Freebies

[DrMajikLuv69]

Typo: meant to write free Vietnamese Sub Sandwich not Pink Taco. I will write a general report regarding my freebie Vietnamese sub sandwich later when I have time.

...Now we all know where you're mind frame is at.

It's obvious that some guys need to pay for all their pussy, and some guys pay for some (initially) then get some free. Some are completely free. Here's something to think about if you were getting pussy for free from a hot asian AMP provider; Would you tell everyone on the forum? Most likely not.

Play the game. Play by the rules (most times). Then if you break the rules; Don't fucken tell everyone. Life... It's that simple. There's a lot of free pussy out there, but a smart monger won't share all the free sources. Why would anybody want to share? Ive traded PM with a couple mongers that have ruined a good free pussy and receiving extras scenario, thus now I withhold a lot of intel.

BTW Im eating Vietnamese pink tacos for free.

[CM0069]

Yep you got that right, too much baggage that you'll own once that "I do" and signature is signed, brother you're on the Sucker's List..

Exactly. I worked waikz for a bit and this guy tells me this j-girl has 3 guys on child support hook, even asked him if he wanted to be her BF. Holyfuck that pisses me off because he knew he was being suckered in, nice dude but sorry he could be humpbacks in-law without the hump and the chick was a hot a MILF so yeah so messed up girls wanting to live off that sort of welfare to keep their lifestyle up, poor dude was already on the hook for child support and here comes a hottie looking for another 18 year salary. Luckily he passed, he knew what was up, but he was telling me how she kept trying afterward if he wanted gf ha-ha frick.

I hit up freebies in waikz myself, but first thing I always plan my escape making sure they not thinking of staying here, have family probs (first hint of they like move in with you). The ones already here are Venus flytraps with at least 1 kid. Plenty of those.

[Johnny14]

The 28 yr is just looking for a stable guy with money. Make baby. And drop you for child support for the next 18 years. I've met a guy that I presume happened to him too, the smart girl pick on the "nicer" older guys because they will pay up. I see them as lazy, money grubbing schemers. The old saying TGTBT, should maybe ask how she has been getting by taking care of those kids and see if she slips up on the child support from the "other guy".

Yep you got that right, too much baggage that you'll own once that "I do" and signature is signed, brother you're on the Sucker's List. Ball and chained to someone else's kids popped out of 28 year old and probably has a very loose pussy being stretched out if natural birth.

Getting a used car is not the same as a new one without all that mileage. Depending on how those kid's attitude are, they may not like or respect you as they naturally are to the biological father. Lot's of fish in the sea, maybe its better to go fishing than trying to revive one that has been caught and left flopping on the beach.

[Uki Eater]

The 28 year old, she's going through some drama in her life. Obviously, she's going through drama because she's trying to raise 2 kids and her SO doesn't want to be a part of it. She's not going to go in detail about it right from the start because it's not something you'd want to hear. It would turn you off. I know a single mom raising 2 kids and she's trying to get her ex to pay child support. Plus, babysitting the kids while she works can be hard and stressful.

You've known this 28 year old for 4+ years. 4+ years ago, she was younger at only 24. At that age, she'll be partying, going out clubbing, having fun and be flirting with guys. There wasn't any or as much drama at that time. Now that she has kids, separated and closing in on 30 years old, her outlook on things change. She's still young yet to go out and party but, it's harder now that she has kids. Plus, her friends she use to go out with, may not be as available to go out because they're with someone or moved on.

[CM0069]

The 28 yr is just looking for a stable guy with money. Make baby. And drop you for child support for the next 18 years. I've met a guy that I presume happened to him too, the smart girl pick on the "nicer" older guys because they will pay up. I see them as lazy, money grubbing schemers. The old saying TGTBT, should maybe ask how she has been getting by taking care of those kids and see if she slips up on the child support from the "other guy".

[John Ross]

Since you would like to have a Hinode Jr. , I would say neither is a good match for you.

The 42 year old Is almost past her prime to make babies. Statistically, she can still have a baby at her age, but conception will prove difficult as she is not as fertile. Over 45? Forget it unless you go through fertility treatments.

The 28 year old Is definitely fertile. Her two kids prove that, but is she the marrying kind? Would you like to spend the rest of your life with her? (I'm still a romantic at heart) I think she is more of a fun toy right now. You've known her for 4 years and never got any attention from her. Now she pays attention to you and she has you thinking. I am not a gambling man, so I would only consider this one as a FTF. She is street smart and knows what guys want, and how to attract them. You said it yourself, "She is trouble."

Finding the Ms. Right, not Ms. Right Now, takes time and lots of patience. We all learn from out mistakes and I've made many. Some of these women cost me a lot of money, but I consider it tuition for the School of Life. Ideally, your Ms. Right would be between 30 and 36, maybe 38 if you try to conceive right away. You seem pre-disposed towards Japanese, so JoJ or local will do. Locals will usually have baggage, or if unattached at that age, career minded. A female friend from Japan told me the girls come here to get laid and have a good time. The ones in the suggested age group that live here, don't want to go back to Japan. Most are divorced, others are here on work or student visas.

[Makana9]

Braddahs,

Much mahalos for the feedback! I really appreciate it. Happy new year to you all. Now, I'll give you guys a litte more insight, since I got some time.

The 28 year old, I had a chance to take her out on a "date", and now that I'm older, getting white hair, stomach all flab, looks fading, the million dollar question is: why is this young hot thing texting me sweet nothings. She has 2 (young) children. She's no angel. Yet, she's sophisticated, elegant, carries herself well, super intelligent for her age, street smart, banging tight body for someone who had 2 kids (in her prime, right?) and wanting me for more than just friendship. Now, I've known her for about 4+ years now or so; all of a sudden she's "into" me. The paternal side of me says, "puinsai" until Hinode Jr. Comes out. The realistic mature side of me says, "This girl is danger. Too young, still like go out, party, have fun, not ready for a LTR. (I mean, why else? 99% probably thinking money; and I think you guys are right.) Had a great talk / walk / lunch / sit, I drop her off, attempt to kiss her on her lips and she says, nice. Get straight to the point. I like that. I replied: what does that mean? Her: "I don't know. I wasn't asked if I wanted to go out on a date. " Me: Huh? Left scratching my big head, for real on that one.

Onto the 42 year old. Well, she will be 42 come this March, in about 2. 5 months. I will be seeing her exclusively- I met her in Japan, through a mutual friend, and we "kinda" hit it off during my trip to Japan this past November (and October), she likes to drink. Wow! And she's petite, white skin, super super super cute face, can't judge her bod because she wears conservative clothing but she looks thin with no ass. Can't say much about her boobs either, I'm hoping / guessing be's at best. Single, never married, no kids. Yet she's open. "Whatever happens, happens. " Is what she told me. She'll be staying with me, and I've no doubt that I'm going to nail her a lot. I mean, a lot. So now I know you're thinking, WTF is your problem, Hinode? Just have fun! Right, well but what if the 42 year old turns out to be serious? I mean real serious? She has a great job (most of the women in Japan are highly educated with financially secure careeers) and I know she'd most likely be a keeper as far as wife material goes. Her English is decent, and she's about 5'1" and 115 lbs. She's mature and polite. Fun to be around, laughs and alcohol. Good times with her. I guess I'll cross that bridge when I come to it.

I guess the most gripping thing that is tearing me apart is, the 28 year old speaks English (obviously, duh) yet she's classy Japanese (mix); don't need no green card; obviously able to get pregnant way more easily than the 42 year old; has great upbringing; and we share a lot in common. The 42 year old comes with no strings attached, and is open to more than a relationship and beyond- I'm talking forever. And she looks totally awesome for her age. (Most J girls age gracefully.) When I met her I thought she was 29.).

Braddahs, I don't ask for much (advice.) Don't get it twisted; I am more than blessed and fortunate to even be in this situation, I'm not helping myself out by NOT working out or eating right. Still in holiday mode (Green bottles for the win!) but trying to make the most sense of what's best for me. I told the 28 year old my situation with being a host for the 42 year old; while she is ok with it, I think she feels I shunned her by not asking her out again. Well Valentine's day is coming up. I got 1 more shot to just court her / let her know I am interested before 42 comes to Hawaii in March.

Sheesh, sorry for the rant. They both are awesome in their respective ways. Can't wait for March. Any (more) feedback would be awesome. I hold (most) of your guys' opinions in very high regard.

Aloha!

Braddah H.

What to do Mr. MaGoo?? I see it this way, and I had something similar, twice.

Depends what do you want or can tolerate?

Unbelievable Sex, hot chick that turns the bars head, eye candy whenever you and her go out, and she dressed to the nines?

Does she give anything to you in the potential times you are with her? See you in 5-10-20 yrs and so forth with her? Marriage?

Or the older, seasoned lady with stability, but not as Hot as Sandra Bullock type. She would make you comfy, lower level.

Energy sex? What you want?

Me, I did both sides if the wall. 29 yr. Old Local Flip, 2 kids, good job with her company, with her floppy drives.

I actually still see them every so often. But at my age, I double most around me. Do the columns?. Haha, more for.

Writings and play? Time?

[Hinode]

Braddahs,

Sometimes I feel I know most of you guys more than my RL friends. Appreciate all the feedback. Get this- today, the 28 wants to see me on my lunch break. Luckily (or did she know when my break time was) she says she's in the area, so I happily go out of my building to meet her. I ate a huge meal on my 1st break, so I opt not to eat. We do coffee instead. Not going to say where, but she was wearing daisy dukes- and she purposefully walked UP the escalator in front of me. Slowly, seductively, her ass cheeks hanging ever so slightly out with every hip curving step.

(Pauses, looks at you, fellow braddah, drops the mic, and turns back to her sweet apple ass) She turns down to look at me while she's at the top of the escalator landing and gives me a great big smile- obviously, with my jaw hanging on the ground like a dumbfounded monkey. We hug each other good bye, she offers her cheek this time so no lip contact, thanks me for meeting her for lunch, but this time, I don't let go when I hug. I squeeze her just enough. Firm- but not a crushing bear hug- and force her to let go first. A peck on her cheek and she's on her way. I stop and stare one more time as that cute tight ass walks away.

She texts me 2 hours later. Thanks for meeting me! I reply, "no thank you for making my day!" Then I go and turn my attention 19 hours ahead of me and text the 42. She's just waking up, getting ready for work. Excited about coming to Hawaii. Braddahs. Fo' real. WTF. I've had hos and hos and hos, but a brother can't get this lucky, right?

At Braddah Raiden: Tough is an understatement. I no shit you.

At (the great) Braddah John Ross: I would like to pro create a little Hinode Jr. The thought does cross my mind. You are right on all points, sir. 28 is currently in a tough situation. Momma didn't raise no dummy. She has an end game. It's called Money. 42 and I will discuss what she will do when she returns to Japan. This will be veddy interesting. Stay tuned, folks.

At Braddah Skoal Straight: Correcto-mundo. She is fuckin smokin hot. Yes, I am no fuckin Brad Pitt. Yes, I want to impregnate her. But. She is drama. She is trouble. She is young (yet mature, sophisticated) but she still wants to be social- which is totally understandable- I don't want to take that away from her, yet, I don't want a party animal for the mother of my child coming home at 4 am. Every night.

At Braddah Idusixtyning: As far as "child support" is concerned, I think that's a little TMI, I'll just leave it at that. I will not lose both. I will add this though; even though I know 28 for four years, I've never really gotten her ALONE until last week. Great bonding kind of moment. Really got to experience what she's like. Yes, heavy make up, all duked out, of course she like make one good impression. I admire her go-get-them attitude though. I'm 100% flattered (or a sucker) that she even would consider ME in that way. Point taken. Duly noted.

At Braddah Loveasianhi: Ahhhh, here we go. Just my train of thought. Correct. You catch on quick. Yes. Already trying to plan a Valentine's lunch / dinner with 28 -coordinate my job / her kids. Mahalo for the input.

At Braddah Johnny14: LOL! Hawaiian Snake ah? I think my Japanese Cucumber will do just fine, thank you. Mahalo for your generosity. Nah but seriously, -hey that is some good advice. Do you know a lot of happily married couples? Because I don't. Let's walk down the hill, and fuck 'them all. Word. That's why got to make the right choice, the best choice, and have a back up plan. Pre nup is not being rude nowadays, no ways.

At Braddah Steve09: Great observation. On point! I forgot to add one other thing. There is this 3rd woman, 34, also from Japan, that I am trying to Marry. Problem is, she doesn't feel the same way about me. Too bad. Because she is the perfect one out of the 3 women. Single, never married, no kids, super cute with thin features. Damn shame.

At Braddah Local1234: Short answer: no.

To be continued (for sure).

Braddah H.

[Local1234]

Hey if you want chuck any one of them off, I'll give her some brown Hawaiian snake in a heart beat! Hell, if it were me, I'll bang both of them until I get tired and go find another one. You only live once and forget about the marriage thing, most end up in divorce and being taken to the cleaners, alimony. Not worth it.

Well said bro. You will get tired of them sooner than you think.

[Stevet09]

Braddahs,

Much mahalos for the feedback! I really appreciate it. Happy new year to you all. Now, I'll give you guys a litte more insight, since I got some time.

The 28 year old, I had a chance to take her out on a "date", and now that I'm older, getting white hair, stomach all flab, looks fading, the million dollar question is: why is this young hot thing texting me sweet nothings. She has 2 (young) children. She's no angel. Yet, she's sophisticated, elegant, carries herself well, super intelligent for her age, street smart, banging tight body for someone who had 2 kids (in her prime, right?) and wanting me for more than just friendship. Now, I've known her for about 4+ years now or so; all of a sudden she's "into" me. The paternal side of me says, "puinsai" until Hinode Jr. Comes out. The realistic mature side of me says, "This girl is danger. Too young, still like go out, party, have fun, not ready for a LTR. (I mean, why else? 99% probably thinking money; and I think you guys are right.) Had a great talk / walk / lunch / sit, I drop her off, attempt to kiss her on her lips and she says, nice. Get straight to the point. I like that. I replied: what does that mean? Her: "I don't know. I wasn't asked if I wanted to go out on a date. " Me: Huh? Left scratching my big head, for real on that one.

Onto the 42 year old. Well, she will be 42 come this March, in about 2. 5 months. I will be seeing her exclusively- I met her in Japan, through a mutual friend, and we "kinda" hit it off during my trip to Japan this past November (and October), she likes to drink. Wow! And she's petite, white skin, super super super cute face, can't judge her bod because she wears conservative clothing but she looks thin with no ass. Can't say much about her boobs either, I'm hoping / guessing be's at best. Single, never married, no kids. Yet she's open. "Whatever happens, happens. " Is what she told me. She'll be staying with me, and I've no doubt that I'm going to nail her a lot. I mean, a lot. So now I know you're thinking, WTF is your problem, Hinode? Just have fun! Right, well but what if the 42 year old turns out to be serious? I mean real serious? She has a great job (most of the women in Japan are highly educated with financially secure careeers) and I know she'd most likely be a keeper as far as wife material goes. Her English is decent, and she's about 5'1" and 115 lbs. She's mature and polite. Fun to be around, laughs and alcohol. Good times with her. I guess I'll cross that bridge when I come to it.

I guess the most gripping thing that is tearing me apart is, the 28 year old speaks English (obviously, duh) yet she's classy Japanese (mix); don't need no green card; obviously able to get pregnant way more easily than the 42 year old; has great upbringing; and we share a lot in common. The 42 year old comes with no strings attached, and is open to more than a relationship and beyond- I'm talking forever. And she looks totally awesome for her age. (Most J girls age gracefully.) When I met her I thought she was 29.).

Braddahs, I don't ask for much (advice.) Don't get it twisted; I am more than blessed and fortunate to even be in this situation, I'm not helping myself out by NOT working out or eating right. Still in holiday mode (Green bottles for the win!) but trying to make the most sense of what's best for me. I told the 28 year old my situation with being a host for the 42 year old; while she is ok with it, I think she feels I shunned her by not asking her out again. Well Valentine's day is coming up. I got 1 more shot to just court her / let her know I am interested before 42 comes to Hawaii in March.

Sheesh, sorry for the rant. They both are awesome in their respective ways. Can't wait for March. Any (more) feedback would be awesome. I hold (most) of your guys' opinions in very high regard.

Aloha!

Braddah H.

Just my. 02.

I would do both of them and not get serious with either.

From observing your posts, it would seem that you are inclined toward the bobora type. If I am right about this you should aim for one in the 29-30 range, despite any shortcomings you may think you have. Again just my. 02.

[Johnny14]

Braddahs,

Much mahalos for the feedback! I really appreciate it. Happy new year to you all. Now, I'll give you guys a litte more insight, since I got some time.

The 28 year old, I had a chance to take her out on a "date", and now that I'm older, getting white hair, stomach all flab, looks fading, the million dollar question is: why is this young hot thing texting me sweet nothings. She has 2 (young) children. She's no angel. Yet, she's sophisticated, elegant, carries herself well, super intelligent for her age, street smart, banging tight body for someone who had 2 kids (in her prime, right?) and wanting me for more than just friendship.

Onto the 42 year old. Well, she will be 42 come this March, in about 2. 5 months. I will be seeing her exclusively- I met her in Japan, through a mutual friend, and we "kinda" hit it off during my trip to Japan this past November (and October), she likes to drink. Wow! And she's petite, white skin, super super super cute face, can't judge her bod because she wears conservative clothing but she looks thin with no ass.

I guess the most gripping thing that is tearing me apart is, the 28 year old speaks English (obviously, duh) yet she's classy Japanese (mix); don't need no green card; obviously able to get pregnant way more easily than the 42 year old; has great upbringing; and we share a lot in common. The 42 year old comes with no strings attached, and is open to more than a relationship and beyond- I'm talking forever. And she looks totally awesome for her age. (Most J girls age gracefully.) When I met her I thought she was 29.).

Aloha!

Braddah H.

Hey if you want chuck any one of them off, I'll give her some brown Hawaiian snake in a heart beat! Hell, if it were me, I'll bang both of them until I get tired and go find another one. You only live once and forget about the marriage thing, most end up in divorce and being taken to the cleaners, alimony. Not worth it.

[Loveasianhi]

Braddahs,

Much mahalos for the feedback! I really appreciate it. Happy new year to you all. Now, I'll give you guys a litte more insight, since I got some time.

The 28 year old, I had a chance to take her out on a "date", and now that I'm older, getting white hair, stomach all flab, looks fading, the million dollar question is: why is this young hot thing texting me sweet nothings. She has 2 (young) children. She's no angel. Yet, she's sophisticated, elegant, carries herself well, super intelligent for her age, street smart, banging tight body for someone who had 2 kids (in her prime, right?) and wanting me for more than just friendship. Now, I've known her for about 4+ years now or so; all of a sudden she's "into" me. The paternal side of me says, "puinsai" until Hinode Jr. Comes out. The realistic mature side of me says, "This girl is danger. Too young, still like go out, party, have fun, not ready for a LTR. (I mean, why else? 99% probably thinking money; and I think you guys are right.) Had a great talk / walk / lunch / sit, I drop her off, attempt to kiss her on her lips and she says, nice. Get straight to the point. I like that. I replied: what does that mean? Her: "I don't know. I wasn't asked if I wanted to go out on a date. " Me: Huh? Left scratching my big head, for real on that one.

Onto the 42 year old. Well, she will be 42 come this March, in about 2. 5 months. I will be seeing her exclusively- I met her in Japan, through a mutual friend, and we "kinda" hit it off during my trip to Japan this past November (and October), she likes to drink. Wow! And she's petite, white skin, super super super cute face, can't judge her bod because she wears conservative clothing but she looks thin with no ass. Can't say much about her boobs either, I'm hoping / guessing be's at best. Single, never married, no kids. Yet she's open. "Whatever happens, happens. " Is what she told me. She'll be staying with me, and I've no doubt that I'm going to nail her a lot. I mean, a lot. So now I know you're thinking, WTF is your problem, Hinode? Just have fun! Right, well but what if the 42 year old turns out to be serious? I mean real serious? She has a great job (most of the women in Japan are highly educated with financially secure careeers) and I know she'd most likely be a keeper as far as wife material goes. Her English is decent, and she's about 5'1" and 115 lbs. She's mature and polite. Fun to be around, laughs and alcohol. Good times with her. I guess I'll cross that bridge when I come to it.

I guess the most gripping thing that is tearing me apart is, the 28 year old speaks English (obviously, duh) yet she's classy Japanese (mix); don't need no green card; obviously able to get pregnant way more easily than the 42 year old; has great upbringing; and we share a lot in common. The 42 year old comes with no strings attached, and is open to more than a relationship and beyond- I'm talking forever. And she looks totally awesome for her age. (Most J girls age gracefully.) When I met her I thought she was 29.).

Braddahs, I don't ask for much (advice.) Don't get it twisted; I am more than blessed and fortunate to even be in this situation, I'm not helping myself out by NOT working out or eating right. Still in holiday mode (Green bottles for the win!) but trying to make the most sense of what's best for me. I told the 28 year old my situation with being a host for the 42 year old; while she is ok with it, I think she feels I shunned her by not asking her out again. Well Valentine's day is coming up. I got 1 more shot to just court her / let her know I am interested before 42 comes to Hawaii in March.

Sheesh, sorry for the rant. They both are awesome in their respective ways. Can't wait for March. Any (more) feedback would be awesome. I hold (most) of your guys' opinions in very high regard.

Aloha!

Braddah H.

There's still time from now till March to date and "try out" the 28 yr old lady. Keep the 42 yr old out of your mind till maybe 2 weeks prior to arrival, that way can just focus on 28 yr old for now. Another option is to not commit and juggle both of them, of course be open with them about it so can be on good terms with both. Best wishes, go get um.

[Idusixtyning]

Braddahs, I don't ask for much (advice.) Don't get it twisted; I am more than blessed and fortunate to even be in this situation, I'm not helping myself out by NOT working out or eating right. Still in holiday mode (Green bottles for the win!) but trying to make the most sense of what's best for me. I told the 28 year old my situation with being a host for the 42 year old; while she is ok with it, I think she feels I shunned her by not asking her out again. Well Valentine's day is coming up. I got 1 more shot to just court her / let her know I am interested before 42 comes to Hawaii in March.

Sheesh, sorry for the rant. They both are awesome in their respective ways. Can't wait for March. Any (more) feedback would be awesome. I hold (most) of your guys' opinions in very high regard.

Aloha!

Braddah H.

Don't try to put each one on hold or you might lose out on both. I advise making a quick decision or you might lose the interest of both in you. Another ploy is to force an answer from the 28 year old before you start spending time with the other. Maybe ask her if it would bother her if you asked for a prenuptial agreement if you two got married. One question I'd want to know is if the 28 year old is getting decent child support from the father and if the father has a stable good paying profession.

[Skoal Straight]

The 28 year old, I had a chance to take her out on a "date", and now that I'm older, getting white hair, stomach all flab, looks fading, the million dollar question is: why is this young hot thing texting me sweet nothings. She has 2 (young) children. She's no angel. Yet, she's sophisticated, elegant, carries herself well, super intelligent for her age, street smart, banging tight body for someone who had 2 kids (in her prime, right?) and wanting me for more than just friendship. Now, I've known her for about 4+ years now or so; all of a sudden she's "into" me. The paternal side of me says, "puinsai" until Hinode Jr. Comes out. The realistic mature side of me says, "This girl is danger. Too young, still like go out, party, have fun, not ready for a LTR. (I mean, why else? 99% probably thinking money; and I think you guys are right.) Had a great talk / walk / lunch / sit, I drop her off, attempt to kiss her on her lips and she says, nice. Get straight to the point. I like that. I replied: what does that mean? Her: "I don't know. I wasn't asked if I wanted to go out on a date. " Me: Huh? Left scratching my big head, for real on that one.

IMHO if the 28 year old is a banging as you put it, one might figure that she can get anybody she wants and she probably knows that. But in the end, all mothers want what's best for their children and are looking at the end game. Now I don't know what your situation is as far as stability, job, income, etc. But she might be in it to set up herself and her kids to live a good life. I think that's what happened to my brother, he started dating a co-worker who already had 2 kids. Things got serious and long story short, they got married, have 3 kids of their own (5 total) and he ended up adopting her 2 kids from the previous baby daddy. Now I told him that he's a fckn idiot for adopting them. He can still love them the same if he wasn't the legal guardian. Now if things go south, he had 5 kids to pay child support for. Did I mention that she doesn't work?

Now this is just speculation on my part but I believe that a woman will always have an end game, and that is to make sure her children is taken care of.

[John Ross]

Hinode, you have to ask yourself what YOU want.

28 year old. Instant family IF things get serious. What kind of job does she have? Something that could support her kids on her own? After 4 years she's now into you, maybe as someone that can look after her and her kids.

42 year old. FTF. Not sure how serious it could get if she has a good job in Japan and you have a good job here. Not like either one of you will sacrifice a career to move and be with the other. Long distance relationships rarely work out. I tried it with a J girl and it was too difficult. However, if she is transferred here by her company, that is a different story. No need to worry about getting her a green card as the company will take care of her work visa.

Some of your comments seem like you want to have little Hinodes. I wanted little JRs for many years, but at my age, I would not have the energy to help raise a child. I can't leave the child rearing up to my girlfriend / wife as we are partners in this. Then imagine what it takes to raise a child, and how old you'll be when they are in college. What age will you be when you have to pay college tuition. I have some cousins whose kids cost them a minimum of $60 k per year for tuition, room and board, each!