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[Raslan]

Had continued to text the 26 yo exotic mix and it was getting insanely hot. She sent me p pics that were only missing my tongue! We agreed to meet for coffee per the usual chemistry check and I commented that it seemed silly as we knew the chemistry was there. She said to just come over to her place, that it would be so much more relaxed and we could talk freely.

I show up at her apartment and she is just like her pics. Hot. We're talking a while and she commented that she was glad I said I was coming casual, jeans, as she was glad to be in her shorts, t-shirt and no bra. Yes! I ask about her spouse and she says that she is trucker so gone a lot but that they have a very free relationship as she (spouse) knows that She (my hottie) doesn't get much attention.

We finally just started making out and it was on. Got her naked and went to town on the most gorgeous caramel snatch I've seen in a long time. She said she didn't O easily but I changed that! It was cute as she kept saying, "I'm nutting!" So I lay back and she slides onto me and she is grinding away! I "nutted" fairly early as she felt so fuggin good but I can stay hard so just let her keep going. She said I was the first guy in a few years!

All of a sudden we look up and there is someone, a guy, I think, in the room! Rough looking and I'm thinking I'm dead. She says it's her husband (Wait. What?? Thought you were married to a girl! And not to worry but to just leave her some money and leave. She had mentioned needing like $60 (not 160 FYI) and I told I was fine as I knew we'd be seeing each other a lot. I grabbed some cash from my wallet (more than the 60 since we did a lot more! Think it was about $180), dressed, grabbed my stuff and walked out. The person was just standing there in the living room as I left. I was freaking out for her safety. I kept texting her and she said it was fine. It turns out "he" was a "she", her spouse! Wow! Seriously butch! She (my hottie) said she (spouse) wants to be referred to herself as her husband since she really would rather be a guy. Confused yet?? I guess husband is OK with her seeing guys but not girls. She kept texting me saying it was fine, no worries. OK, guess I'll believe her.

She is so friggin hot and close by, no hotel to rent so she's a keeper. As long as husband isn't in town! Never want that to happen again!! She was pissed too because she said she was about to nut again! "Buzz kill" she said.

So, on another note, kept working a couple others by text that evening. Yes, I'm a dog. But, as we all know, this is a game of numbers!

Oh, my 24 yo wants to see me Wednesday!!

[Raslan]

When you have a regular who you don't want to know you are still on the site mongering, just block her. The only thing you are vulnerable to is if she has a friend she talks to who could see your profile or if she herself wants to do intel and sets up a 2nd profile. I have a loose arrangement w / a woman in the IE, and I blocked her. I get on and I see a new profile from her (new picture from the same photo shoot as her 1st profile) and a different set of parameters. I blocked that one too, and am obviously circumspect about her honesty.

I never thought about that. I don't think it happens like it does with favoriting someone, but does that person get notified that you blocked them? I'm thinking it just shows that they are no longer on the site.

[HollywoodGuy]

So my visit with my X turned out to be platonic. Not my choice, but when there is no sugar involved you can't really say much. The skater girl from yesterday said she had a great time and wants to see me again. I will be very clear that she has to step it up to do that, but she seemed very open to the idea so far. She is probably the prettiest girl I have met so far this year and she seems really fresh. I guess I'll see how it goes. You just never know who you are going to connect with. We both almost canceled the date. It would have been the second cancellation so we were both hanging in there so as not to spoil things. Sometimes even one cancellation can turn things south permanently.

[FarFarAway]

Getting better at this the more I do it. I renewed my original profile since the lady I met there deleted her profile and I've been seeing her for over a year (no $) so I think she's not checking. My 24 yo is about 45 min drive, no car, so a bit a PITA to schedule but will let me do or have her do ANYTHING we've agreed on! She even has things she wants to do the I am shocked at! I banged the 30 yo I knew from before on Friday and she had so many no's (Doesn't like getting oral, I need to trim Charlie (not going to happen due to SO), etc) that I left wanting to find a lady on HX to grudge fu at #.

I think I was texting 5-7 ladies at any one time yesterday. Trying to find someone much closer so it doesn't fade between the times I'm in their area. Think I may have a few that could work out. The hottest is a 26 yo mix of black, Japanese, and Mexican. Thin, B cups, GORGEOUS butt, really exotically cute face. She is actually married. To a woman. But very bi and her spouse is gone traveling most of the year and this girl really has missed being with a guy. We got worked up and exchanged naked pics. Wow. She thought Charlie was "pretty"! Going to meet her (very local) today just to make sure and see how it goes.

As has been said, the choices are a good problem to have!

When you have a regular who you don't want to know you are still on the site mongering, just block her. The only thing you are vulnerable to is if she has a friend she talks to who could see your profile or if she herself wants to do intel and sets up a 2nd profile. I have a loose arrangement w / a woman in the IE, and I blocked her. I get on and I see a new profile from her (new picture from the same photo shoot as her 1st profile) and a different set of parameters. I blocked that one too, and am obviously circumspect about her honesty.

[Raslan]

Getting better at this the more I do it. I renewed my original profile since the lady I met there deleted her profile and I've been seeing her for over a year (no $) so I think she's not checking. My 24 yo is about 45 min drive, no car, so a bit a PITA to schedule but will let me do or have her do ANYTHING we've agreed on! She even has things she wants to do the I am shocked at! I banged the 30 yo I knew from before on Friday and she had so many no's (Doesn't like getting oral, I need to trim Charlie (not going to happen due to SO), etc) that I left wanting to find a lady on HX to grudge fu at #.

I think I was texting 5-7 ladies at any one time yesterday. Trying to find someone much closer so it doesn't fade between the times I'm in their area. Think I may have a few that could work out. The hottest is a 26 yo mix of black, Japanese, and Mexican. Thin, B cups, GORGEOUS butt, really exotically cute face. She is actually married. To a woman. But very bi and her spouse is gone traveling most of the year and this girl really has missed being with a guy. We got worked up and exchanged naked pics. Wow. She thought Charlie was "pretty"! Going to meet her (very local) today just to make sure and see how it goes.

As has been said, the choices are a good problem to have!

[HollywoodGuy]

I have never been able to figure out who is going to be good at what. I guess that's why I have to take a lot of test drives. Usually I have a few girls and each one is a pro at one particular thing or maybe two. So between all of them you get the whole menu. As far as eating pussy, I would say its every girls biggest complaint. The lack of skills and the unwillingness of guys their age to just dive right in. I doubt I was much better myself back then. Especially when they were all hairy and scary back in the day.

Anyway after the date I figured I would have a quiet evening at home wondering if I could recuperate in time for the $$ girl tomorrow. But my X the dancer (pictured) just called me and says she wants to come over after work in about an hour. She was tipsy and giggling, which is usually a hint that she is in a good mood, probably because she did well at the club, and that she is horny. She will never just come out and say she is horny or want to fuck me. She just drops little hints as she is actually a bit shy about sex generally speaking.

So IDK if I am even up for it, but I am going to uber her over in a few. Either way at least I will get to sleep next to the only girl that I have real feelings for and the only girl thats currently allowed to sleep in my bed. Too bad she only wants sex at 2 am and is not a morning girl. So if I don't partake tonite there won't be a second bite at the apple tomorrow. Never fall in love with a lesbian stripper. It will break your heart for sure.

[FarFarAway]

When you seriously work SA, quantity is always going to be a problem. I am reasonably sure anyone with the time and money and physical ability, could easily have one new girl a day 365 days a year. And I hope the girl from today does decide to step it up, without the upsell, like the last girl. And the truth is, she is better than the last girl. And I do believe she will step it up, because she is not looking for a ton of cash thanks to mommy and biological daddy. And she was a lot more comfortable by the time she left. For date number two I will tell her she can get off easy by just stepping up to oral. And that she doesn't have to fuck me... Yet. Her only negative was that she wasnt into kissing. So many girls are not, or worse yet they are but they are no good at it. It might be easier to get anal than awesome kissing. Its one of the main reason I have stayed with my ATF, she is awesome in that dept... and a few more. Props to any girl that can keep me coming back for more after 2 years. And 2 years is usually my limit even with girls I am in love with... figuratively speaking.

Which brings me to a quick aside. I have fallen in love with two of my sugar babes over the years. Not a smart move. Because to think they could love me back in every demanding way I require is a fantasy. But I can't control my emotions, so its a risk thats still looming... What do they say, the greater the risk, the greater the reward. And that love (or sex) that burns the brightest, flickers the fastest. lol...I'll take that flicker any day. Those are memories that will last a lifetime.

Agreed there is limitless potential on SA, and working or the SO is all that keeps me from spending 24/7 on POTs when I have a membership. I will have a 2 week hall pass in May and I am already anticipating how I'm going to handle that. Lots of pharmaceutical help for sure.

I also agree about the kissing. However, I recall a couple of POTs (I always try to get a kiss at the M&G, on your advice) who were excellent. Inland white girls both, never took either to the FC. One was GPS (and a little questionable - UTR or a webcam girl), the other a suicide girl w/ a sob story (but very sweet).

I have a pretty good kisser in my InlandRed baby, and also OCHottie. The former is a MILF, the latter 22 YO. There may be a correlation of oral skill to generation. Supposedly the millenial guys are no good at eating pussy, and we can step in there and provide a service. Maybe the girls are also not oral enough. Their generation is so affirmed, w / trophies for participation. It may have gotten them past oral fixation, Dr. Freud. lol

[HollywoodGuy]

Isn't that a quantity problem? LOL.

When you seriously work SA, quantity is always going to be a problem. I am reasonably sure anyone with the time and money and physical ability, could easily have one new girl a day 365 days a year. And I hope the girl from today does decide to step it up, without the upsell, like the last girl. And the truth is, she is better than the last girl. And I do believe she will step it up, because she is not looking for a ton of cash thanks to mommy and biological daddy. And she was a lot more comfortable by the time she left. For date number two I will tell her she can get off easy by just stepping up to oral. And that she doesn't have to fuck me... Yet. Her only negative was that she wasnt into kissing. So many girls are not, or worse yet they are but they are no good at it. It might be easier to get anal than awesome kissing. Its one of the main reason I have stayed with my ATF, she is awesome in that dept... and a few more. Props to any girl that can keep me coming back for more after 2 years. And 2 years is usually my limit even with girls I am in love with... figuratively speaking.

Which brings me to a quick aside. I have fallen in love with two of my sugar babes over the years. Not a smart move. Because to think they could love me back in every demanding way I require is a fantasy. But I can't control my emotions, so its a risk thats still looming... What do they say, the greater the risk, the greater the reward. And that love (or sex) that burns the brightest, flickers the fastest. lol...I'll take that flicker any day. Those are memories that will last a lifetime.

[FarFarAway]

Just finished my date with the skater GND. She was 19 (just turned 19) and was way cuter than her pics with a tiny sexy body. We didn't get past the HJ, but she said she wanted to see me again and she acknowledged that she would have to step up her game to do that. She actually was a very cool girl from a middle class / working class family that still lives at home. Really cute. Not totally what I am looking for but maybe the best new girl I have met this year. I am supposed to see the $$ hottie tomorrow. Not sure I am really up for it physically. Because that isn't a HJ date. LOL. Not for $$ no way. So I may have to take a day of rest. I know she will be pissed if I cancel because she has been txting me repeatedly. And my date with the sub girl is supposed to be on Tuesday.

I suppose these are quality problems most guys dont have to think about. But we are not most guys.

Isn't that a quantity problem? LOL.

[HollywoodGuy]

Just finished my date with the skater GND. She was 19 (just turned 19) and was way cuter than her pics with a tiny sexy body. We didn't get past the HJ, but she said she wanted to see me again and she acknowledged that she would have to step up her game to do that. She actually was a very cool girl from a middle class / working class family that still lives at home. Really cute. Not totally what I am looking for but maybe the best new girl I have met this year. I am supposed to see the $$ hottie tomorrow. Not sure I am really up for it physically. Because that isn't a HJ date. LOL. Not for $$ no way. So I may have to take a day of rest. I know she will be pissed if I cancel because she has been txting me repeatedly. And my date with the sub girl is supposed to be on Tuesday.

I suppose these are quality problems most guys dont have to think about. But we are not most guys.

[HollywoodGuy]

I've also noticed an increase in these platonic profiles and am also irritated. I have spent some time in polite conversation getting to know a couple of these girls in the last week, and found they really do want platonic. One of them talked a poor sucker to a $1. 5 dinner date but he was so wierd and demanding, she didn't see him again. I think Tumblir and Instagram blogs are giving these girls false impressions of what it takes. My opinion is that it is not the worth the time talking to them or going to a meet and greet with these girls and hope you can change their mind. A good arrangement needs someone sexually adventurous and the chances are not high with someone who writes platonic. Just next them and move on. Plenty of fish in the bowl.

Why even bother with those profiles. Just go straight to the ones that want to get busy. When shopping for a new car do you get irritated if you don't like the options, the color, or the price? Or do you just keep shopping?

I just get sad when i see a 10 in my demographic, that knows she is a ten and I will never get her for a $, most likely not even $$. But irritated? Never. I am grateful that I have some good enough girl next door types that are 18-20 that want to spend time with someone the age of their grandpa. lol

But lately I have been longing for some 30+ minute oral so I found a latina BBW total sub (with a car) that only wants to please her daddy. I had an amazing one a couple of years ago that was good for 60+ minutes. I should have never let her go.

So far this year I have interviewed five new girls. Only one has made it past the first date. And she isn't all that, but we have a bit of a friendship going that may lead to something else. I know if I keep going, eventually I will find the next keeper, but it hasn't happened yet. And I ditched all my old girls except my ATF and one of my X's (both sugar free) thats more of a friendship relationship as well, so its like I am starting from scratch. I am saving a lot of money, but spending a lot of time alone. My goal is to get rich at work this year so that next year I can offer $$ and get some better quality girls. But until then I will keep on keepin on. Todays date is txting me now, another GND type, mixed, 20, and eager.

[HollywoodGuy]

One little point. Having read these SD threads for many months, I recall some people taking a flyer approaching girls who state that. And when they did so respectfully and with some wit and humor, the girls eventually admitted that they put that on their profiles to deter the boorish mongers who treat them like hookers. There were also examples where a POT admitted she knew how sugar worked and they were not opposed to eventually going to the FC, just that they were looking for a real arrangement. So, if you're a P4 P guy, sure, skip those. If you are in the market for an ongoing girl, I wouldn't let that deter me. Likewise, their $ expectations. Its true, they are often clueless when they are so young. That can be good and bad.

I always tell them I am fine with platonic. I just don't pay for it. LOL.

[HollywoodGuy]

The word "Princess" ANYWHERE in their profile.

The phrase "spoil me" ANYWHERE in their profile.

I actually like princess. This is one of those words where you need to read between the lines. In my intro letter I actually ask them if they are a princess (because that is what I am looking for). A certain type of princess. Because the word princess has many connotations... and some of them are very condusive to submissive behavior and wanting a "Daddy". Just my 2 cents.

[SupDaddy]

I've also noticed an increase in these platonic profiles and am also irritated. I have spent some time in polite conversation getting to know a couple of these girls in the last week, and found they really do want platonic. One of them talked a poor sucker to a $1. 5 dinner date but he was so wierd and demanding, she didn't see him again. I think Tumblir and Instagram blogs are giving these girls false impressions of what it takes. My opinion is that it is not the worth the time talking to them or going to a meet and greet with these girls and hope you can change their mind. A good arrangement needs someone sexually adventurous and the chances are not high with someone who writes platonic. Just next them and move on. Plenty of fish in the bowl.

One little point. Having read these SD threads for many months, I recall some people taking a flyer approaching girls who state that. And when they did so respectfully and with some wit and humor, the girls eventually admitted that they put that on their profiles to deter the boorish mongers who treat them like hookers. There were also examples where a POT admitted she knew how sugar worked and they were not opposed to eventually going to the FC, just that they were looking for a real arrangement. So, if you're a P4 P guy, sure, skip those. If you are in the market for an ongoing girl, I wouldn't let that deter me. Likewise, their $ expectations. Its true, they are often clueless when they are so young. That can be good and bad.

[Raslan]

When they say.

I don't want this to feel transactional.
I just need help with my tuition.
My last sugar daddy.....
My girlfriend met her sugar daddy here and.....
I am not a prostitute or an escort.

They give you their number before you ask for it. Usually within a couple of exchanges or less.

They favorite you

All their pics are modeling pics. All of them.

Lists of 5 star restaurants in their profile.

If the About Me section is more than 5 paragraphs.

If the What I'm Looking for section is more than 3 paragraphs.

If they use the word Queen or King in their bio.

Thier profile is more than a year old (maybe even 6 months old).

They have blond hair and blue eyes. LOL.

The word "Princess" ANYWHERE in their profile.

The phrase "spoil me" ANYWHERE in their profile.