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[AsianSlayer]

My ex Wifee (local Chinese, but parents from Hong Kong) 2 X GF parents (were from Japan high classy, and other from okinawa) were old school. Or should I say from the old country. Use to tell them, lazy crook, watch out they steal. Yups! Pissed me off all the time, but always said to all of them, No drugs, workout, teach and coach, have own property, but I not full on Asian. Local boy with brains, and will fk and lick you to you scream submission. Never cared how they perceived, but their loss. As for the other thought, I dated and have been told, the same. Chinese guys think of you as a possession, and Japanese guys no can measure up. Really! They want that mystical big and thick. But, I hold my own, helps to be: in shape, work the tongue fu, and let her beg for more. From my exp.

Yeah its still around. I had a forbidden rendezvous with a co-worker in October. Still off and on. She is mainland Chinese but, been here for 7 or 8 years. Her parents are divorced, the mom is here. Now the mom didn't mind me. But the dad he had a major problem. Guy was threatening to inform on us to our employer. He ruined it with her last boyfriend too, a white guy too, even offered him money to hit the road. Saw an email her wrote to her telling her our kids would be genetically inferior. This dude obviously hasn't seen the Hapa chicks in Hawaii heheh. [Deleted by Admin]

[Member #5810]

Braddahs,

Much mahalos for the feedback! I really appreciate it. Happy new year to you all. Now, I'll give you guys a litte more insight, since I got some time.

The 28 year old, I had a chance to take her out on a "date", and now that I'm older, getting white hair, stomach all flab, looks fading, the million dollar question is: why is this young hot thing texting me sweet nothings. She has 2 (young) children. She's no angel. Yet, she's sophisticated, elegant, carries herself well, super intelligent for her age, street smart, banging tight body for someone who had 2 kids (in her prime, right?) and wanting me for more than just friendship. Now, I've known her for about 4+ years now or so; all of a sudden she's "into" me. The paternal side of me says, "puinsai" until Hinode Jr. Comes out. The realistic mature side of me says, "This girl is danger. Too young, still like go out, party, have fun, not ready for a LTR. (I mean, why else? 99% probably thinking money; and I think you guys are right.) Had a great talk / walk / lunch / sit, I drop her off, attempt to kiss her on her lips and she says, nice. Get straight to the point. I like that. I replied: what does that mean? Her: "I don't know. I wasn't asked if I wanted to go out on a date. " Me: Huh? Left scratching my big head, for real on that one.

Onto the 42 year old. Well, she will be 42 come this March, in about 2. 5 months. I will be seeing her exclusively- I met her in Japan, through a mutual friend, and we "kinda" hit it off during my trip to Japan this past November (and October), she likes to drink. Wow! And she's petite, white skin, super super super cute face, can't judge her bod because she wears conservative clothing but she looks thin with no ass. Can't say much about her boobs either, I'm hoping / guessing be's at best. Single, never married, no kids. Yet she's open. "Whatever happens, happens. " Is what she told me. She'll be staying with me, and I've no doubt that I'm going to nail her a lot. I mean, a lot. So now I know you're thinking, WTF is your problem, Hinode? Just have fun! Right, well but what if the 42 year old turns out to be serious? I mean real serious? She has a great job (most of the women in Japan are highly educated with financially secure careeers) and I know she'd most likely be a keeper as far as wife material goes. Her English is decent, and she's about 5'1" and 115 lbs. She's mature and polite. Fun to be around, laughs and alcohol. Good times with her. I guess I'll cross that bridge when I come to it.

I guess the most gripping thing that is tearing me apart is, the 28 year old speaks English (obviously, duh) yet she's classy Japanese (mix); don't need no green card; obviously able to get pregnant way more easily than the 42 year old; has great upbringing; and we share a lot in common. The 42 year old comes with no strings attached, and is open to more than a relationship and beyond- I'm talking forever. And she looks totally awesome for her age. (Most J girls age gracefully.) When I met her I thought she was 29.).

Braddahs, I don't ask for much (advice.) Don't get it twisted; I am more than blessed and fortunate to even be in this situation, I'm not helping myself out by NOT working out or eating right. Still in holiday mode (Green bottles for the win!) but trying to make the most sense of what's best for me. I told the 28 year old my situation with being a host for the 42 year old; while she is ok with it, I think she feels I shunned her by not asking her out again. Well Valentine's day is coming up. I got 1 more shot to just court her / let her know I am interested before 42 comes to Hawaii in March.

Sheesh, sorry for the rant. They both are awesome in their respective ways. Can't wait for March. Any (more) feedback would be awesome. I hold (most) of your guys' opinions in very high regard.

Aloha!

Braddah H.

My wife and I have 20 year age difference and things are going well for the past 11 years. She's mature and independent so I think that's the key. Dunno how old you are but for me, I married younger cause I'm a visual asshole that needs a young wife. You got to go with your gut instincts and that love feeling. Stay with the one you love and loves you. Tough when you have 2 excellent choices eh?

[Hinode]

Braddahs,

Much mahalos for the feedback! I really appreciate it. Happy new year to you all. Now, I'll give you guys a litte more insight, since I got some time.

The 28 year old, I had a chance to take her out on a "date", and now that I'm older, getting white hair, stomach all flab, looks fading, the million dollar question is: why is this young hot thing texting me sweet nothings. She has 2 (young) children. She's no angel. Yet, she's sophisticated, elegant, carries herself well, super intelligent for her age, street smart, banging tight body for someone who had 2 kids (in her prime, right?) and wanting me for more than just friendship. Now, I've known her for about 4+ years now or so; all of a sudden she's "into" me. The paternal side of me says, "puinsai" until Hinode Jr. Comes out. The realistic mature side of me says, "This girl is danger. Too young, still like go out, party, have fun, not ready for a LTR. (I mean, why else? 99% probably thinking money; and I think you guys are right.) Had a great talk / walk / lunch / sit, I drop her off, attempt to kiss her on her lips and she says, nice. Get straight to the point. I like that. I replied: what does that mean? Her: "I don't know. I wasn't asked if I wanted to go out on a date. " Me: Huh? Left scratching my big head, for real on that one.

Onto the 42 year old. Well, she will be 42 come this March, in about 2. 5 months. I will be seeing her exclusively- I met her in Japan, through a mutual friend, and we "kinda" hit it off during my trip to Japan this past November (and October), she likes to drink. Wow! And she's petite, white skin, super super super cute face, can't judge her bod because she wears conservative clothing but she looks thin with no ass. Can't say much about her boobs either, I'm hoping / guessing be's at best. Single, never married, no kids. Yet she's open. "Whatever happens, happens. " Is what she told me. She'll be staying with me, and I've no doubt that I'm going to nail her a lot. I mean, a lot. So now I know you're thinking, WTF is your problem, Hinode? Just have fun! Right, well but what if the 42 year old turns out to be serious? I mean real serious? She has a great job (most of the women in Japan are highly educated with financially secure careeers) and I know she'd most likely be a keeper as far as wife material goes. Her English is decent, and she's about 5'1" and 115 lbs. She's mature and polite. Fun to be around, laughs and alcohol. Good times with her. I guess I'll cross that bridge when I come to it.

I guess the most gripping thing that is tearing me apart is, the 28 year old speaks English (obviously, duh) yet she's classy Japanese (mix); don't need no green card; obviously able to get pregnant way more easily than the 42 year old; has great upbringing; and we share a lot in common. The 42 year old comes with no strings attached, and is open to more than a relationship and beyond- I'm talking forever. And she looks totally awesome for her age. (Most J girls age gracefully.) When I met her I thought she was 29.).

Braddahs, I don't ask for much (advice.) Don't get it twisted; I am more than blessed and fortunate to even be in this situation, I'm not helping myself out by NOT working out or eating right. Still in holiday mode (Green bottles for the win!) but trying to make the most sense of what's best for me. I told the 28 year old my situation with being a host for the 42 year old; while she is ok with it, I think she feels I shunned her by not asking her out again. Well Valentine's day is coming up. I got 1 more shot to just court her / let her know I am interested before 42 comes to Hawaii in March.

Sheesh, sorry for the rant. They both are awesome in their respective ways. Can't wait for March. Any (more) feedback would be awesome. I hold (most) of your guys' opinions in very high regard.

Aloha!

Braddah H.

[Makana9]

That kind of thinking went by the wayside in the 70's and 80's. Asian parents may still have a negative reaction with a black or non-Hawaiian Pacific Islander, though. Not so much for Caucasian or other Asian races.

My ex Wifee (local Chinese, but parents from Hong Kong) 2 X GF parents (were from Japan high classy, and other from okinawa) were old school. Or should I say from the old country. Use to tell them, lazy crook, watch out they steal. Yups! Pissed me off all the time, but always said to all of them, No drugs, workout, teach and coach, have own property, but I not full on Asian. Local boy with brains, and will fk and lick you to you scream submission. Never cared how they perceived, but their loss. As for the other thought, I dated and have been told, the same. Chinese guys think of you as a possession, and Japanese guys no can measure up. Really! They want that mystical big and thick. But, I hold my own, helps to be: in shape, work the tongue fu, and let her beg for more. From my exp.

[Pok Gai]

Brother H.

Depends. If you just banging, then I'd say go for the 40 yr old. I'm so over the youngings. I can pass for my 20's, but over the years. Fresh usually = inexperienced. Even if she was good, her life experiences would pale to a 40 yr old. But I mean if we were talking about picking one to bang, then maybe get serious. Then the 26 yr old. At some point 40 looking good, only last so long. Then again, how many of these things last that long anyways?

[AsianSlayer]

Braddahs,

If you were a seasoned monger, but had the choice of: a J girl in her early 40's, doesn't mind the prospect of having kids; definitely cute and bangable;.

Or would you go for a late 20's, local J girl, but with baggage; definitely leaning towards more kids-.

Assuming you're not married, -I don't know, I'm reaching here. Yes, I realize I haven't gone into depth about either woman. But. The fact is, pussy is readily available- and I'm so tempted to have both, if I had it my way- unfortunately, that won't happen.

Appreciate your 2 cents.

H.

I would pick the 40 yo chick. I've been banging a 24 yr hapa korean chick on and off since August. And a Japanese girl that is 36 in my building since last month. Both are cute and pretty hot overall. But the older Japanese girls fucks like crazy. The hapa girl I recently got back with. She asked me why I stopped talking to her. She just wasnt performing. Looking good but not able to keep up in the fucking dept. Of course I don't tell her that, I tried her again, same thing.

[P Venkman]

Braddahs,

If you were a seasoned monger, but had the choice of: a J girl in her early 40's, doesn't mind the prospect of having kids; definitely cute and bangable;.

Or would you go for a late 20's, local J girl, but with baggage; definitely leaning towards more kids-.

Assuming you're not married, -I don't know, I'm reaching here. Yes, I realize I haven't gone into depth about either woman. But. The fact is, pussy is readily available- and I'm so tempted to have both, if I had it my way- unfortunately, that won't happen.

Appreciate your 2 cents.

H.

Early 40's. I still regret not keeping I found years ago. Definitely matched, but now she about 56, still looking good but definitely aged a bit since our first bang.

[Surfer Ten]

Braddahs,

If you were a seasoned monger, but had the choice of: a J girl in her early 40's, doesn't mind the prospect of having kids; definitely cute and bangable;.

Or would you go for a late 20's, local J girl, but with baggage; definitely leaning towards more kids-.

Assuming you're not married, -I don't know, I'm reaching here. Yes, I realize I haven't gone into depth about either woman. But. The fact is, pussy is readily available- and I'm so tempted to have both, if I had it my way- unfortunately, that won't happen.

Appreciate your 2 cents.

H.

Aloha Braddah Hinode! Looks like your New Year has started off with a bang! Awesome! Just thought I'd add my 2 cents and chime in on this. I've had relationships with women in their 20's and while the sex was superb, even when we had quite a few things in common, it would always end (and usually quite badly) because of problems primarily due to the vast difference in age and maturity levels.

Shit, I still think of a few of them quite often and while I always initially regret breaking it off as I think about the incredible sex we used to have, when I really think back on it and recall the drama, yikes! I'm actually glad I got out of those relationships relatively unscathed!

I still have nightmares about this one local J girl I was in a relationship with. She was in her mid twenties, beautiful, banging body and a total "freak" in bed! I mean this was my nastiest fantasies come true brah! But, after constant arguments and shit like her going through my phone, my brief case, my computer, dropping into my office unannounced while I was in client meetings, harassing my staff when they couldn't transfer my calls because I was in a meeting, etc. I couldn't take it anymore. After I tried to break up with her very gently, nicely and very calmly, she ended up trying to take a swan dive off of my 34th floor balcony! Fucking insane brah! I had to call the cops that night! What a fucking nightmare! I eventually got her into counseling and saw her through it all. We have remained friends until today and I do care very much about her. But, that one definitely was a horror story!

My relationships with older women have been much more stable with way less drama! My current SO is in her early 40's and while she can get pretty feisty, if we ever broke up, I know she would never do anything crazy. In fact, she would probably just tell me to go fuck off and easily move on with her life! Hahaha!

Sex with the younger ones can be awesome and if it's strictly a FWB, no strings, no expectations kind of thing, that would be perfect. But, in all probability she'll end up falling in love with you and want more than just FWB. That's when the age difference and maturity level can create little problems that turn into big problems. I am sure it can be done though as I have a few friends who have made it work. Their experience is rare though, but they chose well (not only pretty and good in bed, good values, good upbringing, intelligent, humble, compassionate and very patient) and have worked extremely hard on building and nurturing the relationship.

Anyway my braddah, whichever way you choose to go, it will be the right decision for you and I wish you the absolute best!

Much Aloha,

ST.

[Kumuman]

My 2 cents, if I had to pick, would go by looks, some older J-girls look better than younger local J-girls, so if older looks cuter, would go with older.

With the info given, assume both cute, would go for younger girl first.

Whichever one you don't want, feel free to pass on to me.

That is the dilemma I would be pondering about. I wouldn't want any added drama.

[Loveasianhi]

Braddahs,

If you were a seasoned monger, but had the choice of: a J girl in her early 40's, doesn't mind the prospect of having kids; definitely cute and bangable;.

Or would you go for a late 20's, local J girl, but with baggage; definitely leaning towards more kids-.

Assuming you're not married, -I don't know, I'm reaching here. Yes, I realize I haven't gone into depth about either woman. But. The fact is, pussy is readily available- and I'm so tempted to have both, if I had it my way- unfortunately, that won't happen.

Appreciate your 2 cents.

H.

My 2 cents, if I had to pick, would go by looks, some older J-girls look better than younger local J-girls, so if older looks cuter, would go with older.

With the info given, assume both cute, would go for younger girl first.

Whichever one you don't want, feel free to pass on to me.

[Stoner R]

Couldn't be further from the truth. For oriental girls dating / marrying outside of their race will have a varying degree of disdain from their family. Ranging from a hard time, to getting disowned.

That kind of thinking went by the wayside in the 70's and 80's. Asian parents may still have a negative reaction with a black or non-Hawaiian Pacific Islander, though. Not so much for Caucasian or other Asian races.

[AsianSlayer]

That's complete BS dude. I'm Asian and there are plenty of Asian guys who are just as big if not bigger than white guys. Are there some comedically funny small Asian penises. Haha yup. But that girl is full of crap if she says all Asians are too small. She is just completely brain washed into believing a stereotype that others like to propagate. The REAL reason they like white guys is because white guys are plastered all over Western TV and movies and they think it's exotic and more exciting for them. They also thing that if they can bag a white guy it elevates their status higher than their own ethnicity. I don't look down on mixed couples but I have no respect for these women who look down on their own culture.

But its not BS. Doesn't matter what is actually true or not. Its about what chicks think. The fact is I give it 50/50 odds if you see a single asian chick on the street and she will have the no asian guy preference. But you have to see it from their POV. Especially the FOBs.

I went out with a early 30's Japanese Chick in Spring of last year. 2nd date she started to open up about her divorce. She was a chick I met off POF. Her profile literally said 'White Guys only' not verbatim. I had commented on it and she gave the reason why. Her ex husband and the japanese men she dated before him were all douchebags. The first time I fucked her I could barely get it in her. But she loved it. She explained that this was yet another reason.

Chinese FOBs stereotype even more. Chinese guys treat chicks like possessions.

They also thing that if they can bag a white guy it elevates their status higher than their own ethnicity.

Couldn't be further from the truth. For oriental girls dating / marrying outside of their race will have a varying degree of disdain from their family. Ranging from a hard time, to getting disowned.

[Slide Hammer]

Braddahs,

If you were a seasoned monger, but had the choice of: a J girl in her early 40's, doesn't mind the prospect of having kids; definitely cute and bangable;.

Or would you go for a late 20's, local J girl, but with baggage; definitely leaning towards more kids-.

Assuming you're not married, -I don't know, I'm reaching here. Yes, I realize I haven't gone into depth about either woman. But. The fact is, pussy is readily available- and I'm so tempted to have both, if I had it my way- unfortunately, that won't happen.

Appreciate your 2 cents.

H.

In the olden days they used to fuck both and decided afterwards who they'd be monogamous with. .

Jk. For sure go for the one who genuinely laughs with you. I find this to be one of the common denominators to consistently awesome sex preferably with a bong load.

[Hinode]

Braddahs,

If you were a seasoned monger, but had the choice of: a J girl in her early 40's, doesn't mind the prospect of having kids; definitely cute and bangable;.

Or would you go for a late 20's, local J girl, but with baggage; definitely leaning towards more kids-.

Assuming you're not married, -I don't know, I'm reaching here. Yes, I realize I haven't gone into depth about either woman. But. The fact is, pussy is readily available- and I'm so tempted to have both, if I had it my way- unfortunately, that won't happen.

Appreciate your 2 cents.

H.

[AgapitoBS]

That's complete BS dude. I'm Asian and there are plenty of Asian guys who are just as big if not bigger than white guys. Are there some comedically funny small Asian penises. Haha yup. But that girl is full of crap if she says all Asians are too small. She is just completely brain washed into believing a stereotype that others like to propagate. The REAL reason they like white guys is because white guys are plastered all over Western TV and movies and they think it's exotic and more exciting for them. They also thing that if they can bag a white guy it elevates their status higher than their own ethnicity. I don't look down on mixed couples but I have no respect for these women who look down on their own culture.

I'm asian too and have been complemented by ex's as well as AMP girls that mine is as big as a white guy's, smaller than a black guy's, but harder than both. I'm nearly 60, fit, no blue vitamins and proud of it.

This chick is in her 20's and has only experienced guys in her age range. Too bad for her. You young guys don't know how to pleasure. It takes time and patience. Both of which you young guys lack these days.

Happy New Year!

Old, but not dead!