Rants, Raves and Opinions AKA "The Octagon"

[AdamP469]

I am not surprised at what happened to you, I am more intrigued why someone would want to spend an overnight with a provider, no matter how hot looking she is? At 1. 0/ hr, I am assuming CC is not the crme de la crme either? I could do a dinner date and a pop afterwards, but once the sex is over, there's really not much else to do or talk about, and I'm sure most providers can't wait until we mongers get the hell out of there once the morning comes? To each his own.

To me, an overnight visit makes the whole interaction more like a real GFE. By that, I mean that with my real girlfriends, I never just got mine and left. Thus, to simulate an experience that is more like being with a girlfriend, hanging out together and sleeping over can add to the illusion. That being said, there are few providers I've met with whom I would want to spend a night. I have had more than satisfactory overnight visits with one in particular, and I've met a couple other providers with whom I would at least consider spending the night. One must have a certain rapport with the provider because, otherwise, there really won't be much else to talk about or do after the main event is over. However, if you do know a provider with whom you have enough common interests, than you can find plenty of activities and subjects of conversation to keep the good times going for hours.

[Stormyoneonly]

I prefer no tattoos. I don't think SinfulDreams has any. I would welcome the chance to examine her again more closely to see if I might have missed one. It would have to be well hidden though. I looked pretty closely.

No tats or crazy piercings here either. I do believe I could not handle the pain.

[MollyDaniels]

I'm thinking it's the room that goes for $20 for two hours, not the girl. If not, Molly has a lot of work to do to earn her air fare back to Cincy.

Yes, it was the room for are $40 for 2 hours. I would rather use my unused college degree and get a science job before resorting to $20 specials. LOL.

[Glockman]

Just out of curiosity, I have noticed tattoos seem ubiquitous in the hobby. Some of them are small, some quite large. Do you mongers like no tattoos, small ones, or the large tattoos? Any providers you know who have none at all?

I prefer no tattoos. I don't think SinfulDreams has any. I would welcome the chance to examine her again more closely to see if I might have missed one. It would have to be well hidden though. I looked pretty closely.

[ClassASweetie]

Girls that complain about guys that are well endowed. I'm larger, not gigantic, but a comfortable 50% larger than average in length and probably about double the girth. I appreciate that most girls need to start slow with bigger guys, but what really pisses me off is when a girl complains halfway through that it's too big and we need to stop. I used to believe this excuse until I found out one of the girls that used to use it was actually a size queen that had an AA bf who was even bigger than me. The real reason was she did not like white guys and wanted her dates to end as quickly as possible. I would think, as soon as a girl sees it, or as soon as we get it in and start, she will be able to tell if it is too big. And, honestly, I would think most women who have had kids and / or have sex as much as these girls do should be fine with anything under 9 inches, as long as the guy takes it easy with them. Some girls love my size. As guys we think women love it big, but from the bitching I have heard from others you'd think anything over 7" was killing them. Seriously, I would like to hear some honest female input on size. Is it really THAT hard to tell if a guy is too big for you that you need to go at it for 5 minutes before you can tell? And is bigger better or worse for women? What's the general comfort zone here?

Bigger is not always better, as for me, my kids didn't come out that way and I don't dialate. Which when a girl gets horny and wet, her muscles relax and she will dialate which opens her up a little. I don't do that tho. I can't handle very large men well but I can handle some. But I do have to start out slow. I can also tell you by a pic or before we start if you are too big for me. I don't wait till we are 5 min into. Also has weird as it sounds, not all men want FS. As wives give up sex but not BBBJ, bbbjwcim, titty fucking etc. Any provider should be able to tell you instantly tho by any pic or before the session if you are too big. But the longness is not as much a problem has it is someone who is very thick. I am literally one finger tight and love it that I am this way and it's great for smaller men who want to feel more. IMHO.

[Member #5083]

What if we had to depend on the looks ratings of our fellow mongers without the aid of photos? I know looks are subjective, but there are some basic standards that I think most guys would agree on when it comes to rating a girl's looks in the high end of the scale (8/9/10)? Unless specified, we can't assume a rating is based on a SW, BP, Cincinnati, Covington, Toledo, NY, LA or some other scale? We have to assume that the rating is based on a generic scale that would apply to all circumstances and geographic areas? A fellow monger gave this girl a 10 for face and a 9 for body. I honestly would not do her for free. A 10 is supposed to be perfection. There's nothing demeaning about doing a girl who is a 6, that's better than average, and a girl who is truly a 9 is still a 9 regardless if she performed horribly or ripped you off.

http://columbus.backpage.com/FemaleE...ut-22/18441888

[SydneyMoore]

Hi Nick I don't believe we have met, but I found your post interesting, I was just speaking with a friend who is aware of what I do about bigger sizes, which he has, to be blunt I always had a fantasy to be with two men who are endowed with size and girth, I thought I would see if you were interested in fulfilling this fantasy, I guess I would like to see if you and I had some chemistry and remove the awkwardness from initial meetings, and if all go well I would like to include you in a threesome focusing on me alone (No gay shit LOL) and I focusing all of my talents on two large Schlongs! Let me know if interested, and again I like size so much I want it x2.

[Member #4506]

Girls that complain about guys that are well endowed. I'm larger, not gigantic, but a comfortable 50% larger than average in length and probably about double the girth. I appreciate that most girls need to start slow with bigger guys, but what really pisses me off is when a girl complains halfway through that it's too big and we need to stop. I used to believe this excuse until I found out one of the girls that used to use it was actually a size queen that had an AA bf who was even bigger than me. The real reason was she did not like white guys and wanted her dates to end as quickly as possible. I would think, as soon as a girl sees it, or as soon as we get it in and start, she will be able to tell if it is too big. And, honestly, I would think most women who have had kids and / or have sex as much as these girls do should be fine with anything under 9 inches, as long as the guy takes it easy with them. Some girls love my size. As guys we think women love it big, but from the bitching I have heard from others you'd think anything over 7" was killing them. Seriously, I would like to hear some honest female input on size. Is it really THAT hard to tell if a guy is too big for you that you need to go at it for 5 minutes before you can tell? And is bigger better or worse for women? What's the general comfort zone here?

Have some compline that it's to thick but lubricant help a lot. Thank you for your feed back.

[LuvdaLadys14]

Just out of curiosity, I have noticed tattoos seem ubiquitous in the hobby. Some of them are small, some quite large. Do you mongers like no tattoos, small ones, or the large tattoos? Any providers you know who have none at all?

If they're tasteful but, I've seen a few pictures posted on some of the Ads and I'm just saying to myself, "What the F*&K were they thinking?" I have a tat I got years ago so I don't really mind some ink. Some of the ladies have very nice ink work that I've been able to admire up close and personal. Then there are ladies like Sinful that have no tats. I can go either way.

Luv.

[NickTheDick]

Girls that complain about guys that are well endowed. I'm larger, not gigantic, but a comfortable 50% larger than average in length and probably about double the girth. I appreciate that most girls need to start slow with bigger guys, but what really pisses me off is when a girl complains halfway through that it's too big and we need to stop. I used to believe this excuse until I found out one of the girls that used to use it was actually a size queen that had an AA bf who was even bigger than me. The real reason was she did not like white guys and wanted her dates to end as quickly as possible. I would think, as soon as a girl sees it, or as soon as we get it in and start, she will be able to tell if it is too big. And, honestly, I would think most women who have had kids and / or have sex as much as these girls do should be fine with anything under 9 inches, as long as the guy takes it easy with them. Some girls love my size. As guys we think women love it big, but from the bitching I have heard from others you'd think anything over 7" was killing them. Seriously, I would like to hear some honest female input on size. Is it really THAT hard to tell if a guy is too big for you that you need to go at it for 5 minutes before you can tell? And is bigger better or worse for women? What's the general comfort zone here?

[Bigbuck73]

Just out of curiosity, I have noticed tattoos seem ubiquitous in the hobby. Some of them are small, some quite large. Do you mongers like no tattoos, small ones, or the large tattoos? Any providers you know who have none at all?

I love tattoos on providers, if done well and don't look homemade. I find it extremely attractive for a women to have a little to even a lot of ink, but again depends on the provider and their overall look and how well the tattoos are done. I like asking them about them and hearing the reasons / stories behind them plus of course admiring the artwork on their lovely bodies.

[Daddymonger]

Just out of curiosity, I have noticed tattoos seem ubiquitous in the hobby. Some of them are small, some quite large. Do you mongers like no tattoos, small ones, or the large tattoos? Any providers you know who have none at all?

[Cheech1]

Computers are good but not that good yet. LE's looking for the big triads, not the freelancers or traditional Chinese girl bootstrap systems. Using shots easily verifiable as Asian pron is a sly (language-free) way of communicating what to expect. Like the picture of General Tso chicken at the takeout. But then I always preferred the street vendors & flower girls anyway.

Yeah, but if you give them low hanging fruit they will pick it.

Cheech.

[Golfcart]

From a recent PM, not from anybody here.

When am I going to start seeing the money these guys are always talking about?

A2.

He's just another asshole out to cause trouble.

Somebody around here used to always say that. Can't remember who that was. Wait a minute. It was Jackson.

[Glockman]

I'm thinking it's the room that goes for $20 for two hours, not the girl. If not, Molly has a lot of work to do to earn her air fare back to Cincy.

Will she come to Memphis. I can only hope. Damn. What I could do with her. Oh well I can only dream.