General Reports

[Emmitt2288]

Hello fellow INDY mongers. Will be visiting for a couple of days this week and was hoping one of you fellas would steer me towards some of the local trusted providers.

Any info would be appreciated and I will return the favor of you make it down Memphis way.

Thanks.

Emmitt.

[RichardJeff]

I was there just last week. Saw Juicy J and had a great time! I submitted a review on TER that is under review.

[Member #6963]

Been doing research but not truly satisfied.

I'm going to Louisville for 4 days next week, wanted to get some info from my fellow traveling mongers. Who are the beat of Louisville?

Incall or out, doesn't matter to me.

Thanks.

Clear out your mailbox IrishLaddie. I tried sending you a PM and it's full.

[IrishLaddie]

Been doing research but not truly satisfied.

I'm going to Louisville for 4 days next week, wanted to get some info from my fellow traveling mongers. Who are the beat of Louisville?

Incall or out, doesn't matter to me.

Thanks.

[Covenant60]

Ok guys and gals. What do you do when a girl you have been seeing threatens to tell your wife if you don't give her xx amount of Money?

I got one right now who did.

If you want details message me.

Happened to me years ago. I cut her off and shut her down. Blocked her number and bunkered down. Nothing happened and that was the last I ever saw or talked to her. Later from another provider I learned that word got out in that circle of what she did and she was pretty much shunned after that.

[Jones Soda]

So by your point either his wife must work where he does or his work address and / or work phone number is his home. I don't know many receptionists that give out personal information about an employee to someone that calls into the workplace. Besides I think what was said was: Be sure of the provider and only do what you are comfortable with. Not sure and not comfortable, then don't do it.

FF.

P.S. I love freckled receptionists.

This requires using a real name, which is a real problem in a world of social media. Last week, people were saying to type in phone numbers to FB and find provider's personal pages, etc etc. Well this is what happens when the tables are reversed. Really big problems. If you are a married monger and don't want to go down this road, then use serious caution. (I understand that single mongers may have no worry / limited worry in these instances).

* Never use your real name. * Never use a phone that can be tied to you in any way. * Never allow provider to know your workplace.

In this specific case, I would get an attorney ASAP.

[SnapDragon]

But how in the hell would she have intel on your wife? You went way wrong somewhere.

Tony.

We had some long conversations and turns out a lot of mutual friends. Need to keep my big mouth shut. And listen to that inner voice that kept telling "Now is a good time to walk away". "Don't go see her again". Damn conscious. Always right and I never listen.

[Member #6963]

Just the other day, a few guys said giving a provider work info was not a problem. So, why would this be a problem?

So by your point either his wife must work where he does or his work address and / or work phone number is his home. I don't know many receptionists that give out personal information about an employee to someone that calls into the workplace. Besides I think what was said was: Be sure of the provider and only do what you are comfortable with. Not sure and not comfortable, then don't do it.

FF.

P.S. I love freckled receptionists.

[Member #6963]

Ok guys and gals. What do you do when a girl you have been seeing threatens to tell your wife if you don't give her xx amount of Money?

I got one right now who did.

If you want details message me.

Tell her you need to meet in a public place. Take a tape recorder with you and record the conversation which should only discuss the money she is requiring, not the reason why, because the reason is not important. Then make another appointment with her in another public place. Tell her you recorded the previous meeting. Tell her plain and simply that under Indiana Law tape recorded conversations, one way, are allowed for purposes of fraud, extortion and criminal activity. If she has any further plans regarding her extortion or if ANYTHING disturbing is ever divulged to any member of your family, then you will direct your lawyer to contact the local police and proceed with criminal action and also start with Civil action. The tape recording will be in your lawyers possession and only one phone call is needed by you to him. You might want to actually contact and retain a lawyer. Remember lawyers are less expensive than a divorce. You can even take a well dressed friend or even your lawyer to the second meeting.

Also find out, if you can, any of her extra curricular activities like going to a gym, shopping places, etc. And develop a story of how you met this very forward and nutty woman at one of these places she frequents. Mention it to your wife about your weird experience and also how she keeps on running into you. This builds up credibility of a potential stalker story. I think you get where I am going on this one.

FF.

P.S. Good luck.

[No Alibis]

Ok guys and gals. What do you do when a girl you have been seeing threatens to tell your wife if you don't give her xx amount of Money?

I got one right now who did.

If you want details message me.

Just the other day, a few guys said giving a provider work info was not a problem. So, why would this be a problem?

You need to record her making an extortion statement, then let her know what you have. I think it will be enough to scare her.

[Chelli4me]

Ok guys and gals. What do you do when a girl you have been seeing threatens to tell your wife if you don't give her xx amount of Money?I got one right now who did.If you want details message me.

This is a serious consideration for any married monger. It would seem to be a no brainer to not give any gal any real details but obviously you have given her enough info about yourself that she knows how to get a hold of your wife. If it were me, I'd call her bluff. If she does tell so be it. You play with fire sometimes you get burned. One thing for sure, you pay the be*tch she'll come at you the same way again for sure.

[TonyS1964]

Ok guys and gals. What do you do when a girl you have been seeing threatens to tell your wife if you don't give her xx amount of Money?

I got one right now who did.

If you want details message me.

But how in the hell would she have intel on your wife? You went way wrong somewhere.

Tony.

[SnapDragon]

Ok guys and gals. What do you do when a girl you have been seeing threatens to tell your wife if you don't give her xx amount of Money?

I got one right now who did.

If you want details message me.

[JoeyCrack]

Long time lurker. Spending the weekend here (alone) in Indy. Looking for some action. From Chicago. Any good leads??Please PM ME.

[Zugash]

So I got an email from a Trina F* and the body of it was this:

Hi dear, just wanted to say it's so refreshing to see a real woman on these ads for once instead of the little young meth heads. I've been browsing the ads lately to see if there was any desire out there for larger real women like us. May I please ask if it is worth it? Safe? What's the income like? Any help would be greatly appreciated.

Is this something I should be worried about LE fishing?

Dear Lady,

I am a cynical prognosticator. Reading the post, I found that my cynic meter was also sending a strong be careful vibe. My crystal ball is hazy on this one, but, in my mind, 'tis better to bypass the suspicious cheese than to find the best bel paese in a trap. Were it me, I would decline any overtures from the lady. This philosophy may end up with me missing a couple of hours of bliss occasionally, but I've never had a negative close call either.

Z.