"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**HollywoodGuy** · 01-07-15 22:41

My last POF post. Total waste of time.

**Member #5055** · 01-07-15 11:38

CV #2 has got personal contact to you -- she knows you -- and for that reason needs to be dropped. No SB should EVER know your real name or have any way to get a hold of you if you need to go silent and deep. Keep out of Divorse courts!!

Originally Posted by FredMoore [View Original Post]

I am going to add a new category to the Nando posting # 5 . CIVIE (or CV) : a civilian naive to the sugar world introduced and converted to an SB.

CV #1.

See below: a true ten white 22 yr old.

This hottie is a random civie that we all encounter in the "real world" that some of us have had success with converting to an SB. I would pass the baton to my brothers here if I could have "the conversation" with her, but that in itself would expose me as a player. But being a monger through and through, if I can make it happen I will do it The added danger perhaps is some ofthe lure in this world.

CV #2.

An 9/8/8 White spinner mid 20's. A workplace contact not working for me but in the organization I contract with. Lots of hugs and blushing when I see her. Lives with a BF and 2 kids. I don't get a lot of lone time but will subtly broaach the subject of a side dish to make a few bucks. She and BF are in low paying jobs with kids and am sure she could use more money. And who couldn't use a good fucking with a stranger?

**FredMoore** · 01-07-15 11:12

I am going to add a new category to the Nando posting # 5 . CIVIE (or CV) : a civilian naive to the sugar world introduced and converted to an SB.

CV #1.

See below: a true ten white 22 yr old.

This hottie is a random civie that we all encounter in the "real world" that some of us have had success with converting to an SB. I would pass the baton to my brothers here if I could have "the conversation" with her, but that in itself would expose me as a player. But being a monger through and through, if I can make it happen I will do it The added danger perhaps is some ofthe lure in this world.

CV #2.

An 9/8/8 White spinner mid 20's. A workplace contact not working for me but in the organization I contract with. Lots of hugs and blushing when I see her. Lives with a BF and 2 kids. I don't get a lot of lone time but will subtly broaach the subject of a side dish to make a few bucks. She and BF are in low paying jobs with kids and am sure she could use more money. And who couldn't use a good fucking with a stranger?

**TacoLover23** · 01-07-15 04:26

Originally Posted by FredMoore [View Original Post]

Question for the board:

Got a 20 yr old 10/10 in my exercise class I have chatted up. She has not come on to me and knows my SO from the Gym. She wants to save up for a graduate class which costs about $12 K. I can do that for her in a year of visits. How do I approach her about it without tipping my hand? I don't want her talking to the other girls or even worse, my SO. I know I should leave this alone but I have seen her pretty much naked and it would be a win / win for both of us. I have an anonymous facebook account. I thought about friending her and see if I can PM her without revealing my identity.

I may not be skilled in the force aka arrangements, but this is a horrible, horrible idea. Write down your alimony aka vaginamony payment on paper and it's better you get a top shelf regular.

**IluvSmellyFish** · 01-06-15 23:03

Originally Posted by RedBaronDaron [View Original Post]

Danger! Danger! Will Robinson. Dude that only works in a porno and the SO joins in a three way.

I'd respectfully request that details be posted. The SD hall of fame would have a special place for FredMoore if he does.

(Note this post is by no means an endorsement for trying. Especially since a botched attempt could potentially put one out of the SD game for years. Depending on where one ends up on that critical path of alimony.).

**SlowMo** · 01-06-15 19:56

Originally Posted by FredMoore [View Original Post]

Question for the board:

Got a 20 yr old 10/10 in my exercise class I have chatted up. She has not come on to me and knows my SO from the Gym. She wants to save up for a graduate class which costs about $12 K. I can do that for her in a year of visits. How do I approach her about it without tipping my hand? I don't want her talking to the other girls or even worse, my SO. I know I should leave this alone but I have seen her pretty much naked and it would be a win / win for both of us. I have an anonymous facebook account. I thought about friending her and see if I can PM her without revealing my identity.

Let me join in the legions who've already proffered advice: rub one out and think this through again.

In my mind, the best you can do here is have one of us take a shot at it and snap some pictures so that you may live vicariously. For you, I'd do that.

**HollywoodGuy** · 01-06-15 17:49

Originally Posted by Rouleur [View Original Post]

Hollywood, is this an extreme example of "no thank you"? Curious as to what your usual, and rare, negative responses are like. In any case I appreciate your sharing some of the details of your quest.

Most girls that are not interested just don't reply. I just decided if the reply was something crazy like this, that I would post it as sort of a humorous thing.. I never reply to these types of messages. When you are new in the game they can kill your mood. But after a while you become immune to them. And eventually laugh at them.

**FredMoore** · 01-06-15 15:57

Originally Posted by FScott [View Original Post]

My brother, you know better than this! Once the lust-induced haze passses, you will see it clearly for what it is -a quick trip to Divorce Court!

For stating the obvious -Dang! I want that girl so bad!

Meeting my MILF tonight so glad to be emptying the tanks.

**F Scott** · 01-06-15 15:37

Originally Posted by FredMoore [View Original Post]

Question for the board:

Got a 20 yr old 10/10 in my exercise class I have chatted up. She has not come on to me and knows my SO from the Gym. She wants to save up for a graduate class which costs about $12 K. I can do that for her in a year of visits. How do I approach her about it without tipping my hand? I don't want her talking to the other girls or even worse, my SO. I know I should leave this alone but I have seen her pretty much naked and it would be a win / win for both of us. I have an anonymous facebook account. I thought about friending her and see if I can PM her without revealing my identity.

My brother, you know better than this! Once the lust-induced haze passses, you will see it clearly for what it is -a quick trip to Divorce Court!

**RedBaron Daron** · 01-06-15 15:01

Originally Posted by FredMoore [View Original Post]

Question for the board:

Got a 20 yr old 10/10 in my exercise class I have chatted up. She has not come on to me and knows my SO from the Gym. She wants to save up for a graduate class which costs about $12 K. I can do that for her in a year of visits. How do I approach her about it without tipping my hand? I don't want her talking to the other girls or even worse, my SO. I know I should leave this alone but I have seen her pretty much naked and it would be a win / win for both of us. I have an anonymous facebook account. I thought about friending her and see if I can PM her without revealing my identity.

Danger! Danger! Will Robinson. Dude that only works in a porno and the SO joins in a three way.

**Falar** · 01-06-15 14:54

How do you guys feel about the ladies on the various websites for a long period of time.

I came across this profile, she still active but her date of joining the website is listed as 2013.

From your experience in dealing with longterm members is it good or bad?

**GeorgeRichmond** · 01-06-15 13:14

Originally Posted by Zman429 [View Original Post]

Yea you should leave this alone all downside.

I agree. Run away. Having SO there is big NO. Lots of risk.

If you still want to help, you can share the info to charity LOL.

**Zauriel** · 01-06-15 12:46

The photo shoot angle was already in my arsenal. However, I didn't hear from her yesterday. Go figure. Chicks like this don't get in financial trouble by solving their problems the easy way. I am sure I will hear from her with another sob story soon though. Thanks for all the input.

Originally Posted by HollywoodGuy [View Original Post]

I never knew about the whole photo shoot thing till I hit this site. A couple guys in my area do that a lot.

**JZLizard** · 01-06-15 12:21

Originally Posted by FredMoore [View Original Post]

Question for the board:

Got a 20 yr old 10/10 in my exercise class I have chatted up. She has not come on to me and knows my SO from the Gym. She wants to save up for a graduate class which costs about $12 K. I can do that for her in a year of visits. How do I approach her about it without tipping my hand? I don't want her talking to the other girls or even worse, my SO. I know I should leave this alone but I have seen her pretty much naked and it would be a win / win for both of us. I have an anonymous facebook account. I thought about friending her and see if I can PM her without revealing my identity.

You are currently at the Testosterone Crossroads. That point at which your dick is telling you to go in one direction, but the voice is so loud that it is drowning out the sound of better judgment telling you to take the other road (because she knows your SO).

Run far away from this one. Change gyms if you need to in order to resist. There is a lot of other pussy out there that does not have a direct and critical risk path to alimony.

**Zman429** · 01-06-15 10:00

Originally Posted by FredMoore [View Original Post]

Question for the board:

Got a 20 yr old 10/10 in my exercise class I have chatted up. She has not come on to me and knows my SO from the Gym. She wants to save up for a graduate class which costs about $12 K. I can do that for her in a year of visits. How do I approach her about it without tipping my hand? I don't want her talking to the other girls or even worse, my SO. I know I should leave this alone but I have seen her pretty much naked and it would be a win / win for both of us. I have an anonymous facebook account. I thought about friending her and see if I can PM her without revealing my identity.

Yea you should leave this alone all downside.