The Rat Trap

[MissMurno69]

Keeping appointments and not playing games for both the gentleman and sp. The worst is when you give your address and then they tell you they are on their way and then comes the crickets. Silence. Total creeper or LEO move, either way not cool. Keep the appointments and cancel in a timely manner.

Xoxo.

Paige.

Thanks a lot Paige for pointing this issue out, its totally a creeper move and should never happen. I had a SM do me this to me recently.

Crickets! For the Sec time also, Kinda Glad He Moved! Thats the worster thing you could do to a Sp.

[Chubbing]

A few weeks ago there was talk here about an SP that had a min size she would work with. Well now there is an SP with a max.

http://jacksonville.backpage.com/Fem...s-only/7137708

[PaigeSweetStuf]

Keeping appointments and not playing games for both the gentleman and sp. The worst is when you give your address and then they tell you they are on their way and then comes the crickets. Silence. Total creeper or LEO move, either way not cool. Keep the appointments and cancel in a timely manner.

Xoxo.

Paige.

Reply in a timely manner, and at a time of day that is not suspicious. (I. E. Don't reply three days after I texted and at midnight!

[RegularGuy69]

Please post your rates, don't make me ask in a text or phone call.

Thanks.

OO.

There are "Boards" in other markets that require photos and rates to be posted in all ads. It really makes it much better for everyone. Except blinding Mongers and unattractive Providers with GPS. (Golden P. . . Syndrome). Wouldn't be a bad policy here.

[Florida Sun]

Reply in a timely manner, and at a time of day that is not suspicious. (I. E. Don't reply three days after I texted and at midnight!

You agreed to the set time, do not make me wait in the parking lot. Do not pretend you are not ready as I watch your last date walk out right in front of my car as I get the text come right up. That sound like a sloppy second to me.

[Alligator19]

Thought this would be an interesting topic for discussion.

What, exactly does GFE mean. Or, at least, mean to you?

The following was posted on the Escort Classified Ads Thread recently:

"Come see me this toasty Friday!

NO FS!!

Also let me know before our dream if you would like the GFE experience. I thought that it was something specifically asked for during a dream. Sorry to those of you who came expecting GFE and didn't receive it!

Now, I've always been under the impression that GFE wasn't something that one turned on or off. That it was more of the overall vibe that a provider delivered along with their services.

For example. A GFE experience would be the illusion of intimacy or familiarity whereas a non-GFE would be just a straight business transaction or something like it. Again, I figured the whole FGE thing was just the general way an SP acted toward her clients, not something that could be requested or not requested.

Am I wrong?

Discuss.

[Alligator19]

Thought this would be an interesting topic for discussion.

What, exactly does GFE mean. Or, at least, mean to you?

The following was posted on the Escort Classified Ads Thread recently:

"Come see me this toasty Friday!

NO FS!!

Also let me know before our dream if you would like the GFE experience. I thought that it was something specifically asked for during a dream. Sorry to those of you who came expecting GFE and didn't receive it!

Now, I've always been under the impression that GFE wasn't something that one turned on or off. That it was more of the overall vibe that a provider delivered along with their services. For example. A GFE experience would the illusion of intimacy or familiarity whereas a non-GFE was just a straight business transaction or something like it. Again, I figured the whole FGE thing was just the general way an SP acted toward her clients, not something that could be requested or not requested.

Am I wrong?

Discuss.

[Member #4697]

I has been fun contributing my fictional adventures on this website. I hope all you enjoyed them and realized there was not a ounce of truth to any of them. But it was fun. To those I communicate with via text message that number is no longer working.

I'm moving to Vermont today and leave you in the hands of some other competent artists in town.

Best of luck.

KC.

[WilliamMstrs]

Reply to all legit inquiries even if just to say "not interested". You're not THAT busy.

Fisherman.

Reply in a timely manner, and at a time of day that is not suspicious. (I. E. Don't reply three days after I texted and at midnight!

[Fisherman0317]

Please post your rates, don't make me ask in a text or phone call.

Thanks.

OO.

Reply to all legit inquiries even if just to say "not interested". You're not THAT busy.

Fisherman.

[OliverOil]

The last few posts by Paige, C3, and regularguy make them top contenders to write the standard policies and procedures manual for our club. C3 is of course the chairman and chamber president as it was previously suggested. You have my gratitude and respect for all you do to make it better and easier for all of us.

P.S. I am white knighting for C3, chairman.

Please post your rates, don't make me ask in a text or phone call.

Thanks.

OO.

[Florida Sun]

Agreed not every SP is for everyone but there are certain things that should be across the board for all them, essential business skills and sense of professionalism, courtesy and respect.

The last few posts by Paige, C3, and regularguy make them top contenders to write the standard policies and procedures manual for our club. C3 is of course the chairman and chamber president as it was previously suggested. You have my gratitude and respect for all you do to make it better and easier for all of us.

P.S. I am white knighting for C3, chairman.

[Camera3]

On that note BTW Camera 3 thanks for lunch. It is always a delight to sit down as friends and chat and share a meal. Good food the good company are priceless.

Paige,

I, also, enjoy time with you out in civilian life, but I do have to admit, an old fart like me walking into a restaurant with a vivacious lady such as yourself is a real rush. Every guy is staring at you and every lady is pissed.

Until the next time.

C3.

[PaigeSweetStuf]

Agreed not every SP is for everyone but there are certain things that should be across the board for all them, essential business skills and sense of professionalism, courtesy and respect. There are some people I have met in this hobby I now consider friends, some good friends. The type you like to get away with, or sit down and talk with before or after, the girl friend that you go shopping with, or the gentlemen that you enjoy just getting a meal with.

On that note BTW Camera 3 thanks for lunch. It is always a delight to sit down as friends and chat and share a meal. Good food the good company are priceless. One of my best friends in the entire world is a SP on here, she is like a sister to me.

These friendships started a business agreement, but in time with the mutual respect it has grown into friendship. Idk about you but honestly good friends are hard to find so no matter where they come from they are a blessing.

Xoxo.

Paige.

PaigeSweetStuf:

Well said; and that is why you are the most respected lady on this Orlando board. New girls trying to figure this out would do well to consider you as a role model, to learn from your experiences, and listen to your sage advice. You are always level headed, on queue with your comments, and whether or not you fulfill every man's fantasy of their perfect woman, you are never the subject of a negative review. You say what you mean and do what you say; that has earned my admiration.

And the guys should consider your words and how they apply equally to us as well. If we don't show the ladies respect, how can we expect them to continue to satisfy our needs day in and day out. There is never any excuse for a guy to NCNS (Not Call, Not Show) for a date. Shit happens to us too, but call and let the lady know so she can take the next client that rings her phone. I read where some dudes actually use the tactic of making a date and NCNS to "get back" and some transgression and harm a lady; but two wrongs don't make a right and fighting among ourselves is not productive to making everyone safe and successful in whatever their pursuits here entail. It should never be Dudes vs Chicks on this board, it should be everyone sharing information to help each other find the proper matches, to safely exercise our free will, and to safely hobby as we choose.

Communication is an Art. I am often slightly put-off if not offended by the tone, brevity, or lack of reply to my innocuous PM's and texts of inquiry. I hate to generalize, but it is often the younger or less seasoned ladies, but sometimes even gals that have been at this for years, and even some that have met me before, that will treat me abruptly or badly and really turn me off from wanting to see them or repeat.

I understand that some gals learn to just get as much as they can in as short of a time as possible and move-on; don't worry about earning a client's repeat business, don't care what anyone says, just get a new name and number next month. Similarly, some guys figure a release is a release is a release; spend as little as possible and don't even think that the SP is a person just trying to get by in this world, like us. That's a poor business model for the ladies and a less than civil attitude by such guys. This board should be focused on identifying those who do not behave honorably, such as NCNS, ROB's, thugs, and those behaving dangerously. Secondly, information on offerings and skills are vitally important so that others can choose where to invest their time and treasure; but whether a gal is BBBJ or CBJ, DFK or no K, CFS or not, is just information on preferences and is not a criteria that should necessarily equate to a good or bad date, but rather levels of customer satisfaction. Not generally something to be ridiculed or punished for.

LOL, sorry, I guess I am rambling now. Thank you, Paige for doing what you do, helping others and stimulating appropriate dialogue on our common hobby. I look forward to stopping by to see you again soon; the only thing sexier than your writings is listening to you in person during a little time and companionship session - - whatever else may happen between two consenting adults is like gravy.

[Otwist]

Commenting on your response.

Well I am a marathoner, so a mere "FULL-mile" would not be enough to get me going.

But if you think you couldn't keep your hands (and maybe your lips and tongue) off me, then it just might be that "Sicilian in you". I could always try to put some of my "German in you", and see if that corrects your insatiable appetite for hot, horny, nymphomaniac sex with a decent-looking man on a soapy, sudsy, air-filled plastic love bed!

Laters, Baby!

Get a room you two, LOL!