The Massholes

[Stressed Out]

SO, with all due respect, Deb has decided, on her own, to participate in a "no holds barred" forum. By doing so she opens herself up to any criticism levied.

I don't disagree with you PW. And you are absolutely right. She / me and anyone else is open to any criticism she deserves for any post she makes, any review she receives or any other comment that deserves a backlash or criticism. What I was getting at is that the criticism leveled should be for something deserved and not 'collateral damage' in someone else's pissing contest. Just like if someone took a shot at me or you out of the blue because they were pissed at someone else.

Now if someone wants to take a shot at me for sticking up for Deb...and BTW I have stuck up for many mongers and providers over time....then so be it. I'm open to that....I put myself in that position so go ahead.

Of course I think it seems just a little bit interesting that the shot was taken at the only provider that posts here (and there has been more than one shot at her by YF (see post 147) and was personal in nature. A little sexist maybe. If YF had told Sperm to go suck someone's little dick then....oh well another day here in Massholes.

[Stressed Out]

SO, My shots were taken at Sperm Guzzler. As my esteemed fellow members have already stated any member is open game in this thread including myself. I think you have forgotten the rules of this forum and thread because what you are doing is telling me how to post, what I can say or not say and who I can say it about.

I haven't forgotten the rules of the forum. I didn't tell you how to post nor did I tell you what to say..I simply asked (politely) or stuck up for anyone (monger or provider) who gets an underhanded shot needlessly and w / out provocation. And if you check my posts you will see this has been done consistently over the past. I know the shots were taken at Sperm (how can we forget since it has been needlessly going on for at least a week) and we are ALL open game in this forum. But if I'm having a pissing contest with xxxx about an issue I have with him and I compare him to you and call you a cock sucking little dick of a man and you aren't involved in the pissing contest to begin with then you are going to have a problem with me. Right? That's all I ask of you and others. Now if our friend A2 finds this acceptable then I will be happy to oblige and take needless shots with every post I make in THIS forum. And acc to your logic this will be ok since you can't tell me what to say, who to say it to or under what circumstances to say it. And sadly I guess I'm off your good list.....too bad since we have shared some good info in the past.

[Deb4512]

And I do have a big ass, always have even when I was thinner LOL. And as far as eating corn, I am a vegetarian so it is possible. But to eat it? Not into brown showers, I don't partake in that fetish LOL.

[Yellowfever023]

Hey Yellow..now we have a good rapport here on USA. Some good leads, info and good pm's. Now I don't give a care if you want to get your shots in here at Sperm. I've stayed here on the sideline enjoying the show. But I'm going to respectfully ask that you keep your shots to those that are involved and giving them. I certainly don't remember Deb getting involved or giving you any shots here during this 'war'. So don't bring her into the conversation especially with the comments you made. Again I am asking respectfully here and I expect the in kind return.
And before you ask yes Deb is capable of answering for herself however I would rather not put her in the position to have to do so. (other positions yes lol) Thanks SO.

SO, My shots were taken at Sperm Guzzler. As my esteemed fellow members have already stated any member is open game in this thread including myself. I think you have forgotten the rules of this forum and thread because what you are doing is telling me how to post, what I can say or not say and who I can say it about.

[Admin2]

My opinion is you did the right thing. The only exception is I think we should be able to post reviews on everyone. What if she becomes a shitty provider and we can't relay that. We all lose.

Was no comments unless it's a shitty review. I want to thank you guys that contributed here both personally and professionally for the hand. I have probably overreacted in the past with this issue because I fucking hate it when chicks make user accounts and try and post for themselves. Maybe it's because I have a couple conniving ex wives, I don't know but dishonesty just really pisses me the fuck off. It's why I publicly humiliate the assholes that have multiple accounts and use them to buttress their own arguments. I just hate that shit.

Again, thanks to the guys (and Deb) that took the time to respond. Your comments weighed heavily on my decision to change the way I handle this issue going forward.

A2.

[Skatar018]

I never expected the backlash on the Bombshell issue. As I often do when presented with a conundrum like this I put the question out to a couple threads that I participate in as a guy not an Admin. I asked the guys in The Octagon (Cincy) and The Massholes (Boston) what they thought. The response wasn't overwhelming but the majority was clear. Ban the users, don't inhibit the convo.

With some stuff we have to dictate terms, but with community issues I like to solicit feedback. Clearly I was in the wrong on this one. Subsequently in the future I won't be doing that anymore. The policy will be to ban the user but not the convo.

Plumber I've taken you off moderation and removed all the notes from what happened. I realize that your posts had an agenda but I was the one responsible for starting it and I was on the wrong side. Apologies.

For you guys that contributed about this in MCM, thanks.

A2

It's a done deal.

[Member #5037]

SO, with all due respect, Deb has decided, on her own, to participate in a "no holds barred" forum. By doing so she opens herself up to any criticism levied.

Just an innocent bystander. Collateral damage so to speak. I know the comment was levied at Testacle bag. Thats what I see.

[Rito1]

My opinion is you did the right thing. The only exception is I think we should be able to post reviews on everyone. What if she becomes a shitty provider and we can't relay that. We all lose.

[Member #5037]

Fuck Yeh! She's a fuckin' scam artist, and scammin' us! Let it be a warning to other bullshit artists. And their fuck-ass douchebag friends as well!

BD.

Yea I feel the same as Big Dog. Why doe's anyone need additional names. To deceive others. Slam her not the guy that spit in your eye.

[Member #4868]

Hey Yellow..now we have a good rapport here on USA. Some good leads, info and good pm's. Now I don't give a care if you want to get your shots in here at Sperm. I've stayed here on the sideline enjoying the show. But I'm going to respectfully ask that you keep your shots to those that are involved and giving them. I certainly don't remember Deb getting involved or giving you any shots here during this 'war'. So don't bring her into the conversation especially with the comments you made. Again I am asking respectfully here and I expect the in kind return.
And before you ask yes Deb is capable of answering for herself however I would rather not put her in the position to have to do so. (other positions yes lol) Thanks SO.

SO, with all due respect, Deb has decided, on her own, to participate in a "no holds barred" forum. By doing so she opens herself up to any criticism levied.

[Stressed Out]

Spermbag, the only purpose you serve here is to post useless commentary and eat the corn out of Deb's shit on your way to kissing her fat ass. Get back under your rock.

Hey Yellow..now we have a good rapport here on USA. Some good leads, info and good pm's. Now I don't give a care if you want to get your shots in here at Sperm. I've stayed here on the sideline enjoying the show. But I'm going to respectfully ask that you keep your shots to those that are involved and giving them. I certainly don't remember Deb getting involved or giving you any shots here during this 'war'. So don't bring her into the conversation especially with the comments you made. Again I am asking respectfully here and I expect the in kind return.
And before you ask yes Deb is capable of answering for herself however I would rather not put her in the position to have to do so. (other positions yes lol) Thanks SO.

[Yellowfever023]

I guess there are those who just simply thrive on the smash and bash mentality. As Admin called them "Keyboard Warriors".

Does that make people more apt to share intel with you after you rain a pile of bullshit on them? If you think so you're fucking nuts!

Spermbag, the only purpose you serve here is to post useless commentary and eat the corn out of Deb's shit on your way to kissing her fat ass. Get back under your rock.

[Stressed Out]

Sugar so long as they don't violate the shit that can never be posted about I for one would enjoy reading whatever you post on this thread. The reason we don't give much rope to the chicks here is because so many of them become pains in the asses. If we wanted that we would all get married again. You have shown me that your posts here are topical, interesting, and entertaining.

This isn't in blue, so it's my personal opinion.

Professionally speaking, I feel the same, but it's up to the guys as well. It's kind of a community thread.

A2

Mr A2! If you are looking for an opinion on this I would tend to agree with you. Yes a lot of providers can be a pain in the ass where they mostly argue, refute their reviews and stir up needless drama. Now truth be told I've known Deb for quite awhile and we are close friends out of the 'provider arena' (not that it is a secret) and over time I've found her to be most helpful in finding out info about other providers that we may want to know or need to be aware of and posts as you said to be 'topical, interesting, and entertaining.' Her posts are usually helpful to us out here for not only informative things but to also show us the 'other side' of this hobby and what some of the reactions / interactions that can occur. She has given us warnings that she has heard about in her circle and also has given us links to other providers that she knows of or has found that she believes would be good company for us. And I know for a fact that she has helped out more than a few 'newbies' with suggestions on who to see, how to act and where to go to begin in this hobby. And most importantly very rarely has she (explicitly) put herself out here for self promotion. And of course she knows that if I see something that is a 'ouch' post she will get a call. Of course many here don't give a shit about my opinion here and will talk it up to schilling but I don't care. I'm trying to give an honest opinion here...that we are better off having a reputable and knowledgeable provider who can keep an eye out for whatever helps us to enjoy our ladies and our times together. And she has never been a 'pain in the ass' to me! SO

[Skatar018]

I guess there are those who just simply thrive on the smash and bash mentality. As Admin called them "Keyboard Warriors"

It's reserved only for those who are special & your so fucking special, look at you all decked out in keyboard armor & shit, like you aren't what you're implying I am, guess again numbnuts.

Does that make people more apt to share intel with you after you rain a pile of bullshit on them? If you think so you're fucking nuts!

You know what intel we shared via PM & I told you then that which you post is subject to supposition, speculation & ridicule, welcome to the ridicule part of the story.

I've asked for intel & have gotten, gave & not received intel, the difference is I don't whine about it like you've done in your last two posts about Senior (s) & their reply to you when you've asked, you could've let it be rather than post BS about it.

Bottom line your a douchebag for that post no doubt about it, then again so am I, the difference being I know it, & you've yet to realize that your are.

[SpermSac]

Hmmm pictures of your bum buddies, no wonder you don't post reviews, you can't it's not allowed.

That's part of what this forum can be used for, to call out those who are being douchebags else where on the forum boards, welcome to the club.

I like my armchair reviews, a some of them come while a girl is giving me her best head game, you should try it you may like it, then again you don't want to upset your bum buddies they may refuse future hook-ups.

Like I said SS you're not a bad guy, you're just confused.

I guess there are those who just simply thrive on the smash and bash mentality. As Admin called them "Keyboard Warriors".

Does that make people more apt to share intel with you after you rain a pile of bullshit on them? If you think so you're fucking nuts!