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[Madaboutmax]

I pay attention to expectation levels, but don't let it stop me. I've found many of the younger girls have no understanding of the value of a dollar and can't translate 10,000 a month to a per meet number. Others, set the expectations high hoping to win the lottery, but quickly accept something reasonable if the connection is there. Still others, claim to use the higher expectations as a way to weed out the low ballers.

I usually start by expressing my interest, but letting them known if their expectations are above my budget. Very few decline to continue the conversation because of my limited budget.

I almost always delete any girls with the "I know my worth" claim. That is almost always a "pain in the ass" red flag.

Also, any girl that presses for what my budget is also is red flag that she is only about the money.

My best experiences have been with SB's interested in an experience beyond the maximize dollars they can make. If their focus is on maximum dollars, they are just expensive BP girls IMHO.

I keep my filter set at negotiable but I've had some fun with a couple of "practical" girls over the holidays. It seemed that the college lovelies need some extra Christmas/New Years Eve money so I was willing to help out. Seems the ladies quickly come back out of the stratosphere when they realize guy's aren't going give them what they want. I just take Kevin Hart's advice and stay in my lane. LOL.

[HollywoodGuy]

My new little girl is just adorable. I wish my x would stop hating on her.

[HollywoodGuy]

You reap what you sow. You're treating them like BP hookers. You spend no time cultivating them as sugar relationships - these take time - even HWG does this. You are risking getting banned from the site, since you are clearly offering sex for $ - this will eventually bring down sugar dating sites and SA in particular. If a girl makes a specific $ proposal / demand, I'd report her. There is an excellent discussion of this topic on the Richmond sugar thread over the past few days. I recommend it.

FF away

I make my dollar amount offer on SA for what I refer to as a date. When they ask me what a date is, I tell them to email me, and then I will spell it out for them. I never discuss sex and money together on SA directly unless they bring it up and even then I only talk about the money but never any specific sex act.

In the past I didn't do much cultivating, but since my funds went down I have had no choice but to do so. The results have been OK, meaning the frequency and variety of girls have been less, but it's all I can afford, so it has fulfilled my needs (i.e. used up my budget). My super spinner who I saw yesterday for date # 2 had been conversing with me for weeks. I am sure in the past I would have just blown her off due to her not committing in a timely fashion. But she has been well worth the wait, and most likely I can now ditch my ATF thanks to her.

My ATF is a super spinner, but a much taller version, which has been fine but doesn't compare to a 5'5" height girl of actually better proportions and some equally and in some aspects sexier features. Plus she likes it really rough. I finally pushed her to her pain limit and even then I only stopped when she politely asked me too. Which was so sweet on her part. So, the bottom line. Being forced to converse for much greater lengths of time has yielded some good results and also helped fill up my time (which I have so much more of these days). Also my new little girl came about in a similar way. After multiple times flaking and missed communications we finally met up and it all worked out fine.

Also I have only reported one "girl" on SA. It was just some guy who non stopped harassed me for money for 3 days before I finally got their profile removed. Otherwise I would advise not going there. There are hundreds of pros on SA and it can only get worse as the gov keeps shutting down the real pro sites. I like to think of SA as a way to relax, and so getting all hot and bothered about anything that goes on in there would spoil the experience for me.

[FarFarAway]

1. I just got blocked by a trashy-looking (but sexy) black girl after I offered her $300. She sent the message "I'm not that cheap" right before blocking me.

2. $300 seems to be the going rate for most girls who are down with casual fucking on a per-meeting basis. At least the ones I'm interested in. Relatively attractive, thin / athletic.

3. $500 will open the door to some of the really high quality girls that are serious lookers and head-turners. I have one girl I'm meeting soon who is a published model and youtube / instagram star. She doesn't advertise herself as such, but she got a little sloppy with some of the info she gave me and I figured it out. I won't let her know that I know.

4. Attractive light-skinned college girls won't even talk to me unless I bring $1,000 per night to the table. I did get one to compromise, but she's flaky and has an attitude problem.

5. Some girls will proposition me with their rate after 1 or 2 messages. Others are too shy to ask until the very last moment, after days of conversation and logistical planning. I can't decide which I like best.

There are exceptions to all of this, of course. But this has been my experience after the last week of intense S. A. Hunting.

You reap what you sow. You're treating them like BP hookers. You spend no time cultivating them as sugar relationships - these take time - even HWG does this. You are risking getting banned from the site, since you are clearly offering sex for $ - this will eventually bring down sugar dating sites and SA in particular. If a girl makes a specific $ proposal / demand, I'd report her. There is an excellent discussion of this topic on the Richmond sugar thread over the past few days. I recommend it.

FF away

[WHM69]

1. I just got blocked by a trashy-looking (but sexy) black girl after I offered her $300. She sent the message "I'm not that cheap" right before blocking me.

2. $300 seems to be the going rate for most girls who are down with casual fucking on a per-meeting basis. At least the ones I'm interested in. Relatively attractive, thin / athletic.

3. $500 will open the door to some of the really high quality girls that are serious lookers and head-turners. I have one girl I'm meeting soon who is a published model and youtube / instagram star. She doesn't advertise herself as such, but she got a little sloppy with some of the info she gave me and I figured it out. I won't let her know that I know.

4. Attractive light-skinned college girls won't even talk to me unless I bring $1,000 per night to the table. I did get one to compromise, but she's flaky and has an attitude problem.

5. Some girls will proposition me with their rate after 1 or 2 messages. Others are too shy to ask until the very last moment, after days of conversation and logistical planning. I can't decide which I like best.

There are exceptions to all of this, of course. But this has been my experience after the last week of intense S. A. Hunting.

[HollywoodGuy]

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...5-e0869b2641fd

What I'm Looking for.

I just want to be treated like a princess and getting choked on occasions.

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Thats my kind of princess. lol

[HollywoodGuy]

Holy shit that looks like Kelly Anne Conways sister! Can't sh eget a job sucking dick at the White House? .

Thats a trans girl.

[Rouleur]

How about a woman who looks like she's in her 50's but insists she's in her 30's? $300 just to have dinner but no touching.

And a gigantic attitude problem, you'll get to hear over and over that she's done this before and knows what she's worth.

If she "knows what she's worth" I hope you have change for a dollar.

[BigBadNut]

Holy shit that looks like Kelly Anne Conways sister! Can't sh eget a job sucking dick at the White House? .

How about a woman who looks like she's in her 50's but insists she's in her 30's? $300 just to have dinner but no touching.

And a gigantic attitude problem, you'll get to hear over and over that she's done this before and knows what she's worth.

[HollywoodGuy]

Any gal on SA who is fooking for $100 is a pro. You might as well cut through the drama and go to backpage.

I disagree with this. But the girls at $ will be black (could be hotties) or latina (not as hot) or less than perfect white girls (could stand to loose a few lbs).

[HollywoodGuy]

People have to realize that the $100 slam dunks are almost always black (and sometimes latina) girls. Going for cute white / asian girls at the $100 price range is just asking for a waste of time.

I can agree with that.

[Stolper]

I noticed he's going after white / asian girls is $100 in there price range? That might be the problem. Also, do same day meetings help with the flaking?

People have to realize that the $100 slam dunks are almost always black (and sometimes latina) girls. Going for cute white / asian girls at the $100 price range is just asking for a waste of time.

[Zman429]

It definitely takes a long time to find your groove on SA. Lots of trial and error. I would say it took me years to get to where I can slam dunk for a $. And I don't even go for $$. That would be just too easy (and expensive). Looks, personality, etc, do play a part.

I noticed he's going after white / asian girls is $100 in there price range? That might be the problem. Also, do same day meetings help with the flaking?

[Member #5794]

Maybe it's because I'm ugly, or maybe I'm just too impatient. SA has not been good to me. Lots of girls flake at the last minute or develop GPS at the last minute (or right away). I'm also pretty sure there are tons of fake accounts that send messages just to entice you to join.

This is too much like dating. Except more expensive. I need to stick to straight-up professionals.

Had some girls on the hook and struck out with all of them because I don't want to pay $500 to $1000 when I'm used to banging Jenna Besos for $160 or PrincessK for $180. They don't care if I'm ugly.

Any gal on SA who is fooking for $100 is a pro. You might as well cut through the drama and go to backpage.

[HollywoodGuy]

Maybe it's because I'm ugly, or maybe I'm just too impatient. SA has not been good to me. Lots of girls flake at the last minute or develop GPS at the last minute (or right away). I'm also pretty sure there are tons of fake accounts that send messages just to entice you to join.

This is too much like dating. Except more expensive. I need to stick to straight-up professionals.

Had some girls on the hook and struck out with all of them because I don't want to pay $500 to $1000 when I'm used to banging Jenna Besos for $160 or PrincessK for $180. They don't care if I'm ugly.

It definitely takes a long time to find your groove on SA. Lots of trial and error. I would say it took me years to get to where I can slam dunk for a $. And I don't even go for $$. That would be just too easy (and expensive). Looks, personality, etc, do play a part.

In the beginning (sounds ominous), I way overpaid. But I was determined to learn this game (and develop some of my own). I had been in one LTR or another from HS to the age of 52. So you could say I had no game when I started in the bowl.