NoVA SugarBabies

**Willy Host** · 01-28-17 20:07

Though new to this whole SA thing I thought a thread titled SA 101 may be appropriate. So just what ta hell is a Sugar Daddy or Sugar baby??

Huffington Post commented: Some women in college have turned to a new kind of job to pay for school. It's safe to say many sugar babies aren't reporting this income to the Internal Revenue Service, making them part of what a University of Wisconsin study estimates is a $2 trillion underground economy.

From the SA site "Sugar Baby Perks".

Financial Stability: Unpaid bills no longer have to be a concern.

Find a Mentor: Established Sugar Daddies offer valuable guidance for long-term stability.

Date Experienced Men: Start dating gentlemen who leave the dating games alone.

Be Pampered: Indulge in shopping sprees, expensive dinners, and exotic travels.

We provide Relationships on Your Terms.

Where Sugar Babies enjoy a life of luxury by being pampered with fine dinners, exotic trips and allowances. In turn, Sugar Daddies or Mommas find beautiful members to accompany them at all times.

What-is-an-arrangement. Mutually Beneficial Arrangements.

Every successful relationship is an arrangement between two parties. In business, partners sign business agreements that outline their objectives and expectations. Likewise, romantic relationships can only work if two people agree on what they expect, and what they can give and receive from each other.

Sugar Daddy Webester: well-to-do usually older man who supports or spends lavishly on a mistress, girlfriend, or boyfriend: a generous benefactor of a cause or undertaking.

Sugar Daddy http://www.urbandictionary.com: Like a genie. He may be a little old, but if a girl rubs his lamp, he'll grant her wishes. She uses her sugar daddy for his money, but he sure gets some service in return!

So as I see it, a "Sugar Daddy" provides some form of financial incentive to a "Sugar Baby" to spend time with him. I've seen the posts "I don't spend a dime" or "I want it for free" so be it for you all, great you have found what you seek. For the rest of us, as advertised by the SA site, Webster, Huffington Post & Wikipedia a Sugar Daddy trades cash for a Sugar Babies time.

I consider myself fortunate in that I've only been on the site less than a month & have met 6 Sugar babies. Five of which have led to great after dinner entertainment.

In my profile my public pic I post an image of me. Granted due to angle & content of the image a 10 Man / Woman lineup would have a tough time nailing me however it is me. This image is part of your profile & all the Sugar Babies can see it. I post several "Private" images which are also me, more revealing that my public image however no naked or posed crap, just me.

The initial exchange with SB's: From what I have experienced many are young & intimidated so to ease the tension for first time meetings I offer lunch / dinner meet & greet, if we hit it off, we move to phase two, if not I pick up the tab & give her a hug goodbye. I've had one hug goodbye experience and that may just lead to other fun times. Place is of her choosing within the area we define up front. Now I don't offer Ruth Chris or the Chart House, but mid-placed nice restaurants, don't pick McD's or KFC, come on now. During one dinner my last SB she mentioned her previous date with a SD who opened the conversation with "OK so we have a $50 budget, do you want to just get a couple drinks or an appetizer?" Really dude; wholly crap. Granted this is not "e-friggin-harmony" and we are not looking for a life time relationship, but really?

In messages exchanges I'm respectful honest & direct, no bull shitting. I've had my share of those who are looking for a really big catch, I simply wish them luck as I'm not that guy. I've had some who offered to see me several times a week for a reduced cost. Have had others who inform me we'll need to go to dinner several times before even thinking about anything else, those I wish well also.

On Monday I have a three-way planned where I only pay for one. So how did this occur?? So I meet SB #4 a hot young thing who is really into sex. We sit through dinner & she shares her desires damn easy to see this little 22 year old LOVES sex. So we retire to a more private adventure where an hour later we both are completely worn out. I mention to her she should be in movies. She told me next time remind her to bring a camera as we can film it.

On to conquest #5, we meet at a local diner she explained I'm only her 2nd SD & she is nervous as hell. As we sit though dinner she drinks several white wines she was nervous but excited at the same time. She wanted to know of any of my other encounters so I shared my most interesting with this 22 YO who had fantasies of filing us. By the time we left the diner she was relaxed & excited. We retired to a more private location. After the activities she tells me that she would like to meet SB #4. So I txt SB #4 and explain I have a gal who wants to join us, would she would be cool with that. Her response: "Yeah I'm good with that if she allows me to fuck her with my strap-on". SB #5 says that sounds fun. So on Monday I have a 3 way.

You are a SD so be prepared to spend a couple $ on food / drinks and of course the SB. If you are looking for a free adventure try the local bar, e-Harmony or some other venue.

I would greatly appreciate others commenting on this thread.

**Willy Host** · 01-24-17 22:24

Originally Posted by JimRob [View Original Post]

Just to add about my experience with the sb. I'm shocked and horrified out of the 4 girls I saw, 3 or them would have went bare back like it was normal. I had to tell them I like condoms because they help me last, but goddamn what is wrong with these women.

I agree need to be vigilant on safety many are too care free.

**Jim Rob** · 01-22-17 17:52

Just to add about my experience with the sb. I'm shocked and horrified out of the 4 girls I saw, 3 or them would have went bare back like it was normal. I had to tell them I like condoms because they help me last, but goddamn what is wrong with these women.

**Willy Host** · 01-19-17 21:35

I've meet four contacts since joining. One was older MILF hot as hell (looking fwd to seeing her again), one was a 20 yr old into domination thing (though I;m not into it she was the funnest), and two down on their luck. All four adventures were a blast an I would repeat any. What a concept.

**Jim Rob** · 01-19-17 18:40

After you get married you will always pay for pussy. First free pussy takes time and a lot of effort especially the good pussy. After getting married the free time is gone and only thing left is pay play. If you're one of those guys who has a wife that still wants to suck your dick and fuck after having kids, then well you got a good one and treat her right.

**Sfrancis118** · 01-19-17 15:02

Originally Posted by JohnHandCock [View Original Post]

I don't get the number of guys who just have to pay for pussy. If your account is accurate then the girl would have civy dated you but you insist on turning it into sb / sd experience. If you got the game to pick one up and your single why even attempt to convert one to a sb?

You pay them to go away.

**Jim Rob** · 01-19-17 14:31

I don't know her, but that website cost a lot each month, but I have already fucked four sugar baby's. Could have been more, but the cost is so high. Yes I'm stupid but I have been fucking young hot girls and have spent over 2 g. It's great but it's so addicting the good pussy you can get, but way over my budget. I'm going back to pros. I think.

**Neurer** · 01-19-17 09:10

Originally Posted by BunkerBuster [View Original Post]

I can't see beyond the SA registration firewall as I'm not a member.

With a pic, there's a chance that casual readers of this board might recognize a girl from prior / other ventures. It's not unusual for girls who've worked a bit on BP or CL to recast themselves as sugar babies, after hearing about the $$ available.

Believe the pics are fake and she might be a he trying to meet. Profile might also be gone, but in case the person is using the pics in CL and other places.

**ChrisCarr** · 01-17-17 19:33

Originally Posted by JohnHandCock [View Original Post]

I don't get the number of guys who just have to pay for pussy. If your account is accurate then the girl would have civy dated you but you insist on turning it into sb / sd experience. If you got the game to pick one up and your single why even attempt to convert one to a sb?

LOL single. And even if I was single it would still cost me plenty to have a gf. Besides. The money we pay whether it is SB or mongering isn't for sex or companionship, it's for silence and freedom.

Originally Posted by DrMcNaughty [View Original Post]

I don't think an uber driver fits the demographics of a sugar daddy! Enjoy!

Uber is my sugar generator you insensitive clod! Read it again!

**DrMcNaughty** · 01-13-17 03:51

& I don't think an uber driver fits the demographics of a sugar daddy! Enjoy!

Originally Posted by JohnHandCock [View Original Post]

I don't get the number of guys who just have to pay for pussy. If your account is accurate then the girl would have civy dated you but you insist on turning it into sb / sd experience. If you got the game to pick one up and your single why even attempt to convert one to a sb?

**Bunker Buster** · 01-13-17 00:53

Originally Posted by TravelingJohn#2 [View Original Post]

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...6-226821bb4a6d

Any experience with this one? She has messaged well, just seems to be good to be true.

I can't see beyond the SA registration firewall as I'm not a member.

With a pic, there's a chance that casual readers of this board might recognize a girl from prior / other ventures. It's not unusual for girls who've worked a bit on BP or CL to recast themselves as sugar babies, after hearing about the $$ available.

**John HandCock** · 01-12-17 23:31

Originally Posted by ChrisCarr [View Original Post]

Hello all, I've started a journey into the world of SD and I figured here is a forum where I'm sure the folks can appreciate the narrative.

I have been driving Uber on the side, only on Saturday nights, and every Sunday morning I stop at a local convenience store to grab a croissant and oj before heading home for a few hours of sleep. Every time I stop in there is a cute, curvy girl with a foreign name behind the counter, busily going about her work at the start of her shift. On seeing her the first time I made the bold move of telling her, "Hey, I just want to tell you that I think you are reall pretty. Straight up gorgeous. " I was very surprised to get a reply of thank you in the most American of American english. Clearly she was born here or came here young enough to not be influenced by her parents tongue.

A few weeks go by and every time I go to the store, she is there, and I make small talk always sure to be polite and smile. I've learned that she is in college, folks are from Ethiopia, she is 20, and she has no boyfriend. This week, I asked her for het number. In chatting with her I find out that she just mobed back in with parents, but is not on a leash from them. After a few inquiries about her predilections in life, I ascertain that she may be a sweet girl with a naughty side. I ask her if she is familiar with the term Sugar Baby, and her youth and naivet shine thru. In my head I'm thinking jackpot.

She is unsure of how to proceed and may not be fully onboard as she is elusive on details, and not wanting to scare her away by being too forward, we get to scheduling a time to meet this Saturday, after she finishes her other job as a nanny. Again, not wanting to scare her away, I offer to meet her for coffee, thinking we can chat a bit more and make the $ arrangements. Her reply: I'm not interested in coffee. I ask, "what are you interested in?" holing that her reply is something sophomoric like "sex and drugs". Her reply is "Alcohol and sex".

So as I am finishing this post she is basically trying to sext with me. Regardless of how this turns out ill be sure to bring some details. This is both kur first forays in to this game but I'm thinking thst Ill be having a great time at a heavily discounted price if I had chosen to go the mongering route.

Happy hunting!

I don't get the number of guys who just have to pay for pussy. If your account is accurate then the girl would have civy dated you but you insist on turning it into sb / sd experience. If you got the game to pick one up and your single why even attempt to convert one to a sb?

**Willy Host** · 01-12-17 23:03

So I'm new to the SD / SA thing. I posted real pics, the advert pic is me, however due to angle & activity you really can't tell but its me. Posted several other similar in private section. I figure I don't want to post pics of someone else as once I do meet someone they will be like who ta hell are you. Have my first meet up on Sunday, very excited. Have 2nd & 3rd contacts I've been messaging regularly hoping these will result in a F2 F meeting as well. Was really easier than I thought, signed up for a 30 day session. Obviously there are many many non candidates. I had one message where a gal informed me she was paid $700 just to show up and have lunch with someone. I'll not be having any of those style lunches. Will post an update as things progress.

**Traveling John #2** · 01-10-17 21:30

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...6-226821bb4a6d

Any experience with this one? She has messaged well, just seems to be good to be true.

**TheBarbarian** · 01-09-17 06:35

Originally Posted by ChrisCarr [View Original Post]

Sooooo, what was a promising venture turned out to be a night of akward followed by a morning of win.

The good: She came thru to the hotel, wore a cute dress and heels, never discussed money, and was naked within 10 minutes. Looked like what I expected, slightly dusky with a little extra in the ass and thighs but overall pretty hot and good looking.

The bad: Smelled like mom's home cooking. Was very uncomfortable for her which made it uncomfortable for me. I think she totally missed the boat on what Sugar Baby means. Yes it means sexual relationship, but 'relationship' is an operational word here. She was very coy and impersonal. Did not want to chat or flirt. Did not know how to suck dick, did not know how to fuck. Had not taken any precautionary measures like BC pill or bring latex. I did bring latex just in case, but it was all for naught.

Started by having her sit on my lap, reluctantly kissed me, I had her strip in front of me, which was pretty hot. Laid her down and licked her clean and shaved snatch. Had her taste my head for about 30 seconds, strapped up and laid her back. Her vag was super tight so I totally believe that she had only banged out twice. Had to go slow. Felt pretty good but her eyes were closed as if she didn't want to be there. Couldn't keep her legs up so I couldn't get deep. Eventually switched to CG where she was totally clueless. Went back to mish where she asked that I don't cum in her, even with the rubber on. Ok, I can respect that, but in our half-sex-half-discussion she expects me to pullout and jerk in to the condom.

For $100 for the room and including the other small expenses I could have gotten equivalent service and pleasure off of BP. Moving on.

Before I could finish she stops and says she is done. I get it. I'm a big dick fucker that fucks hard and she just can't get in to it. And it was 30 minutes in. She gets dressed to leave and I let her know that I won't be stopping in to get OJ and croissant at her job anymore, just to keep it civil and not awkward. She leaves, I get dressed, and go to the MGM where I kill it at the 1-3 NLHE until 10 am the next morning. On the way home I stop by Ashlynn's in Fairfax and get a $70 ss bbj that takes care of me perfectly (I'm a repeat customer for her).

But wait, there's more! I get a text at around 11 a, wannabe SB asks if she can get paid for the night before. DELETE AND BLOCK. Seriously, WTF lady? Back to the hunt.

Hand her off to me, I'm dead ass. PM perhaps we can work out a deal.