Rants, Raves and Opinions AKA "The Octagon"

[Member #4506]

I prefer no tattoos. I don't think SinfulDreams has any. I would welcome the chance to examine her again more closely to see if I might have missed one. It would have to be well hidden though. I looked pretty closely.

I'll take my time and give a full report on this very sensitive concern. I'm sure she won't mind but you can double check me just to be sure. Wouldn't we love it if she was in two places at one time.

[ClassASweetie]

I've recently had a few clients whom usually do not come to a Masseuse for services, contact me, being honest I assume they did explain they usually shop for company / entertainment through the escort ads, they all gave me refs to call or text.

I texted these girls and one was used by two different USA members, I was told to "trust your gut because if it doesn't feel right I wouldn't!" I was also told "he's cool but tries to short change ", obviously not something I look forward to dealing with, I recently last week was told,. "He's safe but you never know who's been busted recently, a lot have!" <-that was a DEFF NO!

Well someone took the time to round up all his reviews written, then sent them to me, where several ladies replied to him saying what a wonderfully great time they had an couldn't wait until he returned, maybe I stretched that but the point is there.

The worst reply I got from a girl who I confronted about dodging me on refs requested, I was nice an I asked had I ever done something that offended her? Because I didn't mean to if I did, I hate thinking I did something wrong to anyone, even more so to another women, she replied that because she had never came to ME to get a reff, she didn't feel she OWED me any in return yet.

This blew me away, so is it a tit for tat thing now? I don't know why she has never needed to request a ref from me but to basically shun me because of that felt alienating. Maybe because I'm in "massage" an she's in "escorts" that the majority of my clients don't think my reff would pertain to her profession so he may of used a girl from the escort side to use as a ref?

I'm positive most my clients do see both, I've asked out of curiosity, the ones I think I can ask personal things to, so if I have to be used as a ref to get a reff, then I guess I'm out of options on that one?

I just wasn't aware things are done that way, I am sorry if I contacted anyone for a reff that felt I had no right to ask for one, I sincerely had no idea. The Clients are feeling about it a little different, they are saying it's a way of keeping them from seeing other girls, I hope that's not true, their not our husbands an if you really care about your Client wouldn't you rather he get in with someone who is safe an checks refs an will treat him with respect and kindness?

I'd personally rather know who else he is around to give me an idea of other things he may be interested in or it will even help me know there might be something I'm not doing that makes him seek out another provider? Most clients are not comfortable telling us if our sessions are lacking something, maybe it's just variety, you really never know and there is so many options out here I just think I'd rather see my Client with a great person, I can have several clients tell everyone here when they requested something more, asked me who out here is safe? Clean, respectful? I've given many names of girls, I don't jump on here an try to get credit for it because I don't need it, an the following session I will ask how it went? If he had a good time I may refer that girl again, I think girls should really think about it like this, I'm LICENSED, there are a lot of clients who come to me feeling it's a safer bet if the worst was to ever happen they can always point at my wall an say "Hey! I am with a professional!" It might not mean much to everyone else, but I am a BIG suggester of escorts, I've literally talked clients into it!

I've looked at ALL YOU GIRLS REVIEWS so I know I'm sending my client to someone I think he will click well with!

You have no idea how much NEW BUSINESS I've sent your way. Our bottom line is our money right! $$.

I personally sat back an counted at minimum over the last 3 yrs, 27 clients New clients whom otherwise was too scared or didn't know how things work or just needed that extra shove to pull the trigger your way, that's at least $2,700 in pockets, so although I don't get used a lot as a ref, it might be smart to answer me when I do ask you for one, you never know if a client is asking about YOU to me because they know I'm not going to send them anywhere wrong! An not responding to me, or giving me stupid info, may just get that client who was interested in YOU, steered in a different direction.

Just saying.

Babe this is a repeated problem here and several providers have written rants (most recently by myself and stormy too-I think) about providers not giving references. And yes your clients are %100 right, it's because they don't want their clients going elsewhere. I have no problems giving refs and saftey is my priorty no matter if it's myself, yours or my clients. When one person gets popped it's causes problems for everyone because people like to snitch. (Which IMO that's a cheap way out) I even have a couple of girls I give refs to often yet they can't even say so much as a dam (Thank You). Yet when I ask for a ref they ignore me. Here is the thing tho, I won't let a provider stop me from seeing my client if she refuses to give a reference as I will just bypass her and get another or verify another way. This is why I am always glad when someone is a member because that's the first route I go. You will learn very quickly babe who gives refs and who gives a dam. The screwed up thing is that if a provider don't give a ref, they are not hurting the other provider but costing themselves biz because their client #1 don't want to see someone who is selfish and not give a shit for anyone else (including him) and #2 someone that won't verify him. It's sad that people can be like this.

Also if you send clients out way, thank you. That's very sweet of you to do that. Good luck and best wishes.

[Mdolby69]

Just out of curiosity, I have noticed tattoos seem ubiquitous in the hobby. Some of them are small, some quite large. Do you mongers like no tattoos, small ones, or the large tattoos? Any providers you know who have none at all?

I don't mind tattoos if they're not excessive or just downright bizarre. I guess I'd consider myself neutral on it in general. If someone had a sleeve or something, I don't know. Honestly, in the end, it is more about the experience than anything. You can have the woman with your ideal face a and body, and if the chemistry and attitude isn't there, would it matter? Unless the tats are an outright turnoff, I don't think it would matter to me.

[Glockman]

Hmmm I foresee another trip to Memphis so you explore more, definitely before the breast reduction end of August.

You name it. Looking for it.

[CurvyChristina]

I've recently had a few clients whom usually do not come to a Masseuse for services, contact me, being honest I assume they did explain they usually shop for company / entertainment through the escort ads, they all gave me refs to call or text.

I texted these girls and one was used by two different USA members, I was told to "trust your gut because if it doesn't feel right I wouldn't!" I was also told "he's cool but tries to short change ", obviously not something I look forward to dealing with, I recently last week was told,. "He's safe but you never know who's been busted recently, a lot have!" <-that was a DEFF NO!

Well someone took the time to round up all his reviews written, then sent them to me, where several ladies replied to him saying what a wonderfully great time they had an couldn't wait until he returned, maybe I stretched that but the point is there.

The worst reply I got from a girl who I confronted about dodging me on refs requested, I was nice an I asked had I ever done something that offended her? Because I didn't mean to if I did, I hate thinking I did something wrong to anyone, even more so to another women, she replied that because she had never came to ME to get a reff, she didn't feel she OWED me any in return yet.

This blew me away, so is it a tit for tat thing now? I don't know why she has never needed to request a ref from me but to basically shun me because of that felt alienating. Maybe because I'm in "massage" an she's in "escorts" that the majority of my clients don't think my reff would pertain to her profession so he may of used a girl from the escort side to use as a ref?

I'm positive most my clients do see both, I've asked out of curiosity, the ones I think I can ask personal things to, so if I have to be used as a ref to get a reff, then I guess I'm out of options on that one?

I just wasn't aware things are done that way, I am sorry if I contacted anyone for a reff that felt I had no right to ask for one, I sincerely had no idea. The Clients are feeling about it a little different, they are saying it's a way of keeping them from seeing other girls, I hope that's not true, their not our husbands an if you really care about your Client wouldn't you rather he get in with someone who is safe an checks refs an will treat him with respect and kindness?

I'd personally rather know who else he is around to give me an idea of other things he may be interested in or it will even help me know there might be something I'm not doing that makes him seek out another provider? Most clients are not comfortable telling us if our sessions are lacking something, maybe it's just variety, you really never know and there is so many options out here I just think I'd rather see my Client with a great person, I can have several clients tell everyone here when they requested something more, asked me who out here is safe? Clean, respectful? I've given many names of girls, I don't jump on here an try to get credit for it because I don't need it, an the following session I will ask how it went? If he had a good time I may refer that girl again, I think girls should really think about it like this, I'm LICENSED, there are a lot of clients who come to me feeling it's a safer bet if the worst was to ever happen they can always point at my wall an say "Hey! I am with a professional!" It might not mean much to everyone else, but I am a BIG suggester of escorts, I've literally talked clients into it!

I've looked at ALL YOU GIRLS REVIEWS so I know I'm sending my client to someone I think he will click well with!

You have no idea how much NEW BUSINESS I've sent your way. Our bottom line is our money right! $$.

I personally sat back an counted at minimum over the last 3 yrs, 27 clients New clients whom otherwise was too scared or didn't know how things work or just needed that extra shove to pull the trigger your way, that's at least $2,700 in pockets, so although I don't get used a lot as a ref, it might be smart to answer me when I do ask you for one, you never know if a client is asking about YOU to me because they know I'm not going to send them anywhere wrong! An not responding to me, or giving me stupid info, may just get that client who was interested in YOU, steered in a different direction.

Just saying.

[Member #5083]

To me, an overnight visit makes the whole interaction more like a real GFE. By that, I mean that with my real girlfriends, I never just got mine and left. Thus, to simulate an experience that is more like being with a girlfriend, hanging out together and sleeping over can add to the illusion. That being said, there are few providers I've met with whom I would want to spend a night. I have had more than satisfactory overnight visits with one in particular, and I've met a couple other providers with whom I would at least consider spending the night. One must have a certain rapport with the provider because, otherwise, there really won't be much else to talk about or do after the main event is over. However, if you do know a provider with whom you have enough common interests, than you can find plenty of activities and subjects of conversation to keep the good times going for hours.

My imagination is not that vivid and it would be hard for me to extend the illusion with a generic provider beyond a few hours. However, a goomah situation is completely differently experience and more like a true GFE.

[AdamP469]

I am not surprised at what happened to you, I am more intrigued why someone would want to spend an overnight with a provider, no matter how hot looking she is? At 1. 0/ hr, I am assuming CC is not the crme de la crme either? I could do a dinner date and a pop afterwards, but once the sex is over, there's really not much else to do or talk about, and I'm sure most providers can't wait until we mongers get the hell out of there once the morning comes? To each his own.

To me, an overnight visit makes the whole interaction more like a real GFE. By that, I mean that with my real girlfriends, I never just got mine and left. Thus, to simulate an experience that is more like being with a girlfriend, hanging out together and sleeping over can add to the illusion. That being said, there are few providers I've met with whom I would want to spend a night. I have had more than satisfactory overnight visits with one in particular, and I've met a couple other providers with whom I would at least consider spending the night. One must have a certain rapport with the provider because, otherwise, there really won't be much else to talk about or do after the main event is over. However, if you do know a provider with whom you have enough common interests, than you can find plenty of activities and subjects of conversation to keep the good times going for hours.

[Stormyoneonly]

I prefer no tattoos. I don't think SinfulDreams has any. I would welcome the chance to examine her again more closely to see if I might have missed one. It would have to be well hidden though. I looked pretty closely.

No tats or crazy piercings here either. I do believe I could not handle the pain.

[MollyDaniels]

I'm thinking it's the room that goes for $20 for two hours, not the girl. If not, Molly has a lot of work to do to earn her air fare back to Cincy.

Yes, it was the room for are $40 for 2 hours. I would rather use my unused college degree and get a science job before resorting to $20 specials. LOL.

[Glockman]

Just out of curiosity, I have noticed tattoos seem ubiquitous in the hobby. Some of them are small, some quite large. Do you mongers like no tattoos, small ones, or the large tattoos? Any providers you know who have none at all?

I prefer no tattoos. I don't think SinfulDreams has any. I would welcome the chance to examine her again more closely to see if I might have missed one. It would have to be well hidden though. I looked pretty closely.

[ClassASweetie]

Girls that complain about guys that are well endowed. I'm larger, not gigantic, but a comfortable 50% larger than average in length and probably about double the girth. I appreciate that most girls need to start slow with bigger guys, but what really pisses me off is when a girl complains halfway through that it's too big and we need to stop. I used to believe this excuse until I found out one of the girls that used to use it was actually a size queen that had an AA bf who was even bigger than me. The real reason was she did not like white guys and wanted her dates to end as quickly as possible. I would think, as soon as a girl sees it, or as soon as we get it in and start, she will be able to tell if it is too big. And, honestly, I would think most women who have had kids and / or have sex as much as these girls do should be fine with anything under 9 inches, as long as the guy takes it easy with them. Some girls love my size. As guys we think women love it big, but from the bitching I have heard from others you'd think anything over 7" was killing them. Seriously, I would like to hear some honest female input on size. Is it really THAT hard to tell if a guy is too big for you that you need to go at it for 5 minutes before you can tell? And is bigger better or worse for women? What's the general comfort zone here?

Bigger is not always better, as for me, my kids didn't come out that way and I don't dialate. Which when a girl gets horny and wet, her muscles relax and she will dialate which opens her up a little. I don't do that tho. I can't handle very large men well but I can handle some. But I do have to start out slow. I can also tell you by a pic or before we start if you are too big for me. I don't wait till we are 5 min into. Also has weird as it sounds, not all men want FS. As wives give up sex but not BBBJ, bbbjwcim, titty fucking etc. Any provider should be able to tell you instantly tho by any pic or before the session if you are too big. But the longness is not as much a problem has it is someone who is very thick. I am literally one finger tight and love it that I am this way and it's great for smaller men who want to feel more. IMHO.

[Member #5083]

What if we had to depend on the looks ratings of our fellow mongers without the aid of photos? I know looks are subjective, but there are some basic standards that I think most guys would agree on when it comes to rating a girl's looks in the high end of the scale (8/9/10)? Unless specified, we can't assume a rating is based on a SW, BP, Cincinnati, Covington, Toledo, NY, LA or some other scale? We have to assume that the rating is based on a generic scale that would apply to all circumstances and geographic areas? A fellow monger gave this girl a 10 for face and a 9 for body. I honestly would not do her for free. A 10 is supposed to be perfection. There's nothing demeaning about doing a girl who is a 6, that's better than average, and a girl who is truly a 9 is still a 9 regardless if she performed horribly or ripped you off.

http://columbus.backpage.com/FemaleE...ut-22/18441888

[SydneyMoore]

Hi Nick I don't believe we have met, but I found your post interesting, I was just speaking with a friend who is aware of what I do about bigger sizes, which he has, to be blunt I always had a fantasy to be with two men who are endowed with size and girth, I thought I would see if you were interested in fulfilling this fantasy, I guess I would like to see if you and I had some chemistry and remove the awkwardness from initial meetings, and if all go well I would like to include you in a threesome focusing on me alone (No gay shit LOL) and I focusing all of my talents on two large Schlongs! Let me know if interested, and again I like size so much I want it x2.

[Member #4506]

Girls that complain about guys that are well endowed. I'm larger, not gigantic, but a comfortable 50% larger than average in length and probably about double the girth. I appreciate that most girls need to start slow with bigger guys, but what really pisses me off is when a girl complains halfway through that it's too big and we need to stop. I used to believe this excuse until I found out one of the girls that used to use it was actually a size queen that had an AA bf who was even bigger than me. The real reason was she did not like white guys and wanted her dates to end as quickly as possible. I would think, as soon as a girl sees it, or as soon as we get it in and start, she will be able to tell if it is too big. And, honestly, I would think most women who have had kids and / or have sex as much as these girls do should be fine with anything under 9 inches, as long as the guy takes it easy with them. Some girls love my size. As guys we think women love it big, but from the bitching I have heard from others you'd think anything over 7" was killing them. Seriously, I would like to hear some honest female input on size. Is it really THAT hard to tell if a guy is too big for you that you need to go at it for 5 minutes before you can tell? And is bigger better or worse for women? What's the general comfort zone here?

Have some compline that it's to thick but lubricant help a lot. Thank you for your feed back.

[LuvdaLadys14]

Just out of curiosity, I have noticed tattoos seem ubiquitous in the hobby. Some of them are small, some quite large. Do you mongers like no tattoos, small ones, or the large tattoos? Any providers you know who have none at all?

If they're tasteful but, I've seen a few pictures posted on some of the Ads and I'm just saying to myself, "What the F*&K were they thinking?" I have a tat I got years ago so I don't really mind some ink. Some of the ladies have very nice ink work that I've been able to admire up close and personal. Then there are ladies like Sinful that have no tats. I can go either way.

Luv.