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**Toy Soldier** · 01-23-15 10:45

Originally Posted by PleasureSeeker [View Original Post]

Got a link to who this smoker was?

PM sent regarding this.

**PleasureSeeker** · 01-23-15 09:40

Originally Posted by LexintonLuther [View Original Post]

I know I am not some cherished hobbyist that has been offered BBFS, even you stated, "I'd bet you're not the only one" That's what I want to know? My initial post I stated that I would never have BBFS with a provider. I have been in this hobby far too long to start being naive now. I have been in parts of the country that it was no big deal for some providers to perform BBFS, even more so parts of the world I have travelled BBFS was always on the menus and just not some of the 3rd world countries.

I wasn't trying to project a lack of experience, judgement or information, I do know the game we play and the dangers of it very well and have successfully been a hobbyist for a few years and can count the issues I have had on one hand. I wasn't looking for the "warnings" of doing BBFS, I know them already, I was looking for how often the board members run across providers that offer it. In my hobby quest thru out NC, I rarely run into providers that even offer BBBJ's these days and the few that I do run across I rarely partake that service.

I understand very well that this is a P4 P service and not relationship building 101 and very well understand the limits of our arrangements. If I wanted a real relationship, I would get married. But I enjoy having a lot of sex with different women even if I do pay for it and beside I don't want to be married and having to sneak around for a little extra fun. I don't always see the typical BP provider and never see the ones that offer "specials" that ever Tom, Dick and Harry with $40 can have a go at. My question was how many hobbyist run across providers that offer them BBFS, because I don't run across providers that offer it. In the few years of being a member of this forum, I have posted several hundred reviews about providers I have seen, of those only about 25 have offered me that service.

Lex.

Lex, thanks for your input here. I've been a hobbyist for over a decade now and run into the BBFS offer quite often, actually. It's Russian roulette for sure, and everyone knows that. Now BBBJ is another story. I'd say 50% of the time that's what I get and it's great.

Now it would be awesome to see more reviews of providers lately. There's some new girls around but very little in the way of reviews here. Example: http://raleigh.backpage.com/FemaleEs...l-now/17908189.

Any takers? Is she real?

**PleasureSeeker** · 01-23-15 09:35

Originally Posted by ToySoldier [View Original Post]

From now on I will confirm beforehand that a provider doesn't smoke. I went to see a lady yesterday and as soon as I walked in the room I was overwhelmed by the smell of cigarette smoke. I immediately said "Sorry, hun, but I can't stay because of the smoke" and started to leave. "But I have some spray", she said. No, screw that, I'm out! I was in her room less than 30 secs. , literally, and my clothes smelled like that shit all the way home.

I'm done with white-trash, drug-using, smoking providers!

I guess I'm looking in the wrong places by perusing BP hoping to find that diamond in the rough.

Got a link to who this smoker was?

**LexintonLuther** · 01-23-15 08:54

Originally Posted by Es421 [View Original Post]

Maybe you're the cherished one that has been offered this, but I'd bet you're not the only one.

I know I am not some cherished hobbyist that has been offered BBFS, even you stated, "I'd bet you're not the only one" That's what I want to know? My initial post I stated that I would never have BBFS with a provider. I have been in this hobby far too long to start being naive now. I have been in parts of the country that it was no big deal for some providers to perform BBFS, even more so parts of the world I have travelled BBFS was always on the menus and just not some of the 3rd world countries.

I wasn't trying to project a lack of experience, judgement or information, I do know the game we play and the dangers of it very well and have successfully been a hobbyist for a few years and can count the issues I have had on one hand. I wasn't looking for the "warnings" of doing BBFS, I know them already, I was looking for how often the board members run across providers that offer it. In my hobby quest thru out NC, I rarely run into providers that even offer BBBJ's these days and the few that I do run across I rarely partake that service.

I understand very well that this is a P4 P service and not relationship building 101 and very well understand the limits of our arrangements. If I wanted a real relationship, I would get married. But I enjoy having a lot of sex with different women even if I do pay for it and beside I don't want to be married and having to sneak around for a little extra fun. I don't always see the typical BP provider and never see the ones that offer "specials" that ever Tom, Dick and Harry with $40 can have a go at. My question was how many hobbyist run across providers that offer them BBFS, because I don't run across providers that offer it. In the few years of being a member of this forum, I have posted several hundred reviews about providers I have seen, of those only about 25 have offered me that service.

Lex.

**Enriq** · 01-23-15 07:12

Originally Posted by LexintonLuther [View Original Post]

I'm a hobbyist that plays in the Greensboro (I have a rented home there), and Raleigh but mainly my all American City where I currently live. Have any of you Hobbyist ever had a long term provider / ATF give you permission to start going completely bare during sessions. I have had a couple offers due to our long term arrangements. I will not take any chances for the standard reasons but I have been wondering about other hobbyist being made this very personal offer from a provider. Granted, I do have some close / personal relationships with a select few that even know more about me than some of the women I have dated in the past but even with GFE / PSE sessions I have never gone completely BBFS with any of them and never will but I am still a bit curious as to other hobbyist thoughts. I do plan to post this question to each of the forums to get the most input.

Lex.

Not exactly that scenario, but I've been in a situation where I had to really think with the big head not to have BBFS after accidentally having it. The first time I saw Valencia, the cover slipped off while she was riding. Not sure exactly how long I was in there uncovered (I know, I could feel the difference on some level, but when it feels really good you're not exactly in a hurry to check why, you know?) but it was all the way through the finish, and she ended up getting, uh, pretty messy. I was there for an hour, so when the second time rolled around, she tried to just slip me in uncovered. Making her stop and grab a second one required more effort than most of the classes I took in college. Due to obvious reasons--the temptation would be way too high, and I don't trust my willpower again in the same situation--I haven't gone back to Valencia.

Though based on popye's post and the Mariana post, that probably means I should get checked again, and soon.

**Toy Soldier** · 01-23-15 07:12

Originally Posted by Es421 [View Original Post]

No freakin' way. I'd advise anyone to not think of these as relationships. I don't care how good the chemistry may be. These are business women making you feel as good as possible in exchange for cash. Maybe you're the cherished one that has been offered this, but I'd bet you're not the only one. Even if it's only a select bunch of guys she does that with, you want to think about the others, and where they may have been.

The trade is pussy for cash, not some deep relationship or bonding experience. IMO, don't do it. Ever.

Very good advice right there.

**Toy Soldier** · 01-23-15 07:11

From now on I will confirm beforehand that a provider doesn't smoke. I went to see a lady yesterday and as soon as I walked in the room I was overwhelmed by the smell of cigarette smoke. I immediately said "Sorry, hun, but I can't stay because of the smoke" and started to leave. "But I have some spray", she said. No, screw that, I'm out! I was in her room less than 30 secs. , literally, and my clothes smelled like that shit all the way home.

I'm done with white-trash, drug-using, smoking providers!

I guess I'm looking in the wrong places by perusing BP hoping to find that diamond in the rough.

**Es421** · 01-23-15 07:04

Originally Posted by LexintonLuther [View Original Post]

I'm a hobbyist that plays in the Greensboro (I have a rented home there), and Raleigh but mainly my all American City where I currently live. Have any of you Hobbyist ever had a long term provider / ATF give you permission to start going completely bare during sessions. I have had a couple offers due to our long term arrangements. I will not take any chances for the standard reasons but I have been wondering about other hobbyist being made this very personal offer from a provider. Granted, I do have some close / personal relationships with a select few that even know more about me than some of the women I have dated in the past but even with GFE / PSE sessions I have never gone completely BBFS with any of them and never will but I am still a bit curious as to other hobbyist thoughts. I do plan to post this question to each of the forums to get the most input.

Lex.

No freakin' way. I'd advise anyone to not think of these as relationships. I don't care how good the chemistry may be. These are business women making you feel as good as possible in exchange for cash. Maybe you're the cherished one that has been offered this, but I'd bet you're not the only one. Even if it's only a select bunch of guys she does that with, you want to think about the others, and where they may have been.

The trade is pussy for cash, not some deep relationship or bonding experience. IMO, don't do it. Ever.

**RidemyJohnson** · 01-23-15 06:37

Originally Posted by LexintonLuther [View Original Post]

I'm a hobbyist that plays in the Greensboro (I have a rented home there), and Raleigh but mainly my all American City where I currently live. Have any of you Hobbyist ever had a long term provider / ATF give you permission to start going completely bare during sessions. I have had a couple offers due to our long term arrangements. I will not take any chances for the standard reasons but I have been wondering about other hobbyist being made this very personal offer from a provider. Granted, I do have some close / personal relationships with a select few that even know more about me than some of the women I have dated in the past but even with GFE / PSE sessions I have never gone completely BBFS with any of them and never will but I am still a bit curious as to other hobbyist thoughts. I do plan to post this question to each of the forums to get the most input.

Lex.

Dude I wouldn't go bare with a chick I met on Ashley Madison dot com let alone BP. I can't say I haven't ever thought about it. Had a regular in Another city who pulled the I'm out of rubbers trick on me before. I had been in contact with her 3 times in the hour it took me to get there. She wasn't the type to talk on the phone while servicing so I wondered why she waited till I got there to tell me. I left went to the store and bought a pack and came back. I got the impression she was catching feelings because she wanted to do things together outside of the normal client provider arrangement and that would have been a mutual sentiment so I slacked off from seeing her after that visit. To maybe save myself from muse. If I was single and drunk I probably would have, maybe.

**Grambo007** · 01-23-15 04:41

Originally Posted by HeadLiner919 [View Original Post]

I went bare in a provider awhile back. I had seen her a few times before its fun while it last but boy did I go thru a hell of a guilt trtrip afterwards.

Enjoyed with a long term acquaintance who has now left the profession. Was good but would do only with girls I know well.

**HeadLiner919** · 01-23-15 03:42

Originally Posted by LexintonLuther [View Original Post]

I'm a hobbyist that plays in the Greensboro (I have a rented home there), and Raleigh but mainly my all American City where I currently live. Have any of you Hobbyist ever had a long term provider / ATF give you permission to start going completely bare during sessions. I have had a couple offers due to our long term arrangements. I will not take any chances for the standard reasons but I have been wondering about other hobbyist being made this very personal offer from a provider. Granted, I do have some close / personal relationships with a select few that even know more about me than some of the women I have dated in the past but even with GFE / PSE sessions I have never gone completely BBFS with any of them and never will but I am still a bit curious as to other hobbyist thoughts. I do plan to post this question to each of the forums to get the most input.

Lex.

I went bare in a provider awhile back. I had seen her a few times before its fun while it last but boy did I go thru a hell of a guilt trtrip afterwards.

**Spaceball1** · 01-23-15 00:04

Originally Posted by Popye [View Original Post]

I have been offered and accepted from maggie, misty, valancia and mariana. Not a wise decision but It happened and I was buzzed or drunk most of the time.

You may want to go back and read post #8805.

**Popye** · 01-22-15 23:52

Originally Posted by LexintonLuther [View Original Post]

I'm a hobbyist that plays in the Greensboro (I have a rented home there), and Raleigh but mainly my all American City where I currently live. Have any of you Hobbyist ever had a long term provider / ATF give you permission to start going completely bare during sessions. I have had a couple offers due to our long term arrangements. I will not take any chances for the standard reasons but I have been wondering about other hobbyist being made this very personal offer from a provider. Granted, I do have some close / personal relationships with a select few that even know more about me than some of the women I have dated in the past but even with GFE / PSE sessions I have never gone completely BBFS with any of them and never will but I am still a bit curious as to other hobbyist thoughts. I do plan to post this question to each of the forums to get the most input.

Lex.

I have been offered and accepted from maggie, misty, valancia and mariana. Not a wise decision but It happened and I was buzzed or drunk most of the time.

**OmgYes01** · 01-22-15 22:21

Originally Posted by Darkbcl [View Original Post]

Not worth it. High rates horrible service and will hunt that FS is an option and deny it on arrival. I would aviod.

Thanks, that was kinda my feelings too.

**Raltime** · 01-22-15 20:24

She comes to Raleigh often. Please save your money. 10/15 minutes of a poor massage then bla bla.

She does have a good ad, please don't be fooled.

http://raleigh.backpage.com/BodyRubs...tional/8538459