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[ILoveDeams]

I have been waiting for a very long to see Bella from Fayetteville and saw her post early this morning. So I called her made and headed to her location off wake forest rd. She told me her donation was 120 for the half, got to the extended stay and called her, no response. Should have taken the advice of my gut and left. Called again she answered and apologized and asked me for 10 minutes, and I said fine. She opened the door for me in the back of the building and I immediately realized that she was not the girl from the picture. I should have left then and again I didn't. Got to her room, laid the donation down and started getting undressed. Now, this chick starts to look around for a condom. She says she's out and wanted to know if I had one. So I told her I'd be back later and she refuses to return my money. Asks me to go to the gas station near by to get one. She says to me I have good reviews and I will not cheat you. Sucker that I was I left to get one, and obviously when I return she doesn't answer my calls. Called her a few times and no response. Man I feel cheated.

GUYS AVOID THIS ONE AT ALL COSTS!

http://escortprofile.xxx/407-683-1226

http://raleigh.backpage.com/FemaleEs...t-now/16882847

[Amateur11]

Some of my best experiences have been after text only, however there are times I will need to call if the vibe isn't right. I text because I am at work, I text regulars, I text when I'm not in the mood to hear baby, and sweetie every other word. There is something a bit more reassuring About a chick willing to text IMO. I also use an app called burner instead of using my real number because I'd rather get a random text back than a random call back. The burner app allows for more texting than using minutes. Texting = consistency, stability and personal attention because they may be using their real phone rather than a trac phone that limits texting.

I've probably text-setup something with a girl more often than via voice call, and IMO, I've never seen an advantage to the phone call. Maybe it's an age thing. I can tell if something's off by the personality of the text, timing, language, etc. And I agree, the chicks who will text are usually more laid-back, less bitchy, fewer rules, more positive experience. Of course, YMMV, but this has been the case for me (knock on wood).

Of course, if I suspect something is sketchy or may waste my time, I will call, and often you can hear someone in the background telling them what to say, or covering the phone, etc. Of course, this is easily figured out by suspicious delays in texting, or them getting confused because they seem distracted, etc.

I will say that if a girl posts "absolutely no texting, texts will be ignored," that is my first filter to avoid her, because she's probably a complete ***** who has no interest in anything other than not getting dirty, running me out as fast as possible, and making as much as possible for as little as possible in return

[RidemyJohnson]

How often do you guys text a girl for initial contact and to inquire about rates?

I've texted 7 or 8 girls over the past couple of days and only 1 has responded.

I don't ask anything too detailed either, just something like "Hi, my name is Puppeteer, can you give me some rate info, please?" Never hear back.

What is YOUR approach?

Some of my best experiences have been after text only, however there are times I will need to call if the vibe isn't right. I text because I am at work, I text regulars, I text when I'm not in the mood to hear baby, and sweetie every other word. There is something a bit more reassuring About a chick willing to text IMO. I also use an app called burner instead of using my real number because I'd rather get a random text back than a random call back. The burner app allows for more texting than using minutes. Texting = consistency, stability and personal attention because they may be using their real phone rather than a trac phone that limits texting.

[LexintonLuther]

AFTER the initial contact, texting for addresses and directions makes a lot of sense.

Agreed, I prefer to speak to a provider first so I can listen to those little clues you might hear, but afterward I only text for the next few steps in the arrangement.

Lex.

[Dsrtp1]

How often do you guys text a girl for initial contact and to inquire about rates?

I've texted 7 or 8 girls over the past couple of days and only 1 has responded.

I don't ask anything too detailed either, just something like "Hi, my name is Puppeteer, can you give me some rate info, please?" Never hear back.

What is YOUR approach?

Hi, are you available today? After that, it's up to them. They usually respond with answers to all your questions before you even ask them.

[Dsrtp1]

After seeing her ad and texting back and forth I drove to the location. After waiting about 45 minutes she told me the room number. She is the girl in the picture, a quick hug and I laid the donation down. 80 for a qv. At this point she remained completely dressed and told me to "whip out your * " She can only do a BBBJ and anything else is. 40 extra. She hid the donation and said, either we can do this or I can leave. So I laid on the bed and she gave a BBBJ. A nice BBBJ, but not worth the rates, no touching and no undressing. She told me to tell her when I'm about to pop, I didn't and popped in her mouth. She spit it on my face and started rambling, that was funny. I cleaned up, washed my face and put on my clothes and left while she talked to someone on the phone about me. While I was walking out the door, she was telling the person on the phone the color of my shirt, pants, and what I looked like.

All in all, this girl was a wierdo, I've never had an experience similar to this.

1. What were the red flags, if any?

2. How can I learn from this?

3. What should have been done in this situation?

All three of these are her ads.

http://raleigh.backpage.com/FemaleEs...e-you/19551655

http://raleigh.backpage.com/FemaleEs...drama/19085798

http://raleigh.backpage.com/FemaleEs...ncall/16464201

Is a bit harsh but in her defense she asked you to warn her. That's some funny shit.

[Jefferson469]

I usually use the term "donation" rather than rates. I have had much luck with that term.

Good luck.

How often do you guys text a girl for initial contact and to inquire about rates?

I've texted 7 or 8 girls over the past couple of days and only 1 has responded.

I don't ask anything too detailed either, just something like "Hi, my name is Puppeteer, can you give me some rate info, please?" Never hear back.

What is YOUR approach?

[jobobtheclown]

How often do you guys text a girl for initial contact and to inquire about rates?

I've texted 7 or 8 girls over the past couple of days and only 1 has responded.

I don't ask anything too detailed either, just something like "Hi, my name is Puppeteer, can you give me some rate info, please?" Never hear back.

What is YOUR approach?

I won't meet anyone I've not actually spoken to on the phone, unless they're very highly reviewed. Voice can tell you many things about a person that texting won't (I. E. Are they female, approximate age, are they stoned, are they aggressive or unfriendly, etc). It can be misleading, though, like the young hottie Amber who visited twice about 6 months ago and then disappeared. She had an odd voice that was concerning over the phone but very sexy in person.

That said, AFTER the initial contact, texting for addresses and directions makes a lot of sense.

[Lookin Good]

How often do you guys text a girl for initial contact and to inquire about rates?

I've texted 7 or 8 girls over the past couple of days and only 1 has responded.

I don't ask anything too detailed either, just something like "Hi, my name is Puppeteer, can you give me some rate info, please?" Never hear back.

What is YOUR approach?

I prefer texting for initial contact and won't contact ladies who specifically say no texting in their ad. Many times when I'm trying to set something up there are coworker ears nearby so a phone call is out of the question. I haven't had too many cases of no response.

[Toy Soldier]

How often do you guys text a girl for initial contact and to inquire about rates?

I've texted 7 or 8 girls over the past couple of days and only 1 has responded.

I don't ask anything too detailed either, just something like "Hi, my name is Puppeteer, can you give me some rate info, please?" Never hear back.

What is YOUR approach?

[Toy Soldier]

Thanks. I'll also say, somewhere on the internets there can be found publicly-posted photos of her doing the "Duckface," which has been listed as a red flag before by some astute posters.

So, let's have a quick re-cap of what to avoid, as I've posted before, as have others, and as it pertains to this poor chap's particular misadventures:

1) Heroin users.

2) Duckface-posers.

3) Appearance-alterers.

4) Outright pic-stealers.

5) Name changers.

Have I missed anything? If you can use your god-given human ability (instinct and first hunch) to sniff these out, you will probably go a long way toward avoiding problems altogether from girls with ulterior motives or who don't give a rats ass about you or your safety.

I can spot heroin users almost instantly in those backpage ads, and no, I don't have to look for trackmarks either. They're just easy to spot. Particularly among the white chicks. In fact, I'd say probably 50% of the current girls on there right now are on heroin or meth. And to me, heroin = meth as far as the associated drama and danger is concerned.

[Amateur11]

You let no one down. This is a serious concern and the info is not only appreciated, but necessary. I've been out of the game for a while and getting back in. We need to be sharing this kind of info to keep ourselves safe. One thing I'll be sharing with all of you is something recently discussed regarding the use of social media to learn more about SPs. I have more than 35 FB pages bookmarked for local providers, along with the phone number (s) used in their postings. I have some interesting (maybe only to me?) observations about these girls, which I'll have to save for another time. Keep sharing!

Buk.

Thanks. I'll also say, somewhere on the internets there can be found publicly-posted photos of her doing the "Duckface," which has been listed as a red flag before by some astute posters.

So, let's have a quick re-cap of what to avoid, as I've posted before, as have others, and as it pertains to this poor chap's particular misadventures:

1) Heroin users.

2) Duckface-posers.

3) Appearance-alterers.

4) Outright pic-stealers.

5) Name changers.

Have I missed anything? If you can use your god-given human ability (instinct and first hunch) to sniff these out, you will probably go a long way toward avoiding problems altogether from girls with ulterior motives or who don't give a rats ass about you or your safety.

[JohnBWise]

Theres an article on wral too, wonder why the guy had $600 on him.

http://www.wral.com/three-charged-wi...otel/14338428/

To follow up to my previous post, WRAL now has the mugshots and identity of these scumbags posted to their website. Simply look through the mugshots and find the 2 men and 1 female arrested on 1/7/15 for Robbery with the arrest location as Glenwood Ave. She is not a provider I recognize, so I don't think she is a regular BP poster. Looks like they are just a bunch of hood rats from Edenton Street.

Moral of the story is always do your research on a provider you have never seen before. I never see any new BP provider unless I can find them reviewed on here or on the other reputable review site. Otherwise the risks are far too great in my opinion.

Play safe fellas!

KJ.

[SirLami1]

Nice pictures, anyone used her?

http://raleigh.backpage.com/FemaleEs...-time/19579171

[Beeev]

I am fucking scared. I am retiring today.

Never say never. Just stick with what you know to be a sure thing. This area is blessed with talent that has been steady for years.