 days every 6 months or so, as the quantity of interested POT's keeps me more than busy in the interim. Ironically it's the quantity of douchebags on the site that makes it so successful for me, as I take a really nice approach haha. Good luck!

Yaya.

[YayaGogo]

After a series of messages sent to me indicated it was a fake, I reported the profile. I'm over SA. I've had better luck in different areas. Plus the cost of keeping a membership each month is silly considering there are many free avenues that work so much better. If you aren't a douchebag. That is.

I agree keeping a membership for multiple months adheres to the law of diminishing returns. I only renew for 30 days every 6 months or so, as the quantity of interested POT's keeps me more than busy in the interim. Ironically it's the quantity of douchebags on the site that makes it so successful for me, as I take a really nice approach haha. Good luck!

Yaya.

[MrSmithwick]

After a series of messages sent to me indicated it was a fake, I reported the profile. I'm over SA. I've had better luck in different areas. Plus the cost of keeping a membership each month is silly considering there are many free avenues that work so much better. If you aren't a douchebag. That is.

MrSmithwick, I couldn't find her when I searched but you're probably right. I started watching for grammar and syntax errors when I suspected this. Even the way most ESL people say things are different from us.

Safe mongering and sugaring!

[RWarNmsn69]

Anyone have any correspondence from this girl on SA? Screen name is "eyesyou87".

I got a message from her and it seemed a little off beat. Wondering if anyone else had similar experience. Seems as if she claims to live here but currently in another country. Seems like the beginnings of a scam to me.

MrSmithwick, I couldn't find her when I searched but you're probably right. I started watching for grammar and syntax errors when I suspected this. Even the way most ESL people say things are different from us.

Safe mongering and sugaring!

[MrSmithwick]

Anyone have any correspondence from this girl on SA? Screen name is "eyesyou87".

I got a message from her and it seemed a little off beat. Wondering if anyone else had similar experience. Seems as if she claims to live here but currently in another country. Seems like the beginnings of a scam to me.

[John HandCock]

I have not contacted her but tbh when I see a POT who has had a page up that long (September 2014) I figure she has a lot of experience dealing with guys on line and knows what she is looking for. In other words she may be very selective, either looking for high dollar guy or a certain look / profile of a guy.

I've also seen girls make profiles, stay a month and walk away, then return a year down the road. This could also be a reason. Some girls also use it as entertainment LOL so you really never know till you contact them and get the real story. Never let a join date stop you from contacting one if your interested. If she is a seasoned sb its easy to move on to the next.

[ChaphillMan]

Hi,

I am interested in getting into the SB world. Could you share her information with me or ask her if that is OK. If that is what is done in the SB world.

Thanks,

Chap.

I am transitioning away from my # 2 in my current rotation so I can just spend time once a week with my # 1. She can host and lives in the Chapel Hill / Durham area, in the 25 - 30 age range. PM me for details.

[StormyTuesday]

Has any of the seasoned SA members met Miss Stephanie. Made a contact. Sounded legit, but somehow I was not getting a good vibe.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...f-1819eddd3e78

I have not contacted her but tbh when I see a POT who has had a page up that long (September 2014) I figure she has a lot of experience dealing with guys on line and knows what she is looking for. In other words she may be very selective, either looking for high dollar guy or a certain look / profile of a guy.

[StormyTuesday]

With my experience of more than a year in SB, I would recommend it. But as in any other channel in this hobby, there are great, good, bad and ugly ones here too. We need to filter it out. I would say, you need to let our big head do a lot of work before small guy can enjoy it.

If the SB explicitly says "non sexual" in their profile, they might not be what you are looking for. But that is just a small % of the people there and you can just ignore them or if you are really interested, just reconfirm it in a non explicit way. I normally meet for a coffee after some private message. I try to meet them at a place closer to them. In most cases you will be able to filter out the scammers if you ask them for a coffee. Some won't even agree and some will ask for allowance for the M & G too. I normally block them. I don't discuss $$ in chat, but will do it at the end of M&G if I think I will proceed. 50% of the girls I met in person (M&G) was good to proceed. That is a very good count. I filter by an age group and ethnicity first and then look at the profile before agreeing to meet. That was more than I could affort. They were young, smart chicks giving real GFE experience.

Coming back to your question. I am not sure what you mean when you say you received offers. Did the agree to meet you or did they give you a $$ number for real date? I do not recommend going directly for a real date without a M&G as most legit SBs would prefer a M&G. Be careful about the ones who ask to meet in expensive restaurants for M & G. Starbucks is normally good place for a quick M & G.

Uncle LEO can be anywhere. Never forget your basics. No explicit discussion before you do M & G. No discussion on what you will do in relation to money. All of that should be after you get comfortable with the person. If it appears TGTT, it is not true. Move on. If you do it right and do your homework, it is a great place to find what you are looking for.

Good advice.

[YayaGogo]

Has any of the seasoned SA members met Miss Stephanie. Made a contact. Sounded legit, but somehow I was not getting a good vibe.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...f-1819eddd3e78

Yes, she is.

[MatinCary]

Has any of the seasoned SA members met Miss Stephanie. Made a contact. Sounded legit, but somehow I was not getting a good vibe.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...f-1819eddd3e78

[MatinCary]

I was wondering the same thing.

I'm brand new to this game and feel like using WYP might be worth it. I've set up my profile to pretty much explain exactly what I'm looking for and expecting as opposed to just meeting together or a lunch or meal. I didn't spell out specifically what I want, but I worded it so that I'm basically looking for some fun between two consenting adults over a glass a of wine that might result in a pillow fight. I've received two offers so far, but I've never used the site, so I'm a little unsure of how it works. If anyone could PM me and fill me in with suggestions, it would be greatly appreciated. How does it all work? If they send me an offer and I accept it, do I then have to pay credits to be able to chat?

Another question I wondered about was that I read where the WYP site advises to give 50% of the date donation in the beginning and the remainder at the end of the date. Are the ladies typically ok with that? I guess I just need some pointers on how to approach using that site. Does Uncle LEO use that site? Any help would be greatly appreciated!

With my experience of more than a year in SB, I would recommend it. But as in any other channel in this hobby, there are great, good, bad and ugly ones here too. We need to filter it out. I would say, you need to let our big head do a lot of work before small guy can enjoy it.

If the SB explicitly says "non sexual" in their profile, they might not be what you are looking for. But that is just a small % of the people there and you can just ignore them or if you are really interested, just reconfirm it in a non explicit way. I normally meet for a coffee after some private message. I try to meet them at a place closer to them. In most cases you will be able to filter out the scammers if you ask them for a coffee. Some won't even agree and some will ask for allowance for the M & G too. I normally block them. I don't discuss $$ in chat, but will do it at the end of M&G if I think I will proceed. 50% of the girls I met in person (M&G) was good to proceed. That is a very good count. I filter by an age group and ethnicity first and then look at the profile before agreeing to meet. That was more than I could affort. They were young, smart chicks giving real GFE experience.

Coming back to your question. I am not sure what you mean when you say you received offers. Did the agree to meet you or did they give you a $$ number for real date? I do not recommend going directly for a real date without a M&G as most legit SBs would prefer a M&G. Be careful about the ones who ask to meet in expensive restaurants for M & G. Starbucks is normally good place for a quick M & G.

Uncle LEO can be anywhere. Never forget your basics. No explicit discussion before you do M & G. No discussion on what you will do in relation to money. All of that should be after you get comfortable with the person. If it appears TGTT, it is not true. Move on. If you do it right and do your homework, it is a great place to find what you are looking for.

[FarFarAway]

Historically I have elected not to take a MILF (married but looking or open marriage) to the FC, primarily due to the vision of the SB's husband finding me in the sheets with his lovely spouse. However I would like to find a married POT and simply do a one and done to get it off my bucket list. Preferably white, slim or athletic and in the 25 to 32 age range. Post any opinions on why you also feel it is or is not a risky profile, meanwhile PM me if you have a suggested POT for me to check out. Thanks!

I've done a few marrieds in my time, IDK that it's any different. My main problem is I have a SO, and so I had to figure out a way to book the room as UTR as possible. With single babies, I ask them to do it and then reimburse. What's the kink your looking for? Is it the married, or the MILF. The M just stands for mom. One of mine says her hubb works in security, and it became apparent that's for the Feds. If he gets wind, of course he can track down her emails, so I was very worried. Indeed, I never gave her the room # via electronic means, I just met her in the lobby. I didn't worry about her, just him.

[YayaGogo]

Historically I have elected not to take a MILF (married but looking or open marriage) to the FC, primarily due to the vision of the SB's husband finding me in the sheets with his lovely spouse. However I would like to find a married POT and simply do a one and done to get it off my bucket list. Preferably white, slim or athletic and in the 25 to 32 age range. Post any opinions on why you also feel it is or is not a risky profile, meanwhile PM me if you have a suggested POT for me to check out. Thanks!

There are several hot married or separated women on that site right now (two of whom I'm trying to meet myself). Check them out and choose one to your liking, and don't let the girl know your room number if you're paranoid about that. Good luck!