Rants, Raves and Opinions AKA "The Octagon"

[Twisted69]

But I seriously doubt most of these girls think far or deep enough to catch on to any of that. The higher end or stable, reviewed ones already get it.

Sorry that movie has so many funny quotes. You are right most girls follow the water analogy, meaning the path of least resistance or least effort. I have been told by many that if there are 3 of us texting them they pick the greatest reward for the least effort. The reason they are not honest, dare I say is that if the first plan does not pan out for them then they go to option 2. And even sometimes they get the first and then act like they had problems to get option 2 as a bonus. After all it is just like fishing for both sides of the game. When you weigh in at the end of the day you want to be the one with the most. Be safe.

[RogerOver]

I give 2 hours between the my text to girl #1, to girl #2. Often enough, I finally get a reply back from #1 offering availability, to which I just simply say, "Sorry. It's been X hours and thought you might not be available so I contacted someone else. Perhaps next time. ".

This does 2 things. First, it let's them know that unlike boyfriends or suitors, customers will not wait forever because there are other options. Second, if they don't delete the messages (good or bad, is a debate for another time), the next time I send them a message, they will see from the previous message that unlike some other mongers, I am not the type that will wait around forever. I get a faster response to set up an appointment.

Cost to me, $0 for moving on. Cost to them $$ and the chance of paying their rent.

But I seriously doubt most of these girls think far or deep enough to catch on to any of that. The higher end or stable, reviewed ones already get it.

[Tactless]

Just curious if anyone has ever partaken and how they would rate the experience. Seems kinda dodgy and legit, with it being legal in Germany, at the same time. Can see that it would only work for the divorced or single among us. Or if you can convincingly lie about a "business conference" you have to attend overseas.

Would be my luck that I would get into a vehicle at the airport and a hood immediately goes over my head with a Russian man saying "we make you our ***** now" LOL.

[Dick Morehead]

No TER is active and up to date. I review on there myself on occasion. Reviews there are no more or no less reliable than on here.

I have found TER to be a pretty reliable tool, especially for trying to find info on traveling providers or providers that are not listing with USA. It in some respects easier to navigate than some sites as all of a girls' reviews are typically located in one place. Even if you are not a paying member of TER you can easily get contact info, posting site (s), physical description, and if they are real or scam. The 'general details' part of the review usually tells you if a reviewing monger would repeat or not and if the set up was easy or difficult. If a provider has several reviews listed you can easily ascertain if that they are legit. If you decide to pay the monthly fee (or post a couple reviews a month) you get to see the juicy details of the review which should tell ya whether they provide what you are interested in purchasing. USA is more up to date with current talent and certainly provides great info and valuable input about the local scene. When I see a post on USA that I find interesting I use TER as one of the tools to do further research. Be careful out there.

[AlfReady]

I give 2 hours between the my text to girl #1, to girl #2. Often enough, I finally get a reply back from #1 offering availability, to which I just simply say, "Sorry. It's been X hours and thought you might not be available so I contacted someone else. Perhaps next time. ".

This does 2 things. First, it let's them know that unlike boyfriends or suitors, customers will not wait forever because there are other options. Second, if they don't delete the messages (good or bad, is a debate for another time), the next time I send them a message, they will see from the previous message that unlike some other mongers, I am not the type that will wait around forever. I get a faster response to set up an appointment.

Cost to me, $0 for moving on. Cost to them $$ and the chance of paying their rent.

I text 3 or 4 and let them race to see who answers first. But I did get burned by SincyCinnamon who double booked me so it cuts both ways.

[D Nut]

You text a girl Tuesday morning 10 am with something simple " are you available " they text back Wednesday afternoon at 3 pm with " yes I'm available ". Like you've been waiting for 32 hours by your phone chewing on your fingernails waiting for her return text. When you tell them you called yesterday they text back with the perfect excuse, " my phone died ". And when they text back it's usually at the wrong time, you're at work, talking to the wife, or at the kids or grandkids game. I just wish they would use common sense and see that if someone wanted to see you 36 hours ago and didn't get in touch with you the chances of them wanting to see you a day and a half later are pretty remote and you just might be doing something other than sitting at home hoping they will returned your text. Thanks rant over. HL29.

I give 2 hours between the my text to girl #1, to girl #2. Often enough, I finally get a reply back from #1 offering availability, to which I just simply say, "Sorry. It's been X hours and thought you might not be available so I contacted someone else. Perhaps next time. ".

This does 2 things. First, it let's them know that unlike boyfriends or suitors, customers will not wait forever because there are other options. Second, if they don't delete the messages (good or bad, is a debate for another time), the next time I send them a message, they will see from the previous message that unlike some other mongers, I am not the type that will wait around forever. I get a faster response to set up an appointment.

Cost to me, $0 for moving on. Cost to them $$ and the chance of paying their rent.

[Whathesaid]

Hon, you should have said, "I sell faux fragrances and I tried to sell him some, but he said he would only buy the real thing for you. " Obviously he didn't have any text messages stored, one hopes, or else she was fishing.

Cheech.

Guys, get cameras. Good ones.

Because if the SO asks about strange messages on your phone, you can always say you got paid taking the lady's picture. Wink!

However this will not work if you see one of the ladies from TN who are also professional photograpers outside the hobby. Sad face.

[OneBigRichard]

Ok, so I have been doing this for quite some time now & I've definitely had my ups and downs, more upset than downs, I'll be honest. I've met some really wonderful men & whether seeing me or not still remain friends! But when someone new tries to contact me, I'm very strict on who I see. My friends know that I work from my private residence so for me on THIS end of the hobby, I have to be. But usually what I request is for someone to write me on here to verify if they are a USA member, some get upset because maybe they can't log in right then and there to write me and then there's the men that are very new and have only seen one or even no one at that point! I understand but as much as I look out for my safety, I look out for my friends safety as well. I'd hate to meet the wrong friend and BOOM my phone's took. Things are looked at SMH. I mean, I use an app for friends I talk to, so I figure they take me, in uninstalling sappo LOL but STILL there are risks! I have two sons I take care of full time as well, that's a huge factor on why I kinda make yuh go the distance to o see me! I can't say I DO IT all the time but if I have even the slightest guy feeling, I do request a pm on here. Sorry for the rant, I'm just wondering. Am I being too careful. ? Can you even be Too careful? Most important things about our hobby is privacy! Idk. LOL sorry.

We have spent several Magical moments together. Tho its been a while, because of your new hour available. You have to take care of you, just like we gentelman try to do. You have always had good thing said about you. Stand your ground. A couple of ben franklin aren't worth the risk. Take care sexy OBR.

[RustyNailsYou]

Ok, so I have been doing this for quite some time now & I've definitely had my ups and downs, more upset than downs, I'll be honest. I've met some really wonderful men & whether seeing me or not still remain friends! But when someone new tries to contact me, I'm very strict on who I see. My friends know that I work from my private residence so for me on THIS end of the hobby, I have to be. But usually what I request is for someone to write me on here to verify if they are a USA member, some get upset because maybe they can't log in right then and there to write me and then there's the men that are very new and have only seen one or even no one at that point! I understand but as much as I look out for my safety, I look out for my friends safety as well. I'd hate to meet the wrong friend and BOOM my phone's took. Things are looked at SMH. I mean, I use an app for friends I talk to, so I figure they take me, in uninstalling sappo LOL but STILL there are risks! I have two sons I take care of full time as well, that's a huge factor on why I kinda make yuh go the distance to o see me! I can't say I DO IT all the time but if I have even the slightest guy feeling, I do request a pm on here. Sorry for the rant, I'm just wondering. Am I being too careful. ? Can you even be Too careful? Most important things about our hobby is privacy! Idk. LOL sorry.

I have seen you and enjoyed our time together.

Your screening process is totally understandable. You have more to lose than most girls.

And I need discretion too.

Stay safe and have fun along the way.

Rusty.

[DrDave39]

Ok, so I have been doing this for quite some time now & I've definitely had my ups and downs, more upset than downs, I'll be honest. I've met some really wonderful men & whether seeing me or not still remain friends! But when someone new tries to contact me, I'm very strict on who I see. My friends know that I work from my private residence so for me on THIS end of the hobby, I have to be. But usually what I request is for someone to write me on here to verify if they are a USA member, some get upset because maybe they can't log in right then and there to write me and then there's the men that are very new and have only seen one or even no one at that point! I understand but as much as I look out for my safety, I look out for my friends safety as well. I'd hate to meet the wrong friend and BOOM my phone's took. Things are looked at SMH. I mean, I use an app for friends I talk to, so I figure they take me, in uninstalling sappo LOL but STILL there are risks! I have two sons I take care of full time as well, that's a huge factor on why I kinda make yuh go the distance to o see me! I can't say I DO IT all the time but if I have even the slightest guy feeling, I do request a pm on here. Sorry for the rant, I'm just wondering. Am I being too careful. ? Can you even be Too careful? Most important things about our hobby is privacy! Idk. LOL sorry.

CL-.

You can't be too careful. Missing out on one client is a lot cheaper than a lawyer for getting busted, etc. Speaking for myself, your being careful makes it safer for me as well. You do what feels right for you!

And no, we haven't connected- yet.

The good dr.

[JoeBogus]

There is no such thing as being too careful. And most of us really, really appreciate that. Keep it up.

Ok, so I have been doing this for quite some time now & I've definitely had my ups and downs, more upset than downs, I'll be honest. I've met some really wonderful men & whether seeing me or not still remain friends! But when someone new tries to contact me, I'm very strict on who I see. My friends know that I work from my private residence so for me on THIS end of the hobby, I have to be. But usually what I request is for someone to write me on here to verify if they are a USA member, some get upset because maybe they can't log in right then and there to write me and then there's the men that are very new and have only seen one or even no one at that point! I understand but as much as I look out for my safety, I look out for my friends safety as well. I'd hate to meet the wrong friend and BOOM my phone's took. Things are looked at SMH. I mean, I use an app for friends I talk to, so I figure they take me, in uninstalling sappo LOL but STILL there are risks! I have two sons I take care of full time as well, that's a huge factor on why I kinda make yuh go the distance to o see me! I can't say I DO IT all the time but if I have even the slightest guy feeling, I do request a pm on here. Sorry for the rant, I'm just wondering. Am I being too careful. ? Can you even be Too careful? Most important things about our hobby is privacy! Idk. LOL sorry.

[Cheech1]

I never thought that about you A2. I figured 3 or 4 thousand miles. Tops.

I'd lie cheat and steal for a Molly, Silkey spin off though. I tell you I'd do that without even thinking.

A2

I suspect all you would have to do is send them a ticket and make sure they have a passport, LOL.

Cheech.

[Cheech1]

Who left there phone out and about so your fiance could get a hold of it? I just got this message " How do you know my fiance?" First time ever in this hobby for me.

I only have one thing to say, " Gentlemen hide your phone's, delete your messages, bury your burner phone. I do not like to be put in this spot. ".

VR.

Hon, you should have said, "I sell faux fragrances and I tried to sell him some, but he said he would only buy the real thing for you. " Obviously he didn't have any text messages stored, one hopes, or else she was fishing.

Cheech.

[CrissyLynn2015]

Ok, so I have been doing this for quite some time now & I've definitely had my ups and downs, more upset than downs, I'll be honest. I've met some really wonderful men & whether seeing me or not still remain friends! But when someone new tries to contact me, I'm very strict on who I see. My friends know that I work from my private residence so for me on THIS end of the hobby, I have to be. But usually what I request is for someone to write me on here to verify if they are a USA member, some get upset because maybe they can't log in right then and there to write me and then there's the men that are very new and have only seen one or even no one at that point! I understand but as much as I look out for my safety, I look out for my friends safety as well. I'd hate to meet the wrong friend and BOOM my phone's took. Things are looked at SMH. I mean, I use an app for friends I talk to, so I figure they take me, in uninstalling sappo LOL but STILL there are risks! I have two sons I take care of full time as well, that's a huge factor on why I kinda make yuh go the distance to o see me! I can't say I DO IT all the time but if I have even the slightest guy feeling, I do request a pm on here. Sorry for the rant, I'm just wondering. Am I being too careful. ? Can you even be Too careful? Most important things about our hobby is privacy! Idk. LOL sorry.

[John HandCock]

You text a girl Tuesday morning 10 am with something simple " are you available " they text back Wednesday afternoon at 3 pm with " yes I'm available ". Like you've been waiting for 32 hours by your phone chewing on your fingernails waiting for her return text. When you tell them you called yesterday they text back with the perfect excuse, " my phone died ". And when they text back it's usually at the wrong time, you're at work, talking to the wife, or at the kids or grandkids game. I just wish they would use common sense and see that if someone wanted to see you 36 hours ago and didn't get in touch with you the chances of them wanting to see you a day and a half later are pretty remote and you just might be doing something other than sitting at home hoping they will returned your text. Thanks rant over. HL29.

I add when contacting them if I don't here back by whatever time I decide to give them to respond that I will contact someone else. Very seldom will you get a random call unless your dealing with the chemical users.