Sugar Daddy Sites

[HollywoodGuy]

Just saw an SB "friend" of mine. We never sugar dated. We met on SA and decided the connection was on the friend level right from the get go. Anyway I have known her a few months. She had a guy that was paying $$$$$ a date. This girl is upscale in attitude but far from anything most of the guys on here would even consider paying at all. Anyway I asked her how was her SD and she tells me she fired him and switched to a new guy for a G a date / twice a month. Nice work if you can get it.

[HollywoodGuy]

Its simple, put in your profile what your looking for. You will get replies from whatever kink <are looking for. Just have to sort through the replies for what you are looking for. Sorting through means pro, utr, and actual subs.

The only thing is, once you start meeting a lot of girls, you find many of them lie and feign interest in your requests, just hoping somehow whatever it is they do have to offer is enough to assuage your feelings of not getting what you had originally hoped for. And sometimes they surprise you with more than you hoped for. So its worth it in the end when you do get it. Whatever your "it" is.

[John HandCock]

I recall reading in some of the Richmond highlights that some of you have the experience that some SBs like to be dominated. This hasn't been part of my civi game and I am trying to figure out how to play it. Is there an indication in the profile of a girl, or her messages, that she is seeking 'guidance'? Is it the one's who have daddy issues? Is there any particular demographic of girl who tends to be the ones who want to be submissive. If you divine a girl is submissive and overplay your hand, then she thinks your a tool, right?

Its simple, put in your profile what your looking for. You will get replies from whatever kink <are looking for. Just have to sort through the replies for what you are looking for. Sorting through means pro, utr, and actual subs.

[HollywoodGuy]

I recall reading in some of the Richmond highlights that some of you have the experience that some SBs like to be dominated. This hasn't been part of my civi game and I am trying to figure out how to play it. Is there an indication in the profile of a girl, or her messages, that she is seeking 'guidance'? Is it the one's who have daddy issues? Is there any particular demographic of girl who tends to be the ones who want to be submissive. If you divine a girl is submissive and overplay your hand, then she thinks your a tool, right?

A recent exchange on SA.

ME about 15 hours ago.

I've just given you access to my private photos, go to my profile to view them.

HER about 15 hours ago.

Honestly I'm looking for a friend, someone who can open my eyes to life, teach me, show me new ways to look at life, and to learn about my sexual life.

HER about 15 hours ago.

I'm a newbie all the way around.

ME about 15 hours ago.

And I am very experienced. I will teach you, train you, and show you, the real deal about what it means to be a good little girl for Daddy.

HER about 15 hours ago.

Thank you, would you like to exchange numbers?

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Will this lead to anything? maybe, and maybe not. But its a start. My intro letter to them lets them know I have a shoulder for them to lean on, if they are looking for that sort of thing. In spite of any pre-screening, I usually never know for sure until I meet them. The first date will tell all. And some are submissive and some are not.

[FarFarAway]

I recall reading in some of the Richmond highlights that some of you have the experience that some SBs like to be dominated. This hasn't been part of my civi game and I am trying to figure out how to play it. Is there an indication in the profile of a girl, or her messages, that she is seeking 'guidance'? Is it the one's who have daddy issues? Is there any particular demographic of girl who tends to be the ones who want to be submissive. If you divine a girl is submissive and overplay your hand, then she thinks your a tool, right?

[FarFarAway]

I posted questions earlier about how to handle cash needs as a MBL but didn't get replies. These are the solutions I have come up with. The best is a casino or racetrack. They love to pay you off in cash, preferably hundreds. I recommend these. There is something special about a $100 bill that is not comparable to 5 $20's. Of course, you have to be a good enough gambler to be able to generate the winnings to support the SB habit. You also have to be cautious about not getting winnings that trigger an IRS filing, which the SO is going to wonder about when she sees it on the tax return.

Otherwise, this is how I am moving cash that hopefully should not be noticed. I have brokerage accounts that will send wires. It is crucial you use the wire, not the standard thing many are using these days, ACH transfer. This is stuff like online bill pay or electronic check. For all of the, the payee or payor is listed on the statement. For my broker, all that shows up on the statement is 'Outgoing wire'. I do this now and then for purchases of private securities. It should not raise an alarm should the SO ever look at the brokerage statement, which almost never happens (though long ago I did get busted this way).

Where does the wire go? I opened an account with an online bank. You can find a prominent one yourself. They have an ATM network that charges no fees. The wire goes there and then I can go make a withdrawal of my sugar. I haven't figured out yet the daily limit on cash withdrawals. The interest my bank pays on a checking account balance right now is only 0. 1%. I intend to have my $ in residence in the account for only a short time. Therefore, there should be negligible interest accumulating over the year and I won't be getting a 1099-I from that bank account. As an online bank there won't be any mailing to my house. There is only the one-time mailing of a signature card and the ATM card. I get the mail so I can intercept these.

[Lebruno]

You might want to do a trial run of cloud storage to see if that's convenient and secure for you. One recommendation is not to go with Google Drive as (assuming that you have a legit gmail account) Google might try to default you to your regular account. For storing mongering related files you might want to pick up a pure cloud service such as Box or Dropbox.

And if you want to buy a used smartphone burner without any paper trail you should look to buy from Craigslist by paying cash.

First, I appreciate the guidance. I know nothing about the cloud though. Best way to learn? And isn't there a paper trail for an EBay purchase? Can I get a smartphone burner that's totally anonymous?

[The Tall Man]

I met a girl from CL I posted in the OC board, because it fit there better. Anyhow, she is 20 yo, and has had one prior SD. I asked how she met him.

She said he saw her at Starbucks and gave her a note saying he thought she was attractive, and included his SA username. She checked it out, signed up and began speaking with him. She was with him for a year and a half, that just ended. And now she has found me LOL. Setting up future meets.

Yes I learn something new everyday and I like this approach with a nice complementary note to an attractive young lady. It gets me to think that the best is to be ready for the right circumstances, in other words I need to have a note already prepared, heck on my business travels just this past week I could have and should have used this as I meet 2 or 3 friendly young lady's in the airport and on flight.

Thanks for sharing.

TTM.

[FarFarAway]

I met a girl from CL I posted in the OC board, because it fit there better. Anyhow, she is 20 yo, and has had one prior SD. I asked how she met him.

She said he saw her at Starbucks and gave her a note saying he thought she was attractive, and included his SA username. She checked it out, signed up and began speaking with him. She was with him for a year and a half, that just ended. And now she has found me LOL. Setting up future meets.

I can't find the post- on what thread? There isn't a CL thread for OC.

[XxBullXx]

I met a girl from CL I posted in the OC board, because it fit there better. Anyhow, she is 20 yo, and has had one prior SD. I asked how she met him.

She said he saw her at Starbucks and gave her a note saying he thought she was attractive, and included his SA username. She checked it out, signed up and began speaking with him. She was with him for a year and a half, that just ended. And now she has found me LOL. Setting up future meets.

[FarFarAway]

Say, when any of you gents started sugaring, did you suddenly get a much heavier beard? This is incredible. In a little over a week, I have *really* noticed the change. Lots of natural 'roids raging. I might even * the SO.

[HollywoodGuy]

I thought that if a girl could 'prove' she was a college student she gets a premium account for free. Of course, they have to be willing to give up some personal info (actual identity likely) to the site.

Most girls with a premium account do it without realizing they can talk to any guy that does have one. Any guy that doesn't can't be that serious. So its a good qualifier.

[FarFarAway]

No, just one person has to have a premium account. But most girls aren't going to pay for a premium account --there's a reason they're looking for sugar daddies.

I thought that if a girl could 'prove' she was a college student she gets a premium account for free. Of course, they have to be willing to give up some personal info (actual identity likely) to the site.

[John HandCock]

No, just one person has to have a premium account. But most girls aren't going to pay for a premium account --there's a reason they're looking for sugar daddies.

I asked one young lady who was a premium member why she would pay. She stated she hadn't and thought she was upgraded to premium because she had provided proof that she was a college student.

[DocOck]

For SA, do both members need to be premium to talk?

A premium sent me a reply and I can not read it. So if I go premium, those that are not premium can not replay to me?

No, just one person has to have a premium account. But most girls aren't going to pay for a premium account --there's a reason they're looking for sugar daddies.