Non Pro's

**Jus Dreamin** · 05-23-17 18:58

Originally Posted by Twister100 [View Original Post]

Agree. Be upfront. This is like a online version of a pickup bar EXCEPT all the active ladies are looking to get picked up. No one joins SA to a be a wingman or to provide moral support. The ladies are there to find their SD so if you're not upfront, then you're wasting their time. I'm always upfront in my initial message to the ladies about what I want but I do show a little tact in how I tell the ladies what I'm looking for. If they're interested they'll respond and we play a quick 20 questions about what we're both seeking out of the arrangement. No back stories about how you're a great humanitarian and nice to your mother. That can wait till later.

I've gotten several "Messages" but when I try to read them I'm hit up for a premium membership (which is pretty frigging steep for someone trying to decide if the site is even worth it IMHO). Is there a way to respond to messages without upgrading? Do the girls have to pay a membership fee to send messages? If so, seems like they should be entitled to a response.

**Twister100** · 05-23-17 00:29

Agree. Be upfront. This is like a online version of a pickup bar EXCEPT all the active ladies are looking to get picked up. No one joins SA to a be a wingman or to provide moral support. The ladies are there to find their SD so if you're not upfront, then you're wasting their time. I'm always upfront in my initial message to the ladies about what I want but I do show a little tact in how I tell the ladies what I'm looking for. If they're interested they'll respond and we play a quick 20 questions about what we're both seeking out of the arrangement. No back stories about how you're a great humanitarian and nice to your mother. That can wait till later.

Originally Posted by SeaTownGuy [View Original Post]

Be upfront. If they don't bite to what you are looking for, move on. There is more work, but you find all types of gems.

**SeaTownGuy** · 05-22-17 20:28

Originally Posted by Madmaxon [View Original Post]

I'm a little out of my element on the site. I've had a ton of contact, and I've been chatting with several girls, but it doesn't seem to go anywhere. Maybe the process is just much slower.

Be upfront. If they don't bite to what you are looking for, move on. There is more work, but you find all types of gems.

**Madmaxon** · 05-22-17 15:18

I'm a little out of my element on the site. I've had a ton of contact, and I've been chatting with several girls, but it doesn't seem to go anywhere. Maybe the process is just much slower.

Originally Posted by Twister100 [View Original Post]

Just use a little common sense. If you have any experience hobbying, then those same lesson's learned apply on SA. TGTBT. Probably is. Ask yourself why a women on the other side of the world suddenly favorites you and gives you access to her private pictures without having exchanged one word with you.

Girl's on SA can be harder to contact. They get tons of inquires and offers especially if they are new and they aren't pro's so they usually have another life so don't expect an immediate response.

These girls usually aren't pro's. Sure there are pro's on SA but if you're looking to meet a pro stick with TNA or similar you'll get a better deal since the pro's seem to see a SD as an opportunity to jack up the rate.

There is no review community so bad behavior goes unchecked on both sides. If you find a scam like fake pictures, you do have the ability to report it to the mod. You can also block ladies as well. Since there's no community, there's also no set standard. It all depends on what the lady has heard from friends, rumors, online articles or any other form of online BS and / or personal experience that will determine her expectations. Why is a ugly, fat women asking for 5000 / month. Because she can.

Again they usually aren't pro's but some have had experience in the SA community so they understand how things work, some don't so it's important to chat with the ladies to see if you're on the same page. Yes. There will be some ladies who are strictly on there for something platonic and yes there are guys on there who for some reason enjoy paying women to watch them eat, shop and / or just to chat with them.

Be upfront about what you are looking for but don't be an ass about it and if you get turned down don't be an ass about it even if she's being a *****.

**Twister100** · 05-21-17 15:59

Just use a little common sense. If you have any experience hobbying, then those same lesson's learned apply on SA. TGTBT. Probably is. Ask yourself why a women on the other side of the world suddenly favorites you and gives you access to her private pictures without having exchanged one word with you.

Girl's on SA can be harder to contact. They get tons of inquires and offers especially if they are new and they aren't pro's so they usually have another life so don't expect an immediate response.

These girls usually aren't pro's. Sure there are pro's on SA but if you're looking to meet a pro stick with TNA or similar you'll get a better deal since the pro's seem to see a SD as an opportunity to jack up the rate.

There is no review community so bad behavior goes unchecked on both sides. If you find a scam like fake pictures, you do have the ability to report it to the mod. You can also block ladies as well. Since there's no community, there's also no set standard. It all depends on what the lady has heard from friends, rumors, online articles or any other form of online BS and / or personal experience that will determine her expectations. Why is a ugly, fat women asking for 5000 / month. Because she can.

Again they usually aren't pro's but some have had experience in the SA community so they understand how things work, some don't so it's important to chat with the ladies to see if you're on the same page. Yes. There will be some ladies who are strictly on there for something platonic and yes there are guys on there who for some reason enjoy paying women to watch them eat, shop and / or just to chat with them.

Be upfront about what you are looking for but don't be an ass about it and if you get turned down don't be an ass about it even if she's being a *****.

Originally Posted by JusDreamin [View Original Post]

Whoa! I just discovered a whole new world out there. Had heard of SA but in the context that it was largely a scam. Now I'm not so sure. Someone would have to go to a lot of trouble to scam; I'm sure some do but not thousands of girls.

FYI, there's no need to upgrade to see thousands of local girls but you do have to register with some "personal" information. I did a search with some pretty selective filters and still got almost a thousand hits, 200 of which have been online in the past week!

If there are a lot of scammers or other things to be wary of, would someone please enlighten me?

**Jus Dreamin** · 05-21-17 10:47

Originally Posted by DL1230 [View Original Post]

I don't have premium on SA. I only found a few girls that have been active in the Seattle area. How did you find them? Some tips would be appreciate it.

Whoa! I just discovered a whole new world out there. Had heard of SA but in the context that it was largely a scam. Now I'm not so sure. Someone would have to go to a lot of trouble to scam; I'm sure some do but not thousands of girls.

FYI, there's no need to upgrade to see thousands of local girls but you do have to register with some "personal" information. I did a search with some pretty selective filters and still got almost a thousand hits, 200 of which have been online in the past week!

If there are a lot of scammers or other things to be wary of, would someone please enlighten me?

**HuksAlot** · 05-20-17 11:21

You have to pay the site a monthly fee to be able to send messages to the women on there. And FYI, there are NOT 100's women on there, there are 1,000's. In Portland anyway.

Originally Posted by DL1230 [View Original Post]

Am I on the wrong site then? It's SeekingArrangement we're talking about right? I need help finding them. Is premium membership required to see all of them?

**DL1230** · 05-19-17 20:30

Originally Posted by SeaTownGuy [View Original Post]

There are 100's of Seattle area women on there.

Am I on the wrong site then? It's SeekingArrangement we're talking about right? I need help finding them. Is premium membership required to see all of them?

**WebbHoes** · 05-19-17 18:26

Originally Posted by SeaTownGuy [View Original Post]

There are 100's of Seattle area women on there.

And most of them offer BBFS. It is a goldmine of fresh pussy.

**SeaTownGuy** · 05-19-17 04:48

Originally Posted by DL1230 [View Original Post]

I don't have premium on SA. I only found a few girls that have been active in the Seattle area. How did you find them? Some tips would be appreciate it.

There are 100's of Seattle area women on there.

**DL1230** · 05-19-17 01:37

Originally Posted by WebbHoes [View Original Post]

This is one that is here now that I met on SA. Cheaper than anyone on tna.

Bbfscip BBBJ. 200 $.

Recently divorced.

I don't have premium on SA. I only found a few girls that have been active in the Seattle area. How did you find them? Some tips would be appreciate it.

**WebbHoes** · 05-18-17 19:20

This is one that is here now that I met on SA. Cheaper than anyone on tna.

Bbfscip BBBJ. 200 $.

Recently divorced.

**SeaTownGuy** · 05-18-17 18:45

SA is gold mine of some super freaky hot women who are super DTF and for mostly less than some of the best on TNA or other sites.

Happy to trade as well. Send me a PM.