The Rat Trap

[RegularGuy69]

So of late I am reading a lot of posts that are complaints of poor communication . . .

. . .Courtesy goes a long way. . .

. . .Consistency. . .

. . .Stay safe all.

Xoxo.

Paige.

PaigeSweetStuf:

Well said; and that is why you are the most respected lady on this Orlando board. New girls trying to figure this out would do well to consider you as a role model, to learn from your experiences, and listen to your sage advice. You are always level headed, on queue with your comments, and whether or not you fulfill every man's fantasy of their perfect woman, you are never the subject of a negative review. You say what you mean and do what you say; that has earned my admiration.

And the guys should consider your words and how they apply equally to us as well. If we don't show the ladies respect, how can we expect them to continue to satisfy our needs day in and day out. There is never any excuse for a guy to NCNS (Not Call, Not Show) for a date. Shit happens to us too, but call and let the lady know so she can take the next client that rings her phone. I read where some dudes actually use the tactic of making a date and NCNS to "get back" and some transgression and harm a lady; but two wrongs don't make a right and fighting among ourselves is not productive to making everyone safe and successful in whatever their pursuits here entail. It should never be Dudes vs Chicks on this board, it should be everyone sharing information to help each other find the proper matches, to safely exercise our free will, and to safely hobby as we choose.

Communication is an Art. I am often slightly put-off if not offended by the tone, brevity, or lack of reply to my innocuous PM's and texts of inquiry. I hate to generalize, but it is often the younger or less seasoned ladies, but sometimes even gals that have been at this for years, and even some that have met me before, that will treat me abruptly or badly and really turn me off from wanting to see them or repeat.

I understand that some gals learn to just get as much as they can in as short of a time as possible and move-on; don't worry about earning a client's repeat business, don't care what anyone says, just get a new name and number next month. Similarly, some guys figure a release is a release is a release; spend as little as possible and don't even think that the SP is a person just trying to get by in this world, like us. That's a poor business model for the ladies and a less than civil attitude by such guys. This board should be focused on identifying those who do not behave honorably, such as NCNS, ROB's, thugs, and those behaving dangerously. Secondly, information on offerings and skills are vitally important so that others can choose where to invest their time and treasure; but whether a gal is BBBJ or CBJ, DFK or no K, CFS or not, is just information on preferences and is not a criteria that should necessarily equate to a good or bad date, but rather levels of customer satisfaction. Not generally something to be ridiculed or punished for.

LOL, sorry, I guess I am rambling now. Thank you, Paige for doing what you do, helping others and stimulating appropriate dialogue on our common hobby. I look forward to stopping by to see you again soon; the only thing sexier than your writings is listening to you in person during a little time and companionship session - - whatever else may happen between two consenting adults is like gravy.

[Yragyrag]

My sweet you did just that (got a good laugh from me). Everyone knows how much I love the banter. Hell I guess it's just the Sicilian in me. But as far as "The honey pot" goes, do you actually think that I could come over to your place and we strip down naked and you start to demonstrate the art of this very interesting method that neither one of us would want to go the FULL mile!

Commenting on your response.

Well I am a marathoner, so a mere "FULL-mile" would not be enough to get me going.

But if you think you couldn't keep your hands (and maybe your lips and tongue) off me, then it just might be that "Sicilian in you". I could always try to put some of my "German in you", and see if that corrects your insatiable appetite for hot, horny, nymphomaniac sex with a decent-looking man on a soapy, sudsy, air-filled plastic love bed!

Laters, Baby!

[PaigeSweetStuf]

So of late I am reading a lot of posts that are complaints of poor communication by a few SPs that advertise on here. I am in no way trying to tell anyone how to handle their business but let me iterate a few keys to successful communication and running a business.

State the best for of communication in your ad, not everyone has the same one. I personally prefer text due to my job where I may not be able to actually speak at the moment but can be available very shortly, I also use a text app so voice calling can be broken up if not near a solid wifi connection. Email is also good for me since my email is attached to my smartphone. This way no one questions how to contact you.

The most important rule of all is a NCNS is unacceptable. If you were in a position within a company a NCNS would result in termination. No questions asks. So what makes you think that NCNS is acceptable in this hobby? It is essentially a business also. No successful business runs on policy where NCNS is acceptable. Why should they even consider calling you again after a NCNS? Even with a discount? If you have the time to set up an appointment you have time to contact them to cancel it. No one is saying you have to explain why but let the gentleman know so they can look elsewhere.

Courtesy goes a long way. If I give you a reference a thank you should be in order, if You can hit my phone asking about a member you can thank me for the intel. You can bet if I don't get a thanks then you won't get a reference or referral again, mind you my rolodex is pretty damn solid. Same thing about gentlemen wanting a reference clear it with the SP first so we know who is actually contacting us first. I am not giving out any info otherwise cause I am going to be extremely pissed if someone would give my info out without clearing it with me. This is a huge safety factor. My circle is small for references and even smaller for referrals.

Consistency. What more can I say. A proven track record says everything. When I read an SP stated I know my communication can be sketchy but no one questions my service. Hmmm. Idk about all that. Most gentlemen get turned off by the sketchy communication and won't even go thru to see how the service is.

You won't make it in this hobby, or any business if you can't balance communication and service. Look at women who consistently get great reviews on here. They ALL know how to handle both aspects of the deal. Everyone has different standards and what they want in service but communication I think is pretty clear across the board.

Some might get a little irritated by this post, those that do are probably those it is directed to. And that is fine also because the fine gentlemen of this community will just keep calling those can meet ALL their needs.

Stay safe all.

Xoxo.

Paige.

[Mystical0945]

Well then I accomplished half of my mission. It was partly meant to make you laugh, as I know you appreciate a good one.

But I wasn't after your "honey pot". Was just making a serious offer for you to try something you seemed interested in, and see it done the right way, in case it was something you're thinking of setting up or offering to your visitors.

I have never had a problem making donations to my favorite Honey Pot Charity.

My sweet you did just that (got a good laugh from me). Everyone knows how much I love the banter. Hell I guess it's just the Sicilian in me. But as far as "The honey pot " goes, do you actually think that I could come over to your place and we strip down naked and you start to demonstrate the art of this very interesting method that neither one of us would want to go the FULL mile!

Love To ALL.

Xo Ashley.

Play Safe BUY Always Play HARD.

[JimmeeLuck]

Well then I accomplished half of my mission. It was partly meant to make you laugh, as I know you appreciate a good one.

But I wasn't after your "honey pot". Was just making a serious offer for you to try something you seemed interested in, and see it done the right way, in case it was something you're thinking of setting up or offering to your visitors.

I have never had a problem making donations to my favorite Honey Pot Charity.

Huh? You notice that the offer to have "hands-on" inspection and class is only being offered to the ladies. I guess us guys are on our own for figuring it out. LOL.

Jimmee.

[MissMurno69]

Well then I accomplished half of my mission. It was partly meant to make you laugh, as I know you appreciate a good one.

But I wasn't after your "honey pot". Was just making a serious offer for you to try something you seemed interested in, and see it done the right way, in case it was something you're thinking of setting up or offering to your visitors.

I have never had a problem making donations to my favorite Honey Pot Charity.

Thanks a lot sweetie you helped me a bunch in one visit thanks.

[Yragyrag]

Lmfao. Good God man I almost fell off my bar stool in my kitchen laughing at this! 128514;128064;. The Honey Pot ain't that damn easy to get.

Well then I accomplished half of my mission. It was partly meant to make you laugh, as I know you appreciate a good one.

But I wasn't after your "honey pot". Was just making a serious offer for you to try something you seemed interested in, and see it done the right way, in case it was something you're thinking of setting up or offering to your visitors.

I have never had a problem making donations to my favorite Honey Pot Charity.

[Mystical0945]

Good God man I almost fell off my bar stool in my kitchen laughing at this! The Honey Pot ain't that damn easy to get.

Love To ALL.

Xo Ashley.

Play Safe BUT Always Play HARD.

[Florida Sun]

I see the word legend used here and there, so I decided to ask what do you need to do to earn the title. To get the conversation started I am going to offer four requirements;

1) longevity, no less than one year. We recently witnessed few girls go from hot to not in just few month.

2) Mongers approval and a fairly good track record on service.

3) Sexy and enticing body that is a turn on.

4) good and reliable communication.

Who is a legend to you and why?

[Chris5]

I received a very odd and strange PM today from a certain member of this board. I will not go into all the crazy details of the PM but I will say that myself still being a relatively young man in my early thirties, I have learned a lot about the world of mongering. I remember heading out of the country with about ten of my college buddies years ago to Rio de Janiero Brazil. We traveled a very long flight to get to Rio and it was so worth it! I was at the famed Club HELP back in the old glory days as I call it and this club was billed as the largest discotheque in South America and it truly was an AMAZING sight to behold!! There were easily on any given night between 200 or 300 of the best looking working girls you could have ever imagined seeing in your life with about another 100 or so girls outside club HELP who could not afford to pay the cover fee. Mongers from all over the world came to this place. I was a frequent visit to Rio until the dollar basically crashed against the Brazilian REAL and air flights from MIA skyrocketed to between 1000 and 1500 USD. I saw some of the most beautiful "working girls" I have ever laid eyes on. My buddies and even other mongers would pick there girl for the night and some were cute some were not so cute and some were gorgeous, every shape size and color you could ever imagine. Some buddies of mine would call certain girls the best they ever had! There AFT! And then another monger would date her and say wow, she was ok but definitely not as great as the previous guy said. Point being each man is different, what I may like and admire in a young woman is just me, another man could feel the complete opposite way and that's the beauty of this game all us men has different tastes in women.

It is not, as a certain member said "well guys with low post are building up certain SP'S to a legendary status on this board" LOL. Who really cares what another monger thinks about his choice in SP'S!! LOL / I certainly could care LESS.

I was told I reviewed a new SP that I had never seen before and I went back and reposted that my post clearly said looking FORWARD to an appointment with this new young SP. This strange member who had the audacity to PM me and call me out on something so petty is mind blowing, As he may be in the beginning stages of some type of dementia OR is off his meds OR he is just plain stupid. Pay attention less to what or who other mongers are dreaming with and worry about your own dreams. Maybe you're getting too old for this hobby? Don't know and don't care, By the way a much closer venue besides Rio is the blue marlin bar inside the Delrey Casino in San Jose Costa Rica, Some of the most beautiful working girls in the world.

[Yragyrag]

Holy Mother Of God. Does anybody have a tub because this looks like A LOT OF FUN. You go girl! What's that phrase from McDonald, "I'm loving it".

Dear Holy Mother Of God (LOL).

If you'd like to come over at your own expense, I'd be glad to show you how I set the whole thing up, and let you try "loving it".

[Dieter Braun]

Great Post, welcome!

Dieter.

I posted something on this thread about 2 wks ago and got jumped on by BackJack who had decided to teach me a thing or two because he had divined that I must be a newbie be / see I hadn't posted but a couple of times. He then called in the big gun, Camera3, and he then wrote to me too. BJ, I've decided is a negative guy who probably sees life as something to * about and C3, well, he's ok in my book in fact, he is kind of like the President of the Chamber of Commerce here or the Ambassador or Gandolf or Dumbledorf (or whatever from Harry Potter). The funny thing is that out of left field came Mr YragYrag but I might add he was quick to state that he was not defending me but he was finding fault with BJ.

Here's the really funny part, I'm nearly 40, live in the Tampa area, I'm single (so I don't have to worry about a significant other), still date but have a work route that covers from Ft Meyers across I-4 from Tampa to Daytona and then up to Jax. So, yeah, when I'm on the road like I've been it's good to have the oThER site or NR and now this USASG to fall back on. I just don't post. But reading those guys comments about having a GFE thread (PharmaGuy, RedSox2005, and ExecTalent) made me go back to the beginning of the Positive Escort Review thread and catch up on how that had started. Well, I just couldn't help myself and I wrote about Miss Feeling Froggy. Out of everything I wrote, Mr. BJ jumped on me about saying that Froggy was a low volume provider and took me to school about not knowing how to research, etc. Well, he called in C3 to really school and I'm ok with him so no problem there he's level headed but he too got kinda lost in the low volume thing too and they all missed the good stuff I wrote about her being a true GFE. Goodness, she is a special woman. She'll take on anybody regardless of race, religion, size, in a car, in a room, on a bed, wherever and enjoys you making her cum, too. God gave her an oversized clit and she loves it when you practice do unto others as you'the have them do unto you.

Then, here comes Mr. Yrag, II and he lets us know that Froggy has a day job and really is low volume. But I heard she is in a post graduate program and is writing her thesis on this whole escort business and that she isn't in this for the money anyway. She supposedly does this as more of a hobby because this way she can see as many people as she wants as often as she wants no strings attached kind of thing. She just likes to chase dick and this way she can pick as she chooses. But now (recently) I see Mr Yrag is a photographer and I went back and found that he has done a lot of photo shoots with Froggy too. So, in the end it is really Mr Yrag who is the winner here because she has let Yrag2 take some pretty private, intimate photos and he will have those images of her for the rest of his life. Wow, that makes you stop and wonder, huh? The Indians didn't want their photo taken for fear that their soul would be taken but here is are SPs that allow someone to have their image forever. That is cool, now that I'll take some schooling on is it just a money thing or is it only with certain ones or how does this work? Do all SPs just sell their image to someone? So, one day in the future, after Miss Froggy has given up being the queen of BBBJCIM and had her fun and wrote her thesis and earned her degree she'll be sitting in a rocker telling her grandkids stories and old Mr Yrag will be sharing his up close and personal shots of her with the guys in the nursing home. This place is the best. And so far, I think Mr Yrag is on to something with saying she is working on her PhD. Keep posting your photos, sir. And, you, Miss Froggy, keep doing what you do best (and seem to love doing, too). Ain't this a great place?

[Yragyrag]

I imagine you give them a copy of the photos you take, if they want. But, man oh man, videos, too? Do you give them copies of the video of their"act"? And, just by asking, huh? Who'd have ever thought.

I give them a copy of anything they want, since they were nice enough to let me photo / film them. And, YES, just by asking! But don't get the wrong impression, not all of them say yes.

Oh my, what the hell is up with that room decor? I assumed you were single...this is no single guys room, I assume a spare bedroom?

I am single. This is a spare room for when my granddaughters visit. They picked out the decor.

Although the ladies that visit seem to like being photographed amongst that decor also, so it's a big WIN-WIN all the way around!

[Vino 7373]

So, I had to go back and see what I wrote to warrant this comment. Thank you, I guess, but I know of several hundred back-door groupies that have tried to get past me to get to the band that have called me all kinds of names, but never "President," "Ambassador" or in anyway the voice of reason.

I will say this, though, no one calls me in to school anyone. No. I am pretty much an equal opportunity dick. But, I have to say after reading the whole sequence, I thought I was really on my best behavior. In fact, I thought I stuck up for you pretty well. The other guy's statements were pretty off target, unfair and unwarranted.

I do try to keep tabs on the quality of things that people write, not the quantity. Writing reviews that contain accurate and complete intel will earn respect from most of us pretty quickly. And part of that is figuring out who the White Knights are who are trying to make legendary SP's out of ladies that are good, but average at best. On the other hand, stupid statements that are obviously there to build post numbers and giving reviews of ladies you have not seen will pretty much put you on the shit list.

And never, never every tangle with Vino. That man is a legend among men.

Just sayin'.

C3.

To think of myself as a legend among the ladies. LMAO.

[Camera3]

and C3, well, he's ok in my book in fact, he is kind of like the President of the Chamber of Commerce here or the Ambassador or Gandolf or Dumbledorf (or whatever from Harry Potter). <snip> Well, he called in C3 to really school and I'm ok with him so no problem there he's level headed but he too got kinda lost in the low volume thing too and they all missed the good stuff I wrote about her being a true GFE.

So, I had to go back and see what I wrote to warrant this comment. Thank you, I guess, but I know of several hundred back-door groupies that have tried to get past me to get to the band that have called me all kinds of names, but never "President," "Ambassador" or in anyway the voice of reason.

I will say this, though, no one calls me in to school anyone. No. I am pretty much an equal opportunity dick. But, I have to say after reading the whole sequence, I thought I was really on my best behavior. In fact, I thought I stuck up for you pretty well. The other guy's statements were pretty off target, unfair and unwarranted.

I do try to keep tabs on the quality of things that people write, not the quantity. Writing reviews that contain accurate and complete intel will earn respect from most of us pretty quickly. And part of that is figuring out who the White Knights are who are trying to make legendary SP's out of ladies that are good, but average at best. On the other hand, stupid statements that are obviously there to build post numbers and giving reviews of ladies you have not seen will pretty much put you on the shit list.

And never, never every tangle with Vino. That man is a legend among men.

Just sayin'.

C3.